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clemz85: in my random thinking, you don't know what your man wants, if you do you will play a part for him and save him from going else where

I have given him 3 children been committed to him been through hard times with him and stuck by him been a good partner so if that's not good enough then nothing could be...why should I do all the hard work to save a relationship he doesn't always be the best he could be for me even when we was seperated...he is in the the wrong for doing what he did I don't have to save nobody if he has as much love for me as he claims he will not make this mistake again if he does he can get back to his internet stupidness .

olumaxi: did i hear u say 'SOME I WOULD MEET AGAIN'?..chai,i wonda whatelse wil remain insyd ur shop again o..cos those one's u v met again would av greatly rewarded themselves

yeah why not all you guys just mad cos you probably been used in this way lol...and some I did meet again cos you cannot tell if you gonna be compatible over the phone and just chatting so if I met them once and we get on ok Iwould meet them again and what lol...others I was just bored n they was available actin all thirsty n stuff so we arranged a date it passed my time n obviously made them happy being in my company anyway that was like yyears ago I would never treat a man with such disrespect again..I have a bf now so don't even follow that stuff anymore.

[quote author=-Mr Cork-] .. ^^^^^ GOLD DIGGER ALERT!! [/quote]lool I aint no gold digger...when I met my now partner he didn't even drive we never went on expensive dates or anything but I fell in love with this guy and since then we had 3 kids and been together 5 years we had some bad times and goin through them now but nether the less I love him and it does not matter what a mans got or not got ...I have learnt that over the years ..I was giving my opinion on the topic and goin on my own experience.

Thank you for your advice I am going to put all my worries about this to bed and move forward and hopefully it will never be a issue again....and if it does arise again then that will definetly be my cue to end our relationship because once a mistake it is forgiveable but 2nd time around there would be no excuse .thank you once again

nopecin: I have been dating her for more than 3months now and i am doing my best as her boyfriend, buy are things and giving her money but when ever she come for a visit she will never allow me to touch her nor kiss her all she will say is that just dont rush I LOVE YOU SO MUCH and she will rub her hands on me. Is this a real love? ADVICE

of course this is real love....with gifts and money think you find that's the only thing she is in love with....stop being generous stop buying gifts etc and see what happens then

We was seperated he was planning on moving out cos I asked him to..so apparently that's when he signed up...but on pof he had apic up with him n our son and with real location diff name and year younger than his age and on other site had his real pic n yet again real location....he was also signed up to other sites one he did since we decided to give things another go but they was ones u had to pay for so he did not communicate on there he had no pic only location ...its kinda make or break for us tbh as I really feel so betrayed and like I could never trust this guy again ever

I saw the profiles with my own eyes my friend does internet dating she see his profile and then I googled username and it came up on next website too....why would he be joining sites like them when he should be satisfied at home with what he has not looking at some ratchet hot mess online

jhydebaba: If u try that ish with me, chai ur own don done

haha you would have also fell for my sweet talk lol

If you found out your partner of 5 years you also had children with them...was browsing possibly chatting on dating and casual s** websites ....could you forgive and forget or just drop them

I used to do internet dating and when I was bored I used to arrange to meet guys if I fancied going for a movie or a meal and then when the night was done they would drop me at home and I would use the I aint just looking for sex line and say we had to know each other better before they came into my house...I found nigerian and ghana men fell for this quite alot ....some I would meet again and others were just to pass time

[quote author=-Mr Cork-]...ok I met this Nigerian babe 2 days ago & yesterday on my way to her yard..she told me to buy Chinesse Fried rice with Extra prawn PLUS 3 hOt wings before I come over...Now am thinkin...is she usin me & can BLACK women ever be trusssted for marraige??...ADVISE URGENTLY NEEDED!! [/quote]