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Niaja4real:
As if you have not cheated before

Not everyone is as loose as you.

Niaja4real:
As if you have not cheated before

Not everyone is as loose as you.

Niaja4real:
As if you have not cheated before

Not everyone is as loose as you.

Avalancheman:
Mark 10:12
And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery.

mumu, why did ituah ighodalo leave RCCG, he is not allowed to remarry hence he commits adultery... you are not more Godly than Adeboye... you that you can not even lead your family morning devotion seem to know more about the bible.

SmartyPants:
In what sense could you describe her as powerful?

The important narrative here, is she divorced his ass, stick with that.... people like you beg for give aways on IG yet prove alpha male at hone... empty coconut head.

zomoears:
Men are scum.

Your father is a man.

Therefore your father is ......

Your mother must endure every shit from your dad, makes a low self esteem, pitiable excuse of a woman, just like how you expect your wife to be.

zomoears:
Ishilove is talking about aleku, the idoma god that punishes adulterous women. Just so you know,I heard things have changed now, and aleku punishes only the woman and only punishes the man if he's aware of a cheating wife and hides it.

i wonder why that god is not concerned about the financial welfare of its devout, yet dem still poor and hopeless, but very potent in following women about. what kind of God is dat pls?

zomoears:
Ishilove is talking about aleku, the idoma god that punishes adulterous women. Just so you know,I heard things have changed now, and aleku punishes only the woman and only punishes the man if he's aware of a cheating wife and hides it.

i wonder why that God is not concerned about the financial welfare of its devout, yet dem still poor and hopeless, but very potent in following women about. what kind of God is dat pls?

Parisian:
Learn from men who also accept their cheating wives. Wisdom is profitable to the wise.

are u not cheating on someon else's daughter?

Avalancheman:
Ladies can learn how to handle a man when he cheats so that he eventually stops cheating...

well meaning men, how long will u sit diwn and your fellow man reduce all of you to dogs... even dogs are more honourable.

Beedude:
Are u married dear? If yes , u will know women cheat mostly when they have no feeling or regard for the husband again. But men like Beckam, Rooney, 2face and many of our senators and ministers cheats and still have their wives at every occassion they attend. Mrs Ajimobi said it all. A man will only use those babes to pass time, he knows he has something priceless at home. I'm not actually encouraging cheating but life isn't fair n a married woman will always be at the recieving end. Feminist may think otherwise

lol, thats your consoling points... better change your sinful character, God is not in support of it... Hell is as real as coronavirus.

Parisian:
Her family is a very very wealthy one. Give another excuse.

Na her family money she go chop?, money and status get grade... go and sit down.

Beedude:
When a woman start cheating on the hubby, the next action is how to end the man's life and move on with the concubine. But a man can afford to keep 5 side chicks and still stick to his wife.

Is it not true women are emotional?, if you treat a woman right she will never cheat...You beat a woman, why won't she cheat?, you cheat on her why won't she do same?, you deny her sex willfully, why won't she sought it elsewhere.... our problem is african traditions... and many of the guys talking trash here are either bible-carrying or tesbi-carrying dudes, yet practicing traditional norms.

Decryptor:
Florence Ajimobi, the wife of a Governor and financial big shot with affluence says she accepted her husband back...you that we don't know your address and we are not sure can boast of up to N20k in her account is ranting!

Inside life

Its men like you that will rant up and down when a girl leaves your broke ass for a richer, handsome guy... yeye

MykOnyxo:
Not if he was a senator, governor, and APC National Secretary

You are not in any positiin to answer for her... Not all women are that low.

Bismark707:
One key and useful information I got from her interview and I would like women to understand is that leaving your spouse for cheating is not good enough and not the best decision for the family,... Except it gets violent then you can leave.

Also remember that you need to watch what you say in the heat of arguing with your partner and know when to stop when you have crossed the line, intelligence is brought to play in such matters

Remember she caught him twice, it means the over 100 or 200 times he was cheating that she was not aware of.

She is a very wise woman who knows the true definition on how to keep a good marriage last forever

why shud she leave in the case of violence, why don't you tell the woman to endure violence if she can endure cheating?, oh you are scared for your sisters and daughters baa? is it not selfish?, violence is threat to life, so as cheating as well.... many men go back home and give those excuse of women STDs out the promiscuity they are encouraged to partake in... those women will now start using style-style to scratch their camel-toe in public, what nonsense... having appointment with doctors every other opening hours... all in the name of keeping the home. The fault started from the homefront, where men are raised to be selfish, greedy and conscienseless. The bible said thou shall not commit adultery, the bible did not make exception for women, alpha males. You say its man's world ba... after fvcking all the girls, then you die and go and meet God, tell him your reason is because its a man's world... like say na only man God create.

Fragility6:
Years back na Ghana-must-go sooner or later e go soon be Nigeria-must-go

i tire oo, no be them dey shine shoe and smdey sell puff puff for show glass for this country... people wey dey do all our menial jobs?, dem for try that rubbish with people wey no no their history.

Dreciousoreva01:
Rip to the dead So sad

God help us

authority2006:
I didn't claim otherwise. But you know for sure that this is the standard practice in Nigeria and the one that's totally wrong. A woman you never married say, hey
I'm pregnant for you and you start taking responsibilities and calling yourself a father. No way to be sure that she sleeping with you only before she became pregnant because you were not married.

but hey whats wrong with him going ahead to care for the child after the findout?, no be una dey talk say women are their worst enemies?, say man go love themselves till death, dem go quarrel for morning settle for night?, what happened to bro code for God sake?, it is you men that are ylur worst enemies not women... you men only claim one love when a woman or women come into the news negatively... una hate una sef abeg... so deal with it.

foleskay:
Which one is ataurus again?

nawa oo, are you not supposed to be sleeping *smiles*. i mean a taurus(zodiac)

foleskay:
Which one is ataurus again?

nawa oo, are you sullosed to be sleeping *smiles*

foleskay:
Hope he's not igbo

oh no he is not oo..that am thankful for. Am ataurus and we are careful lovers. We love more with our head than our heart abeg.

foleskay:
Interesting. I think they really need to work on their self control and mental emotion. You've really said it all. Don't worry I'll recommend a Yoruba guy for you. Are you based in d south west??

In a serious relationship now, thank you *blushing*

foleskay:
Igbo men are very emotional when it comes to marriage and relationship. They kill for love. Hv read many times here instances of where igbo men kill their wives and children all in d name of infidelity. Fear igbo men when it comes to relationship. Dem no dey joke oo. Our igbo girls shud think twice before dating or getting married to their fellow igbo men. Dem no dey play wth cheating partners oo

you are very right bro, am an igbo lady but i can never ever marry my fellow igbo man, never... not because am scared i will cheat on him, just that the average igbo man is proud and takes worldly things too seriously. He lives to brag about things to his peers and they are possessive of their women, many of their guys are possessive and loud... am not speaking for anyone here but myself. I dated a couple, and was thankful i heeded to my instinct... cases of igbo man brutality to wife or girlfriend either for money purposes or fit of anger is worrisome. Naturally the igbo society supports men to be hostile and mouthy, which to them is a trait of being a real man, and thats so archaic. Am not saying other tribes do not have their own issues, but as an igbo girl am in the best position to say this. Igbo guys are very nice and generous to a fault, but most lack anger control and they have strong mind to do anything. So if you are an igbo guy here. I wish u the very best.

sexymoma:
abeg i nor fit dey give any man loving you oo, Not even naija guys, ( dem nor loyal at all)
with all these things what will be will be... forget.

So Side dudes are the sweetest, when main nigga give you lots of nag and make you cry, side dudes come in handy and wipe em tears off your eyes... we look sexy and happy all the time, nigga gets mad, while we show side niggas true love.

yembet:
This matter is complicated. The issue is more of a mental issue. The man had a mental issue, coupled with the issue if their second son paternity.
He was confused and deep down him, he was very bitter. It us very pathetic that many familiand friends are not sensitive to happenings around us.
Depression is not written on the forehead, but can be observed and noticed.
I'm very sure, so many things transpired between the two lovers, which were hidden from people.
I wish to advise people that marriage is not just, about getting married; but a life time commitment, that involves many ups and downs.
If you discover you are not compatible, with your partner, break up the engagement or stay away from a murderous relationship.
It is very sad, that their story have to end like this.
Condolence to their families.

Am very sure say one amebo person na im go put ideas into that man mind.... Men, do not listen to all friends.... some men naturally do not trust women, do not move with them else omday you will even kill your mum, thinking she had you for another man... its not too hard to mind your business and not do "hanging with the boys" every other weekend... because most talks center on women and not how to mature and make legit money to help your life. Your fellow guy will whine you and swear what he can not do, yet if he is the victim, he will even contact the real father of the kid, and tell him he either collects his child or leave his whole family alone. Baba go clean mouth siddon, you will not hear peem about his home, but want to know about yours. This is 2020,be WOKE.

[quote author=Burgerlomo post=90967355][/quote]that awkward moment u send her away, thinking that's the end of her life, then meets a better guy than you, who showed her true love. I think the guy fought hard against that idea.

petitejolie:
The way he killed d girl ehnnnn...it shows he is a ritualist , yahooplus, hit man. As if he don't use to sleep with other girls. God abeg save us. Its good to make enquiry about a guy or girl before u even say yes.

for him to even father a child with a lady he is not married to, he may have another child elsewhere, from the inception it was an open relationship sef.
If he had channelled such passion to marry her when she had the first child sef, they would have been legally married despite both families refusal.

stormborn28:
no. He started dating her when she was 17 years or even less. By my calculation, she bore her child at 18 years. Now that she is 25 years the child is 7 years

If not that, the man hastened up his judgement,he should be arrested for child abuse.

jagaban002:
The 2nd child is a bastard. Do you know how it feel to raise a kid with so much love and discover the child is not urs , fear woman . He take it too far but it hurt to be a victim of raising a bastard

The man is crazy indeed, how much as he spent on the tod, that he acted foolishly, what of a recent news of a pastor who's married for over 45 years, only to learn from his wife, that all his children except one are not his.... imagine after training them to university level, even acting like father of the day in the weddings of some of them. Am pretty sure that the first born should be at least 40 or mid 30's...So some of these our old school mamas rocked life too abeg, You can imagine how uptight she has always acted in her home, and also criticise young girls indulged in such, whereas she is also a culprit... Sin knows no generation. They are not immuned to promiscuity too....Where do you want that old man to start from, if at all he impregnates anotger woman now to have children, when will he reap from them before he dies.... The woman confessed because she was scared she will die in sin if she does not confess.... so check that out.

Lovelyn451:
I wonder o, a Nwafo with an afonja...abomination!

Tufiakwanunu.... o o mba

Lovelyn451:
I wonder o, a Nwafo with an afonja...abomination!

Tufiakwanunu.... o mba