1. Be patient to your partner; avoid putting your
lover on tension to do something which he or she
is not ready to do. Let everything come
automatically in the right time. No need to rush.
2. Always spare time for your lover; Cease telling
your spouse all the time that you are busy. When
will you have time for him or her? Recall in the
past you had time to corn her, to call or text him
but now why can’t you? Come on try to fix some
time for your dude or babe, meet and have fun
and some good memorable moments.
3. Be an understanding partner; Try to believe
what your lover tells you, if he tells you that he
failed to get credit to call on you try to
understand it. He’s also a human being like you.
If she tells you that by the time you called her
she was asleep, try to understand it. She also
gets tired and she needs to rest like any other
person.
4. Always forgive and forget; avoid bringing back
the old things your lover did to you in the past
every time you get a tiff.
5. Be caring; with the care I don't mean you go
borrow money from the bank and friends and buy
for your partner costly things, to take him or her
in expensive hotels... I mean doing the little
things that suit in your wallet. Trust me if your
lover is well raised and understanding h/she will
appreciate and love you that way.
6. Maintain the communication with your lover;
Try keeping in touch with your partner, call or
text him or her, don’t allow your babe or dude to
start missing you. Be closer in any possible way.
7. Be faithful and trustworthy to your dude or
babe; I know you may be distant from your
partner, then you start doubting him or her that
maybe he or she is cheating on you or busy with
someone else because h/she no longer does this
and that hence you also start flirting and
sleeping around with different people which isn’t
good at all. Fight those false thoughts so that
they don’t take you off track. Trust in your
partner if you really love him or her and be
faithful.
8. Avoid listening to rumors; these rumors are
spread by people who don’t have what to do,
they keep gathering false info and then they
spread it to you. the majority of them have
intensions which aren’t good. Some are
interested in your lover, they admire the way h/
she cares and loves you. So they build up fake
stories just to make you hate and dump your
partner and in turn they replace you. Watch out
for them.
9. Avoid being nagging all the time; stop
accusing your lover falsely all the time just
because you want him or her to be guilty, you
well know that your partner wasn’t involved in
something but you’re constantly pinning him or
her. why?, stop your games of complaining all
the time over small things just because you want
your lovers attention and to be the controller.
Such acts may make your partner start losing
the love they had for you hence paving a way for
a break up.
10. Don’t be a dependant to your partner; Try
contributing in some things, seriously stop being
a parasite to your guy, share the bills together
and have a say in some things since you’re also
part of the relationship. Don’t make your partner
to be the controller and the decision maker of
the relationship.
11. Be honest to your lover; Avoid lying and
fooling your partner, lies won’t get you any prize,
stick on the truth no matter it’s hurting
sometimes.
12. Respect your lover; if he is the man or she’s
woman of your life then why disrespecting him or
her? Don’t back at your partner, pay attention to
what h/she says, don’t undervalue him or her, be
a listening mate and do what your lover wants.
13. Give your man or woman some privacy;
Avoid checking each and everything of his or
hers, give your lover some space and freedom,
try to have some trust in your partner no matter
you don’t stay or move together, don’t touch your
mate’s phone. Seriously you found your lover
with friends; h/she has to keep in touch with
them. They are not his girlfriends or her
boyfriends. Your girl is that beautiful type, she
has guys that try to corn her but she doesn’t
love them and she can’t sleep with any. It’s you
that she chose out of a million men that
approach her. She loves you.
14. Stop bringing back the past; I know your
partner jazzed you about his or her past
experiences in love which weren’t so good. But
stop rerating everything h/she does today to his
or her past. Let it not be a daily song or a
weapon to use to silent your dude or babe all the
time. Seriously your partner jazzed you about it
because h/she loves you so much and needed
you to know him or her very well.
15. Always mean it when you tell your partner
that you love him or her; Don’t just say that word
just to make your mate feel good, let it be from
the heart and accompany it with actions that will
make your dude or babe believe it that you truly
adore him or her.......For Love And Relationship
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I can't read that textbook above

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Op Op.... Most of what you said can lead to friend zoning na