It’s a simple principle, and yet so often overlooked or underestimated. Compatibility in a relationship isn’t just about being able to have a good time with someone. Of course it’s important to laugh together and enjoy each other’s company — to share interests and hobbies and values.

But compatibility is about so much more than similarities. Arguably, it’s more important to find someone who’s different from you in certain key ways. Because personal growth depends on being challenged, and you will not be pushed by someone who’s exactly like you.

If you want to grow, don’t date your twin.

It’s easy to be seduced by your mirror image — someone who validates your every whim, who agrees with you on every major issue, and who wants to spend every hour of the day just as you do. It’s reassuring to be strikingly similar to another human, but when you choose a mate who’s just like you, you’re destined to remain stagnant.

Parallels are comforting. They are warm and fuzzy and easy to mistake as loving. But they are not the seeds of growth. Sameness won’t expose you to new things, or teach you all that much about life. The strongest couples aren’t made up of people who have identical views, personalities, or backgrounds. They’re comprised of people who offset each other and challenge each other daily to reach new levels of understanding and to experience new things.

Don’t date a “yes man” or “yes woman” — the people who laugh their faces off at everything you say, and who follow your lead blindly every day. Date the person you literally can’t stand on occasion because their opinions drive you mad or their way of seeing the world seems incomparable to you. Force yourself to try to see things from their perspective — to learn how their experience of the world has shaped their views and made them harbor whatever beliefs they hold dear.

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Super Eagles’ Technical Adviser, Gernot Rohr, has released his list of players for the 2018 FIFA World Cup Qualifiers against Cameroon’s Indomitable Lions.

The Super Eagles are top of their 2018 FIFA World Cup Qualifying Group B with six points, after wins over Zambia and Algeria in their first two matches.

The Lions lie second with only two points following 1-1 draws with Algeria


http://www.gistsmill.com.ng/super-eagles-squad-for-upcoming-world-cup-qualifiers-released-mikevictor-moses-ighalo-in-the-list/

Super Eagles’ Technical Adviser, Gernot Rohr, has released his list of players for the 2018 FIFA World Cup Qualifiers against Cameroon’s Indomitable Lions.

Team captain Mikel John Obi, forward Odion Ighalo are back, Germany –based defender Leon Balogun and Chelsea wing-back Victor Moses return after missing the African Nations Cup qualifier against South Africa

The three goalkeepers called up are Daniel Akpeyi, Ikechukwu Ezenwa and Dele Alampasu.

Returnees include William Ekong, Elderson Echiejile and Abdullahi Shehu, Ogenyi Onazi, John Ogu, Wilfred Ndidi and Oghenekaro Etebo, Ahmed Musa, Moses Simon, Alex Iwobi and Kelechi Iheanacho.

www.gistsmill.com.ng/super-eagles-squad-for-upcoming-world-cup-qualifiers-released-mikevictor-moses-ighalo-in-the-list/

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