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I spoke with him this night on line and on phone, I jokingly asked him if how many woman he slept while he is there in Nigeria?He can't answer immediately ,so I ask him to swear to God if he is not guilty, and he said,It's a sin to swear to God, but he told me , yes, God knows i didn't sleep with other woman here, what do u think of that?

Oh My God,I have been spending all my time reading all blogs,articles and comments here in this website and I am enjoying it so much because most comments are really FUNNY hahahhahahahha

@ poster, I wanna be a NIGERIAN BEAUTY,

Most Asian ladies are loyal to their relationship.but, some are possessive and  emotional.We want our man to be loyal,sincere,loving and caring to us.We will do everything to make this man satisfied and happy.But, once we discovered that our man is cheating,we can do s.t.u.p.i.d things out of annoyance even trying to commit suicide.Crazy as it can be but this is true specially if you're the first man whom they lost their virginity.They will fight to death.On the other hand,life now a days is changing so there are also those who are open minded and take things easily.Many are players,some are liars,cheaters,users,some are good some are bad.Nobody is PERFECT.!

to poster:Try to tell you friend to be very careful,If he is true then go and prove to his GF that he loves her and its not just a matter of playing but it will be for good and life time relationship, remember; no woman will act so funny or stupidly if she is being treated fairly by her lover, regardless of any race,if he is just considering her as his "past time",better tell him to let her go and find her own way, or else his life will be at risk one day, Good luck

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you're welcome

If you are great people, you can love, you can give mercy, and you raise them, educate them, and lead them to heaven.
You cannot see angels, but angels are working every day. Their work is helping people, even though they are receiving no reward.
"Happy attitude" means to love God and your neighbors, have gratitude to the angels, and do something good to create the WORLD.
Work together and create a new age, a new world.
If you are happy now, you can also change your past, in your thoughts.
If you can change your thinking, you can be a different person.
A lot of people are waiting for our help.
In hell, there are billions of souls who are waiting for help from angels.
Ask yourself every morning, "What is my mission?" And then, you can be courageous.
I 'm an angel-maker. I want to make a lot of angels in this world.
Be courageous, be constructive, and be positive.

The man in the picture shown in kabukabu50's comments looks like my baby,d only thing makes them differ is that my babe have hair cut cleanly hehehe, but anyway physical appearance will fade, what matters most in the heart, In that picture he seems very gentleman trying to be gentle and nice to his rich woman hmmmm, sorry for misjudging , correct me if I am wrong .

I love this article, Thank you so much BRIGHTMIND, i have copied the questions and sent to him via e-mail.I will tell you later if his answers are positive or negative.Take care and God bless you more

I got it bright mind, thank you, u're such an angel

I guess so

How did you come up with your idea that 75% of Nigerians are frustrated?Is it a FACT or just your OPINION?

That's the reason why I am asking your opinion lol

http://ezinearticles.com/?Why-Nigerians-Are-the-Happiest-People-on-Earth&id=425968 You can also try to open that article.

thanks girl

http://www.tamizhan.com/item/1299. According to this article,

A survey of 65 countries, published by British magazine New Scientist, says that Nigerians are the happiest people on earth, followed by the Mexicans. Venezuela, El Salvador and Puerto Rico are close behind.

oh,really?

@pdone, thanks for your concern, I am not chinese though I am using qq for the sake of my chinese students and chinese friends.I am happy reading blogs and comments in this website, through this way,I can have the idea on the cultures and traditions of Nigerians.and Yes,I wanna know more about Nigerian cultures but I need to prove it right before my eyes!, hence,I appreciate your gesture of inviting me to your qq account but I don't add people I don't personally know I hope you understand! God bless bro

@ vic2k3, Thanks indeed for your understanding of my situation, for 3 years , God knows how much I love him I  will to do everything for him and so I will give him a chance to prove himself, once he failed IN THIS FINAL TEST,.I will certainly SACRIFICE my LOVE for the sake of my FUTURE LIFE & happiness,

@ YORKE, tHANk you so much.I will do as that

@ Shy-one, Your advice has touched me so much, thank you so much, God is good so I leave everything to him, He knows my heart and I know he won't forsake me.God bless you too

@ Yield.Thank you so much for your comments and advice.I appreciate it.But because of so much love i have for him,I will still give him a chance to prove himself, Right now he is in Nigeria and will soon come back to China maybe end of next month.I am happy that he hasn't asked me money anymore since he is back home.He told me his business is doing well now and he told me to wait and he gonna assume all his responsibilities and shortcomings when he arrive.I will wait and see, but in case he won't change,I am certain that I will no longer be as open financially to him and maybe that will lead to breaking up, but,I do hope and pray for happy ending,

In this WORLD,whatever things against Nigerian guys or ladies you have mentioned above are also being done by people from different countries.They have their own reasons of doing such.It's no longer our fault but that's how they wanna manage their lives.Just try to do good things to yourself and others and God will bless you more, Cheers!

Thanks so much Ikedonn,I am keeping my fingers crossed to finally meet my happiness with a black guy in the future bcz i knw how blessed you people are

GUYS,thank you so much for sharing your opinion and for all your pieces of advice, I'l move forward and wish to laugh at last,

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I am from ASIA but I love Nigeria,I love the people and I wish to live there if given the chance in the future.I have heard Nigerians are the happiest man on Earth.What are your secrets of becoming happy always? Would you like to reveal it?

And Yes,I am Pretty,young and Educated, I think i can easily find someone out there but to feel LOVE and to be in love to someone is difficult and it will take time, Maybe I am just been so crazy about him.With this thread, i feel better,thanks to those people who replied my post.I appreciate it so much, I feel I am not alone.It made me feel good to know that there are people around who care for others.This matter I have kept for a long time and yet,I couldn't tell to my friends or to my family because I know they will just laugh at me, and for the reason of protecting his image to the people who know and close to us.After all,I STILL LOVE Nigeria,I still love Nigerian people, and will remain forever in my heart no matter what the future brings between me and my boyfriend, God bless!!!

@elbereth:

If only it's easy to find a man you will feel love as the way we think,

@ kayed007
Thank you for your concern and advice, I realy appreciate it, He went back to Nigeria about 3 months ago and from the time he arrived there, we do talk on phone every other day online.Due to  time differences I don't know his whereabouts but I do believe he isn't married yet because,I have talk to his brother and sister already, his mom once, and sometimes I called him at the middle of the night and if he has been married there, he can't say sweet words to me on phone .Accdng to him.his village is about 8-9 hrs away from lagos and since he arrived Nigeria He never been back to his village where his mom and his sister are living, he just told me he is busy in lagos doing business,

Majority of the replies agreed that he is just using me, too bad, n fact,I am crying right now.He is my first Nigerian and foreign love.I have been inlove once before but it's not as strong as this, I just can't imagine my life without him.I don't know how to start,I don't know how to move on and let him go