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compton11:
This is good.


Split Jerusalem into two and give Palestine half and isreali half.


Next time u will learn not to help people with your land

Who helped who?

Miracle112:
Talk talk talk until next US president take over than change back to nothing happen. That's how US political system work.

By the way.. I have a standard unisex saloon for sale located at very busy junction in Portharcourt.
Very standard with up to date facilities.
3.3m price

Are you selling with the building?

Bunnybee:
Happy birthday to the love of my life.

You will always be my baby even if you turn 70

Mummy loves you now and always.

Are you a single mum?

Alexjohn2020:
Ass digger

Has he digged yours before?

Antoeni:
He's into Ass Hunting (GAY) just like His counterpart Mr Gozie Okeke.. But what do I know?

Are you serious Bro?

JustPowerApps:
His mac is synched with his Iphone I guess that's what is enticing you. Material driven girls will continue to know no peace

I'm telling you.

She just wants to tell us the guy has mac and iphone

missimelda01:
So I made a post earlier about how my partner wasn't interested in growing emotionally, well we continued having issues because of his behaviors (complains a lot, petty, prefers to keep malice instead of communicating and so much more). I finally decided to break up with him.

The next day after the break up, he messaged me on Instagram (I blocked him on every other platform and forgot this), he started begging and promised to communicate better. I didn't pay attention to him until after two days, then we started calling on Instagram and it was as if things were getting better.

My birthday was two days ago, he came to my house with gifts, said he had made plans for them before we broke up...lol he ask me out again and I said yes (don't blame me, I find it difficult to detach from people I love).

I was at his place and was using his computer to work and messages kept coming in from one particular girl, I was ignoring it until it was too hard to ignore, opened it and saw the shock of my life (his mac is sync with his iPhone). This guy had unprotected sex with a girl he met on a dating app the same week we ‘broke up’

I'm angry, disappointed and confused.
What do men want? You meet a girl who's loyal, independent, cares for your family, plans with you and you still ruin everything.

P.S this guy was so in love with me, he's been so pressed about meeting my mum, he already knows my siblings...I’m beginning to think he has mental problems.

i think you deserve that guy.

I know why I said this but I'm not telling you

Dsalvo:
Painment talk for you though. Truth hurts. I have seen Igbo women agbero behaviour in Lagos, first hand, to know I never want to ever visit the SE to experience she-man madness your women are famous for.

No finesse, feminine appeal or soft spirit. Women like men. Too jacked up on testosterone.

Keep deceiving yourself

Dsalvo:
Kai. IGBOS. Always hateful, uncouth and lacking in decorum. Their women, especially those raised in the SE are worse than Lagos cultists and agberos.

Always fighting and warring. Shior. PMB, please grant Biafra asap abeg.

Stupid talk

How do we know these guys are cultists?

danot1030:
Old news. Seems Johnson Suleman has shared money reach Seun as nairaland hardly broadcast the current news about Johnson Suleman.

Apostle that does three some with mother and daughter. Daniella Okeke and Iyabo Ojo and the daughter. Suleman disvirgin Iyabo Ojo daughter at age 15.

Haba.....this is weighty

bewov:
Please guys, I have something bothering me so much, I will really appreciate it if I can get a matured response.

These might be long, but please bare with me

There is this girl have been dating since March 2021. Although, we met in University days and we have been dating since 2017, but because I was graduating and she has 1 more year to spend in the school, I left her and travelled to Lagos to work, because I got a job in a company in Lagos, immediately I graduated. I needed to concentrate on my future so I told her I want to pause the relationship to focus, but I will definitely be back for her, I promised her this. She was a virgin then!

After working in the company for 2years, I also learnt some IT skills online while I was working in the company, and I was earning cool money from it, so I decided to quit the job and focus more on the online business.

My business have been doing well and I have about 2 other virtual assistant helping me out, anyway I was kind of comfortable, so I thought of fulfilling my promise to my girlfriend. I called her one morning, and she was shocked! We chatted a bit and I told her I want us to see urgently, we schedule a date for her to meet me in the hotel, because I was staying in Lekki and he stays around Surulere, I wanted an hotel close to her house, so she can return early.

We met at the hotel and I can see she missed me so much, around 3pm I told her I'm back and I want us to continue dating and I'm ready to settle down, she agreed and we have been dating, all this happened around March 2021. Around April, I travelled out for about 2months, but I was very communicating with her, and when I got back around June, I discovered she had sex with another guy in May. Now, I wouldn't say she did it because of money, because I pay her 20k every month for upkeep, sometimes I just pay her 30k! She is not a wayward girl though, and she is not a type that sleeps around with guys back then in school, but once i came back into her life, I see a different girl entirely, when I came back she wasn't a virgin anymore, it's not my problem anyway, because the truth is I never forgot her during all those years I left her behind.

I didn't tell her I knew she cheated on me, but all I do tell her was that she did something bad to me and I want her to open up to me about it, but my girl kept on denying it, she sworn with her life, that she didn't cheat on me, that night I was shocked. Then, I didn't talk about it again till September, I gave her those months to regret her actions and confess to me, but she never did, also I didn't stop helping her financially, I still pay her monthly for upkeep. I know you will be wondering why I give her money, right? This girl was with me and loyal to me when I had nothing, like nothing at all! She was raised by a single mother and she is struggling a lot, after graduating she decided to go for Hair Stylist training, that is where she is currently. So I just give her money monthly just to stay strong.

So around September I decided to tell her she cheated on me, although it was that once, she begged, cried and told me she was drunk and regretted it, she told me she doesn't want to tell me because she knows I will end the relationship, well to be candid I love her so much, so I decided to forgive her, but since that day, trusting her was very very difficult for me. Although, I do watch her and since then I have never seen anything of such from her.

January 2022, her mother stopped her from coming to my place, she wants me to come see her first before she can allow her daughter to come visit me again. So, I went to see her mom last month and I made my intentions known to her, I told her I will want to marry her daughter and she said she is okay with it, if her daughter is okay with me.

This girl is my type of girl but, she has some behaviours that sincerely I don't think I can deal with.

She has this mindset of "A woman should be equal to a man".

She doesn't respect me, she chats with random guys and if they invite her for outing, she goes with them, even if I tell her not to go! When she visits me, she says I must join her in doing the house chores, she will say "It's either you clean the house and I will wash the plates and cook, or she wash the plates and cook, while I clean the house". And sometimes if she wants to cook for me, she will want me to come to the kitchen with her and do some works, maybe Grind pepper with blender or slice onion, if I dont, she gets annoyed, saying will she be the one to be doing all?

She did something that annoyed me this morning, around 6am today I went to the filling station to get petrol, well she knows I eat early always, maybe 6am or 7am, I would have taken breakfast, but she has never dished me food at that time, I always do it myself whenever she is around. When I got back from the filling station, I still met my girlfriend on the bed pressing her phone, I told her I'm hungry and I will want to eat Spaghetti with tomato sauce, and she replied "Baby, please cook it yourself, you said I'm your queen, pamper me na" Really? What does that have to do with you cooking for your fiance?

Well, I was annoyed, I went to the kitchen and prepared the food myself, the truth is when the food was ready, I only dished my own and ate, she said "What about her? Won't she eat?" I didn't answer her!

Aside from this, sincerely sometimes she talks to me rudely, and one thing she and I knows is that she is very very stubborn and not ready to submit to any man. Sincerely, this attitude is making me scared of settling down with her, I want to propose her this year and do the marriage rights but with all this behaviours I'm thinking the marriage will be hell for me.

When she came over yesterday, I prepared food for her before her arrival, and I served her, all she could say was "What is this? The food taste bad! Is this food or poison?" She never gave a good compliments about the meal, yet she finished the food and went for second round.

Last night before we went to bed, I told her to warm the rice and the stew, she said it won't get spoilt that she will do it in the morning, I asked her if she is sure, she said Yes. And I went to the kitchen before preparing my Spaghetti, I saw the rice is already bad and can't be eaten, I showed it to her and she was like "haaa she doesn't know it will spoil"

Also, the chicken I bought yesterday to cook her the meal, I couldn't use all, I left some in the pot, and I forgot to warm it last night, my girl saw it while washing the plates this morning, and she was like "What is this?" I told her chicken and she said "And you didn't warm it" she left it there in the pot like that without doing anything to revive it. Before I went to the kitchen to do it myself!

She only washed the plates, bath and went to church this morning, she didn't arrange the bed, nor sweep the room littered with all we ate last night. I'm sure of the message she is passing to me... "Have washed the plates, you clean the house".

Please guys, I want to propose her around August and settle down with her in November, but this behaviours are the things turning me off.

Will she changed and act normal when we get married, or this will continue? The guys she chat with, which I told her I don't like it, she replied that "She will never and ever leave them". All these types of attitudes and not showing me respect, do you think she will change after we get married or she will continue?

Please guys, I'm very confused here

Are you plain silly or something?

Do you really need someone to tell you what to do here?

Use you brain �

OBALOLA55:
YOU SHOULD BE DISCUSSING THIS WITH YOUR KAZEEM YOUR MECHANIC

Thank you

OBALOLA55:
THEN GO FOR IT

The price is fair right?

OBALOLA55:
STAY AWAY FROM FORD VEHICLES IF YOU DON’T HAVE THE CASH TO MAINTAIN IT

Since its for commerical Sir, don't you think it can make me money that ill be using to maintain it?

Attah995:
It not a V6,the all come as a V8,its a strong bus but bear it in mind that the maintenance and parts are expensive,but if it's for a commercial purpose it not for you but if it's for personal business use.. you are good to go.

It's actually for commerical Sir. I want to use it for interstate transport. Please what would you advise?

OBALOLA55:
CARRY YOUR MECH GO CHECK AM MAKE YOU NOR GO BUY BRIEF CASE

okay thanks.

But generally is that model okay?

Dozieson:
How far with the fuel consumption?

The engines and gear are expensive so know that the cost of maintenance is not cheap

He mentioned it's V6, that it consumes fuel like a normal v6.

And also oil change and everything

Abeg someone should say something

So I saw a van today close to my house.

It is 2003 Ford e150 for cargo. It appeared sound. Infact I have seen some toks that look like it but this particular one is Nigeria used.

I reached out to the owner and he said he imported it himself from US in 2013 for his wife. His wife used it till around 2015 and since then they have not used it again. Vehicle papers is dated back to 2015

He decided to sell it now.

I drove the van it was so smooth, automatic and also petrol.

He asked for 1.4m .

Please is it a good buy?

Kindly advise me asap

This is beautiful i must say

Candidlady:
How please

It's indescribable. But I can tell

Naijanascam:
It shows on a low budget married man

Lies.

Actually shows more on someone who feeds well

Naijanascam:
Far from that bro

True. It shows on man if he is married or not.

Candidlady:
Woah

Can you tell if a Lady is married by her appearance ?

Yes I can

Mercychen:
So you don't know how married men look? Hian! Lol..

I think you're a smart lady

Naijanascam:
How do you know a married man?
Do you see him with sienna vehicle?
Do you hear the cry of a baby in the background?

With all these questions of mine I came to conclude that you are impatient and confused

Observant people can actually know a married man by his looks

Candidlady:
Ihad to pause to ask a question



How can you have the appearance of a married man?

Like seriously

This is new



Modified : auntie iam done reading erthing please be careful that is all ican say!! These men can't be trusted...



The appearance part in your write up is still cracking me up was it his eyes, height, body size or his lips that gave him out as a married man .

°°°°°choking on my CB°°°

Observant people can actually know a married man by his looks

CatANDratTHEORY:
I stopped reading at
"He had the appearance of a Married man. You know that Married man looks. "

Abeg, how do married men look?

Observant people can actually know a married man by his looks

Almaigaa:
Our super Cop. IPOB and their SYMPERTISERS should quit celebrating. Kyari will be freed soon. He was caught while doing an undercover investigation on drugs related cases.

Really

immortalcrown:
Impressive. But it is sad how the world makes more effort towards developing weapons for wars than towards ending wars.
Imagine if the same effort is made towards ensuring equity and ending poverty.

There will never be an end to wars