true true true!

i was dating a Nigerian man for 10 months and then when i returned from a trip back home he basically broke up with me.....he was loving and the best thing that ever happened to me. i thought he was the answer to my prayers. he said he still loved me blah blah blah but i always knew his kids and their mother would win out. i respect that but i am so hurt. the last i knew he didn't love her but he loved his kids. his mother wanted them back together as well even though the girl attacked him before etc;(but i have no idea why). i am having a hard time dealing with it and i basically broke down and begged him to stay with me but all fell on deaf ears. i don't want to not date nigerian men for this reason but i just feel that it would be hard to find one that is not married at my age....this has been the toughest point of my life. so odd how he could turn off his feelings like that so fast but in my heart i think it is more about being with his kids.