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azmanaty02:
Omoluabi are always cheating in relationships.

Never trust them. See how lives have been lost due to omoluabi woman infidelity

One bottle of orijin for you, your location?

Lostz:
life! I can't kill myself for a woman.

I will rather send a cheating woman away

True, thats what the man would have said, when he reads a similar story like this when he was alive.

deols:
oh I havent. No, they dont want you to think anything. You assume they do.

I said it once on this forum of the stereotype people have concerning Muslims. Some people wouldnt even have a conversation with you cos ur hijab makes them see u as probably dumb or uneducated. I have wowed many people on different occassions and am proud of that. Still, I dont want you to think nothing beyond that am a Muslim- hope u gerrit.

Now, what gives some1 who has himself committed fornication the chance to judge others. You have, does that make it a christian value? that is my point. Never judge Islam by the actions of some Muslims.

Then you and your likes shud neva judge Christianity by the actions of some Christians... Double-standard people.

Okijajuju1:
I'm sorry dear, but Its not like that. I just make them feel good, give them the attention their husbands fail to give them. And moreover, I knew both of them before they were forced into marriage. Atimes most women who cheat on their husbands dont do it because they are being sexually starved,  but cos they are emotionally neglected by their husbands, and thats where I come in.

I dont like it but if I dont do it, some other punk would just take advantage of them.

So much for having pious wives.... no be all better heads hijab dey cover...

Mrs. don't even start with me, I am not deluded to believe in a religion where your heaven is a brothel and your prophet was a woman-wrapper.

Sickening.

worst is that she and her fellow sisters are not promised anything there, except of course join the bandwagon of bed warmers up there...

nokia3310:
Talking about discipline now, Muslims have the highest order of morality on earth, even in Nigeria here the rate of immoral acts such as: fornication, adultery, abortion etc is higher in Christian dominated states than in Muslim dominated states

why won't it be when the punishment is death... if u take away that punishment, north will run wild of libido-itching men about. hahahha

deols:
exactly. Dont mind them. they are talking discipline when many of them, have slept with countless number of boy friends without being married.

you people that sleep with thousand Ahmeds, reject all the alfas and finally accept to marry one rich Alhaji with 3 wives nko... disgusting things

manmacho:
A man that is loose is loose let him seek help poligammy is never the solution

unless of cousre we wipe out all the women in the world.

the religion should be a standard for moral leaving not an excuse to be immoral

wetin bad, bad

Four women in a field of over 1 billion women in the world is too small for one man na, mohammed would have extended to be 10 round number, or are the men scared that if its more than 4,some men no go see wife marry?, this is pure politics... hahahahahahahahaha... am happy i have just one husband, the only one he shows fhe world, i do not have the leftovers of another woman... My kids are his only and number one responsibilty... inasmuch as most men cheat, polygamy or not, he does not disgrace me by marrying another woman and subjecting me to be serving people food on their wedding day, Thank God for Christianity that upholds the value of women in the society... If a man suffers to marry just woman and knows that he will never marry again, won't he value that one knowing how much he suffered to get her hand, than the one that knows he can marry enough to his fill, how does such a person value a woman not to talk of women. in his mind, "if this one misbehave or am tired of her, i have opprtunity to marry another.

As you men claim that 'men are polygamous in nature,' its quite rare to see a 100% faithful husband especially with this generation where many men are so weak and alredy have the mindset to cheat on their spouses like its an inevitable thing. I'd prefer it being a 'known' n approved thing rather than make it a secret and long-term betrayal.

So many men(including the so-called religious ones) out there claiming to be monogamists wv strings of mistresses n illegitimate children who end up turning the family into something else prolly aft d man's death (or even while he's still alive)cos the legal wife n children have been in d dark all d while. We have another category of those hu neglect their families because of a mistress and spend their hard-earned money on these mistresses while the family suffers back home, some run three different families wvout dem being aware of one another, n so on

Islam, being a religion of peace n one that abhors adultery has supported polygamy WITH a condition. A well-practised polygamy shouldn't create enemity, but rada, union n growth of the muslim community.

As human beings that we are, imperfect n sometyms selfish, we tend to do things to fulfill our personal\lustful desires, rather than for the sake of Allah.

I'm not from a polygamous home and I don't intend to venture into polygamous setting, BUT things don't always workout as planned as man only proposes, God disposes, reason for the reply I gave immediately after the post.

You kinda paint polygamy so marketable, why are you shying from signing up... inasmuch as some moslem faithfuls abuse the sole purpose of polygamy, some christian faithfuls equally abuse the sole purpose of monogamy as well... so don't join useless people to the tenets of christianity, inasmuch as you do not want us to join your bad eggs to your religion. If you guys are talking about polygamy, why do u pple immediately bring in christianity to compare it... this una envy no go kee una.

maclatunji:
The right thing is not always easy; the Muslim man that wants to marry a second wife should use his head and the woman in accepting too should be patient without forgoing her rights under such an arrangement. I once created a thread asking women to choose between polygamy and their husbands having adulterous relationships. A lot of sensible ones mostly Christians preferred Polygamy so go and relax your itchy fingers OP.

If polygamy is not a pit or a trap, why should the first wife be more worried about her right, than accepting her rival... ur prophet did not use that to prevent adultery my dear, he only legalised it... if men are that randy, why dnt dey have 4 dicks each to service each pussies, your type start cussing people when you scared of contradicting you book and had... had... hadith or something... Stop fooling yourselves. Its ur women my bigger share of pity go.

Mexzie:
Its a lie, any individual can bring their case to court, any individua can make court summons so far the case raised is a criminal case that needs ti be cleared. She is a BIG fool to accuse someone of an act she can not substantiate.
Do u know how devastating an accusation is? When u are raped, it is best u complain immediately or within the month the incident happened, because it can easily be substantiated when drilled out in court.
Libralchick, the moment anyone accuses u of any act, they automatically raise doubts about ur personality with everyone including those who know u. In fact, the longer the act u were accused of has been, the longer people will associate u with the act saying that, SO THAT IS HOW THIS GIRL HAS BEEN ALL THIS YEARS, PRETENDER, GOD DONE CATCH AM, EVERYDAY FOR THE THIEF, ONE DAY FOR THE LANDLORD, and things like this. So this is why D'Banj went heavy one her at once. This things damage ur reputation immediately, whether or not u r guilty of the accusation. Therefore, if a rape victim is not reporting the rape incident immediately or within 3 months of it happening when events leading up to the act could still be substantiated the accuser should seriously sue for damages against the accuser. They will learn to come forward the next day the act was done.

Infact, D'Banj should have sued her to the tune of the statutory rape penalty (death) since she is accusing him of a crime that is punishable by death.

I hope she is found guilty, just punish her wit penalty of the crime she accused him for.

This is the best time to bring up the rape case. if she had reported then no one would take her serious... but now that there so many trending rape cases in the country, this is tge time to strike. bye.

Earlystar698:
Sue the bastard, those mf like to paint men black while they're the ones that are lousy

my own problem is, if its a poor never-do-well man that raped her, do you think she will brave up to call him out, knowing she is a 'big' girl?, most of these slay queens claim "made men" raped them.

MrBrownJay1:
YES O! since she didnt pay for the room, they can give the keys to whoever paid for the room, but since it wasnt Dbanj who did, then he had no business getting the keys nor being in that room... and the hotel AND Dbanj were in hot soup... if this story is remotely true then why didnt she report them ASAP? why didnt that friend do anything back then?

story makes very little sense!

its very possible, that whoever paid for the room, instructed the hotel attendants, to give dbanj the keys. It would be so unprofessional to give out spare key to anyone anyhow. Possible they set the girl up.

alBHAGDADI:
There's no way you can treat your several wives equally no matter how rich you are. As long as you cant scrub all parts of your body equally when taking a bath, you cant love all your wives and care for them equally.

Lets talk about the dangers of polygamy which islamic chauvinists fail to consider. In a polygamous home, there's never peace. Even when there seem to be a semblance of peace, it is usually deceitful and short lived. All wives hate themselves and are always in competition. This alone can make them resort to charms and voodoo to outdo the others for their husband's attention. What about the children? They live by the established divide and only show love to their mother's children alone. This divide goes on till death with hatred, wickedness, distrust etc all of which turns them into menace to society. If you ever come across a child raised in polygamous family, ask such a person to tell you whether he or she loves the half-siblings produce by the father. The expression on the person's face before answering will be more than enough answer for you.

If you check closely the life of a man with many wives, you will realize that he is never happy. Struggling to please your numerous wives equally is really a daunting task that can drain your mentality and run you insane. Men are still finding it difficult coping with just one wife, yet you believe a man can live peaceful with more than one. From constant nagging to separating of fights and quarrels, the man's daily life will be a living hell for him. How about caring for the tonnes of children produced? No matter how rich he may be, in terms of affording to send them all to the same good school, there will still be a reason that will make one of the wives feel her own children are not getting as much as the others. You speak of treating the wives equally, how is that possible when a man is designed to care for his first son much more better than the rest? If he is spending a million dollars on university fees on the first child who has attained that level, don't you think it is appropriate for him to spend that same amount on the children produced by the other wives who are yet to attain university status, according to your equality rule?

Polygamy has really destroyed the society and created poverty as well as criminals. Look at all those motor pack touts aka Agbero with names like Kabiru, Mukaila, Ganiyu, Sule, musiliu etc, many of them are all from polygamous background where they got kicked out cos the burden of caring for them was too much for the man who was decieved by Allah into believe that polygamy is right. Look at the high rate of illiteracy and poverty in Northern Nigeria with the Almajiri population swelling all due to polygamy promoted by islam.

If at this point you still believe allah is right to have prescribed polygamy especially in this time and age, then i'll advice you to go ahead and marry 4 wives and see the level of pain you will cause for yourself and for that wife of your youth whom you deceived and ridiculed by marry other women. I know of a muslim man who married 4 wives. When this man grew old and was hit by stroke, all the other wives fled leaving behind the fourth wife who stood by him and took good care of him. Unfortunately, the man died afterwards. That was when the other wives returned to fight bloodily for his property. Is that the kind of end Allah wants for you?

Pls loud it, yet its their women that run to use kayan mata on their husbands to get preferential treatment, if truly islam encourages equal attentiin to all wives, why should the women be threatened to use kayan mata is it not voodooism

vedaxcool:
There is nothing sensible in loving a husband that cheats with women outside . . . since Islam does not permit a wife to marry 2 husbands the question should be reserved for those whose religion allows such. The issue of polygamy has little to do with education but human tendency to being the one and only, selfish, there are women far educated than you that are in polygamous marriage, so just reserve your ignorant quips appropriately

You quickly guilt-grip by saying monogamous men cheat, must you degrade men to the level of dogs?, i have peace of mind that am the only wife of my husband, even your so called alhajis still harbour concubines about. Even if he has a girlfriend outside, of which my sweetheart does not, am still not threatened because i still maintain my position as the legal wife and my religion abhors divorce. Its better i have a cheating husband, than hear my husband bonking another woman like myself, in the next room, or shamelessly marrying another to my knowledge, while i cook and share food on the wedding day, after i suffered with him, and now he is rich he now desires to marry another woman in the name of religion?, God knows the reason he didn't make me muslim. inasmuch as men are jealous, no apologies, am also a jealous woman.

Pataricatering:
The population of Saudi Arabia according to gender is ( about )10.2 million males to 9.8 million females - there are 107 male children born to 100 female children worldwide ! There are more men than women generally in nearly every natural population ! My question is in regards to what the ignorant op said about women not wishing what they had for other believing females - if men make it a habit of marrying more than one wife - there will not be enough women to go round - even if every man on the planet took a wife - there will be a surplus now of seven men who won’t get wives ! Shouldn’t women be allowed to also take multiple husbands in this case ?Don’t men want what they have for their fellow men ? Asides the fact that it is clear the physical and psychological trauma of polygamy on women and children ! There will be a lot of tough questions islam needs to answer in the coming years as more and more data becomes available ! All the lies about women outnumbering men have been debunked ! Research also show that women are actually biologically wired to want new mates and the worst of all - the complete lack of acknowledgement of the sexuality of women !

My dear it will go round to other men na, when the first men dies and turn their wives to young widows or divorces them, after smashing their punny anyhow, they now give leftovers to the unlucky men to marry... That is when you see a young man marrying his grandmother in the name of religion, what will he be enjoying at that stage

Pataricatering:
The population of Saudi Arabia according to gender is ( about )10.2 million males to 9.8 million females - there are 107 male children born to 100 female children worldwide ! There are more men than women generally in nearly every natural population ! My question is in regards to what the ignorant op said about women not wishing what they had for other believing females - if men make it a habit of marrying more than one wife - there will not be enough women to go round - even if every man on the planet took a wife - there will be a surplus now of seven men who won’t get wives ! Shouldn’t women be allowed to also take multiple husbands in this case ?Don’t men want what they have for their fellow men ? Asides the fact that it is clear the physical and psychological trauma of polygamy on women and children ! There will be a lot of tough questions islam needs to answer in the coming years as more and more data becomes available ! All the lies about women outnumbering men have been debunked ! Research also show that women are actually biologically wired to want new mates and the worst of all - the complete lack of acknowledgement of the sexuality of women !

My dear it will go round to other men na, when the first men dies and turn their wives to young widows or divorces them, after smashing their punny anyhow, they now give leftovers to the unlucky men to marry... That is when you see a young man marrying his grandmother in the name of religion, what will he be enjoying at that stage?

Adedayobusayo12:
[color=#770077][/color]When sick or in menstrual course, husbands' frustration for sex is fulfilled with a known friend rather than cheating friends, students, neighbours' wives etc. When indisposed, care of children or home can be overseen by co-wives



IMAGINE THE ABOVE. THANK GOD YOU PEOPLE KNOWS YOU ARE SEXUALLY FRUSTRATED 24/7.SO BECAUSE THE WIFE IS MENSTRUATING, YOU CAN'T HOLD YOUR SELF FOR 4 TO 5 DAYS. SO ITS WOMEN THAT LOVES EATING THE SAME FOOD ABI? CAN YOU BE IN A ROOM AND BE AWARE THAT YOUR WIFE WILL BE BANGED NON STOP IN THE NEXTROOM TILL SHE SAYS ITS YOUR TURN AGAIN AFTER SOME DAYS. EVERYTHING ABOUT YOUR RELIGION FAVOURS MEN AND TRASH WOMEN.

A religion that makes adultery so comfortable... After one of your women will now gossip about my home, radarada

Xisnin:
No matter how many times you try to whitewash polygamy, it would still be wrong and demeaning to women.
Would you allow your wife to have many husbands?
Women are not material objects to be acquired and discarded as you wish, they are fully functioning women.
One husband, One wife!

Better still why is it that all men have one dick and women one pussy, God is perfect. Why not men have four dicks each, for each single pussy?, why is it Nigerian's constitution, with high degree of christians and muslims, the Fist Lady position is held by a single woman and not all the wives a president have, (if he has more than one), no wonder your women run to marry military men because, only one wife is recognised, you don't give birth to more than four children(military welfare) and you are not allowed to beat your wives... You people should just say one pussy no dey do una, we go hear than typing stories.

Threebear:
News flash ...they're married traditionally .

The only thing left now is their white wedding .

In the eyes of the land , elders and parents they're legally married .

Only Instagram generation thinks differently because there are no fancy wedding gowns and 2 million naira cake to obsess to pandiculation .

Uncle did you see picture of chioma giving davido wine to drink in a traditional manner?, dnt say rubbish in confidence.

dayorich:
Yëyë dey smell...
Person wey never marry but dey do Chief Baby Mama dey talk say "my home". You get home, na im dem never gree to marry you off the market?

[s]Never has there ever been an incident of abuse in my home. He has never in his life lifted a finger to touch me and I have never so much as even pushed him. [/s]

You are one of the wisest person here. Engagement no be marriage. If Davido contemplates marriage to be the detriment to his career, he is not serious at all. He is wealthy in his father's name and his own name, what other fame and relevance is he looking for that he cannot settle down and do his old man proud.Though marriage is not an end itself, if girls would close their legs and not give him or any other celeb a child do you think man will not take his whole family to a chosen girl's family compound to do the proper thing?, why should he buy the cow when he can get the milk for free. It would have been fair enough if chioma gets pregnant for him a second time even though its wrong(without marriage), is it not better than impregnating someone else?, many feminist will come here and say chioma care less about the so called marriage, and i laugh. If she does not care, why will she be flaunting her engagement ring upandan when they have not even started marriage preparations?, or to shut the mouth of bloggers, won't those mouth still wag if things go awry?

Chicent:
My love David would do...

Ab
i o, when she is not making a formal speech to Mr President... Even if she does, the law recognises words like "fiance", it is decent enough.

Chicent:
My love David would do...

Ahi o, when she is not making a formal speech to Mr President... Even if she does, the law recognises words like "fiance", it is decent enough.

cuteeme:
Impressive, then if you criticise anybody one point or the other in your life for any reason, this your piece of story holds no water. You talking like ypu never criticised anyone before, what utter pretense, keep it up... I am no saint baby, neither are you, whats wrong is wrong no sugar coating. Your keypad is there for you to argue dear.

Many people come here and say, leave them alone, its their life bla bla bla... If you are on social media displaying your life about, hello you no longer have your privacy, you need our validation and you flaunt all that for us to see, then come and cry we are not leaving your ass alone. Kuku not let us have a knowledge about your existence, then life goes on. One person will just say we should mind our business....if such person is not a hypocrite, why do you come into the thread in the first place?, why don't you mind your business and pass.... Hypocrisy gone wrong.

Fucsheetup:
Raise your daughters the way you would like, chide your sisters too. She is not your problem nor Nigeria’s. I don’t understand how she is a bad example to you when she is just living her life. The same way you are living yours, so keep your judging to yourself. You sound like you and your family members are saints or something.

She doesn’t exist for your judgement or to be an example to anyone. Just the way you don’t owe anyone anything. Live and let live.

Impressive, then if you criticise anybody one point or the other in your life for any reason, this your piece of story holds no water. You talking like ypu never criticised anyone before, what utter pretense, keep it up... I am no saint baby, neither are you, whats wrong is wrong no sugar coating. Your keypad is there for you to argue dear.

Ijawwomaninoyo:
Blog said she dropped out or she is a Babcock University dropout? She should post her graduation pictures then.
Where's the audio N100m cooking show? How many episodes have you watched?
Where's audio N100m pampers contract?
The audio hair endorsement, where is her ambassador role since then?
She dropped out of school to serve as a love vendor working for Peruzzi. Peruzzi and Davido are graduates, what is she?
Shade Okoya was pregnant when on 100 level, she finished school and was working with Eleganza alongside despite knowing she will never need the certificate. This one is just after spending spree everytime.
If she is your sister, will you not sit her down to talk?
Na long throat dey kill am.

Thats what i said, God no go shame you.

Ijawwomaninoyo:
Blog said she dropped out or she is a Babcock University dropout? She should post her graduation pictures then.
Where's the audio N100m cooking show? How many episodes have you watched?
Where's audio N100m pampers contract?
The audio hair endorsement, where is her ambassador role since then?
She dropped out of school to serve as a love vendor working for Peruzzi. Peruzzi and Davido are graduates, what is she?
Shade Okoya was pregnant when on 100 level, she finished school and was working with Eleganza alongside despite knowing she will never need the certificate. This one is just after spending spree everytime.
If she is your sister, will you not sit her down to talk?
Na long throat dey kill am.

Thats what i saud, God no go shame you.

Skepticus:
The reason is because women flock to HIGH SEXUAL MARKET VALUE males and donate their pussies (even, for free). Status (among other men), Resources (Money, land etc) and Persona (Alphaness/Desirability from other women) establishes your value to women. These women may even be richer like in the case of TuFace. His high sexual market value being a music star with sex appeal made richer women have kids for him.

Try to make yourself one and you'll be amazed at the result.

Most of the nairaland girls yabbing Davido for his philandering wouldn't hesitate to drop their panties in his presence without him even saying a word.

Not all ladies r like dat except u expect to marry a sucker.

Fucsheetup:
As marriage is the reward for women right?


Can’t you see how much better your life is? I mean Chioma is a failure because she didn’t marry Davido. Her life is in shambles because she didn’t graduate university, I mean university degrees are extremely valuable and will give you jobs with huge salaries.

She knows why she is there, and you are here bitter over another person’s life. Calling millionaires stupid boy and girl as you like but you cannot boast of any net worth anywhere.


You sound extremely retardedd.

Its pple like u dat makes d world like this, would u let it happen to ur sister or daughter many of us may not have all the fame she exudes yet we are comfortable without being another bad example people use to correct others.

Angelfrost:
Really chief??! How exactly can you be so sure??! Do you have access to her bank statements??! As for Porsche and others, not every woman is ostentatious!!!

Let's even assume you are spot on, who then is the main beneficiary of OBO's fast growing empire, if not Chioma??!

Osten gini?, so u did nt know that davido gifted chioma a porsche car worth over forty million?, where is the car now, wheneve she posts as she usually o, does she post with the porsche... People saying that chioma is scared of driving the car because of the deplorable nature of the nigerian roads or because of theft?, abeg dont people drive lambogini, rolls royce, range and ferrari on lekki roads?, stop making excuses for the hapless young girl.

Nigeruans are gullibke, you think because she follows a big boy automatically she is a big girl or an automatic millionaire?, have you not seen women married to wealthy men yet still broke, personally if not she is announced as one of davido's baby mamas, one will not knw. If not that sofia momdu dresses like an insane women at times, i will say sofia is more ush than her. How much are her endorsements per deal compared to the empire davido controls?, dbt be naive. Davido is a show-off guy. She is not the second largest beneficiary of any empire. Sge herself don cast and she is making a very impressed face, she knows tge bashing she will receive if she ever carries a scrowl on her face, and davido uses that opportunity against her. Girl, is hurt, if she wasn't alwats bothered before, was because she never had a child, so she still aw herself as hot cake, is it now she is after 1,she will not be bothered... Listen she no be yoruba girl o. You meet a guy when he is all made, and expect him to be indebted to you... Only few of such guys treat you like a real queen. When he was smooching larissa or whatever, did the thought of chioma not get to him?, i know some shameless girls will still fall prey. Its too late to leave davido na, fvcking late, she has been warned countless times. If davido was really a serious guy and wanted chioma independent of him, he should have encouraged her on her cooking show. I personally would love to watch her cook!, even if its to use his supposed adeleke money to effect such, or is he no more in the school of money run the world?, am very sure her parents if not those her directionless sisters,deep are not happy with her. Whyning her with 1 milli video, why didnt he just pay the btide price and let us face another distraction. He has daughters, he should not forget. I come in peace.

Patrioticman007:
Lord save us, from hypocrisy & ourselves.
That Porn sites are bombarding our internet pages everyday is a fact. These Rapist will want to practice these evil acts, on innocent females just to enjoy these false fantasies, at the end it leads to murder, after the konji has died out, then regrets.

When we advocate females to learn taekwondo and martial arts, its for all this reasons. Yet so many men will frown at the idea. They will say men will get scared of the girls, or its not a feminine thing for a girl to do. Listen up, i let my daughter watch action movies without explicit content now. In fact now i have enrolled her for a katate class. Let the men be scared of her. Rubbish and indomie.

bluefilm:
Did you enjoy the stuff or not?

Say the truth and shame the Devil now!!!

Chioma now is the anticipated annie idibia... She be like "if annie can accept such and be wedded, who am i"