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What kind of stvpid job is dat...

24lolade:


Nairaland, full of many life manuals


24

life manuals u say.. Its just effects...not ways u can solve it..

She is coming off as too insecure abt her marriage... Thr r some things that just needs to be kept quiet about.. Even her husband doesnt even write abt her like d way she does on his social media pages..

Got nothn significant to resolute in 2016.. Just hustle hustle hustle...

U should hav gvn her a mind blowing head first.....

What is end time

Pros ti tu tion was not legal in the first place,,,, so why r they complaining

Just immediately a guy has dat mouthwatering job....".. The babes start flocking in like traffic

Estharfabian:
I'd try not to derail the thread...

lol why say so

U cant be dumb.... Are u?

Estharfabian:
LoL...Yeap!

Why?

lol just curious.. .. U knw wat dey say, God works in mysterious ways...

What of penis lift? Mine is way too huge..

Share d gala share d booze

Estharfabian:
what truth? That Igboz Are tribalistic? Hello...? Have You met me?

I actually find Yoruba/Brazilian Guys Attractive...
God didn't give everyone Peanut Brains..

do u find hausa guys attractive too barbie

2dice:
it is or can you define a Relationship for us?

dictionary

2dice:
any Relationship
FwB is a relationship too
But seriously it is hard to trust diss days

fwb aint any fvckin relationship

tosyne2much:
Na u dey witch-hunt yourself ooo baba

lol lem nad catch u again mentionin my moniker in ur topics... Am i clear?

I remember when we used to write letters and wait for people to call us on our home phone, I remember a time when people actually got excited when they received mail, when the idea of having a cell phone wasn’t as life changing as it’s become today, those were the good old days. Now the world has evolved, internet has come into the equation and the social media has come to stay. Many people won't deny the fact that the social media plays its part on modern day relationships so I would try to be brief and highlight some real life problems social media plays on relationships and marriages..

1. Jealousy: “I think social media causes more insecurities between couples. For example seeing someone else in a picture with your significant other. Its easy for jealously to arise. Also too many distractions between couples. They pay more attention to what they don’t have instead of being grateful for what they do have. The most important thing we can give one another is our time. The one thing we can’t get back is time so be careful because life is short. Never be too proud because you will wind up losing something because of ego. People make relationships too hard now days, they worry about what others think or too many obstacles to overcome. I believe if you love someone nothing can come between”


2. The Return of the ex

With apps like “Whatsapp”, “Snapchat”, “Viber” and many more, it’s not too hard to get in touch with anyone if you really want to. This is when people are tempted, if they’re weak enough, to make certain mistakes that they regret later. People will only be tempted to do something if they knew they had the power to do it, this is what separates the good people from the bad. This happened with me personally with my ex. So one fine day, we were out having lunch and the battery ran out on my phone, so I asked if I could use hers. She hesitated a little and then gave it to me, I noticed the hesitation on her face and I just had to know why she did that. After the call, while the phone was still in my hands and her eyes on her phone, she received a message on “Whatsapp”. What do you know, it’s her ex who apparently “broke her into pieces” saying “How are you doing today, love?”.

3; A doorway to cheating and lying.
Like I said, power works both ways, bad people use it for bad purposes, good people use it to make others happy.Social media and technology makes it easy for bad people to cheat on someone, because there’s always something they can do to hide their steps. Everyone eventually gets caught in the end, but the price to pay is months of heartache and a lot of developed insecurities that take a lot of time to go away.


4: Finding Salvation elsewhere.
with the amount of social media and sex/dating hook up sites, so easy for people to cheat on their partners, whether online or more. People who are in rships tend to be in between 15-20 sites, and when u ask them, they say it was just chat, but when you advertise your last std check its obvious it was more. So much more I could say, I think social media impacts relationships. Some people tend to turn to their online friends instead of reality.”


5. The spy paranoia
Partners now tend to become more or less monitoring spirits on their partner. They check all their posts, comments and other online activity to see what they'v been doing and when the other partner finds out, they get furious and freaked out hence causing a lot of problems on the relationship.


I"d end with 5 points... Feel free to air ur opinions and comments on this piece.

tosyne2much:
Hahaha


Baba, no mock ooooo.. E no mean say because you don graduate make you come dey intimidate me oooo

why are u always witchhunting me with ur topics....

yebo36:
Thank you. That's why am still awake now want to have some time for prayers by 12.

i believe the lord who answered hannah's prayers will surely answer urs..