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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by daben1(m): 2:51pm On Jul 10
Ambassador4chri:
Omo.. i heard their recruitment takesa very long time oo.. it can linger for a year or more.
nawaoo, if you don get that job, you don rest for life, you and poverty go become "straight line"
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by daben1(m): 1:35pm On Jul 10
Any update on ECOWAS?
RomanceRe: Is This A Good Reason For Me Not To Marry Her? by daben1(m): 10:01am On Jul 10
Goodmarlian:
I am just tired of this my girls approach towards our relationship,this girl is good ,well behaved and has a good job shes doing at hand but the problem I have with her is that she barely picks my calls or reply chats don't get me wrong we talk so very well offline we can gist for long and all that but we are no longer together forget it she will never reply my chats or calls
I have complained a lot about this to her she will apologize but still continue now I think it either she doesn't really like me as I think or she just want to weaponise communication I just want to continue with the relationship for fun while a find someone else who is ready and prioritizes me for marriage ,I see poor communication as a huge red flag .
she's just waiting for a better option to come, is she schooling in UNIBEN?
Nairaland GeneralRe: Some Common Sense Things You Should Know As An Adult by daben1(m): 9:37pm On Jul 08
Exousiang01:
You children are just funny.
Just imagine.
Anyway this thread is for adults not children tho....
You think respect is only for those older than you?
Your parents did some batd job rasing you.

You obviously don't have a car, if you do, you won't expect your mechanic to go have a bath and change before coming to take a look at your car when LASMA is already trying to tow it away for obstructing traffic.
Imagine calling your mechanic and he says he is in workshop but he had to have a bath and get changed before coming to look at your car....

How old are you again?
these type of people are always opposite of what they say online
Christianity EtcRe: Court Orders Prophet Tamarauebi Elisha Owan to Pay ₦200M For Destroying Shrine by daben1(m): 9:23am On Jul 05
voortrekker966:
Unless he has evidence of criminal activities at the shrine, he has no right to destroy anything there. Some Christians are worse than Boko Haram.
even if there's evidence of criminal activities, he's not the government
HealthRe: Oral & Dental Care: Follow These Steps For Daily Fresh Breath by daben1(m): 1:23pm On Jun 26
You fit do all these things make your mouth still dey smell
RomanceRe: Better Divorce Me Or Marry 2nd Wife Than For You To Hit Me ‐ Single Lady by daben1(m): 3:16pm On Jun 23
Funny enough, their type no dey ever see husband marry, they're good as baby mamas
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by daben1(m): 11:42am On Jun 22
Good morning everyone, please and please in God's name, I need Prof. Osinbajo's number, I'll really appreciate if anybody can help me with it
CelebritiesRe: Peller Pays Jarvis Bride Price (Photos) by daben1(m): 11:32am On Jun 22
brain54:
Must I marry them. Or you no know wetin you go talk...?


No be by force to comment!
lol, na you no know wetin you dey talk, you say dem be nice people and you no marry any of dem, abi na person wey no nice you wan marry? Ozuor
CelebritiesRe: Peller Pays Jarvis Bride Price (Photos) by daben1(m): 7:20am On Jun 22
brain54:
This your post dey contradict o...


After saying what you want to say. You come congratute them again.



Anyways, I know a lot of people married to esan women. And they are very happily married. I even have close in-laws married to esan women and they are happy together.


I know men that were discouraged from esan women... close people... one at a point I felt the pressure myself even though I wasn't the one getting married to her and if I was the one directly faced with such pressure I'm sure I might have buckled at a point. But he went ahead to marry her and till today no regrets.


I actually like the esan women I have met character wise and I don't see anything particularly wrong with them.



Most times it is esan people themselves that try to discourage esan women marriage or paint them in a way.


I won't be surprised if you are esan. Maybe, easans don't like themselves or I don't know the reasons for that.




I once stayed in a compound were an esan recently rented at the time and just moved into his apartment. I told him the landlord of the next compound we shared a fence with was esan, thinking I was doing him a favor introducing him to his brother. His demeanor changed immediately and started saying negative and insultive things about someone he had never met.


Till this man later moved out from the compound years later he never spoke with that neighbor and would spit each time he saw him drive past.


I don't really understand why they are like that to each other.


But I know personally the esan women I have met are not bad in anyway i can think of. Even when deliberately testing them or looking for faults due to what I had head. I even dated a few in the past. And I like their women for being caring and loving. I was particularly close to one but long distance later cut short the relationship because she was in "xenophobia" republic.


Stereotyping people is a somehow something!
all these story, why you no marry one of them?
FamilyRe: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by daben1(m): 10:55pm On Jun 17
gigabyte13:
My immediate brother wey be local government chairman, for good eight as e no give me shishi l die.....huhhuhhuh?

Remove sense of entitlement to people's belongings, that's the first step to making it in life.
No tire your destiny to anybody help
If help come fine
If not hustle, Keep pushing
Your own door sef go open one day
maybe money no flow for am
FamilyRe: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by daben1(m): 10:52pm On Jun 17
Klington:
If i talk wetin eye see for my rich aunt hand eeeh.
women!! Talk abeg
FamilyRe: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by daben1(m): 10:50pm On Jun 17
FlamingBulb:
Dose saying help only comes from God or dey help oo dey no help oo are the ones actually guilty and stingy.

If you have and refused to help u will suffer for it now or future.

You buy brand new cars, have house, have businesses but your blood brother is suffering..Ur own is to dash dem 10k 20k after begging..continue

Surely time for regret will come.
they forgot that nobody came to this world with riches, in one way or the other, they were helped by someone, no human being can do it alone, we all need help
FamilyRe: Share Your Experience Having Rich Sibling Or Friend That Refused To Help You by daben1(m): 10:46pm On Jun 17
Samantha125:
Was he helping them to succeed in life or to keep them forever indebted to him? I'm sure he organised that trip out of his own free will without anyone coercing him.

This is the issue with most us Africans, we never help out of sincerity, everything is always transactional.
what's the transaction there? Can they pay osihmen back?
PoliticsRe: Nigerians React As Obi Gives Conditions To Make Deal With Bandits by daben1(m): 10:43pm On Jun 17
damoobaba:
Try who, everything he has said so far about the presidency is off. He doesnt talk smart at all. God forbid that I will use my finger to vote this clown.
but you can vote Tinubu, Omo!! I don't even know what to tell you
PoliticsRe: Atiku, Adeleke Lose Tickets As Court Deregisters ADC, Accord Party by daben1(m): 6:27pm On Jun 15
Beautiful!!! I hope this stands like this at the supreme, Atiku is too greedy
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by daben1(m): 11:14am On Jun 15
I beg anybody with the name of God, if you have pastor Osibanjo's number, or the wife or any of his children, please in the name of God, help me with it
CrimeRe: Boko Haram Beheads 8 Soldiers At A Military Base In Borno by daben1(m): 10:24pm On Jun 05
Luckyymann:
Honorably discharged.
you go shoot without order 😂
CrimeRe: Boko Haram Beheads 8 Soldiers At A Military Base In Borno by daben1(m): 6:49pm On Jun 05
Luckyymann:
Alot of these young soldiers or should I say, non battle tested and newly transferred to let me say ( Maiduguri) in particular, both NCOs/officer's.
They really don't know how terrific and devilish those Boko Haram muzlims jihadist are.

We and others that experience and witness/repelled/attack those infidels knows the attrocities committed by those bastards and understands never to take anything for granted.

Back then when we were leaving each FOBs , I'd talk to my fellow comrades and make them understand what we've done to them and knowing they'd always look for a way to seek revenge. I'd compell them to always be on guard else their base might be overrun.

How you go tell me say, Boko Haram go capture and behead not one "8"! were they sleeping?
I'm proud to say Boko Haram felt my wrath while I was still in Active service.

As a soldier you have to make up your mind to die at anytime.
I'd rather die than watch anyone give me a stupid order, e come be B.H?

I wonder the type of soldiers them dey train now.
Biscuit soldiers!

God forbid.
did you resign abi you don retire?
RomanceRe: How Can I Walk Away From My Toxic Relationship? by daben1(m): 4:29pm On Jun 02
Toolegit123:
Good day everyone out there.

Lately, I have been traumatized. Like so depressed. My fiancee and I have been together for over 2 years and we've been planning to take the next step,which is our marriage arrangements.

But recently,I have noticed how she has been distancing herself from me. Though we had a little quarrels not quite long ago,but I really wanted to settle things up. And unfortunately, before I could calm things up,I noticed she had blocked me on Whatsapp.

Now,the pain in me,is that I've tried to talk to her,but she seems like who doesn't want to listen to me and it's really hitting hard on me.

This is someone who has always been toxic and disrespectful to me,but whenever I try t walk away completely from her,i always find myself going back to her. And I'm so tired and fed up with the whole thing.

I have tried to walk away,like forget about everything we've together in the past but the healing process hasn't been easy. I really want my peace of mind back. Please,has anyone been in this kind of situation before? How did you navigate yourself through it. Please,help a brother in need.
you people don't know when a lady loves you, you're just deceiving yourself that she's you girl, the better offer has not come her way yet
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by daben1(m): 7:06pm On Jun 01
Ambassador4chri:
Did anyone apply for ECOWAS recruitment? Any news yet and whats the pay for local staff
I did, their salary is on their website na
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by daben1(m): 7:02pm On Jun 01
Ambassador4chri:
Yes its genuine
I applied for the ECOWAS too bro, can I send a DM? 🙏
Jobs/VacanciesRe: ECOWAS Recruitment 2026 by daben1(m): 6:16pm On May 31
Politicians fit help for this one?
CelebritiesRe: Insecurity: Davido's Reply on relationship with Seyi Tinubu draws reactions by daben1(m): 4:10pm On May 31
LegendHero:
Why is he even wasting time to respond to Obi supporters lol.

I don recieve my Tinubu cap I shipped, adorning my cap anywhere as I want. I don’t even have time for any shalaye to a Peter Obi supporter whose candidate will come third as usual in the national election.
dem go beheaad you with that cap
RomanceRe: I Cleaned My Girlfriend’s House And Instantly Wanted To Break Up by daben1(m): 10:12pm On May 23
Dzzzz:
😂😂😂Since I use my ear to see that thing eh,I never chop all day..Na the first time,I go hear say man go clean him gf room😂
Omo, men mount o 😂😂😂
RomanceRe: I Cleaned My Girlfriend’s House And Instantly Wanted To Break Up by daben1(m): 7:58pm On May 23
Dzzzz:
Abeg no vex ooo cause I wan grasp wetin you talk”You cleaned your gfs room”?..
guyyyyyy, I shock reach my bone, Allah!
RomanceRe: I Cleaned My Girlfriend’s House And Instantly Wanted To Break Up by daben1(m): 7:52pm On May 23
As an adult, you're supposed to know when and where you're wanted and valued, that girl doesn't give a Bleep about you, let her meet someone she truly loves and see how she'll go out of her way just to please him, for your mind you get babe, mtcheeew
FamilyRe: Gambling Is Ruining My Brother’s Life, Please Help. by daben1(m): 6:10pm On May 06
Kylekent59:
150k monthly?

Where I work online and from home from 1 am to 4 am and 12 pm to 5 pm ( daily) and total a salary of 960k a month.


Hmmm, what would 150k do for a young man?

Football is a scam. I'm sure he will play Chelsea to win today. Chelsea will lose.

Money you guys lose is what they use to pay players. I pity people who refuse to learn.

All you have to do is to make him take responsibility at home and when he remembers that, he would shy away from gambling.

This is ridiculous!!
can you link me with your online job? 🙏
BusinessRe: Jim Ovia Retires As Zenith Bank Chairman by daben1(m): 8:36pm On May 05
What happens to his shares now that he's retired?
SportsRe: Michael Eneramo Dies During Match In Kaduna by daben1(m): 5:57pm On Apr 24
femi4:
Why is he still playing at his age

Regular check up is key..rest in power
how old is Ronaldo?

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