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ronald4lif:
Do you consider a lady's pulchitrudes, ass, boobs etc before dating and marrying them? Are you as an individual attracted to ladies who aren't attractive and appeals to your sultriness? The answer to this is obvious coz I'm near certain that you don't just date any lady without weighing her beauty and charm. Thus, ladies too reserve the right, among other things to consider a man's looks too.

Forget love thing, that's too cliche. Love won't pay the bills and provide the necessary comfort and responsibility that comes with marriage. A lady also reserve the absolute right to evaluate a man's income, resources and ability to provide for her and her unborn kids before saying yes.

Bro! You're not getting what am really passing across.

Some ladies overdo these things, yea! A lady must evaluate a man's income buh not marry him because of his income.

Well, that's your own opinion.
We both have a different views sir.

BiafraBushBoy:
Op, I wanted to support you because I hate dem ladies...

But truth be told.......

All the above mentioned are not wrong at all..

people marry for different reasons and as long as it makes her happy, she should go for it...


meanwhile...

Vote Optional for Miss nairaLand... (Ada Igbo)

Those were just my opinions bro.

Thanks for that.

Stupedinluv:
Always trying hard to make no sense. Shebi is fp u want? mtchw

I'm sure you must be guilty of all, that's why you're acting like this.

falconey:


- Family's Background

His Profession

- Is He Rich Or Not


I don't think these 3 are that bad.


Danceville good write up buh the timing is bad, most people's attention is being diverted to man city vs madrid match going on right now.

Don't even know a match is going on bro.

ronald4lif:
Are you serious, mate? What do you reckon they consider before marrying a man? Let's start from there before addressing what you listed here.

Bro! That's why I said considering a man's proposal takes a lot of time.

Are you suggesting a lady should consider physical appearance(handsomeness) to accept a man's proposal? Love and trust is the main purpose of saying Yes to a guy's proposal.

Ladies consider wrong and inappropriate things before saying "YES! I DO" to a man.

Ladies do think that what they viewed or seen in him shows is a potential husband material which those considerations of theirs are so wrong.

Well, saying yes to a man it takes a lots of consideration from different angles buh some ladies say "I WILL" to him because of those wrong things which will be highlighted below.

7 Wrong Things Ladies Consider Before Marrying A Guy

1. Physical Appearance

This is a trend among ladies nowadays.Being handsome doesn't mean is good at a relationship.He might even use his handsomeness to trick you into a relationship.
Ladies, you must know that "Interior" is different from "Exterior" though they both had "rior" at the end.Don't say "Yes, I do" to a guy because of his physical appearance.

- Family's Background

There was a sister that I know that said NO to a brother because of his family.And the brother has gotten married to a "Pretty Lady", and the sister hasn't gotten engage talkless of getting married.Ladies, a guy's family background doesn't mean you shouldn't marry him.If he's parent is poor doesn't mean poor will you be when you both married.Stop, saying NO to a guy's proposal because of his family's background before you marry him.

- His Profession

Ladies do say, except he's a Civil Engineer or an Accountant and so on like that, I won't marry anyone.WHY? Would told you that even if you marry a guy with a good professional skills, there's a guaranty for him to get a high paid job.Is there anything wrong marrying a "Cobbler, Carpenter or Fashion designer? Lemme tell you a Learning skill is acquiring money than those who went to institution for those gigantic courses.

-Qualification/ Certificate

Viewing a guy's qualification before saying "Yes" is totally wrong.Have seen where a "Master" holder hasn't gotten any job till today while an "HND" holder has acquired an awesome paid job.Having a "Master or Phd" doesn't mean he's a husband material..That's a Fact!

-Flashy Car

Wow! The guy drives a black flashy car...Before he says "Will You Marry Me"? You have already said "Yes! I will" because he drives a flashy car.Who knows maybe he's only impressing you with that? Because he knows Ladies fall in love with guys that possessed a car.

- Is He Rich Or Not

I can tell you that most Rich guys don't have time for you when both of you are married.You will always be nagged by him.They do travel a lot, today from Lagos to Dubai, tomorrow from Dubai to Qatar..He might even be cheating on you unconsciously.

Last buh not the least.

-Accepting Him Because Of Money Buh Not For Love

Money is just like "Nigeria's Economy".Money might be today and gone tomorrow.Many Ladies do accept a guy's proposal because of his money rather than love.Riches that might vanish tomorrow.Vanity Upon Vanity, all is Vanity.

I drop my pen at this juncture.

NB
This is not a bashing thread.Just wanna warn and advice ladies that are already considering saying "YES" to a guy's proposal because of these, that they should avert from it and think more carefully.
Divorce is REAL.

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firstking01:
Op, why are you panting and sweating like a pig under gestation period?...them dey pay money for creating thread??

It dumfound me here o.

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Please can you shift this thread to appropriate place with wider viewers, so that our guys won't get trapped by those ladies that has nothing good to give than fake beauty and love.

I'm sure the op must be happy he has post a thread that will HIT frontpage.

Make I comment before it reach Fp.
In 9ice's Voice: Photocopy ko Easy..


Op, if I slap you ehn....You will know the difference between "I was there" and "I shall be there"..

Tosyne2much..Abeg should I help you to slap this Nigga? He has stole your answer booklet..

NTAChannel5:
Yeye people

NTA...Shey Nigerian ladies?

DaZion:
Lol! Dat no 4, 7 nd 8 got me laufing.

Like seriously..

Angelberry:
is it wrong to use perfume? No wonder some people smell like fish when they are around u. I can't do without perf and I'm not trying to get the attention of any idiota

That's for you dear..

Though I'm not implying that all ladies.I wrote "Some".

mimzy:
Yea, i do not dispute that. I only said it is not everyone who wears an expensive perfume that is trying to hide body odour.

You're right! It's nt everyone.

If u read my post again you'll see where I wrote "Some".

donbenedict:
Wearing push up bras! Most of their boobs have sagged beyond limits



Fact!

U see a babe with a voluptuous boobs, carry am go do, u go just surprise say dem don fall yakata

D one dats painin me is those dat knw that dey have orange breast, dey will just go and wear big bra, u will think thr boobs is big.. they knw demselves!

Seriously...You're correct bro.


Those bolded words gat me laughing.

Frei:
haha you go be like....

Hilarious..

Lordabas:
That must be a village girl. Bros which village u dey go school

Google.com

Frei:
OP the guilty ones go stare at you like

Lol bro! And I'll stare back.

Clean9agent:
Why can't you pretend you have a working brain.

Don't mind the guy..He needs his memory check.

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Lordabas:
Don't generalise. Just because your mother and sisters do those things don't mean Nigerian ladies do it.

My mother and sister doesn't do those things.

Buh mind you...Don't ever mention my mother again.

Swerve off through this lane ==>

mimzy:
lolz. not all of us though

I disagree with number 2 . Wearing an expensive perfume does not necessarily mean the person is trying to hide body odour.

Dear! Have seen a girl that do use perfume to extinguish her body odour... She's my classmate.

In the bid to attract the attention of successful, well to do Nigerian guys, Nigerian ladies engage in some actions that can truly be described as hilarious.

No time to check Wristwatch, time is moving quickly.

Various thing Nigerian ladies do to get the attention of Guys.

1. Bleaching Their Skin

Black is no longer beautiful than compared to being fair skinned.That's why bleaching of skin is now the new beauty therapy among ladies.Nigerian Ladies resulted to bleaching their natural skin because no guy has ever notice them before...They bleached because they think guys love fairly skinned lady..SMH!

2. Using Expensive Perfume

Some Nigerian ladies wear perfume that are so expensive that it gets you wondering what the need for wasting such amount on just a perfume; buh as long as its helps the lady to attract successful brother at work or down the street; they don't mind.Buh actually some of them use it to get rid of their bad odour or camouflage, the fact that they haven't taken their bath...This one.."I concur".

3. Wearing Fake Nails

Wearing natural nails is a thing of the past amongst happening ladies these days.One would think that they had long nails only for the guy to find out later that her nails are not that beautiful after he has fallen into the trap.

4. Wearing Of Push up Bras

Nigerian ladies love wearing push up and foam bras because they know that guys first notice their boobs first before they approach them.This is a trend among Nigerian ladies these days..

5. Fixing Of Artificial Hair

You can hardly see a Nigerian lady that goes on her natural hair these days.Artificial hair has take over..It comes with various types.
Who knows maybe the lady has "Bald head"? May God help us sha.

6. Application Of Too Much Eye Lashes And Make Up

Ladies are fond of applying different set of eyelashes and make up as a means of getting notice by guys across the street..

Would you imagine..Some looks like a Masquerade displaying its talent on a sunny bright day.

7. Shaking Their Butt Seductively

Ladies deliberately shake their butt seductively while walking.Some shake their butt from Angle 180 degree to 270 degree..Seriously, Guys do get trapped by this.

8. Wearing Of Seductive Dress

Nigerian ladies love wearing seductive dresses on the street..Imagine a lady wearing Pajamas in the afternoon with her sunglass attached to her eyes...No guys will say he won't get attracted to this..

Feel free to add yours.

Just for fun.

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lalasticlala:
The answer is obvious

Thanks very much sir.

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Nice One Emusmith.

Great points.

Lemme add mine.

1.Stop Asking For Money:Ladies requested too much of money from the guy.At the end of the day when the guy is not capable of handling the request again, they dump him just like a "Chicken Bone".

2.Ladies should stop going to his house everyday just to watch Telemundo.

3.Ladies should stop asking for a kiss, hug or sex from a guy they don't have plans for.

4.Ladies should stop acting like his girlfriend.The guy might believe you're his girlfriend which might reduces his chance of chasing another lady.

5.They should stop jealousy when he's talking to another bae.

Just my opinions.

Ladies and their wahala sha...

Jozzy4:
EXACTLY, and i believe all this excuse of what if she doesnt hav a vagena and what if he is impotent are just lines used to justify lust. at the end of the day this two people having sex with each other in the name of testing, MOST times broke up . either ways , the result of premarital sex is always regret.

its like when a Lady is a virgin, and her friends start scaring her sayin " u better do it now, or else it will pain you badly when u get married, its an empty threat designed to turn her to empty vessel like them.

better to Follow Gods direction, he will never dissapoint his faithful ones .

What a truth!

Friends is one of the most agents that leads christians especially ladies to premarital sex..

Thanks brother.

Amberon11:
O.P you don't need people's validation. Whether everybody in the world says it is right. As Christians that shouldn't be our business.

God's word was clear on that. Flee fornication and all sexual sins.

Nice one my Sister..

Love the bolded words.

Make I quickly comment before it HIT frontpage.

Op! Is because of Funbact A.

Shey na ladies complexion u dey luk 4 school.
Better get a life bro.

Op... You're a Cretin.


Can't you atleast value your country ladies or aint a Nigerian mum that gave birth to you?

So, you're telling me that it's ForeignGirls that don't get old or not a Gold digger.
Or are you telling me that Foreign Girls are the only one that has advantages.

Can't you guys value something that you have in your country.



Spits on thread.

AOGAOG:
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Only a prayful person can live without fornication. Determination is good, but it is not enough. You must rise up a great while before day and pray everyday to live above sexual sin.

Yes! I believe what you said.

Buh, prayer, with determination works together.