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LordIsaac:
Parents, 21 year old kids should not be talking about family problems; please, do not bring kids you cannot raise to this world!
Men, most of these girls are just hungry, do not confuse it with love. Please help them if you can without seeking sexual gratification.
Young men, understand that 18-24 year olds may be called adults, but most of them are still kids in adult bodies, please handle them with care.
Finally, do not have access to a woman's body by force; even when she says yes to it, ask yourself a 100 times, is it really a "yes"!

To add to your statement, 21yr Olds are not kids... Girls mature faster than men, if you say a 21yr old 'guy' is a kid I'll believe because he's most likely still finding his foot..

A 21yr old girl now is not a kid please, kids don't smoke, they don't do drugs... They're exposed very exposed sir...

LordIsaac:
Parents, 21 year old kids should not be talking about family problems; please, do not bring kids you cannot raise to this world!
Men, most of these girls are just hungry, do not confuse it with love. Please help them if you can without seeking sexual gratification.
Young men, understand that 18-24 year olds may be called adults, but most of them are still kids in adult bodies, please handle them with care.
Finally, do not have access to a woman's body by force; even when she says yes to it, ask yourself a 100 times, is it really a "yes"!

Do you know why I stopped helping for free?? Especially women... Lemme tell you why...

I'm a giver, it's always been a part of my life and while growing up, I found out it was one of my cheat codes to gain blessings and favor from Heaven...

Fast forward to when I got a job I decided to take my giving a notch higher which I was doing without issues... I have a friend who gives too...

He met a girl and started helping her, he bought clothes, shoes, materials from her, he even assisted her financially... At first I noticed a shirt was going for 12, 15k...and this sane shirt was 5k in the market...

I noticed a pattern of exploitation from her, so I called him and talked to him, he just declined and ignored me... I let it slide...

Note: He was also asking her out but she refused...

One day, she came to our house with her friend cos her friend was dating my roommate... It started raining heavily so they couldn't leave on time...

This started talking "girls stuff" completely forgetting they weren't alone, she (the one exploiting my friend) said "no body go see her pant o, that mumu boy, anything wae I sell for am him go buy, my bra him no go see tok less of my pant, na mumu him be"

I was happy and dissapointed at the same time... Happy cos I'd been vindicated dissapointed cos I was right about her...

At the end he cut her off... So what am I saying? Women don like men that help them without sleeping with them.. It's true my guy...

There're countless cases where women shame nice men... If you help a woman for free, when she sees her friends she'll start laughing at you and call you names...

Personally, as long as you're not a family member or close relative, I'll sleep with you before I help you... I'm not a nice guy

Geh Geh is saying the truth.. I've been reading everyone's comment and no one can categorically say exactly what geh Geh is doing wrong...

Women are manipulative in nature... If you spend on a woman and lavish her with gifts she'll praise you and call you an intentional man.. But if you ask her if she'd like her brother to spend on a girl like that she'd say "God forbid"

So women know what they're doing... Real women like geh Geh.. They even post his video.. But you see those gold diggers, they hate him with passion and we all know why...

You can obviously see the reason she's still single...

I also broke up with my girl.... We dated for almost 2yrs...i dint date for a few months so I decided to date again...

I met a lady about 40+... I wanted to try older ladies cos I wanted maturity... This one was worse than the last.... This was when I noticed "conditional love"

Everytime there was a wedding to attend and she was always a part of the bridal shower... Every month I got a billing of 20 30k for materials and all...

And if you no give her that money she go squeeze face for you like a week or two.. That's not all..

She's always hungry, never has data or transport, always has one family issue, always sick.... To top it all, she's working oo

I'm already done with her in my mind.... No difference with the smalla them... Imagine a 40+ man that hasn't gotten his stuff together...

This relationship matter taya me abeg...

Infinix hot 60i... It's not fast as was hyped... I'm thinking if getting the tecno... That one that looks like iPhone air...

Ladies ladies ladies, let me laugh at the video hahahahaha hahahahaha kikikikikikikikik...

I've said it again and again, don't help women... Don't give them money... As long as we're not related, we ain't fvcking, we ain't fvck, I ain't giving you shi shi...

If you help a lady once, you help her twice, thrice without sleeping with her, you'll be tagged a fool, he goat, mugu money spender...

She'll laugh and mock at you with her friends and you know the best part of it all? It's one of the girls in that same friend group that's going to come and tell you...

Women don't deserve good things because they can't handle it, if you think I'm lying give a woman a good man and see what happens...

Kudos to Dracula man.. Na real man you be my guy... Lemme laugh again haa hahahahaha hahaha I wonder why she dint call her female friends... Broke feminists..

The condition is known as athelia... Very rare... Omo if na me I go fear o

My own be say how person hand go carry reach those cabinets for up?

Where are the feminists when you need them?? Nigerian feminist.. Lioness online... Rabbit offline...

Goan meet your fellow women women nau... Abi women no dae drive car??

Ooooooo oo not this waist bead brouhahaha again.... I like waist bead, I love it, also leg chain, nose ring multiple ear piercings... If you like be queen of underwater... Mama climb bed set doggy jare...

Very religious but na una wicked pass for this world... Go to the north almost all the ladies there wear it... Some have been wearing it for as long as they can remember... They grew up seeing it on their waist so they just maintained it...

No more of this waist bead matter please... I go wipe you with waist beads... E no concern my papa...

You're loved "conditionally" you are loved based on what you can provide and how deep your pockets are...

Dtruthspeaker:
I met forn. Autocorrect does not want to leave it alone

Na opuehhh you wan talk?? If yes, then that's the fun na... Call her over, drink, smoke, fvckk, then make she dae go her house...

Dtruthspeaker:
That word fun is actually form they are referring to.

I don't get

Dtruthspeaker:
If really you you are smart then you would know that one of the worst things a man can do to himself is to go having forn with a single or double mom

That's not the worst... Correct yourself my bro... Fun? Yes.. Of cos you can have fun...

But make e no pass lai that o... As day break make she dae break from your house too... If not... Lemme nor talk sha

I'll talk and I'll keep talking till I'm called a talkative... Single mothers are for fun... Wipe and clear...

Don't personalize a Community property... Cure your konji and pass to the next bro...

Most of you won't listen, you'll be like "she's calm, she's homely, she's this, she's that"

Of course she is.. She has a kid or kids and one man alone can't take care of them... The same way she behaves towards you is the same way she behaves towards five six guys... She has an endgame..

Be warned.. Don't say Nairalanders didn't warn you because if you come back here to cry, I'll laugh and mock you... Trust this forum naa...

Single mothers are for fun... Just fun.... Yes they're homely and warm but na Simpson go fall for them....

Please don't personalize a general merchandise... Puff puff pass gents.... Have a nice day...

Tenrack:
make sure you update us o when she starts to act funny. If not I go swear for u you wise pass elders wey say make you avoid single moms ba. But wait o. Why can't you go for single ladies without burdens and baggages?

When we dae collect red pills for nairaland more than 10yrs ago.. I doubt you were here... So face your front...

Tenrack:
okay na. Sha be kind enough to update us when things go side ways. Thanks.

Baba think say everybody na simpleton like ham... Keep dreaming bro..

Tenrack:
nice and accomodating? Wait small she'll show you her true colours soon

Which true colors?? No be everybody dae be simp like you bro

I love the activeness on this topic.. I commend all of you... Though I wish to digress a little....

Why are single mothers so nice and accommodating? Why is the pvsdy so sweet and inviting??

Is there something they're not telling us??

Mercury12:
those dwarfs and hunchback women in our society if most men leave or discriminate them who will marry them?
Or are they not humans

Does this look like marriage to you?? Speak with facts please..

Anything una like una dae forrk.. Anywhere una like una dae chook preeeek.... Na Una dae make women talk to us anyhow..

What kind of habit is this... This has ritualistic vibes written all over it... Very disgusting.. Tueh...

Rage bait.. I see what you're doing...

Can you give your biological brother this kind if advice? I guess, no.

No, because it encourages disloyalty. You can't just.... Infact... I wan sleep... No be everybody I suppose answer ma sef...

So EFCC is the highest paid paramilitary org in the country?? Who's second then?

Is EFCC not a uniform organization?? They earn more than customs naa.. Why are you guys saying customs is the highest earner in Nigeria??

Personally, every disappointment, heartbreak etc you come across, turn it into a positive energy.. What do I mean??

Don't sulk, don't give up yes it hurts.. Hurts more than a stab in some cases but don't give up.. Try to see where you can improve and keep pushing....

Make friends oo the good the bad the ugly.. Make friends..

Lastly, go close to God.. He answers He listens.. Just say a word of prayer not necessarily in the morning or night.. You can pray anytime and anywhere...

Always hold grudges esp towards people that could help and refused, hold grudges it'll help you to grow and when you later make it, you'll forget about them... Trust me it works..

Once again the phrase "women age like milk" has once again been proven..

I wish I could express the joy in my heart on seeing what this guy did.. Nnam, the brovahood is proud of you..

Now, imagine how she was acting in her 20's rejecting men and telling them you're not my class, acting upclass because as they'd always say "I no fit date my age range o"

Now frustration has pushed her to attempting to marry someone she's far older than because she wants to answer "Mrs"

It was obvious that the only thing she brought to the r/ship was money and that was all she could offer, no good communication, very dangerously terrible face card, imagine having a bad day and on getting home you meet chewbacca.. Laughs

Look at Toke makinwa first off she said, ladies don't need to marry, secondly she said, if na second wife sef, do oo, guess what folks, she pregnant now, the man is nowhere to be found... What about the ladies she's been misleading over the years?

See saidaboj now, after now you go see her for man arms cuddling and smiling...

This is a message to all so called feminists, please keep being stupid in the city while pretty village girls get married every Saturday..

Happy Sunday Nairalanders..

Kudos to the Lion... I think Nigerians need his strong handedness in the ministry of defense... Let PBAT do a little RESHUFFLING..

jrobbins:
I was surprised to hear food for hangout. I was expecting to see drinks

I guess we all have our meaning to it..

Nnamdipapa:
Home is boring for me, maybe because I work from home and have little contact with people outside my family. I hung out with my kids today at a bar, we ate to our fill, played snookers, discussed before heading home, and cost roughly N65,000 for four of us.

Ok.. That's your kids it's ok to spend a mil on them if you're taking them out.. But the topic is about friends and people in a social circle, not really family related..