You knew she was married and you still went ahead to have sex with her, remember this; karma will hit you hard bro

jericco1:
Well she's made her choice and she is doing well for herself, you better leave her alone. To each his own.

no kind OP, he doesn't have money, instead of him to cry to God for help, he's wasting his time crying because of a prostitute.. Some guys self

Someone is acting porn and you're busy crying on her behalf, did she take your balls along or you don't have any? Haba bros, if you don't have balls, grow some!

She might be using all these her good sides as a bait to get what she wants(marriage...) and I might be wrong, in other words, she might be real and she might be faking it...

PS; there are good girls out there and there are bad girls who pretend to be good out there, she's either of them.. Peace!

Innobee99:
Am in a similar situation right now. My wedding is next Month and almost all arrangements has been made.
Not that my wife to be is cheating that I know oooo but she always call to tell me that her ex who's a soldier always comes to their House to beg her to come back when he knows fully well that her introduction has been done. I warned her to cut all forms of Communication with him not until yesterday again, babe called and told me that this guy came again yesterday evening begging and crying that she should quit the relationship with me and come back to him.
When she told me this, I became so furious and I insulted the hell out of her and the said soldier. Cuz if u don't give room for such nonsense he won't be coming back begging everyday.
Right now am confused whether to continue this marry plans or forget everything I have wasted cuz marriage is not something to make mistake about.
I can't tell my family just my kid bro who just advised I shouldn't tell anyone in our family.
I just can't trust her again, the feelings is even going down already.
What should I do in this situation?

make a thread bro

Godada:



Tell him this is time to go.

You will control him on phone.

As you are saying this, usher him out.

You got to smash.

tell a bro it's time to go just because of sexx? Why would you people rate sexx over a brother, it's not worth it, pussies will come and go, but a brother will be there for you always except you don't value him as a friend

JustwiseNaIdiot:
She's my first and u will not understan cuz u don't know what love is

since you're the only one that knows what love is, why not leave us the hell alone here?

Bankowner:
And who tells you it is a norm that if you ask a lady out the first time her answer must be a yes?

If what you feel for her is true and not just a urge to get into her pants then you have to work at changing her mind in many a different way. The day she sees true love in you, I can bet she’ll yield.

bro,! the girl is not into him, let's tell him the truth so that he won't keep fooling himself around her

YourWriter:
In reference to the post which I made last two weeks https://www.nairaland.com/6834344/love-im-scared
Here is the update.

I let my feelings known to her telling her how much I love her but unfortunately, the love is unrequited. She told me she's not ready for a relationship due to some personal reasons.
I so much feel heartbroken right now.
We move!

heart broken over what exactly? Is having a girlfriend a new thing to you, come on bro, you shouldn't be heart broken about this

NiceMen:
It is always women giving the defensive reply because it is what they do.

when it comes to issues like this on NL, I honestly skip their replies

virginprincess:
If she doesn't call you call her, it as simple as that or you buy her airtime for her to call you, i personally can stay a month without calling anybody maybe she's that type of person.

..."or you by her airtime for her to call you", when will you people stop being childish? so before you call your boyfriend, he must be the one to send you the airtime or what rubbish did you write there?

After hustling for a government job and all to no avail, I what to start a POS business but I have very little idea about it, how lucrative is it and how much capital am I looking at, and which POS would you suggest I get? I'll be reading your comments, thanks!

PS; Help me mention the Moderators to help me push it to front page for more responses..

Lalasticlala

Na so Una go Dey form, until Una form for Una God-sent man, then chase him away with the "forming" attitude then end up with one tout

This is interesting

money121:

Almighty God will provide the money to take Good Care of Our Kids
But if you don't mind sir
I can assist with something for her Sch fees
Every term!
Just my part to contribute to her Success in Life
So you can Pm me let Discuss abt that sir!
Iyanu Masele God No go shame Us


*Update*

With my Little Support, So i decide to support the little Genius with 10k monthly Allowance for her Sch fees!
At least this will go A long way..
Wish her more knowledge and Understanding

Attached below payment for this Month!!

this your kind gesture has nothing to do with me, but I must pray for you, God bless you, where you take it from will never dry, once again, God bless you...
This is the kind of things I like to do, I would have loved to contribute/sowed to the success of this kid for the sake of my children, but joblessness(finished NYSC since 2019, no job)won't allow me, it's well

Dubem did not draw your breast, shey you no get breast ni?

BigDawsNet:



1.The only visa an agent can help you secure without interview appearance is UAE and maybe Qatar

You definitely need to present yourself for interview at the USA embassy after submitting your application...

For Canada, EU ...you need to submit physically while your data is captured

2. US interviewer may not neccassry ask for account...but it's mandatory to go with one incase they wanna see your balance...$1500-$2000 grand is okay..for Visit/toruism

3.Its illegal to work with a B1/B2 visa...it's meant for short visit/ tourism... visitors are not authorized to work...it's unchangeable...if you overstay...you will become illegal immigrant...which means No access to work .you can't rent a house...or receive any social benefits....if you need a work visa...apply for H-1B visa...but I'm pretty sure it's a dead end at this covid period...no one will employe you unless you some kind of expertise

4.let him clock 18 before he apply for any kind of visa... atleast then you consider adult to take a personal trip or relocation...if his really 17 I don't know why you mentioned the word "suspect"...you are 17? If you asked, then depend yourself and show proof with a birth certificate that proves your claims....

thanks for this, I used the word "suspect" because he looks older than 17, he wanted to go for a football trial, that was why he reduced the age..
thanks for your response sir

BigDawsNet:


Can't read it

Just post your questions here .. others can gain too

1. Is it possible for an agent to get him the visa without going for an interview?
2. Like how much he have in his account or as his account balance since they'll ask for account balance?
3. someone said its not possible to work with the B1B2 visa and he can't change it to a "working visa" when he gets there, how about that?
4. The age in his passport is 17 years, he'll be 18 by 3rd October but he looks older, will they suspect anything?
Thanks sir!
Others can answer too

Lagbaja88:
many Nigerians do not return after visiting. So you have to show your have things in Nigeria that will make u return. If you don’t have strong tied they won’t grant you visa

do I just say it verbally or I should go with evidence?
I've sent you a PM, please

BigDawsNet:


Get the neccassry docs
Defend your plan to return
Home ties is important
Dress in a unique way like in attire

i don't understand the "home ties" and what documents are we looking at here?
And, since b1/b2 visa is for visitation and tourism, is possible to change it to a working visa when he gets there?

Lagbaja88:
dressing has nothing to do with visa

alright bro, thanks for responding

dwilliams:
Go to the travel section

this is the travel section boss

ZINIIBANKS:
If na another embassy wey no be naija own O just pray before you go dem go give you but if na naija embassy bro forget ..

wetin you Dey talk bro? Which one is naija embassy again?

I have a close relative that wants to apply for the US B1/B2 visa, he hasn't gone for any visa interview before, he hasn't been to any embassy before, please what will you advise him so that he won't go and goof on the interview day.. And how do they dress for visa interview?
We'll be reading the comments together.. Thanks!!

Grom4ik:
To implement the conceived project, it is first necessary to monitor the overall state of the cleaning services market in your locality.
The initial amount of money to enter the business depends on the goals that one sets for himself and the scale of the company itself. If he plans to clean apartments and small objects, then for the start will be enough $ 5-10 thousand. If not enough money, you can always take the funds https://good-friend.org/ or wait with the opening of the business.
Do not forget that this industry is highly dependent on stable and, in the future, growing demand. The number of cleaning requests will depend on the size of the city in which the business is operating. A settlement with a population of 500 thousand people is the optimal location for launching a cleaning company. The next step will be to legalize its activities: registering the company as a business entity.

thanks for your input

Cc
FOD
Naijacutee
Puskin
Dominique
I really need suggestions and responses please!

EdoFirstBorn:


Buckets , brooms , cutlasses , rakes , shovels , Packers, then bottles of harpic 1 bottle of hypo bleach , small N200 bottle of diesel and plenty aboki .. but come call it a cleaning company call it "Any work" company

lol, "aboki"? I mean a cleaning company like those cleaners in shop rite and in some federal and state agencies, that's the type of cleaning company I mean

I have a very close friend that wants to go into cleaning agency or services, like having cleaners to different companies/organisation. He doesn't have much idea on how he can start it, like the capital and all... He only knows he'll have to get an office space so people can come for the forms and he already knows he'll have to get their uniforms, please I need your response on this, thanks...
Help me mention the moderators and admins here to help me move it to front page for more responses, thanks!

"Read more"? We won't!

ecolime:

Wish I could help bro. I'm just an employee. My coy post entry level/experienced hire jobs online from time to time. Nothing like personal recommendation or referrals. At least not at my own level.

Thanks for your response sir

Tjra:
LONG STORY ALERT!!!


Good afternoon Nairaland.

God has been so good to my family this year and a particular blessing has been giving us sleepless night.

I work with a big organisation here in Lagos and currently earn about N600k. I used to work in the branch since my entry level days 6 years ago until I was able to runz the head office movement.

Ever since I join the HQ two years, my life has been at ease. No weekend duties, no sickening pressures from customers. I have been able to develop my self, complete the professional courses I abandoned and can rest well on weekends/public holidays.

The worklife balance now isn't only the advantage of working at the HQ. The career progression and rapid promotion crowns it all.

My spouse earns a little above N400k and we manage ourselves well. Our combined income isn't that much but we've been able to achieve a lot due to our mutual cooperation. She commits her resources 100% into our home. Some people see me as a "big man" outside, no knowing I am actually enjoying the reward of marrying a good wife.

My wife recently got a job very lucrative job. Salary is about N1.5M monthly. She was on the process for close to a year. You can imagine our joy when she was eventually given an offer. This job is a huge one for us as a family and will make life more sweet.

My pain now is the job is based at Abuja and that means she has to relocate there with our kids. Abuja is not where I can drive to considering the security situation of Nigeria. Also, it won't be wise to fly down every week (I also have hidden phobia for heights ) because of costs and other attendant risks.

I actually want us to live together as a family most especially because of our kids. Some Kids tend to be spoilt when raised almost alone their mothers. As a father, I want to jointly raise them with their mother and also instill discipline in them appropriately.

The only solution on sight is to ask my company for redeployment to a branch at Abuja. This I fear might return me back to "Egypt". I.e days of stunted growth, no promotions. In summary, I am scared of killing my career by myself.

My wife is okay with us visiting each other every month but I am vehemently against it.

Someone please help

sorry for digressing sir, I've been jobless for over two years now, please can you help me whenever there's vacancy in you company?, or if you can help me talk to your madam on my behalf, it's not been easy with me, Please!