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kenonze:
Define "serious"?

Every relationship has a goal.
Marriage must not be the final destination

Yea! Every relationship has a goal buh if the other partner is interested.


And not every relationship leads to Marriage.

sinaj:
Issorite

What's your view on this?

nrexzy:
Na just Sign º°˚˚­˚°º‎​. No be say na so e be.

Hmmm! It's still the same thing.

Oma307:
They wouldn't learn, they prefer to leave the good ones and follow heartbreakers

You're right bro.


They won't.

sweetval:
Food don ready oo....

Oya Serve us now.

It happens.People fall out of love and become disinterested.Buh how do you tell when your boyfriend isn't into you anymore or isn't taking the relationship seriously?

You could just ask, buh he may pretend everything's okay and you won't get a real answer.So if you suspect your boyfriend has been experiencing a change of heart in your relationship, here are some signs that may just confirm it.

Seven Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Is Not Serious About Your Relationship.

1.He Doesn't Involve You In His Life

You aren't invited to family events or to hang out with his friends.He keeps his life very personal and quiet, and you're always guessing whether that's his nature.That's not his nature, he tired of your relationship and he's trying to keep you off lil by little.

2.He Talks About Other Girls

If he's looking at or talking about other girls, he doesn't have eyes for you and that's an obvious sign of disinterest.He's actually finding other ladies more attractive than you were.

3.Doesn't Ask For Details

He doesn't ask you about your day, and even if he does, he sounds disinterested and doesn't ask for more.He's just going through the motions buh wants the conversation to be over before it's even started..*lol*.

4.He Makes You Feel Like You Can't Say Anything Right

Is your boyfriend constantly picking fights with you and misinterpreting everything you say? Do you feel like you're running around in circles and defending yourself even when you're being nice? Unless, you're spending in code, there's a bigger problem and it has nothing to do with you.

5. He Constantly Say "Sorry" For The Same Thing

Sorry is just a word unless there's a real effort made to not make the same mistake again.He says sorry when he cheats, sorry when he slaps you, sorry when you caught him with another lady..He will start singing you the song "Sorry" by Justin Bieber.

6.It's All About Sex

Having sex is not a means of keeping a relationship interesting.It's good to cuddle, buh when the only compliments are about your body and all of your time together feels like a means to an end...Sister! Sowie! It's not Love, buh Lust.

7.He Remember Nothing About You

You have full conversations that he cannot recollect.He heard you mention your April birthday five times buh sill swears you were born in June.If the only thing he remembers is your address and his favourite bra-and-panty set, there's a problem with your relationship.

I drop my pen at this Juncture

NB
Knowing more about your relationship is important.If you're seeing these signs or part of it in him, you need to settle things out or you'd rather called it a Quit..

Some guys are just player.Who knows you're just a substitute? If plan A fails, he gat plan B..[That's their strategy].

Learn To Check Your Relationship Status.

Written And Compiled By
DanceVille

SpotlezDonald25:
Who I wan ask now? Danceville

Anybody bro.

Including me sef.

Omotayor123..


You nailed it.


Nice point.

In Adekunle Gold's Voice:

Am Single And Searching

Angelberry.

I'm waiting o.

IamLEGEND1:
what kind of stupid question is this?
Go and tell ur boyfriend na.
wetin konsyn us if ur guy rips ur panties everytime and drills ur vagína dry.No wonder ur head is as empty as the hollow of ur overstretched vúlva.
We want no part in ur dumb problems.

I hail you dude.


You nailed it!

dovelike:
Lol. Find your own oo

Hmm!
Please dove... Would you help me to find one for me?

tosyne2much:
How come I got to see this wonderful write-up late? ... Spot on oga DanceVille.. Na to come learn work from you sure pass oooo

Oga Tosyne2much....


You're my boss ooo.

I hail u sir.

Aromas:
But Oga Lovedoctor what can I do to my r/ship of 5years, most of her fight with me always base on calls. She accuses me of not calling her regularly as b4, but I let her realize that things have change. Being a man who is focuz on d future, she should reason along with me, my education is their to pursue and hustling at the same time. By the time I get home 4rm work bro, your guy go don tire like Milkano generator wey dey on since morning till night with all this, she still comes up with fight. This a girl I love so much which I belief she love me also, but the instinct that trigger her anger against me is what I can't figure out. Don't want to regret by saying this statement Had I know I wouldn't have go into r/ship Whenever I sit down and think about my precious future, am scared to bring in her matter base on dis fight. Is dis how all ladies are Can't she reason with her sense of humor that life is stage by stage and no r/ship is healthier neither perfect. We all my efforts on her by ensuring will both succeed in life just go down like that Am scared to woe another lady base on the attitudes of my current gf which I already have a judging mind that they are all the same. Bro am pressed n tired of wahala. I came from a polygamous family of 3wives and I know what problems my Dad is passing through just to allow peace to reign. I never marry her but see her attitudes towards me____ only if I can get a brain-washer to clean up all the memories of her 4rm my head...................... Am emotional depressed!!

Hmm!

*sighs*

I'm not that perfect to advise that much sir buh I think I gat one or two things to say.

First, We were told that woman is made from man.Yes! Dude... A lady can't think the way you're thinking.They love expressing their mind even though they know the repercussion that the relationship might leads to break up.

We have diffrnt types of ladies whereas diffrnt types of temperament do they possess.

Try settling things wit her, express ur thoughts abt how tired you're when you get bak frm work.

She's only doing these so dat she might know whether you still love her or not.

Ladies are hard to understand sir.You just need patience and calmness in order to make ur relationship active.

Please send me a mail msg so we can discuss better.You can find my email address in my profile.

Abeg! Who is private jet don EEP?


"Jet" ko "Lee" ni...(JetLee) that japanese guy, that loves lying during his action scenes.

Fynestboi:
Lol.



Some people sha.

Bro!

They aint answering my question.

talktonase:
Buy a sheep,name it relation you have a relationsheep.

That gat me laughing.

1.What's Your main reason why we should vote for you as our Miss Nairaland 2016?

2.What's your opinions about Equality gender in Nigeria? Is it appropriate?

3.If you were the president of Nigeria, what would you do to increase the standard of living?

Thanks!

Cc:fynestboi

Lanicky

Refiner

Demiladegold

Optional1

eiBADAn:
WHY DO SOME IDIOTS BELIEVE THAT THEY ARE RELATIONSHIP EXPERTS? REMOVE THE SPECK FROM YOUR EYES BEFORE YOU COME HERE AND TYPE RUBBISH

Hmm! Idiot like you..I guess.

Akalia:
Abeg Who relationship don Epp? Money Chasing is prime in a Hustler's state of mind.

Dude! Dnt chase money.
Let money chase you.

#JustHaveFaith!

Akoja360:
relationships can be really hard ..most of the time..

Very hard dude.

FolarinLondon:
Wrong advice Bro...

Let her pick a female friend as her bestie instead of male.

If you ask your girlfriend or fiancee to desist from having a male as bestie and refuse to listen, you better take a walk.

If she is in love with you, she ll dump her male bestie before u even finish the request.

You can imagine your wife claiming a male bestie just...If you accept that rubbish now, she might end up bringing male bestie home under the pretence of "we have come a long way".

However, if she is a lady of virtue, Class and of course self respect, y not.

Hmm!


I agree with you bro.

Finalboss1, pls check this guy's opinion also.

hedonistic:
Another thread by a socially awkward dweeb, written for his fellow dweebs... Coming to Nairaland to offer relationship advice. These things should never ever make the front page. We ain't playing here.

Why are you so pained? Pls just swerve off.

Adasun:
suicide.

*running*

Why running?

ireneony:
must you quote me

Must you mention my moniker?

yinkslinks:
Baby mama is the safest now in the world. Quote me anyhow.

Why is babymama d safest bro?


Gat curious.

freecocoa:
Truer words have not been said, albeit people still get married amidst all these.

People should ask themselves if they can be happy in such unions, and answer truthfully, that way I think there'll be less divorce/abuse stories.

Hmm!


I sincerely support your point.

ireneony:
another dumb thread from danceville

Thanks!

Adasun:
abeg how do i make billions in one week

OMG! This guy again.*lol*


Transporting of Cocaine frm Nigeria to Korea.


You will even make Trillions.

busterr:
you've successfully changed the grammar , let me edit my post.

you've successfully changed the grammar , let me edit my post.

Thanks boss...*grin*

finalboss1:
thanks alot ...lovedoctor...

What are friends for?


You deserve the best boss.