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You married her in 3 weeks (not to mention being old enough to be her father... water under the bridge ko?); she knows you can marry another (other than the 6 you already have). You love children, and want many more... yada yada yada!!!

See, we have enough problems in this country as it stands. This man should learn to make himself useful to his generation while still alive. All his billions wont follow him to the grave. Besides, having children scattered all over isn't the problem. Can he love and train them all well (I dont mean, spoil them - which will only add to the country's headaches). Can he ensure that they all have a decent upbringing, and not grow to become bitter, envious or jealous of each other (negatively influencing those around them and the society at large)? One cant say for sure that because they live in affluence, these things cant happen amidst them.

The man should learn to be in the news for good things, and contributing/impacting positively to his generation. Not for ridiculous things such as these (to the point of comparing the igbo tradition and others).