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Family / Have You Seen This Man by dapaiks: 4:48pm On Nov 24, 2015 |
Hello NLRS. Please am looking for a long friend of mine By name MOHAMMED JAMIU GOLD We attended FGBC Garki=Abuja aka Apo Boys Back in 2003=2009 He is an indigene of Kwara State Resides in Upper Benue River Basin Development Authority quarters Minna Niger state as of then He studied Quantity Survey at FUT Minna class of "09/10" i lost contact with him since then Pls if any1 have information of his where about or present contact should call/text me on 07030320807 Attached to this are some of his photos as of then. thank you
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Family / The Cause Of Husband Scarcity Today. by dapaiks: 8:33am On Nov 22, 2015 |
"Husband Scarcity" has become one of the challenges faced by
many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses, majority of
the intentions are prayer for a life partner. And this calls for
concern. Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers and
grandmothers, was there really much of a "Husband Scarcity"
problem? Or, maybe there were more men than women then, or
there was an adequate corresponding numbers of both genders.
I don't think so. Maybe then, the women had values and were
prepared to build a home and not park into a built home. Then,
once a young man comes of age and can at least feed himself
and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman
really appreciates him and helps him to build a future. What am
I really trying to say? We created what we now see as "Husband
Scarcity" for ourselves. Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an
average girl to define her dream husband; you get things like
"he has to be tall, handsome, fair, and rich, own a house at
least, and be presentable" and then she adds "God fearing" in
order not to sound so worldly. Then, check the number of girls
around you and the number of men that meet that standard,
and you will see the problem. You hear girls say, "I cannot
suffer in my father's house and then go and start suffering
with a man." What a wonderful dream! What if from the
beginning, you have everything you want and there is no
suffering, and later in the marriage, the table turns around,
then comes suffering? Will you run away? No one prays for
suffering, but it is good to start small and end big, than start
big and end small. The problem is that the description majority
of girls give of their ideal man is virtually the same. When 50
girls want the same kind of man and the man that fits what
they want is just 1 man, and the man can only pick one. Then,
what becomes of 49 others? They simply start lamenting of
"Husband Scarcity". Another irony of our time is that it is hard,
due to the face of our economy to find a man who is of
marriage age who possesses all those things these ladies want,
legally. If you look around,
majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue,
who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects,
are married and not complaining of husband scarcity. The
easiest way to find a husband now, is to change your view of
who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then
saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose
for making him, without a help mate and then made the woman
and gave to him, and he felt complete and fulfilled. MARRIAGE
IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of
building the family of God here on earth. For those who see
marriage as a way out of poverty, it is a way into bondage.
Women are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS... DON'T
CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY. Where he is today,
may only be a route to where God has destined him to be
tomorrow. Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST
MEANS TO THAT HIS DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "husband
scarcity". PICK UP THE RIGHT VALUES. I am not saying that
you should pick anyone that comes your way and talks of
marriage, not all men are husband materials. What I am saying
is that you should stop setting your standard on material
acquisitions or physical appearances. Look beyond the physical.
WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR
HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF. And that which
he is made of is, most times, not seen with the physical eyes,
only its effects can be seen. Marriage is a permanent thing.
Whatever is seen is temporal and that which is not seen is
permanent. Relax and go to God in prayer. God did not just
make Eve for making sake; He made her for Adam's need to be
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Crime / Re: Lawrence Anini: Life And Death Of Nigeria’s Most Notorious Armed Robber (photos) by dapaiks: 9:09am On Nov 14, 2015 |
linearity:about d charm and d women part is true |
Travel / Please Ugent Help Needed Were Can I Get Bus Frm Niger To Ph. by dapaiks: 9:08pm On Nov 13, 2015 |
please need help ugently i wnto travel from niger state or abuja to portharcourt but i av no idea where i can get a bus here pls if u av any idea where i can get a bus frm niger state or abuja to ph n d price i wil b vry grtfl tnkz. |
Agriculture / Re: See This Baby Antelope My Brother Caught by dapaiks: 2:51pm On Oct 29, 2015 |
tell your bro if he wuld let it fr fr at 10k
to b delivered in Niger state
call me on 07030320807 |
Phones / Re: MTN Customer Care Thread by dapaiks: 3:24pm On Oct 26, 2015 |
hello please i cnt connect my sim with my moderm to my PC i alwys recieve error628 wen i try connecting using me modem pls help me out tnks the sim number is 07030320807 |
Phones / Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by dapaiks: 7:56pm On Oct 02, 2015 |
Some one please my Samsung galaxy fell into a bucket of water i dried for three days now an it refused to come up please what can i do to revive my tab thnkz |
Phones / Re: MTN Customer Care Thread by dapaiks: 7:41am On Sep 21, 2015 |
pls i cnt snd message wit my mtn sim wen ever i snd message it tells me mssg dending fail i checked d center no, it is intackrd i put d sim in a touch lighy phone d same tin this is my number pls hep me fix it 0703877o247 |
Romance / Re: I Thought He Is A Friend, Now He Wants Sex For A Favour He Did by dapaiks: 7:40pm On Sep 18, 2015 |
you guys are all judging this guy based on the ladys side of the story. to me she is just telling the good side of her story n u cnt judge two people on a one sisded story. First tin first wat mess did she got her self into that is was so serious that she had to use her school fee knowing well that she cant replace it? secondly wats that mess that you cant tell ur parent in order to fix it? Guys always have a way off finding out tin for them self may be smewer alng the line he discovered she is a runs girl in he wants to have his own share of the national cake. to cut vrytin short pay him his money either in cash or in kind period. and next time dont get involved in tinx u cnt fix urslf |
Religion / Re: Calabar Pastor’s Family Lived With Python For 10 Years by dapaiks: 11:48pm On Sep 15, 2015 |
same snake for two different thread/story NL's please compare n contrast this threads https://www.nairaland.com/2584993/lagosian-kills-big-python-house https://www.nairaland.com/2602090/calabar-pastors-family-lived-python i dont knw what nor who to believe anymore. lies just yagba full groud everywer |
Phones / Re: MTN Customer Care Thread by dapaiks: 12:24pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
On Thursday 10/09/2015 my sim was blocked by MTN i received a massage that i can make call nor send message with my sim i should visit an authorized MTN out let to validate my sim. i did the validation that day and my sim was reactivated later in the night i got a message from mtn that my validation was successful with a bonus of 500N air time. yesterday in the evening i received another message from MTN that i should validate my sim as directed by NCC to avoid being disconnected Those that mean that my validation was void? if so then why send me a confirmation message at the first please? pls this is my number 07030320807 help me check what is actual going on with my sim thank you |
Travel / Re: Chopper Crashes Into NDA Quarters In Kaduna (Photos) by dapaiks: 12:29pm On Aug 29, 2015 |
Ahmed0336: It seems you dont know what is called a Chopper |
Food / Re: Man Finds Dead Rat In Grilled Full Chicken He Purchased...(pics) by dapaiks: 10:33pm On Aug 27, 2015 |
shymeo:NO NA RAT ROLL |
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