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I reject your statement in Jesus name.How could you?It will never be history.She will get married at the roght time.

trinity227:
What have you been waiting for to become a First Wife.? .
few years from now the chances of becoming a first wife will be history for you.

You have said it all my dear....The most annoying part is that some passengers dont see anything wrong with over speeding.

MissJoy29:
"take it easy" they won't hear. Some passengers were probably telling the driver, "slow down driver! Where you dey go sef? No be only Lagos here".

But he must have carried on. Some passengers will even tell those talkers to keep quiet & allow the driver do his work. They forget that life has no duplicate. Now the driver didn't just slow down. Hell, he didn't even just stop, but he & some passengers may NEVER move again except to be carried to the mortuary or to the grave. It's a pity.

RIP to the dead. God knows the best.

Sweet heart,firstly,please do not blame God.Secondly,do not blame yourself.It is unfortunate that this happened to you but before you make that decision of annulling the marriage i would like to ask you a question.Was he good to you in the marriage?like was he a good husband and father?please if yes,try to forgive him.I know it hurts deeply but time is what you need now.You are mad at him right now and so cant think properly.Do not listen to anyone just yet so you do not make a bad decision.

You can see a counsellor if that will help or a spiritual director ie a priest or so.

I wish you all the best.

Dont be quick to judge.Some of them were hypnotized.

ednut1:
I have zero sympathy for all these weak women who fall for so called fake pastors.

If the guy was drunk,YES

Mcy56:
Is it possible to sleep with runs babe without using protection? Abeg dey lie small small. Haba!

Saraki you will rather make things worse.What did you contribute to the welfare and development of the Nigerian citizens as a senate president?you guys are the reason Nigeria is still backward.


SORRY SIR BUT YOUR GIMMICKS WONT WORK...I will not vote for you.All of you are the same .

They are deceiving themselves not me....

ExtraExtra:
Women are the backbone of the family, they make or mar the home, since they help bring life to the world suffice it to say they sum up what we call family, 99% of successful, longlasting home or family is the ability of the woman to hold the "forte".

My attention was drawn to this forum and this topic https://www.nairaland.com/4617351/husbands-pride-wants-ruin-home#69371294 and it is sad that most people drew conclusion on a one sided story though i wouldnt blame those involved because they judged based on what was said and the individual involved needed public validation for her wrong doing, a public display i dont approve of but since external persons and relations are already involved i'd like to clear some details.

"Dee" comes from a very well to do family while i dont so when we got married, i made her feel we are in this together, not one above the other but as partners in EVERYTHING. To be fair to her she brought up the business idea we did years ago, in other to put forth money to start up, i made sure i had equal money as her for it, goal was to own a property, build et al. Unfortunately my dad's ailing health deteriorated to the extent that he had to be flown out, when the profit came, i told her and she agreed, she decided we split it into two so she use hers for the initial plan. As the first born i went with my dad, back here she got the property and started building, when i came back the remaining money with me was used to complete it, what was left was used for my parents house. Being a trust worthy person i feel she is, i didnt bother to check documents cos i felt she would do the right thing by putting both our names which she kept in a bank.

Now, i work and own other businesses so i'm always in contact with alot of people from both genders so to her she feels i may have lost guard by cheating which is not true: i dont have password on my phones, i always make and receive calls right in front of her but she still think i'm hiding something and that was the genesis of the problem weeks ago, i rebuked her to cut it out immediately but she was out for blood, she insulted me like never before, when i didnt give her face, she extended her TOXIC words to my parents, my family, my background and my personality, that was when i lost it, if not for my cousin that was there i would have hit her, out of anger i told her to get the hell out of the house which of course i didnt mean, then she shocked me saying the house is ONLY in her name, i was numb and speechless, in other for me not to react in a brutal way i left the house, told her i would never step there again if she doesnt change it to my name ONLY. My cousin who was there when it happened told my people, they called me so i had to explain things, right now her family knows what happened and none is supporting her.

YES i said she should put my name only cos she belittled and betrayed me which tells me if it was in both our names she will raise shoulder and feel above me.YES i requested for transfer and i will go through with it, i cannot be away from my kids and still be in the same state, it doesnt make, when it is sucessful, i will get a place conducive amd comfortable for my kids, they will be with me. I told her recently not to bother with the name change anymore, she can have the house all to herself for all i care.

I wont divorce her because i dont believe in that, once i move with the kids she can come along if she wants but right now we are seperated. I wanted a partner, she displayed stupidity not smartness, what the future holds i dont know, she made her bed she should lay on it.

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Oga poster you dont only have ego but you are selfish.You used your share to take care of your parents and then completed your parents house.She used hers to build a house now you want her to change it to only your name not even a joint one..I laugh ooooo.You are doing thia because you know she loves you very much and doesnt wana lose you that is the reason you are blackmailing your wife emotionally...Too bad

[quote author=cityella post=69224463]I really don't think the application form has changed, that's because immediately I saw this I had to redownload to confirm and I never noticed any changes. Also regarding what to expect, youd just have to convince the vo that you are married and by so doing, you have to know the tiniest details of your husband including how much he .

No response yet?please someone should help

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