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Is Sex is the Best way to show love?

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to
your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.(Prov
15v1)
2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses
to your family and friends. You are each
other's keeper.(Eph 5v12)
3). Never use attitudes and moods to
communicate to your husband, you never
know how your husband will interpret them.
(Prov 15v13)
4). Never compare your husband to other
men, you've no idea what their life is all
about.
5). Never ill treat your husband's friends
because you don't like them, the person
who's supposed to get rid of them is your
husband.(Prov 11v22)
6). Never forget that your husband married
you, not your maid or anyone else. (Gen
2v24)
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to
your husband, people may do everything else
but your husband is your own responsibility.
(Eph 5v33)
. Never blame your husband if he comes
back home empty handed. Rather encourage
him.(Deut 3v28)
9). Never be a wasting wife, your husband's
sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose
of denying your husband sex (SS 7v12
11). Never compare your husband to your
one time sex mate in bedroom.(SS 5v9)
12). Never answer for your husband in public
opinion polls, let him handle what is directed
to him although he may answer for you in
public opinion polls.(Prov 31v23)
13). Never shout or challenge your husband
in front of children(Eph 4v31)
14). Don't forget to check the smartness of
your husband before he checks out.(Prov
12v4)
15). Never allow your friends to be too close
to your husband.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and
on the dressing table. Out there your
husband is always surrounded by women
who took their time on their looks.( 1 Sam
25v3)
17). Your parents or family or friends do not
have the final say in your marriage. Don't
waste your time looking up to them for a
final word.(Luke 21v16)
18). Never base your love on monetary
things. Will you still submit to him even if
you earn more money than him?
19). Don't forget that husbands want
attention and good listeners, never be too
busy for him. (Gal 6v9)
20). If your idea worked better than his,
never compare yourself to him. Its always
teamwork. (Gal 6v10)
21). Don't be too judgemental to your
husband.(Eph 4v29)
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She
doesn't even know that her body needs a
bath.(Prov 24v27)(Prov 20v13)
23). Does your husband like less cooked
food?, try to change your cooking.(Prov
31v14)
24). Never be too demanding to your
husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it
comes.(Luke 11v3)
25). Make a glass of water the very first
welcome to your husband and everyone
entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is
true beauty. (Prov 31v11)
26). Don't associate with women who have a
wrong mental attitude about marriage.(Prov
22v14)
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as
the value that you give it. Recklessness is
unacceptable.(Heb 13v4)
28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the
Lord, love your children and teach them well.
(Prov 22v6)
29). You are never too old to influence your
home. Never reduce your care for your family
for any reason. (Prov 31v28)
30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped
wife, pray always for your husband and
family(1 Thess 5v17)...For Love And Relationship
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Sex is NOT love. Love is not sex. You can have
sex and not be in love. You can be in love and
not engage in sex. A man may hate you and still
have sex with you. Be wise. Using sex to
manipulate a man will eventually fail. It is self
deception to think that giving him sex will make
him love you. True Love will never force you to
engage in sex. A man who doesn't love you will
not change his mind because of sex. If he tells
you to ‘prove your love’ by having sex with him.
He is only using you. If he is in it for the sex,
‘better sex’ will take him away from you.
Making yourself his ‘sex slave’ is foolish. Love
will never shame or degrade you. If you have
made the mistake of trying to use sex to buy this
man, now is the time to re-assess your
relationship and build it on the right foundation.
If he gets married to you because ‘the sex is
good’, it will be fatal to your marriage. Let him
get married to you because he loves you, honors
you, feels a strong emotional, mental and
spiritual connection with you and wants you to
spend the rest of his life with you

JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE HAVING SEX
WITH YOUR BF
ALONE DOES NOT mean you are doing
the right
thing,don't get it twisted.
Just because he's your boyfriend is
not a perquisite
to having sex and it does not justify
your having sex
with him.. Some women will say "I
can never have
sex with a guy who isn't my bf" some
will say "if I
don't love a guy I can never have sex
with him"
whether he's your bf or you love
him,does not count so long you are
having sex with a man who isn't
your husband everything is wrong
with it,don't try to
justify your act just because you are
having sex with
your bf. Having sex with your bf does
not make it
right and it does not mean you are
doing the right
thing by having sex with him just
because he's your bf and not
another man. So long he's not your
husband then he's equivalent to
every other man
you claim you can never have sex
with except they
are your bf.
"Premarital sex is a sin and just
because you are
having it with your bf or someone you
claim to love
does not exonerate you from the sin
of fornication",
you are equally as worst as those who
have sex with
other men who isn't their bf or whom
they don't love.
Don't Think you are a better person
because you are having sex with
just your bf alone and not other men
like other girls are doing,the act of
fornication does
not say except you are having it with
multiple
partner,it is when you are having sex
with someone
who isn't your husband/wife so stop
trying to justify
your sexual act just because you are
having it with someone you claim
to love or someone who is your
bf. The only thing that exonerate you
from the sin of
fornication is if you are not indulging
in any form of
sexual act with someone who isn't
your husband be
it penetrative sex,oral or otherwise.

Some people think that having many partners is
good, fun and gainful. They think that one that
has many lovers never gets hurt, stressed,
disappointed and broken hearted since s/he has
many partners around to lean on. But that’s not
true at all. Having many partners is a waste of
time, money, energy and it puts your life at risks.
It stresses and it always puts you on panic.
MEN: Think of the situation where you’ve got
many girls that you are pushing out with, You
have to cater for them, you need to take them
out on dates, when it comes to special days like
birthdays, valentine, Christmas… you have to
shower them with presents. You have to keep
your phone out of their reach. You have to be
deleting messages all the time. If some of the
girls are students maybe at a certain university;
you need to raise at least half or a quarter of the
tuition that’s if she’s an orphan or not. You need
to provide at least half of the money for
accommodation and her necessities but
remember you aren’t the only guy doing this for
her. You need to meet all these girls on a daily
basis; you have to show them that you love them
in any possible way. You have to always be with
new lies to tell them and you have to be very
careful so that you don’t repeat the old lies.
When it comes to calling them; you have to
contact them all and in case one finds your
phone busy for long hours, you have to be
questioned who the caller was. You have to take
them shopping on different days and spend like a
son of a billionaire…
WOMEN: Think of a scenario where you have got
many men you’re dating. You got to meet them
all. You have to be deleting messages all the
time. You have to be with sensible lies to tell all
these guys so that you drain something out of
them. You have to show your body almost to all
these guys who even won’t settle down with you
and they have no intention of marrying you.
Think of kissing every guy’s lips… think of the
sleepless nights you’ll be having since you’ll be
yapping on phone with these guys in different
intervals. Think of the daily panic you’ll be
encountering since you don’t want these guys to
get to know each other. Think of playing sex
with all these guys just with need of getting
something out of them and with a need of
proving to some of them that you love them and
you appreciate what they do for you…
Now, If God is on your side, you can succeed in
playing all those games with those innocent
hearts and you don’t get caught but do you think
God can be happy with all your deeds? If you’re
not lucky enough, things can screw up and you
end up being dumped like a used toilet paper.
And in most cases the one that you loved most
is the one who hates you the more and that
hurts so much. Now you’ll be left alone with a
broken heart. You’ll start thinking of the years
you wasted, the serious people you took for
granted, the money you spent like a fool which
you would have used to do something productive
and the energy you wasted on people who used
you. Think of your lost dignity, think of the ugly
names that people will start calling you and think
of the diseases you’ll acquire.
My dear friends, if you’re a victim of this, stop it
immediately and settle down with one person
who will love you for what you’re not for what
you have or what you have to offer. Stick with
one person who won’t love you for fun or to
pass time with you. I know some people say that
“How will I know that so and so is serious with
me and isn’t gonna love me for fun?” But there
isn’t any special way to identify such a person
but all what you have to do is to commit that
one person you have in God’s hands and He’ll
shape him/her in the right way for you.

1. Thou shall not date any guy out of
sympathy. It is not worth it. Its not worth
the pain. Ladies beware!
2. Thou shall not do revenge relationship
a.k.a let me show my boyfriend I can flirt
too. Ladies, that is inflicting more injuries
on yourself
3. Thou shall not depend on any man for
your daily needs. It has brought more pains
than joy to some ladies. Ladies, please!
4. Thou shall never fight over a man. Such
men usually don’t have regard for ladies.
Ladies, you can ask around if you are in
doubt!
5. Thou shall not remain in a violent
relationship. You are supposed to be his
sweetheart not a punching bag. If he’s
looking for whom to punch, refer him to
Mike Tyson.
6. Thou shall not give IT to him. If he wants
IT that desperately, he should put a ring on
it. Funny enough, men can wait if they see
your worth it. True!
7. Be bold when men toast you. Stop cutting
flowers or drawing circles with your leg.
Enjoy the ‘toasting’. Don’t forget to pay
attention to the pick up lines. Some pick up
lines can crack your ribs.
8. If you are not sure of your man especially
if the relationship is still new, never take
your girlfriend to his house or give her his
number or BB pin. Odikwa very risky!
9. As soon as a steady relationship is
established, let your man show his face to
your people. Your sister or brother or
mother. This is very key.
10. Material possessions are good but never
let them be the number one factor in
choosing a man.
11. Do not forget the golden rule. Always sit
like a woman. Some men act like babies
when a woman is not properly seated. You
know what I mean!
12. Never think you can trap a man with
good sex. Fou fou fou… foul! It is an
aberration.
13. Be good to men but be firm. Yes firm
but don’t scare them away.
14. Men are not in short supply. Don’t let
them deceive you. Don’t believe anything in
the contrary. Don’t be stampeded into a
relationship.
15. If your purpose for financing a man is to
keep him, that could be a big mistake.
Finance for the right reasons.
16. Men are not the same. Don’t listen to
the popular line of “men are the same ” It’s
a lie! How many men have you met out of
about six billion people on earth? Be wise?
17. Adventures can be sweet. However,
never embark on a long trip to meet a man
without informing someone. Never!
18. Guys have a way of saying “don’t let
anybody know about us yet.” If the
relationship is up to three months and
counting,somebody should know about it
jor! A good fellow can't be hidden!.
19. They say good girls love bad boys. And
as a good girl, you are looking for a bad boy
to love? Be error! Let bad girls love bad boys
and good girls love good boys. Nobody
should use your head to catch a bullet.
20. Enjoy being single. It does not last
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1. Be patient to your partner; avoid putting your
lover on tension to do something which he or she
is not ready to do. Let everything come
automatically in the right time. No need to rush.
2. Always spare time for your lover; Cease telling
your spouse all the time that you are busy. When
will you have time for him or her? Recall in the
past you had time to corn her, to call or text him
but now why can’t you? Come on try to fix some
time for your dude or babe, meet and have fun
and some good memorable moments.
3. Be an understanding partner; Try to believe
what your lover tells you, if he tells you that he
failed to get credit to call on you try to
understand it. He’s also a human being like you.
If she tells you that by the time you called her
she was asleep, try to understand it. She also
gets tired and she needs to rest like any other
person.
4. Always forgive and forget; avoid bringing back
the old things your lover did to you in the past
every time you get a tiff.
5. Be caring; with the care I don't mean you go
borrow money from the bank and friends and buy
for your partner costly things, to take him or her
in expensive hotels... I mean doing the little
things that suit in your wallet. Trust me if your
lover is well raised and understanding h/she will
appreciate and love you that way.
6. Maintain the communication with your lover;
Try keeping in touch with your partner, call or
text him or her, don’t allow your babe or dude to
start missing you. Be closer in any possible way.
7. Be faithful and trustworthy to your dude or
babe; I know you may be distant from your
partner, then you start doubting him or her that
maybe he or she is cheating on you or busy with
someone else because h/she no longer does this
and that hence you also start flirting and
sleeping around with different people which isn’t
good at all. Fight those false thoughts so that
they don’t take you off track. Trust in your
partner if you really love him or her and be
faithful.
8. Avoid listening to rumors; these rumors are
spread by people who don’t have what to do,
they keep gathering false info and then they
spread it to you. the majority of them have
intensions which aren’t good. Some are
interested in your lover, they admire the way h/
she cares and loves you. So they build up fake
stories just to make you hate and dump your
partner and in turn they replace you. Watch out
for them.
9. Avoid being nagging all the time; stop
accusing your lover falsely all the time just
because you want him or her to be guilty, you
well know that your partner wasn’t involved in
something but you’re constantly pinning him or
her. why?, stop your games of complaining all
the time over small things just because you want
your lovers attention and to be the controller.
Such acts may make your partner start losing
the love they had for you hence paving a way for
a break up.
10. Don’t be a dependant to your partner; Try
contributing in some things, seriously stop being
a parasite to your guy, share the bills together
and have a say in some things since you’re also
part of the relationship. Don’t make your partner
to be the controller and the decision maker of
the relationship.
11. Be honest to your lover; Avoid lying and
fooling your partner, lies won’t get you any prize,
stick on the truth no matter it’s hurting
sometimes.
12. Respect your lover; if he is the man or she’s
woman of your life then why disrespecting him or
her? Don’t back at your partner, pay attention to
what h/she says, don’t undervalue him or her, be
a listening mate and do what your lover wants.
13. Give your man or woman some privacy;
Avoid checking each and everything of his or
hers, give your lover some space and freedom,
try to have some trust in your partner no matter
you don’t stay or move together, don’t touch your
mate’s phone. Seriously you found your lover
with friends; h/she has to keep in touch with
them. They are not his girlfriends or her
boyfriends. Your girl is that beautiful type, she
has guys that try to corn her but she doesn’t
love them and she can’t sleep with any. It’s you
that she chose out of a million men that
approach her. She loves you.
14. Stop bringing back the past; I know your
partner jazzed you about his or her past
experiences in love which weren’t so good. But
stop rerating everything h/she does today to his
or her past. Let it not be a daily song or a
weapon to use to silent your dude or babe all the
time. Seriously your partner jazzed you about it
because h/she loves you so much and needed
you to know him or her very well.
15. Always mean it when you tell your partner
that you love him or her; Don’t just say that word
just to make your mate feel good, let it be from
the heart and accompany it with actions that will
make your dude or babe believe it that you truly
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