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pachigo001:
I have been dating this girl for a year now and we planned getting married this year but my problem is her brother always tell her not to marry me because Im not from the same tribe with her.

The thing is really affecting our relationship her brother is trying everything to manipulate her into hating me and the thing is affecting my mental health we love ourselves and she is the woman I need.

just need an advise from you guys if I should go ahead or end the relationship for good

Ones the immediate family is not in agreement just disappear. Nigeria is more divided now that you can ever imagine. This election changed a lot of things (made things even more worse).

You can see the silly assumption this guy below made because he believes only Igbos reject suitors not from their tribe (A tribal bigot kind of statement)

incandescentena:
Where are you from and she also? That region denying you is Southeast. and you are from the North or vice vasa. They will give you hell. Better try somewhere else for your sanity sake.... Wait o! Is the girl Fulani and you are Igbo?

For your mental health. Simply go and marry from your tribe. Their is even something special about being Igbo and marrying Igbo, your children will completely think in Igbo, act in Igbo, be resilient and progressive as igbos and the likes.

If the brother doesn't accept you and she can't also stand up for herself, trust me one day she is definitely gonna use it on you if provoked by saying things like "she was warned."

She is definitely going to be reasoning towards that angle. Family is family and she would rather place a statement told/made by her brother in her mind than one of a lover she met half way in life. I'm speaking from experience.

If she can't discern between humanity and tribe and come to terms that humanity is key not tribe and shun tribal bigots even if it's her brother or immediate family, then you are in for a long ride.

KingCold:
Nah, I just think when you're ugly you're ugly bro

Not entirely truth but not far from the truth also.

But here is what you need to know. There are some people who are just naturally beautiful and don't need make up or brush up to look beautiful (like you could spot the beauty immediately you see them)

Both gain there are some people who are, but not visible because of suffering. Hardship can make someone look facially ugly.

Note: This is regarding only facial beauty. Shape not inclusive.

FinnMann:
I'm only 18 can I get a serious girl friend who I can share my feelings with.... Is it right that I get a girl friend?

How people put themselves in unnecessary suffering and sorrow is baffling.

Don't go and chase money go chase what's under the skirt and in 2 years time you tell us how far.

Patriotsleague:
They got the booty game locked.

True talk. African women are beautiful na poverty dey make us look ugly sometime.

My kind of spec and exactly my skin colour. 😍

Infolenka come and clear us on this matter.

elated177:
Sexual purity.

Yap!

Sexual purity is the most precious gift that anyone who is not yet married can give to himself or herself. The elation that comes from such lifestyle is unquantifiable and it is inestimable times better than the pleasure or happiness derived from sexual immorality.

The satisfaction associated with sexual purity is inestimable.

Give it a shot today and you will never remain the same. A trial will convince you.

You wouldn't believe that before I opened this thread the word "Sexual purity" just hit hard in my mind.

Like I literally knew the answer before I even opened this thread. I'm just proud of myself because I am part of this band wagon.

Keep up the good work. 👍

Wether we choose e to accept or not we all know that only a man like Peter Obi will allow you do such. Peter Obi is not just accessible but active.

We asked them to do the right for once but look what they gave us.

KingKO22:
Children of baby factory over to you

These are the headless mobs insulting the greatest African writer Pro Wole Shoyinka and pastor Adeboye

They are the one searching for lost manhood 🤣 of our Pandora Obituary the president of IPOB 😂😀🤣

I thought you were intelligent 😂 Just imagine of all people you would glorify it's Prof woke Soyinka 😆

A known grandmaster, founder and general oversea of cultism in Nigeria. 🤭 Tueh! Your wisdom dey smell me.

There is no crime that isn't associated with one crime or the other I have educated your fellow Urchinos very well about it.

For the North it's is majorly Banditry and terrorism, Fri the East baby factory and drug dealing, for the west Skull mining and cultism.

Yes you heard that right. Prof Wole Soyinka one of the 4 founders of cultism which has infested the whole region and nook and cranny in Nigeria is who you hypocrite pride as an intellect today just to spite Igbos.

Ogbeni your CORNfusion dey aMAIZE me. If I hear Pim again. Grown man wey dey behave like nkita chi hua hua. Ihere megbukwa gi!

beerfraud:
God bless our Gallant officers
All ipob terrorists shall never know peace

I happy you are known on Nairaland as a shameless tribal bigot and lover of criminality and everything evil.

This account of your is doomed u think you should create another. Even if you should say something meaningful tommorow ogbeni no one will take you serious. 🤨

rabankonchas:
Mariona, meant it and hit it with precision.

I taught I was the only one who noticed. It's Mariona for me too. The longest range, most precise and intentional shot on goal.

Goal 3 by Mariona is the best.

IkeIgboNiile:
Danisaint112


The only area I could say white women generally beat black women in is facial beauty and long hair.

Not that our women aren't beautiful facially but most would be what you could term average beauty.

All you wrote here are lies. Fvck the European standard of beauty that turn girls to skeleton. In the African culture, the "rounder" the woman the prettier she appears. Black women are prettiest in the world and they age better too.
How can you expect a black woman to have straight hair?

Like are you being serious (I mean the bolded question).

Being black doesn't mean you can't have long hair. Search about the Mbalantu women of Southern Angola

Let me educate you; The Mbalantu women are renowned for continuing their long-standing tradition of having naturally coarse hair that famously reaches their thighs.

Let me even ask you what do you think dread is? Spiritual hair abi?

Most black Africa just doesn't have a culture or simple recipe for reserving and growing their hair. Infact having a long hair here above usual length is seen as a spiritual affliction because of our over religiousness.

Picture below are some Mbalantu women with long hair

Omoawoke
Infolenka
I didn't want to mention my uncle because he would be like he has to hear from my personal experience first but thank God someone is here to bear me witness.

I have relatives who have live in England and still living in England for over two decades (citizens) and they would tell would gladly tell you that a typical white girls with big boobs is rare.

Even my uncle that that went to turkey confirmed same to me. Abi it's the numerous White movies I have watched that I hardly find white girls that are busty.

Majority of this girls you posted did breast enlargement silently.

Tenrack:
Baba all dawan no concern me. My black African women till I kiss the sky. God create dem specially with their wahala and all. We love em.

I don't think I am the one you need to be attacking here. I am on your side. But just spitting out the fact.

Tenrack:
which kind yeye facial beauty. I love my black African woman everyday of the week and twice on Sundays. White women are trashy abeg. Dem no fine shit. Is it the freckles? Abi their sagged skin.. bros talk another thing. African women are goddesses .

Who says I dislike African women? Who says they aren't beautiful too. Each side just has it pros and cons.

While white girls look more cute when they are young they age badly when they grow older. With exception to some part of Asia like China, Japan, South & North Korea and the neighbouring countries.

Infolenka:
None of the two women you posted are busty. Just normal breast.

African girls are kind of not too busty but those who are you can't compare them with white girls.
Note: Most of this white ladies now do breast enlargement but you could easily say it's a norm for African girls..

Here are African women from the crib that proves my point. Hope this argument is sealed.

Modified: picture taken down.

Egoat:
Correct guy.

Na so. U don see am now abi.
But no reason oo. My room almost fine reach like this.

Infolenka:
The bolded is not true.

See proof below .

That's why I said most times. The second picture could be said to be above the right proportion considering her size.

Compare it to this two below which you could say is in the right proportion with their shape and size.

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Infolenka I disagree with you. White women who are busty are most times too busty and those who are not have very little booby.

But on the African side, our women usually have it in moderation. Like you could say majority of our women have it in the right proportion and still got good shape.

The only area I could say white women generally beat black women in is facial beauty and long hair.

Not that our women aren't beautiful facially but most would be what you could term average beauty.

bencr7:
do u know d USA female team,d best in d world,were beating blue and black by under 15 male football team in Usa

Drop source of your news.

Damn it. What is it with Ghana self. Among all people we should loose to there are some countries we shouldn't loose to. Number 1 is Ghana. Could this be bad omen or what?

The team that has forgotten how to loose. I will not be surprised if this tram beat our super eagle senior team. Seriously, this girls dey ball bad bad. At a point you will forget they are women.

Lanre1st:
Bros, Igbo behavior cause it. They always want to dominate any area they find theirselves, without pay homage to the indigenous people of the town. If you’re are too ambitious and show you know more than others or other are less intelligent, people will always prepare to deny you

Who is making anyone feel less intelligent. Yorubas I know mostly involve in a competition with Igbos because of low self esteem. That I why makes you guys feel less intelligent.

What homage are you even talking about that the igbos haven't done a hundred times?

Federal government should as a matter of urgency release Nnamdi Kanu so that we can know who is killing who.

Arm robbers, kidnappers, bag snatchers and every criminal personality and criminality perpetuated in Igbo land is now tagged an IPOB activity.

spiralwedge:
This victim card you are playing is outdated. Nobody is moved by it anymore. We know you guys and your true colours now.
You will cry for the minimum of 16 years more.

You aren't moved by it yet you reacted to my comment. CORNfusion. 🌽 🌽🌽

NzogbuNzogbu:
Is it the same BAT I criticise here, so i am now his supporter

Anyway aside from trolling igbos childish behavior i don't have anything against anytribe

How did soludo become a villian just for trolling, you bring the word "unprovoked" like it's a war

It justify the same soludo Nzogbu analogy, everything is about emotions to you people.

The bolded is stale. As useless as the propaganda of Igbos are ritualist and drug dealers because they are thr most progressive tribe and region in Nigeria where as we know people who human skulls is never missing in their shrine (active skull miners) and whose mentor (someone they look up to 🤮) is a freaking heartless drug Baron.

I will reiterate it is unprovoked and unwarranted. Did Peter slap, punch or even insulted Soludo to warrant the unnecessary battering?

We all know Soludo was pained and bittered that Peter Obi didn't run with APGA, the same APGA you Tinubu watch dogs would have tagged a Biafra/IPOB party because it was created by Ojukwu.

When I say Igbos are hated there is a reason for that.

Even if Soludo should perform wonders in Anambra state tomorrow and decide to run for presidency in the near future you guys would still find something to use against him and some how link him to IPOB and Biafra like you are doing to Peter now who is even more clean.
You think we are fools abi?

NzogbuNzogbu:
You would beat chest but later na just small pikin una be when the cries and victimization tears start rolling

If you don't see this as funny way of life, I do have a good sense of humour on this

The same group that said "we are ok with wasting our votes" same group who where convinced noway tinubu can rig election now crying mandate thief

If the election wasn't rigged no one would cry of a mandate theft.

Or even if it was rigged and INEC stood neutral and made sure the election is re-conducted and this time well monitored no one would mention anything about "mandate."

Admit it and stop clinging on emotional behaviour of the igbos, You hate Igbos and would prefer a Somalian bandit rule you than Igbos. Nzogbu Nzogbu that you don't even know the meaning self. 😐