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Couples usually wait until six to eight dates before they are willing to enter into an exclusive relationship.
Speed dating, invented by a rabbi from Los Angeles in 1999, is based on a Jewish tradition of chaperoned gatherings of young Jewish singles.
The most common time for breakups is around three to five months.
One in three teenagers have experienced violence in a dating relationship.
In a survey conducted by MSNBC.com and Elle magazine, more than 31% of men said they dumped an overweight partner compared to 12% of women.
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A couple will exchange house keys on an average of 12-14 dates
On average, it takes between 12 to 14 dates before couples will trade house keys.
Women who post a photo on Internet dating sites receive twice as many email messages as women who don’t. The same study found that men who reported incomes higher than $250,000 received 156% more email than those with $50,000.
Match.com reports that 44% of its members in the United States have children.
On free dating sites, at least 10% of new accounts are from scammers.
If a man can’t decide what to wear on a date, he might want to wear blue. Studies show that women are attracted to men in blue.
Ninety-two percent of single parents would rather date other single parents.
Thirty-three percent of online daters form a relationship, 33% do not, and 33% give up.
The online dating industry generates $1.8 billion per year and the matchmaker/dating coach business generates $260 million per year in the United States.
The third week in September is National Singles Week in the U.S.
According to the U.S. census, there are 95.9 million unmarried people in the U.S. of which 47% are men and 53% are women.
Researchers at the University of Chicago found that people were twice as likely to find a date through friends and family than through the bar scene.
Four out of 10 workplace dating relationships result in marriage.
instant attraction
It only takes seconds to decide another person’s attractiveness
Psychologists at the University of Pennsylvania studied data from over 10,000 speed daters and found that most people make a decision regarding a person’s attraction within three seconds of meeting.
One Manhattan matchmaker’s price begins at $20,000. If a match (marriage) results, a marriage bonus is expected.
At 4M Multimillionaire Matchmaking Club based in Seattle, WA, clients are men who have made millions but are still single. The matchmaking service charges between $10,000 and $30,000 for men. Women pay around $250 to be listed as potential partners.
In the online dating world, women are afraid of meeting a serial killer. Men are afraid of meeting someone “fat.” According to Ann Rule, about 3% of men are psychopaths, of which only a tiny percentage are serial killers.
In a survey of 5,000 singles conducted by Match.com, 43% said fresh breath mattered the most before a date, 17% said stylish clothes, 15% said sexy fragrance, 14% said good skin, and 10% said great hair.
Typically, dating specialists suggest waiting until the third date to cook someone dinner at home.
Nearly 40% of men do not feel confident meeting a woman for the first time.
Immediately after Tiger Wood’s affairs became public, men looking for discreet relationships on BeNaughty.com dropped by 47.5%.
During the early twentieth century, dating evolved out of a courtship ritual where young women entertained male callers under the watch of a chaperone. By the 1960s and 1970s, “hooking up” increasingly replaced dating, mainly because the age at which people marry for the first time had begun creeping up.
Studies show that schools, colleges, coffee shops, and malls are all excellent places to flirt because people are more open to meeting others in these places. Poor locations are restaurants and movie theaters.
Studies show that before a man even speaks a word, the way he stands (whether he is slouching or not) counts for over 80% of woman’s first impression.
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Happy people attract more dates
Studies show that happiness is contagious and that potential dates find it hard to walk away from happy people. One of the biggest turn-offs during a date is negativity.
Studies show that men are put off by groups of loud women. If a woman wants to get a date, she should break away from a loud group to give a man a chance to approach her.
Mirroring, or repeating someone’s body language, often impresses a date because it subtly conveys interest to the other person. One should avoid copying every move, however.
Body language studies show that revealing areas of the body that aren’t usually on display (such as the inner wrist, the inside of the upper arm, ankles, feet, inside calf muscle, and the nape of the neck) has an immediate effect on a date and shows an instant liking.
If you want to create an instant link with a date, say his or her name at least twice in the conversation. This shows attentiveness and connectiveness.
Studies show that remembering bits of information about a person and working them into conversations not only is highly flattering but also shows interest.
Bad breath and bad teeth are an instant turn-off for potential dates. If deep dental cleaning doesn’t improve a person’s breath, he or she could have a stomach bacterium called H. pylori, which causes bad breath.
Research has confirmed that women are more attracted to men who wear pheromone-based colognes or aftershaves such as 10X. Studies have also shown that women, who have a stronger sense of smell than men, are particularly attracted to musk and black licorice smells.
Body type is important in attracting a date. Studies show that overweight individuals were perceived less favorably than thin or muscular people. Thin individuals were perceived as intelligent but fearful, and muscular individuals were perceived as being healthy, brave, and good looking.
Top ten turn-offs for women include cystic acne, raggedy nails, flatulence and belching, missing teeth, body odor, bad breath, hairy nostrils, “man boobs,” “goofy” glasses, and hair “mistakes.
Depending on the type of women a man would like to meet, he should visit that type of clothing store. For example, if a man likes “outdoorsy” women, he should go to an outdoor clothing store.
When a man first approaches a woman, she will base 55% of her initial impression of him on his appearance and body language, 38% on his style of speaking, and 7% on what he actually says.
If a group of women are standing together but their eyes are wandering, they are likely to be looking for guys. If they each take a turn to break away from the group to head to the bathroom alone, they are on the prowl. If they are huddled together giggling, they are usually not interested in finding men.
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A woman will express interest in her date in several subtle ways
If a woman is interested in her date, she will often smile at his jokes, play with her hair, fidget with an object such as a glass, blush when he pays her a compliment, pout or pucker her mouth, stumble over words, or lean in towards him.
Signs that a woman is not interested in her date include avoiding eye contact, faking a smile or not smiling, leaning away, answering in monosyllables, sagging her shoulders, looking at her watch, tapping her foot, or staring blankly.
Beautiful women typically get more stares, winks, and harassment than average-looking women do, but they are also less likely to get asked out by average-looking men because those men tend to be intimated by them.
The appropriate time to call after meeting a man or woman is hotly debated among dating experts. Typically, the ideal time to wait to call is two to four days, though no longer than four to five days. Calling too soon can appear desperate.
Choosing exciting places for a first date increases the chances of the other person falling for you. There is a definitive link between danger and physical/romantic attraction.
Worst places to go on first date include fast-food restaurants, your kids’ birthday party or school play, your parents’ house, strip clubs, X-rated films or swingers parties, a party where your ex will be, church activities, or window shopping.
Dating specialists suggest that if a woman doesn’t return a call after two messages, she is not interested.
If a woman offers to pay for everything, chances are she isn’t that into the date. There’s an unspoken understanding that a man paying for everything is a form of “copulatory gift,” which is almost universal in all animal species.
Eye contact, or a “copulatory gaze,” is a primary and powerful tool for attracting a potential date for both men and women. However, the meaning of various types of eye contact differs from culture to culture.
Statistics show that trying to get a relationship to work with an ex doesn’t usually work. The case where it might work is if there were extenuating circumstances of the breakup, such as one of couple had been going through a family tragedy or moved.
In American society, when a man offers his date his palm face up, he is most likely deeply attracted to the woman. In fact, a human’s brain is wired to respond to hand gestures and hand shapes, though the brain’s response depends on the man or woman’s culture and ethnicity.
Research shows that men know they’re falling in love after just three dates, but women don’t fall in love until date 14.
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An average couple will kiss on the second date
On average, daters will kiss on the second date.
A recent AOL survey says that 40% of women view an appropriate time frame to wait for sex as being one to three months, while 35% of men think the third date is fine. On average, couples have sex within about four to six dates.
Twenty-nine percent of Americans have had sex on the first date.
It is hard for a man to strike up a conversation if there are just two women at a social scene because he doesn’t want the other friend to feel abandoned. So a woman who is looking to attract a date should bring two “wing women” with her.
Talking to a bartender makes a woman seem more friendly and makes it easier for a guy to jump in on her conversation.
A woman can increase the likelihood of a man approaching her if she uncrosses her arms, makes subtle eye contact, and smiles.
Italian food is one of the most popular restaurants for a first date.
Twenty to 40 million Americans have used online dating services. Nearly 50% of online daters are aged 18-34 and 24% are 35-44.
On average, there are 86 unmarried men for every 100 unmarried women in the U.S., though the actual numbers vary according to region.
New York and Washington have the most state residents who are unmarried, 50% and 70%, respectively. Idaho and Utah have the most state residents who are married, 60% and 59%.
Approximately 48% of online daters reported that their breakups occurred via email.
On Match.com, 132 million winks are sent out each year and members go out on a six million dates per year.
eHarmony.com boasts that 236 of its members marry each day, accounting for 2% of U.S. marriages.
“Desperate” daters are typically always available, are clingy, need constant relationship status updates, fish for compliments, drop their standards, and rationalize bad treatment.
single man
Over half of all singles in America have not had a date in over two years
Over 50% of all singles in America have not had a date in more than two years.
Five types of women that men tend to avoid are serial flirters, someone who talks about marriage too soon, clingy women, the party-girl, and a woman who talks too much or is drama queen.
Four common date blunders include showing up late, talking about yourself too much, revealing too much about your ex, and an obvious over-eagerness.
A man’s top dating fears include that a woman will come between him and his friends, won’t allow him free time, will turn out to be a stalker, won’t respect him, or will be too high maintenance.
Five common signs a man may be cheating in a relationship are that he accuses his partner of cheating, he’s extremely vague, he seems to be compensating by acting extra nice for no reason, he’s always at work, and his partner's friends drop her hints.
The curve of the counter in a bar is designed so other customers can easily “check out” other customers. Bars also purposely place mirrors to help create a larger sense of place and to allow a person to scope out other people behind them.
Signs that a man is about to break up with a woman include that he spends less time with her, he is no longer romantic, passionate kissing turns into quick pecks (particularly no kiss during sex), he fantasizes about someone else during sex, he pats her during a hug, and he tries to start fights.
An attractive online “About Me” section in your online dating profile often includes a brief description of what you are passionate about or thankful for, a couple of things your friends say about you, qualities you are looking for in a potential partner, the first thing people notice about you (other than appearance), how you spend your leisure time, five things you can’t live without, and the latest good book you’ve read.
Humans like mystery and “the chase,” so don't be too “available” to a date. Dating experts typically suggest not sleeping too early with a date because the longer the chase, the more likely love will blossom.
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If you seem to be constantly finding love that starts out great but then dies a tragic death, perhaps it wasn't love at all. Chances are that it was lust instead. Both are powerful emotions, and many people get the two confused. So what's the difference?
Think of lust and love as fires. Lust is like a fire made with resin-rich pine. It burns hot, but it doesn't last long. Now, picture love as a fire made with seasoned oak. It burns a slow, steady flame and lasts for hours. It doesn't produce the same initial heat and flame as the pine fire, but when it comes to longevity, the oak wins every time.
WHAT IS LUST?

Lust is no more than physical attraction. Scientists aren't exactly sure why someone is attracted to certain individuals, but some believe it has something to do with pheromones – chemicals that trigger a certain response and behavior. In animals, sex pheromones are used to indicate that a female is ready for breeding. Microscopic organisms, insects, and even mammals use pheromones to signal breeding availability. While admittedly better at sending a clear signal than a lot of dating scenarios, it doesn't sound very romantic, does it?
To help understand what lust is, remember that humans are one of the very few species who engage in sex for pleasure instead of just for procreation. Men and women are attracted to certain individuals on a physical level, even when they have no desire to create a child. Lust can be a one-night stand or a tawdry affair spanning weeks or months. In fact, you can be sexually attracted to people you don't even particularly like; you don't have to have deep feelings for someone to receive physical pleasure from them.
On the other hand, you might fall head-over-heels in lust with someone you really do like – at least for a short period. A powerful force, lust can fill you with a sense of overwhelming desire and practically consume you. It can play tricks on your mind and cloud your thinking and your judgment. Lust can make you believe, or make you want to believe, that you've found love, when, in fact, all you've found is physical desire.
WHAT IS LOVE?

Real love is not physical – it runs deeper than that. True love is the bond created between two people based on respect, admiration, loyalty, support, and emotional fulfillment. It means caring more about the other person than you do about yourself. A couple in love usually share the same life goals and work together to achieve them. True love overcomes all obstacles and often includes self-sacrifice. Unlike lust, love doesn't diminish with the passage of time. Instead, it grows stronger and deeper.
FINDING TRUE LOVE

It goes without saying that while finding lusty sex is easy, finding love can be very difficult. Almost everyone longs to find his or her soulmate, the person they want to grow old with. But with all the millions of people in the world, how do you find that special one – the person who can fulfill your deepest longings?
Unfortunately, there isn't a handbook or map to guide you in your quest for finding love, but help is available in the stars. Everyone is born with certain personality traits, according to the zodiac sign under which they were born. This is an important yet often overlooked aspect in finding love – true love. You might find that you're sexually attracted and even sexually compatible with numerous signs, but you won't be mentally and emotionally compatible with most of them. They might make for a fun and exciting fling, but they won't make good partners for a long-term relationship. It's all so confusing!
Fortunately, a psychic trained in astrology can lead you safely through the confusion, help you distinguish between love and lust and help you find your soulmate. A gifted psychic can read your chart and the chart of your lover and tell you whether or not the relationship has a chance of evolving into real love. Not only can they tell you things about your partner that may take you years to discover, they can also tell you much about yourself that you didn't even realize! You might not be able to tell if what you're feeling is love or lust, but your psychic guide can look at the situation objectively and give you sound advice. If you don't already have a potential love match in mind, consulting a psychic can help with that, too. Your psychic can "weed out" the bad matches and help you concentrate on the good, saving you months or even years of valuable time you might waste finding lust instead of finding love.
By consulting a psychic, you'll be taking the first step in judging potential partners with your head and your heart instead of with your sexual desires. Why go it alone when consulting a psychic by phone is so easy and painless? Your psychic most likely has years of experience in matters of the heart, and you'll find them incredibly easy to talk to. More like talking to an old friend and confidant than a stranger, consulting a psychic is easy, enjoyable, and very enlightening. And when compared to the value you receive, the cost is a pittance. Besides, how can you place a price on finding love and long-lasting happiness and fulfillment? #http://lovestroke..com/

The booty call should be made on the same day you plan on getting with her. The first option is to call right before you want to meet her. The second option is to call ahead of time to schedule the meeting for a later time.
To use the second option you need to have a good idea of what her usual schedule is like and the best time and way of reaching her, whether through cell or home line, so you don’t get the answer machine. However, it’s always best to use the first option, calling right before meeting.
Most of the calls should be at night, but if you’re calling her for the first time, the call should definitely be at night.
The majority of the booty calls need to be at her place. A good rule of thumb is 3 to 1, average three meetings at her place for every one meeting at your place. One reason for having them mainly at her place is to make it the customary location.
Make sure you sleep over the first time you two have sex, whether it was a booty call or not, and then apply the 2 to 1 sleepover rule when developing a booty call relationship. You should average one sleepover for every two times you don’t sleepover.
Since emotional bonds are strengthened faster than they are weakened, the 2 to 1 rule acts as the emotional bond stabilizer for the both of you. If the bond gets too strong or too weak, it will jeopardize the booty call relationship and it may be too late to remedy the situation.
When you call, depending on when you call and when you want to meet her, ask if she is doing anything right now, tonight, or later on. If it’s the first call, talk for about 5 minutes before asking. If it’s not the first call, keep the talk under 3 minutes.
It doesn’t matter whether she says yes, no, or anything else, the purpose of the question is to prime her for the next question.
The next thing you should ask her is if you can come over to her place. For example, "Let me come over <right now/tonight/later on>"
If she doesn’t answer immediately, say "Ok" or "Alright" in order to elicit a similar response from her. She will either say ok or give you an excuse. If the excuse is one that you think she would be able to get around, then continue with your persuasion. But if the excuse is a serious one, then it’s best to say goodnight and call a few days later.
She also might ask why you want to come over, in this case say something along the lines of, "I just want to see you for a little while". If she’s more of the flirty type, you can say, "Why do you think?"
Common excuses you might encounter:
* She is tired -- this excuse borders between one she can get around and one she can’t. You’ll have to play this one by ear and listen to her tone of voice. If she doesn’t sound tired, it’s a safe bet to pressure her a bit more with the, "I just want to see you for a little bit" line.
* She is going out that night -- tell her you’ll come by after she gets back, even if she won’t be back until late at night. After all, that’s how the booty call got its reputation.
* She has to do some work (whether for school or her job) -- say something similar to what you would if she says she’s going out, say you’ll come by right after she’s finished.
* She simply says she’s busy or has to do something -- ask her what she has to do, if it’s an excuse she can get around, just say you’ll come by after she’s finished with whatever she’s doing or has to do.
If she keeps giving excuses for why she doesn’t want to meet, then she probably isn’t interested in you and/or she doesn’t feel like having sex at the moment.
Keep in mind that some women are reluctant to saying yes right away, especially if it’s the first booty call, but if you work for it just a little, they usually cave in to their desires.
Once a woman has experienced the relaxation that comes from no strings attached sex after building up the tension throughout the day, she’ll be constantly craving sex without emotional baggage or pre-sex courting and her booty will definitely be giving you calls when it’s ’in need’.
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1. In a rush for a present?
Head over to the nearest pharmacy, grab a gift bag and fill it with "women's products" — shampoo, conditioner, body lotion, scented oils, scented soaps, etc. Give it to her and you could be using those products on her soon.

2. Want to take the relationship to the next level but not ready to ask her to go steady yet?
Give her two flowers. One yellow and one red. With each give her a note. For the yellow flower the card should say "For my best friend" and the card for the red flower should say "To the one I love." Instant girl puddy in your hands!

3. Whenever she's close and her hair is hanging by her face...
Use your index and middle finger from either hand to smoothly brush her tresses behind her ear. As you do this run both or one of the fingers all the way behind her ear right down to her ear lobes.
This sensitive area not only relaxes girls, but it has a subconscious maternal effect that suggests comfort (just like how their mom used to do it to them) and closeness. #http://lovestroke..com/

Flirting is an Art
Do you want to flirt? You like Flirting? You think about it but dont know where to start Do you hesitate to flirt?? Are you confused about how to flirty successfully.??

IF so then read these 10 Flirting tips of all times.

1) Tell Her A Good Story .. Read it Funny Story:
Okay so the first and basic thing that you can do to "break the ice" is tell her an interesting story that has a funny end. This will surely make her laugh and make her feel comfortable. Now how to tell her a good story or what type of story to tell her ??

Tell her something funny that happend to you in school or when you went for your first interview for a job. Tell her about an interesting incident that happend to you when you visited some place . You know you can get the conversation going after that .!!

2) Giver Her A Complement:

Tell her how beautiful she looks today or how good those new sunglasses look on her.

Just complement her and move on never over emphasize your compliment or she may take it in another way.


3) Avoid Nervousness: Be Confident:

Lets Get it Straight . You cannot flirt if you don't have confidence. You need to have confidence in yourself to Flirt, if you feel nervous and shaky infron of girls then you cannot flirt effectively and will make a joke out of of yourself. Try to boost your Confidence with some Confidence building exercises and then try flirting. It may take some time but it would bring good and bonus rewards in the future.!!

4) Use Your Secret Weapon : A Pleasant Smile

Smile is a powerful tool when it comes to flirting. Your Smile Speaks a lot about you.

Your facial expressions say a lot about you. So have a pleasant smile when she looks and not just stand there with a blank face.!

5) Projecting Confidence : Know Your Body Language

Just like your facial expressions your body language says a lot more about yourself. If your confident from inside then your body language should also be positive . You should Project your likeness and confidence through your Body Language.!

6) Don't Go Over Board
One Thing you don't want to do is going over board or using the direct approach. You cannot just directly tell her that you want to have her . Just be yourself and try to make things comfortable for her. This will work more for you.

7) Know The Inner "Her"

Women Usually tend to talk indirectly which is what most men don't pick. You have to learn how to analyze the signals that she give. If you can get it rite then you are half done.

Read Her Expressions

When meeting her or talking to her try to analyze her gestures. See her facial expressions and act accordingly. You can know in an instant if your conversation is boring or interesting by looking at her facial gestures. You don't have to be a genious or a "Player" to know this. Its Common Sense.

9) The Eye Contact:

An occassional eye contact with your girl when doing work or just giving her that killer look when passing her by may give u a sudden boost. Works best if you want to get attention of a particular girl whom you dont know well.
P.S : Don't start staring at her &amp; Do not Drool!!!!

10) Create Curiosity

There is a great chance that by increasing her curiosity she will surely want more of you. So ask her a curiosity driven question like: " I find something very attractive in you but can't figure out what it is"!!..

It all starts from here.. If you can flirt successfully then you can have all the after flirt pleasures that you look out for. Flirting is a basic tool for a guy and unless you have a good hold on this tool you won't be able to score on her.!! #http://lovestroke..com

So you're not really comfortable going up to women and talking to them?
How about having them talk to you first?
I used to go to parties all the time and I usually know about half the people there. I'd wait for one of my friends to start talking to a couple girls and then I would jump in. Not a very good technique because you're out of the loop pretty much.
So I started thinking how could I get girls to talk to me...
I decided to go shopping and saw a shirt with a funny saying on it so I picked it up (only $14.99). I went to a party a couple days later and I was not there for more then 2 minutes before some girl said "I like your shirt."
Now I was in a much more comfortable position. I talked to her for a couple minutes and then went on doing my own thing.
The benefits of this simple idea:
If you have a shirt with words on people are going to read it. They're not going to ignore it — it's impossible. This gives you more attention then somebody wearing a regular shirt.
When someone starts talking to you it's much more comfortable then going up to someone and trying to start a conversation.
It's cheap. You don't have to go out and buy $50 shirts that won't even get you any attention.
I'm not saying this is going to get you a girl because that part is all up to the rest of your game. But this way you will probably talk to more girls which increases your chances. #http://lovestroke..com/

First and foremost, understand that I am by no means any sort of dating guru. I just recently began dating, and although I'm doing alright, it's a brand new experience for me. I'm not ready to believe that my current success is in any way permanent.
So while what I say here has worked for me, it may or may not work for you. I'm just offering it for your consideration.
One of the things I have noticed about these dating websites is that there seems to be a lot of problems with "the first kiss". This can be a difficult moment... where you discover if she has any real romantic interest, or if she has already decided that you're a chode, and it's NO SEX FOR YOU.
As men, we would like for the possibility of sex to remain open, and although kissing isn't a guarantee of sex, if she won't kiss you, it's not gonna happen.
So, my strategy for the first kiss has evolved from doing things that will make that kiss as likely as possible. A change of location helps a lot... to another part of the club, if you're in a bar, or better still, a very scenic spot somewhere nearby.
Here's the key part: once you are observing the scenery -- my favorite time was at a pier on the water, with the night skyline of New York City in the distance -- you get behind her and stand there talking to her about the beautiful view.
Put your hands on her hips, in a non-threatening way as you talk. Gently lean in to smell her perfume near her neck and whisper to her how beautiful it is to be here with her, and how wonderful she smells.
Then... before you go for her lips... gently kiss her neck.
Gentlemen, this is powerful stuff.
She might get all squishy and squeamish, but that's only good for a laugh. Wait a few seconds and kiss her neck again. If she offers resistance, it's not the right time. But it's been my experience that she will be helpless to the overwhelming sensuality of the moment, and soon she will be loving what you are doing.
Once she's comfortable with that, kiss up to her earlobe, and suck it gently. Whisper to her again, this time how hot she is.
Then kiss across her cheek. If she doesn't turn her head towards you, take ONE FINGER, put it on her chin, and gently turn her face in your direction.
By this time, the first kiss will be a done deal, guaranteed. Gently touch her lips with yours, and again, this time a little longer. Make that first kiss a good one, and the rest of the night will be LOTS of FUN. #http://lovestroke..com

The other day I heard a radio ad for an online dating service; I found it to be quite absurd. The announcer said, "Ladies, are you tired of being hit on by all the Rico Suave men who hang out at the nightclubs? Avoid these men by trying online dating!"
Why was that ad absurd? Because women - even attractive women - are almost never hit on by men.
Here's what usually happens at a nightclub: you hang around with your girlfriends, some guy in the bar is clearly checking you out, you wait for him to approach you ... and wait ... and wait ... and it just never happens. Oh, sure, he'll walk past you about a hundred times, looking you up and down ... but as for actually approaching you and speaking to you ... it very rarely happens.
If you have the balls to approach a woman and make it clear that you're interested in her, I can tell you right now that she will be flattered and she'll give you a fair shot. She's not going to think you're a jerk for being so forward. Quite the opposite; your confidence and candor will be greatly appreciated and, as long as you have a sense of humor and a smile on your face, she is sure to find you at least a little charming, no matter how ugly you are. #http://lovestroke..com
Here are a few, quick tips:
a) Let her know right away that you're actually interested in her. Speaking at length with her about the kind of music the band is playing doesn't tell her that you're interested in her - it tells her that you're interested in the band. But saying "Do you have a boyfriend?" will grab her attention instantly. Trust me.
b) Just flatter the heck out of her. Go ahead and lie; it doesn't matter. Every woman on Earth likes to be flattered.
c) If she genuinely seems disinterested, back off. Don't waste your time with a cold fish.
d) Try not to be too self conscious. You're a man. There are things you want and things you need. Don't be embarrassed about it. There's nothing wrong with needing a little action now and then.
e) Let the woman save a bit of face. If you mack her up in front of 20 strangers, she might feel a little awkward about handing over her phone number. She'll worry about looking cheap. Don't get me wrong: go ahead and lavish the woman with attention - just be somewhat discreet about it. It'll greatly improve your chances.

So you're not really comfortable going up to women and talking to them?
How about having them talk to you first?
I used to go to parties all the time and I usually know about half the people there. I'd wait for one of my friends to start talking to a couple girls and then I would jump in. Not a very good technique because you're out of the loop pretty much.
So I started thinking how could I get girls to talk to me...
I decided to go shopping and saw a shirt with a funny saying on it so I picked it up (only $14.99). I went to a party a couple days later and I was not there for more then 2 minutes before some girl said "I like your shirt."
Now I was in a much more comfortable position. I talked to her for a couple minutes and then went on doing my own thing.
The benefits of this simple idea:
If you have a shirt with words on people are going to read it. They're not going to ignore it — it's impossible. This gives you more attention then somebody wearing a regular shirt.
When someone starts talking to you it's much more comfortable then going up to someone and trying to start a conversation.
It's cheap. You don't have to go out and buy $50 shirts that won't even get you any attention.
I'm not saying this is going to get you a girl because that part is all up to the rest of your game. But this way you will probably talk to more girls which increases your chances. #http://lovestroke..com/

You've probably seen the movie Office Space. If you haven't, you should.
Did you see the scene where the guy asked the waitress (played by Jennifer Aniston) out to lunch? This is an EXCELLENT example to learn from. Go watch that scene and see why it is a good example. If you can't tell why, watch it until you can.
Basically, the guy asks the waitress what she's doing for lunch. She mistakenly thinks he's asking about lunch specials, points to a sign and walks away. Does this stop the guy? No. He calmly walks over to her and lets her know that he was asking what SHE was doing for lunch.
Then comes the really good part. After she says she doesn't think she's supposed to just walk out and go to lunch with some guy, our hero is still unflustered. He says he's going next door and he's going to get a table. If she shows up, fine. If not...that's fine too.
What did this communicate? He communicated that:
He was confident and relaxed. He didn't get rattled at all during the entire exchange.
Lunch wasn't a big deal. Whether she showed up or not he was going to go have lunch and enjoy himself.
Did he want her to show up? Sure. But her presence wasn't going to make or break him. It wasn't that big of a deal to him. His having a good time was NOT dependent on whether the woman was there or not. He avoided appearing needy or desperate.
Too often guys make a big deal out of things and appear needy. When you ask a woman out, do it in such a way that suggests you were going to go regardless of whether she came along, but she's welcome to if she so chooses.
Things like "I'm going to my favorite restaurant Friday and if you want to come along you're welcome to" says something a lot different (and a lot less desperate) than "Can I take you to dinner Friday night?"
Think about that and look for other GOOD examples of encounters between men and women on screen. They're not everywhere, but they ARE there.
I'm having a friend of mine watch that scene from Office Space to see if he can identify why it's a good encounter and my guess is I'll have to explain it to him even though it's right in front of his face. He simply hasn't learned WHAT to look for yet.
Learn WHAT you need to look for and then look for it. Once you have an understanding of what a good encounter is you'll be able to see more examples of them all around you.
I'd say good luck here, but a Don Juan doesn't depend on luck. #http://lovestroke..com/

Let's clear up the confusion surrounding compliments.
A lot of guys think that the way into a girl's pants is to suck up to her and kiss her butt through excessive compliments and gift-buying.
Of course, giving too many compliments to a woman, especially about her looks, only makes you look NEEDY and desperate. At best she'll think "Oh another desperate guy," and at worst it gives her the green light to walk all over you.
On the other hand, some guys have the philosophy that you should NEVER compliment a girl to avoid looking needy. But this isn't right either.
Giving a compliment can be VERY powerful with a woman when you say it directly, smoothly, and with no apologies. The key difference is this - if you give her a compliment from a position of power then she will see you as a powerful person and she will continue to work for your approval. On the other hand, if you give her a compliment out of sexual neediness then she will see you as a weak beggar.
MAKE COMPLIMENTS WORK FOR YOU #http://lovestroke..com/

Compliments are useful in that they can put her in a good frame of mind about you. A compliment can work for you by noticing something she put a lot of effort into, something that most guys don't take the time to notice - therefore setting yourself apart from the pack.
For instance, if she's wearing something unusual, compliment on that. Or is she has put highlights in hair, mention that. If she's gone out of her way to stick out her breasts, you can even compliment her on that.
If you can't think of anything, tell her how she has such a nice energy. In ALL cases it's important that your attitude is calm and playful - NOT needy and desperate.
And whatever you say, say it like that you mean it. If your voice isn't congruent with the power of your compliment, it will ring false.
Now, should you compliment a woman on her looks?
For especially beautiful women in particular, avoid complimenting their beauty. They may well appreciate it, but that's what EVERY guy tells them, and they probably have the compliment associated with a lot of losers. So you're not setting yourself apart from the losers and you risk getting associated with a bunch of needy desperate guys.
GIVE IT, THEN FRACTIONATE AWAY

Compliments are made more powerful by using them SPARINGLY and FRACTIONATING.
For example, you may give her a compliment ONCE on her great smile, and then start being more cocky and funny, or simply change the direction of the conversation away from her. Don't continue to dwell on her great smile.
Or, compliment and then instantly do a "take back" which can be even more powerful. For example, say to her, "You know, it looks like you put a lot of time into your hair... I mean it's really beautiful... but... I just noticed... that... you have some hair that's out of place and is going a little crazy right here."
In this example, you give the compliment about her hair, and then you "take back" when you tell her it's out of place. Just make sure the "take back" is something comparatively minor to the compliment and can be corrected, otherwise it comes off as an insult. For example, if you said, "Your hair is beautiful, but that style went out in the 60's," she'd probably take that as an insult.
If anything, just keep in the mind the fundamental rules; give compliments sparingly, if at all. And if you feel you're about to give one out of neediness or for lack of anything else better to say, keep it to yourself.

Cuing refers to the fact that many of our biological drives require an environmental cue or signal to make us aware of them. For instance, if you are busy or distracted you may not notice you're hungry until you smell some pizza.
Sexual arousal works in a similar way for women. Sex cues make them aware of their sexual needs.
I was talking to a woman friend of mine over lunch. She told me that she had met a "nice guy" at this party one night but she wasn't very impressed by him or his looks. He invited her to have a drink in his apartment and since the party was boring anyway she agreed to go.
To her surprise, his apartment was a charming place. The lights were low and not bright like in most apartments. Classical music was playing. And there was a large fireplace casting all kinds of soft, interesting shadows on the walls. She told me that suddenly she began to find this otherwise unattractive man more and more enticing.
I laughed at her story because I knew she was primarily responding to the sex cues in the apartment.
Yet most guys don't take advantage of purposely setting up sex cues. Their apartments are boring, stark, drab, or messy -- hardly what would set a woman in the right mood for some hot sex.
SEX CUE: COLORED LIGHTING

Good lighting can be just as effective as any mood-altering drug. With the right light, even the dumpiest room can be a place that encourages lovemaking.
Women don't like bright lights. Instead, you want to have low, indirect, and diffuse illumination that creates a provocative effect. Pink light bulbs are easy on the eyes and flattering on the skin. Red, orange, and yellow lights all resemble firelight. Using an "up" light from the floor with colored bulbs can create a dramatic effect.
Women get turned on in the presence of flickering firelight as well. Everyone looks more sexy and heroic in the glow of firelight. This doesn't mean you need to install a fireplace in your room. Just have some candles ready to be lit.
SEX CUE: MUSIC

The right music can subliminally put a woman in the mood for sex. It's been shown that slow, "heartbeat" music makes our heart rate slow, muscles relax, posture become looser, and skin to conduct more heat. Music also helps us experience trance-like states of altered consciousness and let go of the normal, everyday distracting thoughts in her head.
Even if her response is not obviously apparent, she'll respond to music in subtle ways without conscious thought. Scientific studies show that people return to the same store more often when music that they like is playing in the background, even if they're not fully conscious of it. Scientific studies also suggest that music listening seems to encourage the release of endorphins that help to block out feelings of pain and stress.
So get yourself a stereo that can play CDs and place it in your bedroom. You'll want to get a multi-disk player that can handle three discs or more. And if you can create your own custom, MP3 file CDs on your computer, you'll want a stereo system that also plays MP3 CDs.
A budget stereo system for under $200 should get you a three-disc CD changer, a cassette player, and halfway decent speakers. This is fine for a small bedroom and you can find one at stores like Target, K-Mart, Circuit City, and Wal-Mart. Unfortunately, most manufacturers have made most of the inexpensive systems very bright and flashy, so if you want a more elegant, sophisticated look, you may end up paying more for a higher end model.
For an enhanced playing experience, and if you have the money to spare, you might want to get a package that includes a subwoofer and four speakers for true 5.1 Dolby Digital surround sound playback. True surround sound creates an enveloping sound field that comes from all directions for an almost surreal, immersing experience. Expect to pay $400 or more for such a system. Best Buy and Sound Advice carry systems in this range.
SEX CUE: RUNNING WATER

The combination of flickering candlelight with rippling water can create a uniquely spiritual, relaxing mood for lovemaking. Putting a candle next to rippling water also creates all sorts of interesting light reflections. You can usually find elegant but inexpensive fountains for as little as $20.00 in most malls.

These are just some of the more obvious sex cues you can set up in your apartment. Of course, all of the sex cues in the world won't get you laid if you lack any seductive skills, but they can give you the extra edge you need. #http://lovestroke..com/

Hey Man,
I'm about to reveal my VERY BEST technique for starting a conversation with a woman. Not only does it guarantee you won't get rejected, but it's actually the way women PREFER to be approached by a man!
But before I do, let me ask you this:
If you think about it, what is it that REALLY stops you from striking up a conversation with a woman for the first time?
What's your biggest fear?
Maybe you're scared of being rejected.
Or maybe you're afraid of looking "foolish" and having everyone around watch you.
If so, let me ask you this:
Have you ever found yourself thinking: "I just don't know what to say to start a conversation with a woman I want to meet."
In fact, "What do I say?" is a question I get a lot.
And you know what I hear?
"I'm scared of being rejected, so I want to know the perfect thing to say."
Well, guess what?
There is NO perfect thing to say to a woman that's going guarantee she'll want to have a conversation.
Here's why:
It's not what you say that's important. What's really important is your "approach" — or your attitude when you start a conversation with a woman.
So here's the first thing you need to know about...
WHY DIRECTLY APPROACHING WOMEN IS NOT THE BEST ROUTE TO START A CONVERSATION AND WHAT IS!

Sure, directly walking up to women and starting a conversation is a great way to overcome your fears. But if you actually want to have a woman be open to meeting up with you again, there's a much better "approach" to take.
To understand the reason this "approach" works, it helps to know the "psychology" of how women respond to being approached...
So imagine what it's like to be a woman for a moment:
If you noticed a guy walking up to you in your peripheral vision, you'd know he obviously WANTS something from you, wouldn't you? So would it just be a matter of finding out what THAT something is.
And guess what?
Attractive women know immediately when a guy's approaching them because he finds them attractive and is interested.
It registers on their "radar" very, very quickly.
In fact, most of the time, a woman will know what a guy wants before he even opens his mouth. So he's actually telegraphed his intentions just by the way he walked up to her.
Is there something wrong with this?
Not necessarily... but here's the real secret:
Women don't like being "hit on" (or having a guy express "sexual interest" until AFTER they're attracted to him. So if you walk directly up to a woman out of the blue, generally you're expressing your sexual interest by doing that.
Of course, you can use techniques to break that expectation and show her you're not sexually interested — even if you really are... which I personally consider "manipulative".
But why bother with that when there's an easier, natural, and more authentic way...
HERE'S MY VERY BEST TECHNIQUE FOR STARTING CONVERSATIONS WITH WOMEN...

I call it: "Crossing Paths".
In fact, this is the way women love THE MOST when meeting men.
If you ask a woman about how she loves to be approached by a guy, she'll probably say something like this:
"I like it when it just happens... accidentally."
And though sometimes women don't consciously know what they want, this IS the truth.
Women want to meet men by "accident" — which basically means that it's NOT planned out ahead of time. Instead, the meeting and interaction just "happens" in the moment.
Being able to do this or allow it to happen "sweeps women off their feet" because it's real, authentic, and non-calculative.
So how do you do it?
First, you DON'T go out of your way to talk to a woman.
Ever.
I know "Pick-Up Artists" look at it differently. But would you go to a different country just to start a conversation with a woman?
Yeah... if you were desperate.
Well, walking up to a woman is basically the SAME thing on a smaller scale.
So unless she gave you the "eye contact signals", don't do it.
Second, if a woman is in earshot and you have time, just take the opportunity.
Instead of directly approaching a woman, you only start conversations with women who are already in close contact with you.
You ONLY talk to women who "cross your path".
Here's the three basic steps on how to do this:
STEP #1: MIND YOUR SURROUNDINGS

One of the key things I teach is not only to be aware of what people who come into close contact with you are doing but how they're responding to you.
To do this, you use just your peripheral awareness.
You know how you can notice things in the "corner of your eye" without having to directly look at them?
That's what I mean.
You need to work on developing this ability so you can go about your business while noticing what's happening around you at the same time — and all without reacting to it.
Because when you get really good at this, you'll start noticing how women respond to you when they come into close contact with you.
The signs start becoming obvious.
STEP #2: THINK OUT LOUD

Now, have you ever noticed that when someone says something and you're the only one around, you almost feel "obligated" to reply?
It's almost like you'd feel rude if you didn't say anything, don't you? It's like you'd be "snubbing" a complete stranger, and who wants to be rude?
In fact, it often seems to be the case that most people are even "nicer" to strangers than people they actually know.
So when a woman comes into close contact with you and you're somewhat stationary, like in a grocery store line-up, make a short impersonal statement that relates to the situation as if you're thinking out loud or talking to yourself.
This may sound strange at first. I mean, won't she think you're a crazy guy who talks to himself?
Not if you're genuine and you say it with conviction, she won't.
Here's the reality:
Doing this is like giving her an invitation. And not only that, it's a non-threatening invitation because you're not even facing her... or even talking directly to her.
In fact, it's like you're indirectly welcoming her into your experience, which communicates all the "right" things.
For example, you may pick-up an interesting gadget from the check-out rack and say, "Damn! That's cool." And then just start looking it over.
STEP #3: READ THE VIBE

Next, what you want to do is notice how she's reacting to what you said using just your peripheral awareness. So you don't even look directly at her.
If she's not interested, she'll just continue on with what she was doing. So there's no big rejection. I mean, it's not like you were talking directly to her or anything, so how can she "reject" you?
No, she just didn't take the "invitation".
Big deal!
But most times, she'll give you her attention in one of two ways:
Either she'll respond by saying something, which lets you know that it's now OK to look at her and get into a conversation.
Or she'll look at you because she's curious, but won't say anything. She may just be shy, so that's you're cue to actively invite her into the conversation.
For example, perhaps you'd say: "Look at this thing," as you look at her. "Any ideas on how someone would've come up with the idea for this thing?"
I've found this to be the very best way to casually meet women without coming off "too forward" or "weird". It's safe and non-threatening for both: you and her.
In fact, you'll be seen as a "regular" guy, not some creepy "Pick-Up Artist" who's only interested in getting in her pants.
Now, what do you do after you've started a conversation?
Just flip to Chapter 10 in Cool Guy with Women and use the techniques on how to continue and lead the conversation from there.
By using these simple conversational techniques, you'll never have to worry about what to say again. You'll always know what to say next by following the step-by-step concepts. #http://lovestroke..com/

If you're anything like me, you've had your fair share of strike-outs with women.

I mean, let's face it -- you can't win them all!

But when you do get rejected, a lot of guys will often think...

"She must not have been attracted to me. I must be UGLY!"

Don't fret, that's a common insecurity that everyone (women and men) share. We're always on edge, wondering if we're good looking enough to get the women that we like.

Well, don't worry, because I've got a secret I'm going to share with you.

Ready?

Here it comes...

Looks Aren't That Important!!!

Notice I didn't say looks AREN'T important. I said looks aren't THAT important.

There's a difference.

Looks are important to an extent, but not as important as you may think. Most women have a lot of leeway in what they find attractive in a man, and this can be used to your advantage.

Many guys think girls look at men the way men look at women. When a man looks at a woman, he judges whether or not he's attracted to her based on her looks. If she's overweight, has the wrong hair color, if her breasts are too small, if her nose is too big... whatever it may be, the man may dismiss her completely, regardless of whether or not she's a really great girl.

Because men look at women that way, it's natural for men to assume that's how women appraise us.

This belief is both true, but at the same time misleading.

Women do take looks into account, but in the overall scheme of things, to women, looks play a smaller role in deciding whether they'll sleep with you than it does when it comes to men deciding if they'll sleep with a woman.

Let me give you an example from my life for instance. I used to date a girl I was madly in love with. But because I was slightly overweight, I was always depressed, feeling I didn't deserve a girl like her. This bad attitude of mine eventually ended up driving her away.

But we stayed friends, and as time went on, she met another guy that she fell in love with. Eventually, I went to visit her and met her new beau, and to my surprise, I discovered this guy was 10x fatter than I ever was! Seriously, he had a good 100 pounds on me.

The difference was, even though he was fatter and not as good looking as I was, he didn't care. He allowed his good traits to shine, whereas I allowed myself to dwell on my bad qualities. And this great girl that I had in my life was attracted to those great qualities and easily overlooked his shortcomings in the looks department.

Remember that women are emotional creatures by nature. They are more in-tune with how they feel and therefore more susceptible to their emotions.

What does this mean?

That women may immediately be attracted to a good looking guy because he makes her FEEL GOOD right away. But if that same good looking guy is mean, or dumb, or turns her off in other ways and makes her feel bad feelings, she may decide she really isn't attracted to him at all.

Also, factor in that not all women are attracted to the same type of guy. Just like all men aren't attracted to the same type of women. Some women may prefer short men, or men with long hair, or fat men, etc.

It comes down to this: You don't know WHAT physical type a woman is going to be attracted to. So approach her anyway and find out if you're the one.

If you're wondering just how, exactly, you can approach a woman, be sure to check out my book The Art Of Approaching. In it, I give easy to follow strategies on how to meet any woman, any time, anywhere -- and you don't need to be male-model-good-looking for it to work! To check out my book click below now:#http://lovestroke..com/