₦airaland Forum

Mushmush:
This guy must be a joker. How could he have made such a heavy and false allegation against Seyi Tinubu? No nah. This should be condemned by all. I hate blackmailers with a passion. Well he should face the consequences of his actions alone.

His name na Atiku ... Unserious fellow

Helinuse:
The cause of the war is the same thing that causes war always:

I S L A M

Their ideology is horrible. Kill everyone even family members based on religious beliefs and at least die, 70 big breasted virgins and plenty of wine in heaven for them, something that is haram on earth

God1000:
India and Pakistan are two nuclear armed countries, I hope this doesn't get out of hand

Conflicts everywhere

I can't even imagine. Pakistan was carved out of India.... Like Pakistanis are Indians oh. Like brothers in war. Same with Russia/ Ukraine war. Middle Eastern countries are Abrahams descendants too... Lord help us oh 🙏 😭

It's been quite amazing to see family wars cause these are family members who have grown into nations warring to kill themselves

Richtaiwo:
First thing those people will say is, it is a lie from the pit of hell, and will start searching everywhere to confirm the report. While searching, they will be praying and fasting that let it not be true.

When they finally discover it is true, then come the next step: they will now say, is it his money he used in clearing the debt? I sabi those people even beyond themselves.

Obasanjo cleared the debts, other presidents especially of Northern / South south extraction sunk Nigeria back into debt. Tinubu has now cleared the IMF debts again. Tinubu should also negotiate and pay off world bank loans so Naija is totally free of debt... Andwe must not allow the North who never seem to have any vision for economic progress to steal whatever painful gains and economic progress we will make at the end of the day.

I don't know why we lack the capacity to be able to process or produce steel by ourselves. We can't even mine some solid minerals ourselves

youngsahito:
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. They are seeing what you all can't see.

All their eyes see na green card

Keep up the fight.

We need such competitive market in oil and gas industry. NNPC has almost finished us with constant fuel scarcity and price increases.. . For the first time depot criminals and marketers that hoard fuel are complaining that they're losing money as hoarding no dey pay again

The fight must continue, that way we will be seeing fuel prices coming down from stiff competition.

id4sho:
Which kind waste

Marry her and see if when she relocate she cannot fend for herself or team up with you. That she is a graduate is an asset. At least she's taken care of herself till now. You're not God to think without you she can't make it

So if you're letting her go after 6 years, no be waste be that You didn't let her go at 23, 24. It is now that she's 29 you're thinking of letting her go. Go where at 29, you get sense so Baba nla time waster ni e. The thunder that will fire you dey do press up

Xavier0978:
Hey guys,

Please, I need your opinion on this issue. So I’ve known my girlfriend since NYSC 2019, and ever since then, we’ve been best of friends. I travelled out in 2022, but we still kept in touch and from there we started dating. I’m 29 and she’s also 29. Honestly, I have plans to settle down and marry her when things are right.

A quick note: she’s been trying to come over to meet me as a student ever since I got here, but for one reason or the other it hasn’t worked out (Canada visa rejections and all). Now, she’s talking about how she plans to settle down before her next birthday and even suggested that I marry her while she waits in Nigeria for a maximum of two years before joining me. She really just wants to get married.

To be honest, I currently work and I’m also doing another master’s program in a very reputable institution here in Canada, and I will be done this year. The stress of working and schooling is a lot, and my current workplace pays the barest minimum. I literally have nothing left after sorting out all my bills and expenses. I’m not financially ready to settle down right now, and I even gave her a timeline of two years. Worst case, no matter what, we’ll settle down in two years max. Let me try and fix things for myself here. I can’t marry and bring someone’s daughter here to come and suffer.

I’m a worried person. My dreams are really big and God knows I’m working tirelessly to achieve them. She also knows because I discuss everything with her. Honestly, I understand her point of view, but I’m the kind of person that gets really anxious easily. It would kill me to get married, have kids, and not be able to cater for them.

I know you can’t have everything financially before settling down, but I want at least a moderately stable job. One that allows me to take care of her confidently even if she comes over and doesn’t work immediately. To be honest, my job pay is very low, like unimaginably low, and I’m just barely surviving. I’ve pictured every possible scenario, thinking and planning ahead, but everything is pointing to one answer — I’m not ready.

Considering her age and the kind of person she is, I strongly believe that after marriage she will want kids and to start building a family. That’s not a bad thing, but I, as a man, don’t want to get stuck in that life yet because I know the kind of future I envision. I’ve always promised myself that I won’t raise a family on “manage-manage.” I feel like if I get married now and start raising a family, my focus will shift entirely to making sure they live well, which could make me lose track of my personal goals.

I swear, I know my girlfriend loves me. That’s not in doubt. But I’ve been pleading with her to give me at least two more years. If after that things are still not great, then we’ll settle down and manage until something better comes.

Right now, to be honest, I don’t even have anything financially to plan a small wedding, and I definitely won’t borrow or ask anyone for financial support to do a wedding.

Please, I want your honest opinion. The two options here are: either get married before this time next year or end the relationship now, as there are other people already asking for her hand in marriage.

Is she not a graduate?

Marry her, she can work and make money too. Except she's a bimbo with no education or skill. Build together.

Once you have money now, if don't chase ladies, dem go chase you.

Marry her, you're on the way to success, don't keep her waiting o, you don waste 6 years of her life already

Divinerace:
Who owns the company? A Nigerian or an Indian man

A football club owner has the right to pay any footballer the amount he wants, and if the footballer doesn't like the wage he is free to leave the clud

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Where is your humanity? Does that even follow the minimum wage law in Nigeria for workers

Islie:
https://dailytrust.com/drama-as-train-attack-victim-meets-his-abductor-at-kaduna-mosque/

The guy has not repented at all. He only came to do surveillance for his kidnap goons. You gave him money because all of you still believe in the religious ideology that raped, kidnap for ransom and other terrorist acts as enshrined is in your holey book is normal

Chai....Naijeriya

Thundafireseun:
You think he will complain to you??

The world is watching…. The sensible ones are condemning OYEDEPO’s actions….

The brainwashed brain dead are making excuses for what is wrong

Let's see if you're truly one of the "sensible ones"

Without checking:

- Who are the Senators and House of Reps members that are currently occupying offices in your state?
- How much money did they all receive as community project money?
- What are the names of the commissioners in your state and their job descriptions? What are their achievements till date
- Who is the current local government chairman in your area and the councillors?
- Do you even want to know what your state governor and deputy have done and if they're underperforming, what have you done about it?

If you're this concerned about Winners but less concerned about the ones in charge of the real developments and political officers being paid with taxpayers money? Then it shows you are really very "sensible"

AngelicBeing:
Gbamsulotely, l agree with your point, all the people that you mentioned above were from the same family but when Moses died, he handed over to Joshua as instructed by God Almighty and not to his family members

That's God, He can use family or not.

Leave Christian religion to God.

If the offspring is worthy, God continues with them, if not God moves elsewhere like Eli and the sons who were supposed to carry on were unworthy, so God chose Samuel.

Everyone should mind their business and leave God to choose for himself who He wants. You were not there when Oyedepo or Abioye were called. Your opinion didn't matter then, it became megachurch and now, it's your headache who succeeds him?

Thundafireseun:
You think he will complain to you??

The world is watching…. The sensible ones are condemning OYEDEPO’s actions….

The brainwashed brain dead are making excuses for what is wrong

Continue to use paracetamol for another man's headache.

whatmoreng:
But the question remains. Must it always be to family members?

Not always, look around. Chris Oyakhilome founded another church. Adeboye took over from a non family founder.

Thundafireseun:
Abioye did a lot to be sidelined in the end….

That’s my point

Abioye is not complaining, he's moving forward powerfully. Which one is the pity party you're holding for him?

Maxymilliano:
It's same everywhere.


Family business

Well, in the Bible, priesthood and levitical office holders were according to family.

God ordained Moses, Aaron, Hur, even Miriam, all siblings of the same family.

Yes, God is able to pass on priesthood to the offsprings if they are worthy and dedicated

whatmoreng:
Must it always be to family members? Jesus didn't hand over to his brother

God ordained Moses, Aaron, Hur, even Miriam, all siblings of the same family.

Yes, God is able to pass on priesthood to the offsprings if they are worthy and dedicated

MorataFC:
Ghen-gen
Blocking them hides their posts from us, making it hard to know their stance and making it impossible to correct them.
I would prefer a 'dislike' button to their posts over blocking, so we can see their views and respond accordingly.

Aproko Nairalander

Toymax88:
U understand my plight

They are not in any school in IBADAN, they are now SALES REPS in her OGOGORO shop

You didn't think of that before sending the children packing with your wife.

Mumu man, you waited till she dropped 3 kids and you came here to tell us you wanted to be sending money for public school education. Why can't you take them to the public school yourself and register them? You can not at least rent a separate apartment for your childrens sake instead of staying with an ogogoro seller Dey watch as your children become touts and ogogoro guzzlers

Imagine

Racoon:
Guess it is not the current ECOWAS that has long been reduced to a puppet for the neo-colonialists and wester powers to continue to subjugate the African continent? A regional block that can't advance the cause of the the West African subregion at any global level?

Hope it is not the same ECOWAS now filled with sit-tight power drunk geriatrics who support all manners of anti-democratic and anti-human policies to continue to impoverish their people

Hmmm

Which democratic gain?

Abeg abegi

I will not say anything

VnAhunnaPl:
May the good Lord bless Pastor Adeboye and his wife.

The pastor Adeboye bashers will avoid this thread like a plague.

Okay ooo

juwoonn:
He divorced her three times..lol sounds childish.
Once, twice or thrice...na the same divorce she chop.

It is an Islamic way of divorce. Say it three times, the wife must pack out of the house and can't come back

Gbadugbakun:
If he was your dad would you make this statement?

Someone's daddy should not be stupid enough to be dating a girl young enough to be his grandchild of secondary school age

Sonnobax15:

Oyinbo youths are busy venturing into science and technology but our own down here are busy on TikTok singing and dancing "LAHO" and "Na scra na scra" . TBH,who swear for black Africans as a whole no try at all

You want our youths to be doing which science and which technology

In JSS, how many government or private schools have a solid junior basic science Lab? Or basic technology workshop If they exist, they are empty or ill-equipped.

In senior secondary schools, how standard are the physics, chemistry, biology classes of both private and government schools?.... , are they taught robotics

Little stuffs that nursery, primary schools abroad have fun with as science materials cannot be found anywhere in most of our schools yet you're blaming Naija kids . Leave them to show their natural talents if the government cannot provide the conducive environment for those scientifically inclined.

There are few ones who build remote-controlled vehicles from scraps, drones etc, even generate electricity but do you see anyone supporting them to make their dreams come true

Are we ready for this conversation at All?

Antichristian2:
How are they given birth to then?

No be Judah sleep with his son's daughter in law to birth to the twins?

Judah slept with a widow. She was single at the time because her 2 husbands died.

Antichristian2:
How where they destroyed? Do you know how many incest exists in the old testament?

Even Jesus's ancestors are not spared.

One of the twins born in the end of Genesis 38 was among the genealogy of Jesus. It's incest!

Read that Genesis 38 carefully and let your comprehension kick in. The twins were definitely not conceived or born through incest.