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Rapecase:
Edit - to those who may be wondering about my username, I created this account whilst trying to help two kids who were victims of rape.

Our 4th anniversary was few days ago, as I thought she would , my wife forgot the date. It ordinarily would not have hurt me so much but I have always had this feeling that she doesn't love me.

When we were dating she was all over me. But nothing I do ever since we got married gets appreciated. Few months ago she hurled abuses on me for helping a sister, a friend of hers, who lost a child and are homeless. And what's the help? Just 100k. Apparently I enjoy abandoning her need for others. And this
coming from a woman who few days earlier was saying I had invested over 2m on her business in a short while ( by her own calculation, as I don't take note when giving her money ).

I told a mother figure in church who is close to both me, her and the family I helped who corrected her. Expect if she will apologise tomorrow.

Off course the lady I helped in question is idiotic but I can't bear her and house and kids being homeless especially after losing a child.

My wife will never apologise when she does sometime I object to. Her apology which is often done in the most demeaning way is only tendered if I take the issue over board.

Our sex life since we got married has been poor to the extreme. I have ensured I do not cheat, not for a single day but I constantly have to beg for sex or masturbate to relieve myself.

Laying our bed is always a war for her. She does it only when she wants. Mind you we have two kids and a maid who helps with virtually everything.

The maid in the morning ( 90% of the time ) makes the breakfast, clean the house while she only baths our first child and get her ready for school, I take her to school most of the time.

Am I overreacting to expect my wife to

1. Properly apologise when she does something I do not like and ensure she doesnt repeat it? For instance few days ago she was planning on traveling outside our base, I only got to know through her phone conversation with her sister although she didn't eventually travel, I felt I should have known before hand as I got to know a night before. Till date what I got in form of apology is, "I would have told you". She was planning to travel by 5am, I heard her conversation by 10pm a night before and we slept on the same bed.

2. Sex at least 3 times a week? I stopped trying to initiate it after so many rejections.

3. Not to forget important dates such as our wedding anniversary?

4. To at all time be the one making my meal.

Please note she practically doesn't work now. We are setting up a fashion house for her she has taken over 3m from me as of the time of writing this. Note my cloths go to dry cleaners. Only thing she does is cook my meal ( when she wants ).

I am beginning to think maybe I am a mental health patient who doesn't know yet. Maybe something is wrong with me and I am just reacting based on that?

Your job as a husband is to love not the Wife - read Eph 5:33. Love at all cost, she will respect and reciprocate your love sir.

Psalm 14:1 Only fools say in their hearts, "There is no God." They are corrupt, and their actions are evil; not one of them does good!

08158618011 prosperiosy@gmail.com

abduljaleel128:
This people ehn...they already know their candidates....they just made us suffer anyhow...

I doubt cos I applied on Thursday 6am accepted thier invite this afternoon I feel it just luck.

abduljaleel128:
Its unfurtunate....This is the new Nija we are in now...

bro sorry I know how u feel but believe its just luck I didn't take it serious I applied on Thursday 6am and I got the invite to write in Enugu. Don't worry urs is coming very soon.

Who got the interview sms in delta state indicate.

MrSuama:
Gate crashed at Bauchi test centre today . The exam was nice but questions were not friendly.
Duration :2hours

Comprehension :6 questions, nearest in meaning, opposite in meaning, fill in the gap passage.

Current affairs
Full meaning of WHO?
Full meaning of SIP?
Full meaning of GSM?
Names of four ministers serving in the present administration?
Name of minister of petroleum?
Names of countries sharing border with Nigeria ?
Names of all the geopolitical zones in Nigeria?
Name of the most recent disease outbreak in Nigeria?
Names of north east states and their capitals?
Name of INEC chairman?
Name of director general of DSS?
Disease caused by rats?
Names of three emirs in Bauchi State?
Names of senators representing Bauchi State?
Names of the senatorial district in Bauchi?
1gigabyte is equivalent to?
Name of Chief of air staff?
Second stanza of the national anthem?
Mention two parts of a computer?
How many local government areas are in Nigeria?
What's the meaning of 3G?

Essay (Answer one question only)
Define corruption and how to control it?
Mention the security challenges Nigeria is facing, discussing about any two and the way forward.

These are the few I could recall. It was an eye opener.
Cadet Suama reporting live and direct from Bauchi, Over!

This is really cheap compared to what we saw yesterday in Asaba Delta State. We didn't see current affairs not even one.

What do u need the number for?

livebullet:
Was it a phone number that sent you the invite?

I just got my invitation this evening in Delta state Exam is 3/02/2018 in Asaba Anwai Campus

Maximum of 28 yrs

Who got interview invitation for Insurance Sales Representative from Lasaco Assurance Plc, pls indicate.

Did anyone got this invitation for interview?

Pls add my number 08158618011 thanks

Who got seplat invite for physical aptitude test?