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cassyrooy:
you're just behaving childishly

why?

Goldmynemaniac:
To all psych majors, note that when a woman tells you her age you should plus 5 years to it to adjust for deflation.

Op, that lady is older than you. Women don't reveal true age.

nah I saw this one

fyzaila:
People saying she will age faster than you, that is a very big lie. Men nowadays look more older than their age. And you said she looks way younger than 26 then what is the problem there now. See op don't underrate peace of mind and happiness o especially when it coming from your spouse or potential spouse. Honestly the combo is very rare 2 find in one woman.
Forget age it is just a number as they say. Just eat right, exercise regularly, build good companionship and bonding that's all.

hmm thabks some people have been yabbing me

Qatar2022:
Only dating no problem but no marriage hell no

why not

Nairalander01:
Just asking;
Is the age thing causing any problem in your relationship at the moment?
Except you’re bent on having someone you want to ‘lord over’; otherwise what you should be focused on is her attributes as a person.

Is she naturally kind to people around her?
Does she love/respect your family?
Is she industrious?

They’re more important things to look out for other than age. Besides the foundation of this conversation is from your younger sister whom I assume you should be wiser than as a more experienced older brother.

not yet actually, no issues, I mean she listens to me, and yeah she is kind , she respect them to an extent, and on the industrious part she has an online cooking biz, and she recently graduated uni.

and I agree with you on my sister being young but then again the culture in Nigeria tends to encourage age differences

Nairalander01:
Personally for me; it doesn’t matter if both partners are age mates or if one is older than the other.

As long as she respects you.
Ticks all/most of the boxes of what you’re looking for in a woman.
Has a mind of her own and not easily influenced by friends and society.
She even understands you; I think you should keep her.
You would definitely never get everything you want in a woman.

You could get someone younger who would not understand you. This becomes a problem in itself.

I swear I didn't know her age, she looks so younger, but again this is the first time I'm dating someone of my age

Lanty01:
A SIMple person like you wouldn't mind marrying and old feminist who has been rejected by right thinking men, so you deserve the menopause approaching hag old enough to be your mother because you truly match each other.

so 26 is approaching menopause

My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now, and it has been great, she ticks most of my boxes and she can cook, the best cook actually,

There is just a major problem, we are both 26 this year, things are going great and honestly i have dated a lot of girls but this one understands me

i was talking to my younger sister yesterday, and we were talking about couples, and she told me that a man should always date someone younger,.

so please my fellow nairalanders, is there anything wrong with it

ShitStain:
Thoroughly enjoyed severance

never got my head around it , show was too analog

Achilles100:
Bear isn't like that. It about running a restaurant and the personal development and retrogression of the Chefs, about family .

The food is just extra, and it isn't those fancy restaurant cuisine, just your local dishes in the abroad of course.

okay thanks I'd definitely check it out

Baddestguyp:
The Bear is not my kind of show...
I didn't bother

Baddestguyp:
don't stress yourself trying to make sense of the plot...

I honestly didn't watch for the plot...it's the craziness and characters I watched for...
Unfortunately aside from Wednesday and her family, other characters were bland and uninteresting

I expected the show to be crazier too...I expected so much more from the show

people watched it for the hype, Netflix really pays their social media management well. , the only reason I had to watch it was because my gf watched it with my phone so I had no choice than sit through it, they should have given fester more screen time, and oh my Days Gwendolyn Christie is a camera man's delight

Baddestguyp:
Severance is peak...just not for everybody, don't stress yourself

Andor is star wars iish...
I don't know anything about Star Wars so I didn't bother to watch

I watched star wars all of em, I'm confused how people are saying Andor is better than Madalorian ,

I wish I got into severance more,

have you watched the bear ? I want to start it, but it a chef show I don't want to get hungry everytime I watch an episode

Baddestguyp:
the acting was great.

The plot was mid af

The lore could have been explored way more...missed opportunity

exactly , the plot couldn't keep me , but that Wednesday girl can act, and the poor cgi too I have literally never seen a scared werewolf before Enid and how did all those people died and nobody called the F.B.I?

Baddestguyp:
So browsing TELEVISION subreddit, I realized since the year is pretty much over, many people are dropping lists of the best shows of 2022 they've seen
Here is mine

MY TOP 10 SHOWS OF 2022
completely subjective

Didn't watch many shows this year

1. Attack on Titan S4
2. House of the Dragon S1
3. Severance S1
4. The Boys S3
5. Jojo's Bizarre Adventures: Stone Ocean
6. ChainsawMan S1
7. Bleach TYBW
8. Cyberpunk Edgerunners
9. Pantheon S1
10 The Sandman (episodes 1-6) (7-10 don't exist in my book)

Sadly, the year is almost over and I still haven't watched Better Call Saul
And I feel like there's more I watched I've forgotten...but these list are top 10 I remember

HONOURABLE MENTIONS:
Euphoria
Narco Saints
Call of the Night
All of us are Dead

how did you guys enjoy severance, I couldn't get my head around it, and Andor, i tried as much as possible to get into Andor, I reached episode 9 and only enjoyed like 2 episodes,

house of dragon seems like keeping up with the Kardashians if they had dragons

WriterNig:
IbrahimMav, Grimmjoe, Ohbrittania, Pu7ple, Oyaaski, Baddestguyp and other notable mentions, can't remember every username.

Kindly recommend a solid Drama, Horror/thriller, action/crime series with at least 7/10 rating.

I have over 2TB of free data and I don't want it to go to waste. So pls help me choose.

The Peripheral
The Handsmaid Tale
Westworld
Snowpiercer
Shantaram
Wednesday
The White Lotus
Tehran
Industry
The Devil's Hour
Yellowstone
The Watcher
Slow Horses
The Serpent Queen
The Crown
The Queen's Gambit
Interview With The Vampire
See
The Cleaning Lady
Black Bird
Mosquito Coast
Let The Right One In

Which of these are worth watching & if you could rate them please. That would be helpful.

my girlfriend made us watch Wednesday together , I couldn't really get around it, although I watched everything , it was a 6/10 for me at most, too many corny characters, although I like festers acting, and I really wish Gwendolyn Christie would do unspeakable things to me,

Bukola123456:
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hi Bukola I'm damilare I'm also in ilorin can we talk on whatsapp , I'm looking for friends too or I can call you on phone too

18 inches sonik industrial standing fan for sale , used for just a year, and still working perfectly, I want to sell it because I just bought a rechargeable fan and I have another fan too so I can't have 3 fans plus I need the money

price is 20k negotiable, good as new because I'm not always around

location is ilorin please

sold oo

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WhatCanIsay:
You and shouting analogue up and down.

So because you got steadily exposed to porn on Twitter, automatically you have become the "modern people?"
I guess being immodest is the ID card to join such people?

this place is faceless , so many Npc behavior , imagine the op ,

imagine you that is assuming that I claimed to be modern , imagine you judging me that I am immodest when I'm just telling someone reality?

isn't that analog behavior ? npc behavior ?

MadeINchenzen2:
just that I am disappointed that Twitter can take down Buhari's tweet but can't take down x-rated pics and clips

buharis tweet was not xrated lool

MadeINchenzen2:
sex should be private not filming it and sharing it on social media and want us to call it "leaked sextape"?

people have been having sex before you, and people will still be having sex after you, no be you go dictate wetin sex go be,

MadeINchenzen2:
After 9 years I am getting to see raw porn on trending topics on twitter in Nigeria. Buhari should return the ban abeg.

that's not twitters fault lol, it's Twitter algorithm, everybody is talking about it so it's definitely gonna trend, even if it's still banned in Nigeria it's still gonna trend because people are talking about it.

go and check the age rating of the app on your app store, it's written there contains adult content .

you want buhari to ban Twitter because oxlade had sex? lmao

don't you use to have sex too? who doesn't ? chai

Analog people

MadeINchenzen2:
oh... really? I just noticed it after 9 years...thanks

old man please twitter has always had porn lol , spend less time on nairaland and more time there

MadeINchenzen2:
I guess the madness that's ongoing on twitter is the reason for jack dorsey's resignation.

Hard-core porn on twitter? Twitter used to be the most professional post sensitive media platform, until Parag Agrawal took over from Jack.

Promoting moral decay

it's obvious you just started using Twitter, porn has always been on Twitter omg ,

Franzinni:
The devil is working overtime .. and these kids have no moral compass

The downfall of humanity will be digital... mark my words

you are contributing to the downfall because you are talking about it on a digital platform,

go back to newspapers so that it will be known that you have no hand In the downfall of man .

I just discovered today that most folks on nairaland here don't use other social media or know how shitt works there lol , first of all, Twitter has always supported porn since inception, like there has been porn on Twitter since forever before I joined 5 years ago sef, it's one of their selling points, porn stars post their clips there, only fans girls too, etc,
Twitter is the headquarters of viral raw content, it wouldn't be that if there was censorship, it's not really viral if it's censored is it ? lol

some people are even blaming paraga? lol you people should just stick to your tribaliistic and hypocritical arguments on this free forum wey no dey chop your data, the reason yall are active here is because it's faceless and useless mods, no social media can follow your moral compass, maybe you can create yours

even seun the owner of nairaland is not active here and is fairly active on Twitter, because folks here are sooo.. ANALOG lol

imagine blaming paraga for the nudity on Twitter

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ubunja:
I'll include in future comments on the issue. Mostly by Rom Wills,, he's the realest.

oya twale ride on

ubunja:
what I can do is refer you gents to YouTube videos on that topic. So you go through the comments section and see what other guys are doing and get a rough understanding of this game.

which videos bro

ubunja:
Women are unpredictable. Women are confusing. So men must fold their hands and resign themselves to their fate? And make no attempt to understand? No.

What if you misread the signals?
As a rule you never work with one greenlight. I explained you add several greenlights together to come to your conclusion. Eg,, she calls you to fix the light, then she changes into something revealing because "it's so hot today!" And makes all excuses to be in your personal space especially when she keeps touching you.

Now, how you respond is not by suddenly stopping and kissing her or whatever. You can be misreading everything!!

What you do is YOU PLAY THE SAME GAME. You mirror and copy her! She comes in with a smaller blouse claiming it's hot, you take your t-shirt off in agreement.
I can give you various scenarios to do but I'm wary because it must never be about you memorizing what to do, but being resourceful enough that you can think on your feet and adapt to your situation. That's what's important.

I just had to login to comment on this boss. you are not pregnant, but you are spitting ! � facts

if you could please, just put down a template, the signals , so we can tune it to our own frequency