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My humble opinion is it will take a while for you to find this strange friend you are seeking. How do you determine someones age from a chat that's not 15 minutes old?

SexyStrawberry:
That means ur not up to 30, I can't just delete u without having a conversation with u first.

I added you but then you deleted me again

SexyStrawberry:
Pls only add if ur above 30

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Both

Emeraldcute:
Ass or boobs, which turns u on? Quickly

There is a level of wisdom and understanding required to understand and apply the Bible. I am not the only one who has mentioned that the passage used is wrong. Don't in anyway misinterprete or misapply the Bible if you don't understand it. I can't argue with you. I am correcting you ni.

There is a wide difference with the maid mentioned in quoted verse and handmaiden (see vs 23 of quoted chapter)

Toks2008:
Some people can argue o.kai

Are maids not females? or girls? which one be house help wey you join?

man slave
male servant
gate man

all na man

some versions use girl
some maids
and some in the next verses even spelt it out so we are on same page bro.

quote author=Toks2008 post=36940659]

lol..

its the same bro lady,girl,woman,girl servant...a maid no be man nah habba.[/quote]

It's not the same bro. The maid there in the Bible refers not to househelp. Don't equate both.

Toks2008:
lol..

its the same bro lady,girl,woman,girl servant...a maid no be man nah habba.

Please, that Bible passage you quoted is really wrong for this kind of post. The maid in the passage refers not to a househelp. You missed it on this.

As regards other points raised, I raise a glass of wine to you.

Toks2008:
THE MAID FACTOR...A must read for every lady

I just got a disturbing news from my neighborhood about a man who just got their house maid pregnant and this is why i decided to write this article for everyone to read but before i continue i will like to quote this scripture not to justify the act but to lay emphases on how strange it is:

"There are three things that are too amazing for me, four that I do not understand:The way of an eagle in the sky, The way of a serpent on a rock, The way of a ship in the middle of the sea, And the way of a man with a maid" Proverbs 30:18-19.

I get so surprised when a woman finds out that her hubby is making out with a maid and she uses words like "How could you? a COMMON MAID"

Now ladies open your eyes and widen your reasoning faculty and get this straight.

Men are visual,we think about sex way more than you do as women and we are very polygamous by nature meaning we naturally love to be with as many ladies as possible but if you find a man who is decent and disciplined then such a man is a rare breed.

The Nigerian mentality that your level in life is determined by how much money you make or your educational background is quite honestly annoying; every occupation should be accorded it's dignity, housemaids offer an essential service to the society and should be respected as such.

That stated, when a woman fails to realize that part of the seduction process involves the respect and care she offers her husband I.e in the little things she does, like making him food, paying attention to his attire, etc if she totally reneges on these duties and leaves it to the housemaid, she effectively sets up her husband to be seduced by the housemaid; besides, a housemaid is so awestruck by the attention she receives from the master of the house, she is willing to submit to a lot of things madam no longer deems necessary and if you're a man, you know there's nothing more flattering nor seductive than a willing woman....

In short, it is my opinion that when a man begins to cast a lustful glance at the housemaid,in most cases it's a symptom that madam is neglecting her duties somewhere.

Wait guys, i am not promoting randy lifestyle or justifying the shameless act of sleeping with a maid not because SHE IS A MAID but how can you have your wife in the same house and yet sleeping with a maid? This is arrant nonsense i must say

But then to the women, please if you must get a house maid, do not go for the type with conspicous sexual body features.

Lets leave hypocrisy, if my wife brings home a maid that has sweet curves, i will call her to order and ask her to send the maid back. Prevention is better than fighting temptation.

A maid is human, a maid was born the same way you were born, a maid has the same feminine sexual features just as you have and even usually younger,Stop employing matured maids if you have a man at home to prevent unpleasant situation.

If you like ,start saying you trust your husband, he can not do this or that but by the time it happens, don't say i have not warned you.

Be wise

For those still having issues with Fidelity, information from a reliable source says they are actually being sanctioned by CBN. If you can try other banks, I believe it's better

If you are not in haste, use NIPOST. Tell them you want to do registered mail to Germany. It will get there in two weeks. When I did mine last year, it cost me #650.

michlan:
Pls which courier service is the cheapest for me to send my application. I checked ups and it was stated for around 16k. Can I get a cheaper one?

Well based on your query, I did a search. Except if this is not the course you want . But yes, there is a tuition free Masters in Berlin. Check https://www.daad.de/deutschland/studienangebote/international-programs/en/?p=d&s=kr&id=1324#q=&degree[]=2&fos[]=4&subject=670&langDistribution=0&cit[]=19&fee[]=1&sortBy=1&page=1&display=list

lobito007:
Bros, this that you have stated here is mere theory o. Daad is one of the most comprehensive search engines one could come across, so it has nothing to hide. With 'Berlin' selected in the 'location>city' section, and all other boxes unchecked to allow for the maximum number of outcomes, there was no single institution; public or private offering tuition-free MSc programmes in engineering. Maybe you missed the 'engineering' part
before posting your comment.

The only clause here may be that such schools actually exist but are not in daad's database. If you have knowledge of this, I would appreciate you listing them. Danke!

Not really 8040, but something at least

Williamso:
Whollup guyz, whollup just whollup! For the cities that give only 1 year residence permit, does it mean one will have to raise another 8k to renew the permit for the second year?

You downplay almost every other persons suggestions without giving yours.

Icon4s:
Op to tell you tthe truth. With a 2:2 u are screwed up bt nt completely.
The Nigerian system has it that after school u go looking for job. The easiest way to stand out of d crowd of millions of fresh graduates is to make atleast a 2:1 bc this puts u at d higher 10% percentile and increases ur chance of being shortlisted for aptitude tests.

Ur 2:2 puts u in d popular basket where most graduates fall into making u having to compete with almost every graduate for d few available position.In this case ur chance of getting that job becomes slimmer.

Peeps have come here shouting it doesnt matter," what u need is connection", "Grace of God", "Go for ur masters", "become self employed", "go for certifications"," what employers look at is skills & nt result". Yes it works for some. But note it that:

-Not everybody has d necessary connections. Some pple bc their uncle is a gate man in a company feel they have connection.

-God rewards hard work with excellence. U didnt play ur part as a student and at d end of d day expect God to come and work wonders. Miracles are nt common that is y they are called miracles.

-U are adviced by some to go for masters.Note that in most cases what will still give u dat job is ur first degree. Masters changes little or nothing. U are still goinf back for more theories with little or no industry experience. If u graduate at 21 or 22yrs better for u. But when u graduate at 26-28yrs and then go for master by d time u are out u are already over 30yrs and that further compound ur woes bc most companies put a maximum age of 24-27.

-Some say become self employed. Note dat it is nt everybody that has d entrepreneural skills.If u study a course dat u can use to practise better for u. Eg: Architecture, Civil Engineering, Pharmacy, mayb Law. Bt for some causes d Nigerian situation cannot allow u practise except u seek employment.

-Some say get certifications.If u like get 100 certifications, the first thing employers use to select candidates for fresh graduate position is 1st degree.

-Some say companies focus more on skills or what u can do. This can only apply for experienced positions. What employers need for graduate trainee applicants is that paper degree ceritificate.

The advice i can give to a graduate with 2:2 depends on:
-The person's age
-The course studied
-Location of residence among others.

However, remember i said a person with 2:2 is screwed up bt nt completely. I am implying dat it is bad bt u can still help ur self. Jst dat u have to work extra hard and in most cases nt likely to get a job as quickly as 1:1 & 2:1 graduates.

Students that still have d opportunity should learn from this thread.

I dnt want to talk abt pple with 3rd class and pass.

Same in my area here. @bolded.

I am just saying, for peeps who are not probably lucky to be in areas where 2 years is given at a stretch, beware!!!

adenjnr:
Here you get your resident and work permit immediately and very day of your appointment. So am not sure that provision applies.

Good to hear Berlin gives 2 years straight. Not so everywhere else and I am sorry for the generalised statement. But without loss of generality, I think I am to a large extent right.

adenjnr:
Please and please don't try this in Berlin, less you risk not getting appointment to get your resident permit. Nobody will give you job without your resident and work permit, you will only delay your hustle. Also, here in Berlin you get 2 years straight and it doesn't matter when you applied, it starts reading from the day your visa was issued or from the day you left Nigeria depending on who attend to you.

Everything here is by appointment (even to open a bank account) unlike other small city where you can work up there and be attended to.

Idea is, for some schools, you are provided with buddies who are to see you through baby steps of settling in and registered. These guys tend to want to finish all the processes so they can get their pay. Hence a lot of you would be bundled to the Rathaus to convert your 3 month VISA received in Nigeria to a 1 year one for study. This way you get to waste quite a number of days on the VISA obtained from Nigeria. Fast forward a year later, you get to renew your VISA for one additional year. If you happened to change your 3 months earlier than usual, you get invited earlier. Hence you get to begin to hustle for a fresh amount for VISA renewal. If you did same say 2 months or more after your arrival, you also get invited later in the year. Thus way, you would have had good hustling during the summer holidays after your first year and cashed up more than it should have been if earlier.
Takia.

aibee01:
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please explain better boss..ich verstehe nicht.

A word of caution for all the guys coming in. For your VISA renewal, don't allow any buddy push you into getting the 1year VISA required for your studies. You can do it when your 3 months issued in Lagos is about finishing. Also, if you have a community of Naija peeps, you guys can stagger the renewal so that in 2016 summer/winter, you can crowdsource funds for for 2nd year renewal. This is coming from experience. Ciao!

Bros, if you come, no go puma or be like ben johnson. Settle in before buying a bicycle. @Zee is married to a citizen and perhaps works. We student have our 8040 euros and some arbeit to survive. When you ready buy bicycle, you go see better bicycle buy from student like you for give away prices. Good bikes are quite expensive cause it's hotcake here. Seen more than one friend buy bikes of between 40-60 euro.

uchezdedon:
Nice info. @ zeeblam. Please concerning d bycicle, like how much is it in gemany?

Ewoo!!!! My cover is blown aber kein problem. I will take time to attend to the interview as time goes on. My next 11 days are hellish. In fact, I have a 1hour oral exam on Monday. Covers study of two semesters. But my spare time will be spent here for relaxing.

Na him be say no more ghostmode for me be that. @Eke, good one though

Eke40seven:
Oga Jahjehovah!! one of the pioneering member of this great thread. Your contributions are still well entrenched in my own mind.
The in house interview featured people like Ogbeche77, Emeka55, Kelly4top, Topeajis, and so on and so forth in the last edition.
Thanks for bracing this occasion. You can take your time to entertain these questions
1. Please, introduce yourself,
course, school and city.
2. How does German educational system differ
from the system you were used to?
3. What academic challenge(s) did you face or are
you facing currently and how are/did you tackling/
tackle them?
3. What is your (academic) advise to prospective
Nigerian student coming over to study?
(summarised)
4. Do your school have a sizeable number of
international students and what is the state of
interaction like with them?
5. Did you find it difficult integrating into the
society and how were you able to overcome it if
you had?
6. In your opinion, do you think a hard working
Nigerian student with a particular result can
maintain his/her academic performance in
Germany with the same efforts? A scale will be
appreciated, I know time is not the only or the
best measure of hard work but For instance,
A spends 6 hours of study everyday in Nigeria,
GPA=4
". ". ". ". ". ". ". in Germany GPA=?
7. Like in any society, there are distractions or
factors that reduces performance, what are the
major culprits in Germany for an unenlightened
Nigerian JJC?
8. Most of the male or even females at one time or
the other would have fantasized having a German
Prince or princess, what are their chances? Do the
shy Germans gals take to Nigerians? Can Ahbie, crowns or Amahtrendy get their prince charming easily?
9. List 5 most important items an intending new
comer should bring along to Germany.
10. Give 5 most important tip to surviving in
Germany, jobs and all.
11 on a scale of 1-10 rate your city in terms of hustle and the closest best place in terms of jobs to your city
11. Just give your opinion on these claims below
by indicating with an Agree (A), Neutral (N) or
Disagree (D)
a. Germans are cold
b. They hate late coming
c. They are racist
D. They don't have time for chitchat
E. They are introverts
F. They love beer
P.s. I understand that these questions may be too
much to answer at a go, you can answer them bit
by bit at your convenience if its gonna take its toll
on you. Thank you and God bless.

CC: Cindino, Zeeblamj, Futurewiser

which in house interview bros?

Eke40seven:
You can PM Naijaobi, he is in the University of Geissen too. He is my good friend too I will tell him someone here is seeking his assistance.
@Zeeblamj, Daimlerbenz, you are also on the roll call for our in house interview...

I stumbled over this. I will ask you be patient, listen and perhaps pass it on.

I don't know who the speaker is, but listening to him I sure know he's speaking the truth

https://video-fra3-1.xx.fbcdn.net/hvideo-xfa1/v/t42.1790-2/10995777_10153073342067171_1067477045_n.mp4?efg=eyJybHIiOjMwMCwicmxhIjo5MDB9&rl=300&vabr=83&oh=7afadfb7f937ddc0b6c2dac0e2d1efb2&oe=55C4D8F0

Humble advice, go in for your masters immediately. Do well, pray, you might just see a prof build interest in you. He gets you a lecturership, you obtain your PhD and then become a prof. Finally enter politics.

nobleens:
With the high rate of students graduating from the Nigerian institutions, what is the hope of a 2.2, third and pass holder in the Nigerian labour market?

Opinions please..

Lemme try number 2 and 3.

2) You could say for better and faster integration to your environment. You have read/heard stories of Nigerians finding it quite hard to smoothly integrate into the german system due to weak German profficiency. So in order to stem that, you are strengthening bebefore you arrive Germany. Another reason could be that whether you strengthen or not, your German knowledge might not be able to cope with German studies.

3) Germany is the technological hub of Europe and miles ahead in this area. Studies in Germany will give your a strong stand in your career since you will be learning from the best in the field. (When the V.O asked me similar question last year I simply told her, I like Benz. I own and drive one, seeing the quality of the car, I am sure Germany will provide quality education for me - note, Na UniStuttgart bin dey apply for)

My two maultasen slices

iyke20024:
Guys I seriously need some advice.

A friend of mine in paderborn told me how problematic paderborn ausländerborhorde is but don't believe I would have some problem.

I got some more questions from Nigeria embassy from the aliens office.

I need to know the motives and some tips on what to say. Though some questions here is personal and I know what to say. But seriously need your input.

I think I answered all this question during interview. But this one's coming straight from aliens office. Some question I think is unnecessary


with regards to your visa application, please be informed that the Aliens Authority of your future place of residence would like you to answer some additional questions:



1. During the interview, you stated that you are going to finance the stay in Germany on your own. Please specify how you will come up for the requested financial means.

2. Why would you like to deepen your German language first and then study in English language?

3. What advantages are you going to take for your personal future by studying in Germany?

Regards

Uwc

ogagaejay:
Daimlerbenz and twinkle1
I gbadun u,
For the changes from misfortune to fortune, it is not by my power or like I say sometimes "what must be must be" never correct. it's simply the handiwork of God. God will favour those He will favour. We all must never forget GOD. I know what I am saying.
@daimlerbenz. Thanks for the advice. I will stick to what you have said. God's grace be with you my brothers.

Your blood too dey boil. See as you dey fret like wetin I no know. Just do your interview already. I told you what to do after your interview. Simply write to them stating your enrollment deadline. The extension is for you and you only. See it as a bonus. With the information that your enrollment is due in September, the embassy should put you on express mode. In fact you should pressurise them to attend to you by that date. If it's not coming positive, you can now inform them say few days to the enrollment deadline that you have just been granted an extension to the enrollment and you will not like to miss the new date.

I hope this will help you.

For those with flight issue, I must tell you, if you no get money for Lufthansa, try others. Lufthansa is known to be expensive, luxurious and fast (if them no delay before taking off). For those from Lagos axis, you have more options. Emirates, Qatar, Etihad - luxurious but time consuming(19-35hours). AirFrance, KLM, BA, Turkish - not as luxurious as the gulf guys but way faster (Between 9-14hours). For the African airlines, my only recommendation is Ethiopian. Egypt will waste your time, Royalairmaroc - Never enter this airline, a word is enough.

ogagaejay:
Hello guys,
My enrollment date has been extended. The secretary has informed me that if I cannot make it before the deadline which is 25th september, I can still enroll by or before the 9th of october. This was done in the form of an email message and not a document that I can tender. I don't know whether to inform the embassy or just wait until the day of my interview and do that. Also since there is no document to this effect, I don't know how I can pass it over to the embassy. Guys, Please say something

All you have to do now is prepare for your interview. At the end of it, send the embassy reminders stating the deadline for enrollment. Like some contributors said, apply for an extension if possible, if not granted, you can forward that to the embassy as proof of a need for them to respond your case urgently.

Book your flight ticket also.

ogagaejay:
@daimlerbenz my account is fully funded already. It was with the confirmation that I booked this appointment

IMHO you are just overworking yourself. Focus on doing other things possible to help your travelling. I can't say for now, but in our time, plenty got letters to come pick their VISA a few days after the embassy got notification of account deposit. So, if you have not done that, do so. Let everything that will work towards your travelling be off your hand. If you have not funded your account, do so. Begin to make other preparations. If possible, send the letter of account credit immediately you leave the embassy from your interview. Hope for the best. Stop worrying.

ogagaejay:
Guys. They embassy shifted my appointment backward with just a day. It is now 1st of september. The first day of my enrolment is 21 to end 25th september. Please tell me if I you think I am save with the processing period . Also I need to contact some one who has don't his/her interview.

I have watched for a while and seen your worries. But I must tell you to exercise some patience. If the Consul says to wait till 3 weeks before you book, please do that. My simple advice is to ensure that you book exactly on that date. If you are then given a date that is unfavourable, you can write to them asking for a review. During my time, I know many peeps who booked after me and got dates for interview before mine.

I also spoke to some a the guys here in Stuttgart and found out one of us was actually banned for 5 weeks for not showing up. So yours is not the first. If the guy who was banned for 5 weeks could make it, then you can.

My, advice as regards the guy who wants to help you, it might just worsen the scenario. Germans are stickler for rules. They don't care who you are, just follow the rules.

My one cent.

ogagaejay:
Hello guys, I contacted a friend of mine who has been of tremendous help to me all through the application process, a German who is not coloured. He was willing to talk to the embassy on my behalf and has asked for my application document. What I don't know is the angle from which he will be handling this for me. He has told me not to expect much from him. House, tell me. Could he turned to the alien authority or the embassy. Can he submit my document directly to the alien authority? Or when he contact the embassy will they listen to him. Please tell me what you think on this

If you are in Germany, you should find out from your school and from the school you are going to. From what I know, ECTS is transferable.

isidollarboy:
Good day everyone,
please I want to know if swapping of schools is doable in Germany let's say for example,

"Someone got admitted to university of freigburg in electrical engineering after spending one year or more,  The person decides to switch to university of cologne in mechanical engineering.

Note: different locations and course but the courses are under engineering.

My reasons; I planned to apply for electrical engineering and information technology in Hochschule Ravensburg-weingarten in this summer opening then maybe after a year or more as the case maybe, I can now move to my field course in mechanical engineering maybe different state since I couldn't find a mechanical engineering summer admission openings. It's a Bsc program


Please is this kind of thing possible? 

oga justwise, eke40seven, dolpaz, obinwann , De29ja and all people who has been helpful in this thread. I see una!!! More blessings.
Thanks

Hey bro. I said little or no hausas are in Stuttgart.

Did the number of shoes sway her, hell yes. Does living large surprise them whites? Hell yes.

BTW, I like hausa girls. If you know anyone free, I am game.

jerryunit48:
Yes there is nobody who don't want to marry a millionaire and you might be right on the social system issue but bro you telling me that because you bought 8 pairs changed her character ? , she is just a sales girl so even if you buy the whole shop it really don't add to her pay, you also said there are no Hausa people here ? i can show you a few , true they don't travel a lot but there are quit a few and by the way do you know that our Nigerian officials always come here for medical checkup ? I have met a lot of Hausa girls that came with Alhajis here just go to Heidelberg or Wiesbaden, there is a special hotel they always lodge I think everything is taken care of by Nigerian government ,I know what am talking I have met a lot of them but well you might be right about the sales girl

Put the white lady in similar situation like the black lady and find out if she will remain who you say she is. They have here a very strong social security system that caters for the elderly well enough. So the average white girl

Who doesn't like money?

Myself and a friend went to a shoe shop yesterday. On getting inside, we tried calling the salesgirls to help locate some shoes. Her response was "all the shoes are here and here and here, look for them yourselves". Quite cold I must say. At the end of our purchase, we came to the counter with about 8 pairs. Surprised, this same cold attendant suddenly became all smiles. Her next question was, which country are you from? We answered. Next thing she said was, oh I like Nigerians. They are very nice. I had a friend from there, name is Ahmed Jimoh. Note, very few or no northeners are here in Stuttgart. How they hell did she meet an Ahmed Jimoh in Stuttgart who didn't live in Stadt Mitte and suddenly became friendly.

Simple answer = Cash.

If there is anything women worldwide and every other thing answer to, it is to money.

So, boys beefing Black girls for loving money are in dreamland. Do white girls like money, hell YES. Except she ain't a woman.

BTW, even men answer to money.


[quote author=jerryunit48 post=36401558]Thanks a lot for your contribution , now the purpose of this thread is to know why guys are looking at the other side , now I met a guy who told me that many black girls are after money that after a hard day's job white girls understands and they kind of know how to treat you but most naija girls will talk about how you should help her people back which is the last thing he needed to hear at that moment , again not all girls are like that and really some guys too are problematic , but you are right on point[/quot

teasel:
Don't forget to pray for the idiotic Nigerian males digracing themselves all over the world by scamming, drug pushing, decapitating British soldiers, suicide bombing etc.. The average Nigerian man is ugly inside and outside with a very deep inferiority complex and definitely doesn't deserve a good woman, foreign or not.
Deal with the bitter truth.

The bolded is not just for a Nigerian man. It's the definition of mortal MAN.

I had not spent up to two months before I was scammed in Germany. Definitely not by Nigerians. I was so at ease believing all is well. Now I know better.

The way you guys are tackling each other, speaking so evil about the unfaithful Naija guy and the selfish Naija girl is so scary.

since birds of a feather flock together, I am brought to conclude that most people here bashing and hanging are deliberately blind to this fact. Look inwards. Why do you attract who you attract? You can't be unfaithful and expect to get a faithful partner. You can't be self serving and expect otherwise. Perhaps, you are 95% of the problem. Think! Take action! Change!