1. She: “Is my bikini Beautiful, Musa?”
Almost every woman will rather choose to wake up from a Dracula nightmare and meet Obasanjo giggling beside her in bed than not hear her man tell her how cute she looks, after she had done well to make him wonder at how lucky he is to have a woman with her looks. Some guys self?? They are just too blunt; they can’t feel it and they can’t even see it. She needs you to tell her she is beautiful; she probably spent hours at the mirror…she didn’t mind – it was all about you, her man and baby. Then you come up just mopping or probably pretending not to see what God had placed in your hands, until she had to ask for your opinion!

2. Emeka: “But I love you more than I love her!”
Some women can get their hearts “jacked” with the faintest thought of sharing their man. Any woman (not sure of Muma G oh!) could share their makeup kit and even wears; some can even give up their jewelry to an enemy; but very few (if they exists at all) can bear the thought of borrowing their man even to a sister – whether of the womb or in the lord; talk more of share him. However, when poo happens – like it always does, (a) they rather pretend it never did, (b) decide not to believe, (c) better still, believe it won’t happen again or (d) more complicated, all of the above. Those options are better (for some) than accepting they are sharing their man – a very scary fate. It doesn’t change much even when you try to get to understand how much better you love them.

3. Jude: “Baby! [Yes!], You don’t cook well”
Somebody once told me that you could make a fantastic cook out of a woman-concoctionist (need the word for a second please) if you just find something good to say about her pot art, which would normally pass for a poison-of-a-meal. Now, I have observed that irrespective of an infamous disposition towards the pot and its content, no woman wants to be labeled a bad cook. I don’t think you want to keep telling her how bad she cooks. You don’t want her thinking that living with you was a nightmare, do you?

4. Brother: “Sister please Meet Mr. Wrong”
Meeting Mr. Right use to be something of an obsession for girls; In fact, back then when women were girls, any girl could describe to you a digital picture of her dream dude even if she had just been woken up.  They are very good at that – just as they as so bad at meeting Mr. Wrong. If you just said “Permit me to introduce you to Mr. Wrong!” and then peep into her mind to see what was cooking, you will almost knock over a portrait with lucifer’s horns, Busta’s Mouth, Mr. Beans eyes, Great Khali’s leg, Mr. Ibu’s belly…I mean you could bump into a beast in her mind when she hears you say Mr. Wrong; even if you had mentioned wrong without the ‘r’. Funny enough some girls grow up still having the “my-prince-to-the-rescue’s” picture in their mind.

[size=8pt]I am not a Nigerian woman,My name is Isabelle, I am from Asia .My boyfriend for 3 years is an Igbo guy from Nigeria.I love him so much.I never been in-love with any much as much as I do for him.He is the man I wanna spend the rest of my life with.I met him in China for he is doing business here.But as of this time He went back to Nigeria to fix his papers.When he is here,he always have a lot of problems in his business,so I tried all I could to help him out,morally and financially.We used to send each other some gifts .But sometimes it bothers me a lot when he often asks me for money, I undesrtand him but one time,I tried to test him I pretended that I also need money, but everytime we discuss about money or I need his help, he ignored.And for 3 times i asked him He never bother himself to give me.It's unfair, isn't it? I have been honest to him by saying, why can't he sacrifice for me as much as I do for him.He always say, I should wait and soon he will do is responsibility for me.We are not rich but we are all stable in my family so anything I make here is only for me so he knows that I have savings.Is it possible that he just love me because of my money? and will there be tendency that he will leave me once I do'nt have money to give him anymore? Sometimes,I feel that he really love me but often times I feel that he is just using me for something?, I already caught him looking and chasing other woman online, and in fact,he closed 3 of his e-mail id sbcz i caught him ,though I never caught him dating another woman personally, I don't know what to do, He said he will marry me and he loves me sincerely but sometimes he is just good in talking but he lacks action, Please,I need you opinion and advice, help me!!!

No, I disagree with you Inked_Nerd, It seems the Man is not interested in the relationship, Not the money, or Is she a millionaire?

I will advice her to look for a man that will truly love her, Though it not easy to get one, but just wait for the right man,

I wish you best of luck,

whenever i read abt women seeking love in their affairs, my heart ,
what a world of unequal desires!

@Cuteisbela, I feel your fears and i know what it feels like to be unsure but hopeful. You can actually help your self with an exercise I just posted on Nairaland. read 10 FANTASTIC QUESTIONS THAT CAN SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP! I wrote it just for you!

I got it bright mind, thank you, u're such an angel