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I can't drop him simply because I am afraid he might do something stupid to himself as when i tried to break him up twice,he cried to me and told me, I am his life and without me in his side, his life would be useless and he would rather kill himself rather than living without me.I just don't know why,I love him so much that whenever I tried to hurt him.I am hurting myself more.He knows I can't leave him.My love for him is unconditional,so the money I gave him is nothing.I just wanted him to let me feel that he loves me sincerely and he will do whatever it takes to make me happy not by giving me a love that has limitations.

I am not a Nigerian woman,My name is Isa

[size=8pt]I am not a Nigerian woman,My name is Isabelle, I am from Asia .My boyfriend for 3 years is an Igbo guy from Nigeria.I love him so much.I never been in-love with any much as much as I do for him.He is the man I wanna spend the rest of my life with.I met him in China for he is doing business here.But as of this time He went back to Nigeria to fix his papers.When he is here,he always have a lot of problems in his business,so I tried all I could to help him out,morally and financially.We used to send each other some gifts .But sometimes it bothers me a lot when he often asks me for money, I undesrtand him but one time,I tried to test him I pretended that I also need money, but everytime we discuss about money or I need his help, he ignored.And for 3 times i asked him He never bother himself to give me.It's unfair, isn't it? I have been honest to him by saying, why can't he sacrifice for me as much as I do for him.He always say, I should wait and soon he will do is responsibility for me.We are not rich but we are all stable in my family so anything I make here is only for me so he knows that I have savings.Is it possible that he just love me because of my money? and will there be tendency that he will leave me once I do'nt have money to give him anymore? Sometimes,I feel that he really love me but often times I feel that he is just using me for something?, I already caught him looking and chasing other woman online, and in fact,he closed 3 of his e-mail id sbcz i caught him ,though I never caught him dating another woman personally, I don't know what to do, He said he will marry me and he loves me sincerely but sometimes he is just good in talking but he lacks action, Please,I need you opinion and advice, help me!!!