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Is EFCC not a uniform organization?? They earn more than customs naa.. Why are you guys saying customs is the highest earner in Nigeria??

Personally, every disappointment, heartbreak etc you come across, turn it into a positive energy.. What do I mean??

Don't sulk, don't give up yes it hurts.. Hurts more than a stab in some cases but don't give up.. Try to see where you can improve and keep pushing....

Make friends oo the good the bad the ugly.. Make friends..

Lastly, go close to God.. He answers He listens.. Just say a word of prayer not necessarily in the morning or night.. You can pray anytime and anywhere...

Always hold grudges esp towards people that could help and refused, hold grudges it'll help you to grow and when you later make it, you'll forget about them... Trust me it works..

Once again the phrase "women age like milk" has once again been proven..

I wish I could express the joy in my heart on seeing what this guy did.. Nnam, the brovahood is proud of you..

Now, imagine how she was acting in her 20's rejecting men and telling them you're not my class, acting upclass because as they'd always say "I no fit date my age range o"

Now frustration has pushed her to attempting to marry someone she's far older than because she wants to answer "Mrs"

It was obvious that the only thing she brought to the r/ship was money and that was all she could offer, no good communication, very dangerously terrible face card, imagine having a bad day and on getting home you meet chewbacca.. Laughs

Look at Toke makinwa first off she said, ladies don't need to marry, secondly she said, if na second wife sef, do oo, guess what folks, she pregnant now, the man is nowhere to be found... What about the ladies she's been misleading over the years?

See saidaboj now, after now you go see her for man arms cuddling and smiling...

This is a message to all so called feminists, please keep being stupid in the city while pretty village girls get married every Saturday..

Happy Sunday Nairalanders..

Kudos to the Lion... I think Nigerians need his strong handedness in the ministry of defense... Let PBAT do a little RESHUFFLING..

jrobbins:
I was surprised to hear food for hangout. I was expecting to see drinks

I guess we all have our meaning to it..

Nnamdipapa:
Home is boring for me, maybe because I work from home and have little contact with people outside my family. I hung out with my kids today at a bar, we ate to our fill, played snookers, discussed before heading home, and cost roughly N65,000 for four of us.

Ok.. That's your kids it's ok to spend a mil on them if you're taking them out.. But the topic is about friends and people in a social circle, not really family related..

Nnamdipapa:
"Hang out at home?", which grown adult does that in 2025?

Quite a few in my world but for those of us who likes having fun at home.. It's heaven for us..

Hanging out is a social exercise if I may put it that way... But it's not all about spending much..

First off, choose a closer location it's not necessary the joint should be 20mins away, you can choose a place close to your area and hangout..

Second, you don't need to buy much drinks, a bottle of rum or whiskey or vodka with coke is okay... Get disposable cups you're good to go..

Thirdly, who needs a bucket of chicken or plate of food that costs #4,500 etc.. No one bro, you don't need that..

Fourth, "hang out at home.." Yes you heard me... It may sound strange to you but right now it's the best place to chill... You got fridge, Gen, kitchen with food stuffs, you can use 10k to do it..

Also home hangout means safety, you guys will be indoors playing music, laughing and drinking, anytime your friends are tired, bolt will pick them from your house to theirs...

My 2cent

I've been reading from page 1 and I can say I actually comend the op for bringing this up..

Once again the hypocrisy of the women is been uncovered as usual.. They act like they did not see the post..

Lemme summarize, op said when men are broke, they are shamed, they are told not to come close to a woman, they are told to go and make money etc but when the money has been made, the same society will tell them to be "faithful" to one woman..

The women know about this, the ones commenting up there are aware about this stereotype but once again they say nothing because it favors them..

This must change... Men besides the fact that discipline and focus is our watchword and toiling through the years, we realize that women become more of a property than an asset.. Used for fun and "cruise" as Gen z will say...

I personally was broke shamed countless times, more times than I could remember from females, when I later had money, I broke hearts, clapped cheeks and had multiple females..

It went from comeuppance to craving to fun and now nothing... Society wasn't fair on this particular issue...

Someone once said "them say make I get money before I get girlfriend, but now my money go fit carry three girls, wetin I go do?"

As for me, make money have fun, marry late keep something for the kids incase you clock out early... Dazoll..

No one has idea of DSS ranks??

brain54:
I'm sorry sir...

Laughs.. Abeg Liv me o

Guys.. I need DSS ranks and available positions... Cos a Lotta people are asking how to get the ranks...

brain54:
She should look sexy even in her dream...?

Is that not too much pressure?

A man that will cheat will cheat... if you like sexy like Beyonce!

Where in my statement did I talk about dream?? Is that a dream scenario??

Too much pressure?? Really?? Until he goes out then you'll see the pressure and effort she puts to finding out who he's out with..

Indeed but study confirms that a high number of men who cheat are pushed out by their wives.. Do your research Lil man and stop defending garbage..

Look at what a woman is wearing in the house, tying headtie inside house, with God knows what kinda hair is on her head..

Look at the man, peaceful, nice haircut and neat beards..

Women try dressing sexy at home, look neat and enticing... What's y'all problem?? How can my wife be looking like my grandma??

It's a pity Sha.. Tomorrow you'll complain he's going out.. Why won't he go out?? Why?? I taya abeg

ejor1:
For Enugu here, glo seem to be best for me. I do get 30g for 5k and it do last for a month.

Code please

Why will they be asking for 765n as payment for NIN verification I don't think it's real

Lighterx:
Just say god
So I can believe you

Why should I? How does it sound, unbelievable?

Anyways that was my turning point, infact she later asked 'because of how much sef? '

Me wae borrow keke go find money to give her.. laughs

Thank God for nairaland red pill o... I for be simp pro max

"What am I coming to do?" From my girlfriend that's lives 1hr30mins away after I sent her transport...

She told me she wanted to come over o...

emoboy4u:
Lol, I cringe at the way you people bastardize white collar jobs. Yes I agree, there some that can be useless but there are alot that are good too.

An average Graduate trainee of a Nigerian bank get nothing less than 300k per month, that's about 13k per day if you divide by 22 working days. This is a fresh graduate with a 2.2/2.1 in any course and an NYSC certificate, no experience whatsoever.

Tell me what business will net you about 4Million annually without investing 10x as capital.

The truth is entrepreneurship and 9-5 can coexist. You don't have to demean one to praise the other.

No no no my guy don't get me wrong... We're just discussing based on the topic at hand... I'd never bastardize white collar job..

Truth is keke driving is rough but if you ask me honestly, I'd prefer daily pay (keke) to white collar jobs..

At a stage you build a customer base, you go sidon for house Dem go call you to come here, come there, all of them 'a drop'... You go dae cash out and your keke no go dae get much stress..

Hope you get my drift..

Love800:
Lol.

You did not talk about the maintenance and repair of keke which is the main disadvantage in the business. You go repair keke till you tire, and the worse thing be say, the repairer fit spoil your keke for you with fake spare parts!

Of course there are demerits.. when driving keke for a while you build a network of pals that includes mechanics, police officers, touts and keke drivers as well.

You get referrals for jobs, spare parts and there are actually mechanics you can trust.. you know keke drivers have a very tight knit community.. They share a lot of ideas and plans..

So if you're driving you gain experience quickly and you learn fast.. Take advantage of it

I smiled when I saw this post... Over 100k
Guys these are the real earners... Which kain 9-5 go give you this amount? None

I use to drive keke some years back under Buhari... I make 6-7k daily... Fuel was 180n or so... The only demerits was that I was doing hire purchase so every week I remit 12k

But eh... Money dae keke especially if you own it... You'll be living large.. Don't joke with daily income oo... You can keep a woman at home, be going to school and be paying rent with keke money...

You think it's to wear suit?? Lemme tell you, once you're reliable and people know you ba? You'll be getting calls to carry church people, travellers to and from motor parks, market women, business people and some guys and ladies that like a drop..

I even like as people dae look keke guys down... But na Dem be de real ogees

My x5 that year... Mehn that 5secs video recording was the bomb....

To my guy above... Those genders matter Taya me... Things you can use to nack Dem.. noodles, coke, generator, just have light in your house, food, weed, beer, drinks alcoholic and non the list is endless.

My guy got a job some months ago good salary now he wants to go to school..

He paid 350k for rent off k... Bought a mini bus to defeat mobility and brokerage you know...

Furnished the house wetin no good... Gentlemen if you see ladies ehnnnnn...

Women mata no dae end

Personally, I'm financially ok at least to an extend, in my early 30s. Pressure to get married but no good girls anywhere..

Just be financially stable and set targets. Don't let distractions get to you. Stay true. Don't smoke too much, take yourself out once in a while, try to ease your stress too.. don't think too much. Drink beer o

Always have in mind that family problem no dae finish.. Serve God and cultivate a habit of praying.. I think that's all for now..

I really like beta talk..

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I thank you the OP SultanOfAbia and I also thank the commenters.. I still thank God for making me discover Nairaland back when those tough guys were moderators and when we had some bone head redpillers..

Unfortunately today, instead of our men to be redpillers, they've turned to SIMPS, chronic SIMPS at that..

Girls are so much now.. It's easier to go hungry than to see sex... Sex is so common now that it's almost like air..

Though this may not apply to some people but to me and so many other redpillers out there it's the truth.. Guys now worship girls, praise their beauty and at the end na one weed smoker/sachet drinkers go dae gbensh her..

Nothing we never see.. Guys come together to change this narrative, give these girls a long rope and their attention towards you doubles overnight..

Don't call too much, don't text too much, always be busy...

Short story.. I met a girl at a supermarket a sales attendant... So pretty though.. Exchanged contacts, invited her over, said she was busy and couldn't come..

OK no worries, I called on a Saturday and she told me she dint go to work that day... This is someone that said she's always at work and all..

Baba I blocked her number, ASAP, deleted it from my phone, she called with another number I cut the call blocked the number..

She called with another number that's when I picked up and she explained what really happened and it was convincing..

We later hooked up multiple times and the rest is history... Once again guys don't I repeat don't act like you'll die if a lady rejects your advances..

Also, If you want to defeat this negative ideology of SIMPLETONISM, go to romance section and check the gid redpillers and your life will change for the better.. Ciao