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See them preachers, their mouth like furo idi. Make i heard word, in the normal Nigeria society, those that criticizes things are the masters and lovers of it.. Bite me. Thread closed. I am still banging that shit like it was me that scatted it.

greatgod2012:
You people and this your fantasies sha! Anyway, it's your life, your marriage, your choice!


As for your post, nothing to worry about. Remember your manhood is smaller compared to the width/size of your wife's golden pot and since you're not using your strapon, it shouldn't be surprising that she couldn't feel you inside, that golden pot is used to big sized manhood, make haste and buy yourself another strap on and thereafter, get back your groove!

This time you may need to buy a slightly bigger size!

You are wrong, read my post well. Throughout the 5 days rampage, the hole was normal and she was able to feel me inside, not until the 7th day that I figured out it was wide and she admitted herself that she could not feel me at that moment. I know what am talking about.

xoxo001:
Op, go and listen to this song " don't worry be happy " then all is well. Trust me it works every time

My brother, he nor ft easy like that.

sisisioge:
Haaa! You have started again!


Anyways, it is good that you two still have the hots for each other. However, can I just beg you to think about the health implications of this your anal jamborees? It is well o...imagining what goes on in your bedroom is kinda scary dude. Whew! It is well.

By the way, you've got to really put your mind at rest. Don't go and give yourself high BP because of your insecurities. It is well o.

sisioge, everybody have their own sexual fetishes, this is ours, its just that we have a problem with size. And how come you are terming this as insecurity? c'mon woman, ith this new discovery, any sane and insane man will be worried to know whats going on. But you are a woman, you might not want to say sme things. I understand

SUPERPACK:
if u truely love her as u claim u should stop having anal sex immediately, unless u want ur wife to start wearing pampers,

There are millions of women out there, taking large di.cck in their an.us, trust me some dont have incontinence, neither do they end up wearing pampers. Mind you also, I dont posses such size to do such damage.

Good morning NLanders,

First off, please dont relate to my former post only if there is a tangible reason to. As this is a fresh issue of concern that bothers me lots. Since last week Sunday, my libido has been high, my woman and I have been having frequent sexual intercourse, and of-course adding our usual annal sex to it. I actually have been having sexx.x from Sunday till Thursday. On that faithful following Friday, I was trying to do pre-intimacy b4 we started, so as I throbbed my left finger into our anu.s, which I normally do, she immediately said my nail was sharp, which isnt, and said I should stop. I stopped, but noticed the annal opening was a bit opened,but wasnt too sure, then we continued with our Romance, kissing, touching etal. Then I figured out throughout the vaginal intercourse we had, we normally end it with annnal, but she decided to continue with vaginal and make me explode b4 we end with annal, please note that this suspicions were not there during this time, I only observed after the final stage of where my suspicion began to rise. B4 I could explode, I demanded we change pattern, as soon as I entered, I knew the hole was different, it was free and could not feel that gripping tightness. That was when I started having suspicion of probably a body change or (I just dont want to think about it) That shes cheating.

Please mind you Nlanders, dont condemn me, if you love a woman and cherish her, you dont want any other man to come for her or enjoying her with you, you know what it feels like if something occurs and the thought of that streams through your mind. The strap on artificial pe.nis replacement i bought was not good, so we couldnt use it, so there wouldnt be any thought of if that could be what has gaped her, infact while using the one I threw away, it does not gape her even after several usage.

Dear Nlander's, I do not like jumping into silly conclusions, but to say that am not worried would be a lie. As at yesternight, we did the same thing, and behold, the an.us feels more stretched than last Friday which was the last time we had until yesternight. Now my thought is, could it have been the constant annal sex we had from Sunday till Thursday that may have caused it to stretch, but technically I dont have the girth to cause such, does anyone have the medical knowledge of that part of the body changing in such manner? Or could it be that shes probably being stretched out by someone else? I actually did use style to tell her yesterday that her body feels a bit free, she also concurred that she was not feeling me inside of her, that shook my spine to learn, so I stylishly asked what may have caused it, she said she does not know, but later stated that she has stopped doing kegel exercises, which I know she does not do, we live together, never have gone to the gym and does not do anything as such since I married her, that was where worried gripped me the more.


Nlander's, abeg, I need una thoughts here.

NEROSKY:
darsool500... u just fall my hand big time,i said download applock immediately, make sure both apps don't have any pop-up notification, you've allowed her outplay u in ur own game, i guess anything you'll find out again, will be the one God lead u to - i just pray and hope her intentions are pure.. i never tried cheating on my babe til i found out love is not enough to trust anyone, i love her so much but these creature's God gave us have a very fragile brain... you'll cry one day to find out the little things they use to deceive woman or the little thing that makes them lose dia husbnd/bf/trust etc... i just pray God help u out on this n help change her, so ur home can be one peaceful one...


Lemme give u one more tips again, if anyone or ur wife locks any app with applock, it could be her message, whatsapp etc, just goto the setting and locate the app, clear cache & data and nothing will be locked on that device again.. have a nice day...

Nebrosky my guy, I apologize sey i fall ur hand, the applock wey i download will only request that a password be input before the app opens, in which the Icon sort of shows that its a call recording software, so at the sight of the icon sef, she go don know wetin the app be.

You know many attimes, with my contribution to our sexual life, romantic life, provision of needs, what will still make a woman want to listen to another man and fall, and as a guyman wey retain code of ethics that can tame a normal sane woman, for this one though, the matter sort of pass me.

bomasek:
Baba the tech Dude gave u yam and knife still u effed up,had u not been hasty or careless,u would v caught her right in the act. I may be wrong but it's obvious your wife is up to something. She's obviously smart and has outplayed up in this of keeping up with her. I hope the tech dude comes up with an app with which u can monitor her activities from your phone. Good luck in your quest of unravelling the mystery.

I effed up, i sincerely admit to it. Yes shes smart but sometimes she loses her guard as well.

I am just having the opportunity to respond. Well everything blew up the next morning the guy was suppose to come and see her. I didnt install the app lock, though I turned off notification which should not have made her see the app, but one way or the other, she saw it, but I already cleared call logs but she was able to retreive the little calls she made that morning. She came back in that morning to confront me, and from the true caller log of the guy that I checked, I guess I mistakenly dialed the guys number which showed on the main call log so she was wondering where that came from. Anyway she came home and asked me about it, since I knew there was no excuse to give, I quickly told her to come and listen to the conversation with the guy, but I asked her first who the guy is and ish, she couldnt answer me , said I dont know. Then when I was about to playthe recording, she dashed out of the room, probably because she could not face the scene.

I called her back and summoned herself, I played the recording and asked her again who the guy was, she answered saying hes a friend in unilag back then, but she suddenly saw him on our estate where he came to greet his aunt bla bla blae, I then asked why she was speaking in a tone this seductive that I never heard her speak like before to a guy you seem to call a friend, she answered saying well if u are talking to a friend, you sometimes want to change your voice, I asked if that makes sense, she said well, its natural. I then asked why you have to be asking him about his onging project and talking about, I left you to make your money, sound like you have been asking or stylishly demanding for money, she said well, she said well there was nothing to discuss, that was why she came up with those lines of conversation. I then asked her if she'll be happy that i invited a former female friend to my officer to come and see me, talkless of even giving her my number when it is not business, she said well she feels because the guy comes arounf the neighborhood to work and he probably feels tired and then come around to chill at her creche where baby are @, I was like WTF, the guy has an aunt on the same estate, why is it your small creche he'll come around to rest.

The whole conversation was about to heat up, so I decided to mute, she then came back later to tell me that she was actually waiting for the dude to come today, so that she'll know exactly what the guy was up to, so she could tell me about it. No denying...my wife comes home to tell me about a guy that ask for her number this and that, but I guess it aint in most cases. I was like, do you have to wait until a guy shows u he aint up to no good before you tell him off when it isnt business, she was like well she didnt know and she just wanted to wait.

Funny thing is, going back to listen to the convo, before my wife said " dayo how you dey", the guy had actually said hello bae, the reason why I could not hear that part before was because i was rushing to listen to the convo, though observing the convo, my wife didnt hear the hello bae part, because her "how you dey" landed almost exactly when the dude said bae, so I asked her how she would feel if another lady calls me bae, she said well shes sorry, but she didnt hear the guy call her bae, that who the hell is his bae.

My dear Nairalanders, the painful part and the most confusing part is, my wife has never wear make up to work before, but after thrashing out the issue, I saw my wife wearing make up, trying to be sure she was ok with what she was wearing, I didnt want to sound childish asking her why shes making up to work which she has never done b4, so my in my mind i was li,e is this woman still hoping to see the guy today after all these confrontation. I later told her that if I find out that the guy came around or ever comes around, I'll take a decision she may forever live to regret. That was how it all went down, she deleted the app and asked me to install it back, asked why, she said she likes it, didnt show too much concern about that. Is there anyway I can get a app hiding software to hide the app if re-installed? I need it installed again because a day after all this, she still went out and spent an un-imaginable amount of time while her nanny was up at the creche with 11 kids alone to herself, saying she was at the cyber cafe doing something for her dad. This woman that I marry, seems to me wont change permanently, I am fed up

Here is the content of their convo:

wife: hey dayo, its been a while
guy: na u fashi me now
wife: no i didnt fashi u, i left u to make your money na
guy: laughs
wife: exactly, making all the money in lekki, so i had to leave u to make it
guy: laughs again
wife: whats up, whats going on
guy: I should be back tmr
wife: hen hen u see, u are the one thats been lounging
guy: no i have been busy
wife: you have been what
guy: I have been busy trying to get my furniture and stuffs
wife: wehre are you
guy: am in chevron at the moment
wife: oh on the island
guy:yes
wife: so your house is not ready yet, or you are still on the project
guy: yes am still on the project
wife: oh ok,
guy: yes everything is ready just remaining the furniture's
wife: wow thats nice,
guy: huh
wife: I said thats nice
guy: I'll see you tmr abi
wife: yea yea am around
guy: I'll call you when i get ....The last part i could not hear cos my wife said ok on the voice


Oh my, I had to sneak her phone while charging in our room around 2:45 am when she was asleep, after listening to this convo, I just knew something was up, am this kind of man that is always patient if I am not sure of something, but as for this, I am 200% sure. I checked on the call history, the history shows they only spoke yesterday, she didnt delete it, and for her type of phone, if sh has been speaking to the same person since last year, the log will be there, so i went to her true caller, behold, true caller showed that they spoke Jan 24, Jan 31, Feb 8, and Feb 21 which was yesterday, so am now wondering where the call logs of the other calls which is suppose to be showing on her main call logs vanished to.

My dear nairalanders, my heart is pounding as I type this message, I havent had 2 hours sleep because I could not, trust me people, some will say you better seek how to make a better life and stop monitoring your wife, if you love and cherish a wife who has given you two children, you would never for once in this life think about having another man mess her. She has always told me about his male friends, but as for this guy, I have never heard of him before, so he probably is being kept a secret probably because of whatever might be between them, and from the look of this convo, they must have been having a deep convo for a while.

Right now, I do not know if i should confront her, or let her be till night while I check on her phone logs to see if she has gone to see this guy or not, my fear is, if I wait and I find out from their convo later on tonight, it could shatter this marriage, do I confront her now or what? And I also dont want her to know that I bugged her phone to know whats going on. Nairalanders I need your help. This issue is stronger than I ever thought of it to be.

NEROSKY:
My advice might make or mar ur home, do this in ur own discretion... Get her an android phone, download automatic call recorder, Goto settings=apps=locate the automatic call app, untick the notification, so she won't see any pop notification after calls, download app lock on playstore as well and lock only the app, now you'll thank me or insult me later...

Neorsky, I did as you have asked me to oo, installed yesterday and today, I was able to listen to our convo. There is a particular persons number she saved as dayo furniture. I will post the contents of the message later this morning Nigerian time so you guys can assess. This app truly works wonders. Though I have not downloaded the app lock yet. Thanks bro, I really appreciate.

Dyt:
You enjoy the feeling it gives her right?
I sure you know this is how it will continue

If your only problem is how she dumps it anywhere and everywhere
Keep a tab on it

Good thing you manned up to fulfil all her fantasies

You are a true man

Yes Dear. I enjoy the feeling. Just bought another one and took to the advise of some that I should take charge of keeping it. What people dont understand from my post is that, out of 10 times love making in a month, we only use the toy maybe like twice. For my normal kini, I used to do two rounds, so the second orgasm is always strong enough for her to be satisfied. The penile extension is just to spice up the sex life. She has adjusted to my size, but there is no denying that her past will always be a part of her, so to fulfill the fantasy of the past, we spice it up with the penile thing. And she is not leaking for those that said she might. I was even surprised like after receiving such massive thing over a 3 year relationship with her ex, she ought to be. But hell naw!!

On my way to an event. will respond back when i return.

smokeydrinky:
lemme tell u a story. a man went to see his dr nd while having a chat, he gisted the doctor about their ex neighour who was very close to his family especially his wife while they lived in a particular area nd birthed their kids. years after, dey relocated and the wife kept lamenting that she missed their good neighbor. he wanted more kids but couldn't have any. dat particular visit to.d dr had revealed that he was unable to impregnate a woman nd he was Gisting the Dr that the birth of his kids was a miracle since he was impotent. aftet the gist, der was a minute of silence as he himself figured out who the real father of the kids are.

my dear, hmm.....check well well. use ur tongue to count ur teeth. im not insinuating anything o.

Your story is upside down. dont get it.

Dera25:
Oga I think it is a mistake for buying an intimacy gadget for your wife in the first place, that is masturbation for crying out loud. Just imagine! Your wife using a gadget while you are around, it is so irritating and disgusting. Why not channel the whole effort to your sexual capability to ensure you are giving her maximum satisfaction. Remind you that whatever she starts doing now will be very hard to stop it once she becomes used to it, whether anal sex or whichever I think it should be done with your manhood, if anything should be worked on I think it should be your manhood and sexual capability. Please oo this is my opinion I am sorry if I have in any way sounded somehow abeg, just that I really felt for you after reading your story, I almost shed tears because I can't imagine myself being in that position for any reason.

Its a strap on, I wear it and tuck in my mandhood into it. Its not used for masturbation, am the one that uses it/ Sorry bro, there is nothing my manhood can change in getting her 3 times stronger orgasm. My manhood can only get her 1 time strong orgasm which is what we do most of the time.

pocohantas:
It does o.
It does...check it well.

I dont see how it does, if it is to you, then explain.

pocohantas:
You and this your wife...
If she isn't driving down to Ikorodu, she is doing anal.
Maybe she is going to Ikorodu to receive the anal.

Will you shut your lips! People like you are the ones that make others open different username to post just so they wont judge from other post. This has absolutely nothing to do with my first post. Gbeborun.

eyinjuege:
Very few men can bring their wives to orgasms, and very few women have true orgasms in their lifetime.
You and your wife have been blessed to have that with each other, cos I want to believe she meets your sexual
fantasies as you do hers.
Don't belittle what you have with your wife.

You still haven't said anything to raise your suspicions about her fidelity.

Most Nigerians are judgemental, hence the reason you see couples not being truthful about their sexual pasts. Some will judge her because she enjoys anal, hence she'll rather take that secret to the grave, and possibly go back to the ex who gives anals.[i][/i] You her husband gives her the thing she likes, so why would she wanna go outside?

Enjoy yourselves with no apologies to anyone.

The only issue I find is that of her not been discreet with the strap ons around the house. Why don't you take charge of that, and be the one keeping it safe? Once used, clean it ,and throw it up the cupboard till its next use/ wrap it and put at the back of your underwear drawer?

I commend your post. She revealed almost everything about her past to me, reason why I cherished her the more. Though the anal part, she didnt divulge, probably because it might be too heavy to say which I understand. But you see your emboldened part is real, I'll tell you a little story.

Before I met my wife, I had a lady I was dating back then. We used to have anal, infact I was the first person to do it. 2 years after, I traveled for 6 months, by the time I came back, I kept calling for her to come around, she kept making different excuses, i.e, I am almost there, I am not feeling fine, time has gone and all that. Then I became suspicious, went down to her store, and then found out she was married and heavily pregnant. Result of the findings, she wanted to give birth, and probably come back to me coded to enjoy anal, probably because it aint what the new husband is doing or known to be doing. So I pretty much understand your line there.

sisisioge:
Ohlordhavemercy! Dyt, Biko how do you think I might be qualified to give advice on this issue? Chai

Dear OP, I must say your description of your marriage is so jet aged, I bow! Biko, ease up on giving TMIs on your issues. I kinda find it disenchanting to imagine the circumstance of your wife's Instruments...Hian! It is well! On whether or not she's cheating...biko ask her. It is sooo well!

Then you ought to have kept your mouth shut or your fingers taperuled. If TMIS arent given, how can people best respond? Do I know u? Do you know me? Abeg park well.

Dyt:
You enjoy the feeling it gives her right?
I sure you know this is how it will continue

If your only problem is how she dumps it anywhere and everywhere
Keep a tab on it

Good thing you manned up to fulfil all her fantasies

You are a true man

Yes I do, because if its my own thingy, she does not moan nor bring out goose bumps all over her body with that eyes closed like shes soaring in deep feel of ecstasy. But with the toy, she does exactly like that, and it makes me feel good.

I cant keep tabs on that my dear, I go to work, come back late, its never gonna be a good thing if anybody sees that, most especially to me, they'll feel am less of a man, not good at all.

Dyt:
Omo mehn
Different marital issues everywhere

You mean your wife takes 8 in her an.us?


And 11 deep down her punny?

Yes dear, 11 inches penile extension, but like 8 or 9 inches goes into her an.us

Hi Nairalanders, Good morning and I hope you all had a great night rest? I just wanted to seek a quick opinion here if any of you married guys were in my own shoes, which I feel no-one or probably few might be in the same shoes as I am in now. During the short time we courted before we married, she was always opened to me, and that made me sort of more attracted and glued to her, because thats my type of person. She told me about her ex, most especially their sexual past, infact while with me then, the ex used to call, and then she'll pass the phone to me to answer, but I wouldnt. She opened up as to how big his manhooooood is, and how it took her months when they started dating to adjust to his size. I am just a normal sized person, with lots of skills and stamina to make any woman whose appetite for big manhood satisfied regardless, and this is exactly what my wife portrayed while dating her, she made me feel she was satisfied.

On one faithful day, we were doing it, then suddenly my pe.niis had entered her an.us, oh my, it was so wide that I felt maybe my pe.nis had mistakenly throbbed her butttt cheek, cos she has a massiveness butttt. I didnt say anything, then she later on sent me a text right after I left the house that I did I notice we just had anallll sexxxx, I was like, it cant be that if that was ur an.usssss, then its damn toooo wide. By the time I got back, I started to question her that in my life, though I have had few anallll intercourse, but I have never come across an.us as wide as that, asked if she has been doing it b4, she said NO, claiming it was the kind of body she has. I was stuck to believing her, even though I was not convinced. Few months later, we got married, then she started opening up the more. Funny thing months after marriage, we started having more of anallll intercourse, the an.us is now back to what I can call normal, tight and enclosed, and then I asked how come ur an.us is now tight considering the fact you told me thats how your body is, she said well, she doesnt understand why its all tight up now. That I just put aside and didnt want to worry about, knowing fully well, she was probably doing it while she was dating me or whatever.

Almost a year entering into our marriage, she started talking about how she loves to have his man have a kind of di.ccckk that can handle her fat asss, bla bla bla, though we were just having a flirty chat while she was abroad to give birth, going deep into the convo with her, I decided I'll buy penile extension, the type that a man wears, like an artificial diccck, to give that deep and widening feel that she has always been used to. I am this kind of man that wants to bring fulfillment and happiness in terms of sexual contentment not thinking if I am less of a man or allowing complex to hold me down, Infact I was happy we agreed to start making use of it. Lo and behold, she was back, and we started using this stuff, 11 inches of penile extension, up to 8 inches up her butt, for the first time, my wife was all smiles and very happy after the first try. Then I knew this was what she has been missing all these while. It now came to a level where after usage of the penile, she can drop it anywhere around our bathroom where our kids do go into, and I have been complaining that this is a private tool that needs to be kept and secured for no one to see, the kids can mistakenly take it when visitors are around which can be seen. This has been happening over and over again, the last time when I decided to throw the tool away was when she had dumped it in the visitors bathroom after usage for 2 days, I just figured it out the third day, I was furious and I threw it away, because nobody should see it.

My fellow nairalanders, judging from my write up, many will think, I probably have a small manhood, in all sincerity, I dont, infact my wife is the only woman in my entire life that I had to go and extra mile for, because of the experience she had with her ex who she claims has an extremely huge manhooood, so it made my case very different. Also, my experience and skills and stamina does work, but sometimes, she just needs that deep feeling so her orgasm can be 3 times more powerful than the orgasm she gets from my own normal penetration. My fear now is, regardless of the fact that I see as a faithful woman, is there a probability that she'll cheat? Because the constant carelessness of the tool was better off for me to have thrown it away, also if we had sex 10 times in a month, we only make use of the toy twice.

I need response from experienced married men please.

crackhaus:
I only have one question for you both:

Is there any good reason for a woman to not be open and straightforward with her own husband?

Its simple, you are going to Ikorodu.

Husband: Fine!, quickly call that your old nanny to replace you temporarily until you come back.

But she doesnt, probably because of what she would pay her. Is that worth more than the danger the kids are faced with?

eyinjuege:
A wife that nags will never allow her husband to be open to her. So also is a husband that nags.
I may be wrong, but I believe the OPs wife is not straightforward with him because he wants her to do things his own way. If he can learn to accept her decisions without trying to change her mind, she'll be freer with him. We all need people close to us to encourage us, and not discourage us even from doing the small small things.
E.g wife-" I want to go to Yaba market",
husband should say- "OK, be careful, its better you go around 10am because the traffic is less then."
But rather he says- " why Yaba? its too far, you can get whatever you want at the nearby market, "
If she insists on going to Yaba, because she wants to explore the place, the husband still doesn't accept that and it turns to an argument.
Next time, she won't tell him she's going to Yaba, but will say she's going to the nearby market, meanwhile she's even gone to Yaba, and Idumota join.
He may want her to go to the nearby market because he genuinely doesn't want her to stress herself, but why not allow her be herself? Let her go to the Yaba. When she comes back exhausted, tired and stressed out, she won't go there again next time unless she absolutely has to. She will have realised that the little money she might have saved buying things at Yaba is not worth the stress she faced going there.

Thats why you guys need to read post before you contribute. I SAID she always go to these far distances when shes suppose to be assisting the lone nanny with 12 kids at the ceche, does that sound sensible to you? I would not stop her from going anywhere as lon as it does not pose any danger to the kids at the creche, how can just one person be tending to 12 kids at once? I even told her that, the yaba you went to, is there anything bad going on a saturday when there isnt work? She could not respond.

PaperLace:
Heya.
Sadly there are lots of couples like this...they don't believe in being open to the other.
It might not necessarily mean she is cheating. As a woman, I definitely won't go with my car for such, neither would I call you if I get stuck there. I am suspecting she has some other venture she is involved in and doesn't wanna spill. To her she isn't lying/concealing the truth, she is only being smart aka securing her future .
Your wife might even be building a house_ it happens.

Has she always been like this?
If No, something prompted this. Maybe she has been getting the wrong advice from people or you advertently/inadvertently showed her that you won't let her in on your movement and ventures.

You can only know the cause of the problem by communicating.
Is she giving out any other negative vibe?

As for the daycare, 1:11 is very poor. They need at least 1 extra hand since your wife loves globe-trotting.

Thanks everyone for the piece of post each, but am quoting this.
@PaperLace, I dont have a problem with anywhere she goes, my probs here letting usk know if u are going far or better still get a temporary nanny to stay with the kids until she gets back, or permanently employ the 2nd nanny. But all advise and precautionary measure does not look or seem valid to her. Mehn na everybody get their ways of handling marriages, but when u dey wait for some kind changes, and it becomes a problem where the woman cant seem to bring about a solution or change to what i have been saying, it becomes problematic, if anything happenes to any of the kids, our asses are gonna be in hot soup, and I know whats on ground is a likable reason for such to happen.

Thanks 2yall!

Nairalanders, Please quote me if I am wrong. Kindly be subtle in your judgement and avoid irrational talk. I have a wife whose job is a serious one. She runs a creche with as well as 12kids in a small but well compact space. She has just one single Nanny that assist which to me and her isnt enough hands to cater for the effective well being of the kids. Plus we have our own 2kids that would resume to the same creche after school hours.



My problem here is, once she leaves home for work, she tends to leave the creche to far distances and leave the lone nanny to follow up with so many children. I even stylishly asked the Nanny that how often does she stay at work, she said she does not have issues attending to all the kids, but that my wife goes out alot, though she saying she has no problem doing it all is not the issue, but the parents of the kids, if they come around, they express their discomfort about it.Its a risky venture which I have complained over the months about. And when asked where she went to, she'll say she went to a distance to get something she can easily get close by without having to waste too much time. And I for one knows she the kind of woman that cannot fend for herself if anything arises. LASTMAN, POLICE yawa, she'll have to rise me to the scene from wherever I am, that being the case, I have always advise to contact me if shes going far so I can at least know her location and whereabout, I feel some peeps might say am insecured, but thats not the case here, everybody have different families, and different we run ours. Just last week here, she called me from my office saying she was in serious trouble, I asked what happened, and she said LASTMA removed her plate number, I asked where, she said IKORODU, almost an hour and the half journey without letting me know her whereabout and she left work as well, yall can imagine if something happened, How would I know her whereabout if she was unable to reach me on the phone? And just some few days ago, which really sparked my intention of posting about this issue here, she told me she was going to a particular nearby market to get things, days later she mistakenly said 'they told me at iyaba market they sell that stuff, and I was like, it was not Yaba you told me you went to, it was the other market just nearby here, she was like well, I only told you I bought food stuffs at the nearby market, I went to Iyaba to get my wig, but people, she told me about the wig, in which she said she bought at the nearby market. I cannot have a wife that is not straight with me. Are there wives like this in your home MEN And ladies what do you feel about her not being straight with me? To me, a woman that cannot be straight with something as simple as what I have explained gives me a very deep impression of general mistrust. I am not talking about cheating here, but when a woman is not being truth and straight, it could be a very difficult situation in many areas. I need intelligent and mature advise on what I can do straighten things out wit her.