Some people are not with you or without you, they are just nosy.
Who has never made a mistake; mistake from an urge to help, let him be the first to tarnish my image in the media, let him crop and retain only the suspicious scene and judge me now; now that I recount my loss and labour in pain alone.

“When misery unfolds in your very eyes and your previous rehearse of wisdom could not safe your sinking ship; mine was the mischief of my nosy ex..

D Mischief of my Nosy Ex and How the Story Unfolds..
A man was stranded in a city, wondering what to do and where to go. He remembered no one but his ex. Luck they say was on his side as he never bothered to delete his ex’s numbers from his memory. He called her with a borrowed phone asking for a favour. I am stranded in your city, I am robbed of all my cash and phones, Please call me back he said in a voice-mail prompt with his name reluctantly attached.

The ex now fiancee of another told him in a call back, what do you want me to do? call other of your friends, you can’t come to my house because my man will not welcome the idea neither do I. Not your house he said in a shivering voice like someone who has been been expose for hours under the western winter cold. All I need is some money for borrow, perhaps, just I can lodge in a hotel and have another to return home he begged in a convincing and x-romantic tone.

Sympathy paraded in her nerves with the conscience to help taking lead, she resulted, I’ll borrow you the money so you can book the hotel. Enter my car let me take you to a hotel she further helped.

Where were you? the fiance who just visited asked as she returned to her house.

I went to buy something for myself but the price was high so I didn’t bother she responded in a haste to go away. Of course, she also did go to market that day and she got the right not to incriminate herself. Doesn’t she?

The fiance continued to what gradually turned to be an interrogation. Is hotel now the new market? he baffled. What were you doing in a hotel with a man; a man all alone?. How long has this been going on? Question and question coming forth like the bullet from an assault rifle all bashing on her innocent but proven guilty face.

In disdain, the woman quavered, em em is not what you think?

I am not thinking, I am only confirming the trending news in the neighbourhood as I was standing by your locked door calling your phone that was of course switched off.

“nosy neighbours can sometime cause much damage than even the one you’ve tagged a nosy ex...

I can explain, I can explain, the woman insisted but as they say what will kill you will not afford you the chance to fight back.

My fiance and I are now back together after months of cat and rat sermons and summons, explanations, negotiations and interventions.

“A constant unknown missed call on an accused phone can raise suspicious doubt and can always ignite quenched fire when appeared name tallies with a known ex..

Can I blame my fiance for not believing in me or the robbers who stole from my ex or my ex whose memory kept my number only to result to anytime he is in need or perhaps, I should blame myself for being so foolishly kind if at all I was.

My sorrow is not the fault of any one person entirely but even at that, I see it to be “The Mischief of my Nosy Ex”

Do you have an ex, put them under a careful watch, their mischief though unintentional can turn to be a disaster especially in your new home call relationship.

Back to my matter. I am now planning to be under same roof called marriage soon which was halted. Now, I see Love, Love enough in his romantic gaze, I see within the dazzling light of that same gaze another message that seems to say “I don’t trust you entirely“.

Where is my nosy ex? hope he never calls again, for the problem he has caused me is many to be counted. Where are my accusers? long gone to their homes but they’ve retained in my husband ear their cropped message that went viral within his streams. Time they say heals all wounds, will mine ever be forgotten?……

Before judgement, let’s hear his own side of the story. Continue reading The Revenge of the One that Calls me Her Nosy Ex

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….written by Godfrey Damabel (www.godfreydamabel.com)

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“She is more than a thing; exulted above mere works of art to be cherished.
Some refers to her as the most wanted woman in the world, others calls her the missing rib but I call her the desired woman.
Does a woman have a defined purpose? What about her role? Most people have insinuated that the role of a woman is about helping the man fulfil his purpose. [url]How true is this[/url]?

THE DESIRED WOMAN (Her Pride, Her Beauty, Her Role and Her Purpose )

HER INTRO
“She has no confidence in charm and beauty but her delight is in the multitude of her many virtues(Her Pride, Her Beauty, Her Role and Her Purpose).
She is a woman of substance, dignity is her pride, the birds sings her song even the doves learn from her feet. She is a mother figure, a true example to womanhood, able to keep her home from shame and despair.

HER PRIDE
No accusation stands in her presence, her lips are sealed while her works proves her innocence.
She is the beloved of God and the wife to one in body and soul.
Lying lips and covetousness is driving away from her even from her accountable age.

"She is a woman of honour and dignity, blessed with grace and exotic surprises.

She is confident and elegant yet she answers only the call of her man. She lies only in his home and her footprint cannot be found in strange places.

HER BEAUTY
She is the hill of frankincense, she is the mountain of myrrh and aloes.
She is comely and beautiful and the fruit of her lips melts even the hottest iron.

“She has no confidence in charm and beauty but her delight is in the multitude of her many virtues; She is more than a thing, exulted above mere work of art to be cherished -Damabel

She is the strength of the husband, in the days of adversity she is the voice that is trustworthy, her food delights his soul and even in dim light her countenance heavens.
She is good at heart, her vessel is pure to behold, her flower turns red with the dew of the morning.
She bears fruits, pleasant fruits even in old age.

THE ROLE OF A DESIRED WOMAN
She is the desired woman because her role does not conflict her purpose.
She is skillful with craft of home, with wisdom and understanding she speaks and with kindness she wins the heart of her man.
Her husband sings her praise in the midst of his peers in daylight, her children’s heart is clothed with joy at her returning.

“The fruits of her hand is plenty, her possession is the song at the mountain top and yet she knows the hour to return home.

She is hospitable and charitable. She owns and nurtures her own vineyard. Her children sings her praise at the city gate.
She is priceless, cannot be seduced by material things, she increases in fortune and knows when and where to save. She is good and no evil counsel can be traced to her blossom nor it is retained in her locks. She works eagerly and willingly with her hands. She brings good tidings and calls a gardening for the profiting of the home.

THE PURPOSE OF A DESIRED WOMAN
Her glory is her crown, her husband is her glory.
She is wise she knows God’s word for herself. She yarns to be fruitful because she understands that children are gifts from God.

She subdues her earth with dominion mandate and her skills and talents are profiting beyond the city gate.

She brings light and salt.
She replenishes even that which was void and she brings to life what was dead.
she invents because she is intelligent, she leads because she has a mentoring spirit and she guides because she can discern.

SHE IS INDEED THE DESIRED WOMAN.
Mothers owns the home, she builds a house and makes it hospitable for all. Mothers nurture life and makes it grow and flourish.
All women are mothers. The inherent purpose of all women is motherhood. Whether a woman is married or single, and whether or not she has children, she is designed by God to fulfill the role of a mother in the lives of those around her.

“Dream lofty dreams, and as you dream, so shall you become. Your
Vision is the promise of what you shall one day be. —JAMES ALLEN

The father instills love and discipline into the children. The mother spice up this love and discipline with emotional flair so the child won’t be arrogant and proud. A mother teaches a child Coordination, approach, kindness and domestic fluency. A mother teaches a child simplicity, socialization, hospitality and respect. Yes this is what only a mother figure can provide.

#Dedicated to all the beautiful and potential mothers in the world.

#inspiredByMyMom
To access exclusive posts like IS LOVE REAL OR JUST AN ILLUSION?, ARE WOMEN REALLY THE WEAKER VESSEL? Etc visit https://godfreydamabel.com/category/relationship-matters/

-By Damabel Godfrey

Most people have asked the question who benefits more from a friend zone.
So I am currently taking a survey vote on my site beneath the article LET'S JUST BE FRIENDS (The Ten Hidden Meaning)

https://godfreydamabel.com/category/relationship-matters

Who benefit more from a friend zone?
-Guys
-Ladies
-Equally both
The picture bellow shows the result so far.
What do you guys think

The poll is ongoing check website to vote.
Do you agree with the result so far...above 50% are saying ladies benefit more from a friend zone while others are saying they benefit equally.

Someone said to make a guy loose interest in you within 5 minutes with 5 words just tell him “Let Us Just Be Friends”.

I hear this this slogan everyday in life conversation and in most chats. It seems to be youth’s most annoying and frequent word. Sometimes it’s hard to say yes or no and one is left with no choice than to say let’s just be friends as a neutral alternative.

A guy said nothing kills morale than the annoying let’s just be friends slogan, is like cutting short all expectations.
There is indeed a big difference between let’s just be friends and the interesting give me more time, the old school I will think about it and the hallelujah I will pray about it.

"I can never be friend zoned.. but when I do I get benefit" what does it mean, when a girl/guy you thought all was set suddenly turns to you and say let’s just be friends.

#1 POLITE WAY OF SAYING NO

Most ladies believes that saying no to a guy is rude especially if he had been kind and loving , the only way of not been rude is to say let’s just be friends which is a suitable alternative to no.
Guys on the other end also believes same and even more. Majority of girls cannot afford rejection so saying no may affect her self esteem and she may automatically see you as her enemy of progress.
Therefore saying you are awesome and I still want us to be good friend is a good, civilised and acceptable way of saying the forbidden NO word.

#2 I AM AFRAID OF COMMITMENT
Most people want to be loved and cared for but do not want to be committed as they believe such might cut out there chances with others or tie them down when they still got time and the world to explore.
Let's forget the commitment and keep the benefit.

#3 THEY ARE UNCERTAIN OF THEIR PLANS
When someone is uncertain of the plan for his or her life, that person is likely to be uncertain about making a decision to be with you also.
#4 THE PRINCE CHARMING SAGA
A lady who had watched so many romantic Disney fantasy movies have an illusion of love. So do not take it personal because she is expecting prince charming.
Men also have their own illusion about the ancient missing rib.......

#5 MESSAGE FROM PAST RELATIONSHIP
A girl/guy who had experienced a bad relationship in the past will more often than not have let’s just be friends as a slogan for sometime. Is not that he/she doesn’t want you is just that more time is needed to be certain or perhaps he/she is not ready for another cycle of emotional drama.........................................................

To read complete post, to view result and participate in the ongoing poll(Man or woman who benefits more from a friend zone?) and exclusive post like Love:what does it really mean?, The desired woman(Her Pride, beauty, role and purpose) visit

https://godfreydamabel.com/category/relationship-matters/

Some refers to her as the most wanted woman in the world, others calls her the missing rib but I call her the desired woman.
Does a woman have a defined purpose? What about her role? Most people have insinuated that the role of a woman is about helping the man fulfil his purpose. How true is this?

THE DESIRED WOMAN (Her Pride, Her Beauty, Her Role and Her Purpose )

HER INTRO
“She has no confidence in charm and beauty but her delight is in the multitude of her many virtues(Her Pride, Her Beauty, Her Role and Her Purpose).
She is a woman of substance, dignity is her pride, the birds sings her song even the doves learn from her feet. She is a mother figure, a true example to womanhood, able to keep her home from shame and despair.

HER PRIDE
No accusation stands in her presence, her lips are sealed while her works proves her innocence.
She is the beloved of God and the wife to one in body and soul.
Lying lips and covetousness is driving away from her even from her accountable age.

"She is a woman of honour and dignity, blessed with grace and exotic surprises.

She is confident and elegant yet she answers only the call of her man. She lies only in his home and her footprint cannot be found in strange places.

HER BEAUTY
She is the hill of frankincense, she is the mountain of myrrh and aloes.
She is comely and beautiful and the fruit of her lips melts even the hottest iron.

“She has no confidence in charm and beauty but her delight is in the multitude of her many virtues; She is more than a thing, exulted above mere work of art to be cherished -Damabel

She is the strength of the husband, in the days of adversity she is the voice that is trustworthy, her food delights his soul and even in dim light her countenance heavens.
She is good at heart, her vessel is pure to behold, her flower turns red with the dew of the morning.
She bears fruits, pleasant fruits even in old age.

THE ROLE OF A DESIRED WOMAN
She is the desired woman because her role does not conflict her purpose.
She is skillful with craft of home, with wisdom and understanding she speaks and with kindness she wins the heart of her man.
Her husband sings her praise in the midst of his peers in daylight, her children’s heart is clothed with joy at her returning.

“The fruits of her hand is plenty, her possession is the song at the mountain top and yet she knows the hour to return home.

She is hospitable and charitable. She owns and nurtures her own vineyard. Her children sings her praise at the city gate.
She is priceless, cannot be seduced by material things, she increases in fortune and knows when and where to save. She is good and no evil counsel can be traced to her blossom nor it is retained in her locks. She works eagerly and willingly with her hands. She brings good tidings and calls a gardening for the profiting of the home.

THE PURPOSE OF A DESIRED WOMAN
Her glory is her crown, her husband is her glory.
She is wise she knows God’s word for herself. She yarns to be fruitful because she understands that children are gifts from God.

She subdues her earth with dominion mandate and her skills and talents are profiting beyond the city gate.

She brings light and salt.
She replenishes even that which was void and she brings to life what was dead.
she invents because she is intelligent, she leads because she has a mentoring spirit and she guides because she can discern.

SHE IS INDEED THE DESIRED WOMAN.
When a woman is married she becomes more than a woman, she is now a wife and even more, she is now a mother.
Mothers owns the home, she builds a house and makes it hospitable for all. Mothers nurture life and makes it grow and flourish.

“Dream lofty dreams, and as you dream, so shall you become. Your
Vision is the promise of what you shall one day be. —JAMES ALLEN

The father instills love and discipline into the children. The mother spice up this love and discipline with emotional flair so the child won’t be arrogant and proud. A mother teaches a child Coordination, approach, kindness and domestic fluency. A mother teaches a child simplicity, socialization, hospitality and respect. Yes this is what only a mother figure can provide.

#Dedicated to all the beautiful and potential mothers in the world.

#inspiredByMyMom
To see other Inspiring post visit my website www.godfreydamabel.com
-By Damabel Godfrey