₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
. It is the answer to a successful marriage, yet this answer clearly failed in this instance. Doesn't that there invalidate your claim of it being the answer to a successful marriage? If 1+1 IS NOT 5, why continue to assert 5 as the answer to 1+1? 🤣

2. Without evidence, your particular conclusion seems to be that the woman never submitted at all in the relationship. Why do you do this to yourself? 🤣

3. Get the f-ck away with this religious gobbledegook of yours! Nonsense! 😂

Sorry am enjoying my marriage
I wish this your curse go relief you one day

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! Christianity, the cult of Deeper Life included, focuses on ensuring that gullible followers lack this required knowledge on marriage you speak of. For instance, rather than openly explain that marriage is an agreement requiring the man and woman to negotiate their wills as partners in business are meant to, your churches teach that the woman is to basically close herself off — submit her will — to the man, an arrangement that can only exist between a master and a slave and not a marriage.

2. Humans are notoriously fickle... this is common knowledge. And no human can read the mind of another human. If the woman had, according to you, lied that she was a virgin, does that then give him the impetus to cause her harm or make her life miserable? Come on naw! You people have brains... use them!

Well that is the answer to a successful marriage. If no marriage in your family succeed that doesn't mean it is not successful in others.
Woman is to submit and man is to love. However, if one party fulfil this condition even if the other does otherwise the marriage will stand. The girl mother also left her father, if she had wisdom she ought to know that she must do everything to break that circle. Well I pray the twin breaks it.
It is spirit thing your canal mind will never understand. All the same good luck

unzend:
Hello everyone, I need your opinions on this issue that’s causing some interesting situation at home.

I’ve been working fully remote for two years now, taking care of the kids and managing the house after moving into a state in Nigeria from Lag. (I was hybrid before and go to Lag weekly before- not easy). Last Friday, my wife came back home from Lag - we stiĺl maintain our house there cos she works there , and everything just went upside down.


I stepped outside to take get somewhere, and she checked my phone (we’re recently being locking phones). She saw a pregnancy scan on my phone that mentioned something about “breech presentation.” The thing is, this scan isn’t mine! It belongs to my Farm worker’s wife. He showed it to me while talking about her condition, and I took a picture to keep it for him for hospital records and future reference. That’s all.

When my wife saw it, her mood changed instantly. She started asking me tough questions, but I gave vague answers cos I knew her tendedncy to have persismistic thoughts and conclusions. Haha! She concluded I got another woman pregnant. Before I knew it, she called my mum, then my dad. That same evening, my dad came over to comfort her. From his expression, it looked like he also thought I messed up. I just excused myself and left the room.

Now, my mum and dad have called me, saying they’re disappointed and telling me to repent from “adultery.” I got upset and told them I’m a grown man who can make my own choices, and I haven’t done anything wrong.

She informed all my in-laws and says my FIL is really angry.

The while situation has sent my wife into a spiral—she’s paranoid, heartbroken, and acting sick. She’s telling me to pay off this “woman,” block her, and never speak to her again. I told her I won’t do that cos the woman may have being her!

Right now, I’m just letting things sit to see how it plays out, but the tension between us is heavy. My wife is not herself, and my parents are treating me like I’ve sinned. She even acted up to the point She was prophesying my Downfall cos of my Adultery. Like in the spirit the 30 minutes straight. I just dey shake my head.

What's your opinion about this, I plan to keep it on for as long as I can withstand the drama.

You they whine us.
Open the door wide for the devil, he is coming with 7wicked spirit

We4all:
Fear deeper life church members. I pity those who get married to people they percieve as christians. They are always in for a rude shock.

Very wrong. You are wrong.
Being a Christian doesn't excuse you from getting the required knowledge on marriage.
She is deficient of marital law and ways.
A man who once you claimed loved you all of a sudden hated you. Something must have happened. Maybe she had lied all this years that she was a virgin.

dododawa1:
https://punchng.com/lagos-couple-in-messy-divorce-battle/

I don't trust her

PresidObi:
Nobody has paraded someone with a bullion van on his head.

Failed society.

Na from here he dey start.
But I can never stoop myself to this people level.
The parade of shame is of no significance

Deepspirituals:
He Cannot Win,He is Nothing,He can't Rule ,He is Insignificant,
He is this , He is that Yet We Can't Just stop Abusing him and Talking About Him. I Think When someone is Irrelevant , He should be Ignored Totally .

Peter Obi ... I'm not a Fan of Any Politician because None of them is Transparent, But This Man Peter Obi Name has become Like a National Anthem which is Compulsory for the Primary & Secondary Schools to recite Every Morning.

Even though a situation has nothing to do with him , It's a Must His Name must be Mentioned

Chai ! This Man Obi..

Shut up.
Akpabio, wike and tinubu names are more mentioned than obi name. It is obi that is frolicking here and there. Infact anytime you hear obi name it must be a response to his cheap crocodile politics.

Obi apologist trying to sell him on nairaland
Why is obi suddenly donating cash and bole holes where was he prior election. Show me anything obi has donated before the election and I will show you who a hypocrite is.

festacman:
As political contestants, one expects peter Obi and Sowore to verbally tackle each other, from time to time, based on issues.

Again, as an opposition politician, one also expects Sowore to always beam lights on the policies of the current FG but he is rather focused on another opposition politician Peter Obi.

His recent incessant and obsessive attacks on the person of Peter Obi looks suspicious as though he is incentivized to particularly defame him out of the other politicians at all cost.

Something doesn't add up here. There is something fishy.

Not correct. Sowore is an unapologetic aggressive verbal abuser of anybody that has ever help public office. Sowore ideology is based on revolution now. Meaning discard every old politician for the new to emerge.

Chilipepper:
Court remands man who was caught disposing refuse on Alapere bridge in Kirikiri prison

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/15c6txN2do/

The man is from the east

chinexbest:
Credit: Elvistech

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jmoore:
https://saharareporters.com/2025/05/20/zamfara-christian-convert-zainab-set-face-trial-sharia-court-friday-switching-religion

Obasanjo is the greatest problem of Nigeria
There was nothing like sharia law when IBB, ABACHA was president.
Obasanjo fold his hand for that rubbish to happen and that gave birth to all form of terrorism in Nigeria

SpecialAdviser:
Obi is by far the greatest righteous politician in Nigeria today. All efforts by looters to silence him will backfire.

We are just on standby watching

Without Proof

yarimo:
Defect and lose your seat is only applicable to rivers state, according to FALANA and ugochinyere

This not state assembly it is federal house. Laws guiding them varies.

Fareke:
Muhammed Hammed

A Nigerian youth corps member who studied Mass Communication has taken to social media to express her frustration after being posted to a bakery for her NYSC.

The young lady, identified as @Aridunu_jones on X (formerly Twitter), shared her experience online, questioning the relevance of her posting to her field of study.

In her words: “God will help me and judge NYSC. When I studied Mass Communication, you guys now posted me to a BAKERY. BAKERY OOOO!!!”

She called on God for help and expressed confusion over the decision, sparking reactions online.

As her post gained traction, concerned users flooded the comment section to share their thoughts and offer support.

See some reactions below:

@DrMel_: “You can be their PR person? Opportunities don’t always look like opportunities sometimes.”

@lekan_olayinka1: “Will the masses not buy bread? Will you not communicate with them?”

@orukusuku: “What happened to you managing the Public Relations Department of the Bakery?”

@Tim_krux: “Your skills in mass communication would come in handy in advertising bread.”

She called on God for help and expressed confusion over the decision, sparking reactions online.

As her post gained traction, concerned users flooded the comment section to share their thoughts and offer support.

See some reactions below:

@DrMel_: “You can be their PR person? Opportunities don’t always look like opportunities sometimes.”

@lekan_olayinka1: “Will the masses not buy bread? Will you not communicate with them?”

@orukusuku: “What happened to you managing the Public Relations Department of the Bakery?”

@Tim_krux: “Your skills in mass communication would come in handy in advertising bread.”


https://www.gistreel.com/corps-member-who-studied-mass-communication-fumes-after-nysc-posts-her-to-bakery/

Do PRO now.
Or you no know say advert and pro na mass com profession

obembet:
That's fake bro... Insurance is #15k everywhere in Nigeria except u do fake one. So how much is VL and road worthiness

Nlfpmod

Aside insurance renewal na 23-28k

obembet:
Some believe that electricity as improve while many Nigerians still living darking.

Now without sentiment, With current electricity supply in your area, Rate minister of power between 1-10

For my area here in Rivers state, I rate them 1-10

Source: obembet

Please try rate from 0 instead from 1.
From 0 -10. Then my answer is 0

DiamondsAreFore:
From the National Health Service (NHS) website:



https://www.healthcareers.nhs.uk/explore-roles/doctors/pay-doctors

Please also show us there tax

ivandragon:
Google is your friend.

Ignorance is a disease
To come up please do more.
Don't talk but listen to talks do this for 4years then you will be qualified for knowledge but for now you're a society minus

gabbytabby:
I think foreign saboteurs are also using some of them and probably promising land grab and the spoils of mineral resources theft.

It is a complex issue that needs a well thought out response. I was really hopeful that Buhari with his military background would be able to make a dent.

Only separation can solve Nigeria problem and that is difficult to attain.
Let the north deal with what they created. Let the south defend there territory against northern encroachment.
This issue of insecurities everywhere is religion in sensed and inclined

dederocs:
Why are the army in the barracks when people are killed at random by savages?

Nigeria problem is complex. Our problem is from the north Fulani in particular

Karlovych:
It will never be well with the drug Master and his terrorist deputy, he must be booted out in 2027.

#Back to Bourdillon

When people talk I wonder if they think.
If we must address the issue of bandit and insecurities we must tell our northern elites to repent and that is the truth. Fulani is Nigeria problem and that simply because they have had too much grip on power

Amitex:
Don't get it twisted sir.
Emefiele 3x in 8 years
Cardoso 2x + in 1 1/2 years.

This information is irrelevant.

Dollar was pegged for all other CBN Governors except Cardoso.

You are comparing Apples to Oranges.

Noblechykk:
In other words, it could reach 5x in 8 years

This information is irrelevant.

Dollar was pegged for all other CBN Governors except Cardoso.

You are comparing Apples to Oranges.

Gbadugbakun:
APC has nothing good to offer this country

This information is irrelevant.

Dollar was pegged for all other CBN Governors except Cardoso.

You are comparing Apples to Oranges.

ivandragon:
Come 2027, apc must be kicked out from the centre.

They have shown that they are more concerned in propaganda and optics than actual governance.

Please can you explain what determines the value of currency, like what are the factors that makes a country currency strong so we know if they are incompetent or they are incapacitated by the system

Zooposki:
Emefiele 3x, while Cardoso 2x. Soludo and Sanusi the best.

It got bad under all the governor's
Not because they're incompetent but because the system is bad.
Infact it could have been worse under emefiele in not that we borrowed to sustain our rate.

GanagiBitrus:
It's only mysterious because nobody has taken the time & pains to study & investigate it's source.

They are waiting for you