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Sabrwahaqqo:
Girls should re-embrace the ethics values and morals the African culture propagates instead.

Sabrwahaqqo:
Till the modern man re-embraces polygamy, Cheating will continue to escalate .


Chikena!

tobe4real:
geez is this a novel

Fewer natural substances get more positive
press from newspapers, magazines and social
media sites than apple cider vinegar and honey.
Even taken alone, each brings some amazing
health benefits to the body. Apple cider vinegar
is great for digestive health, for instance, and
can be used topically to treat a number of skin
conditions as various as burns, dandruff or
minor cuts and scrapes. Honey has been widely
used since the time of the ancient Egyptians for
its medicinal properties, and even today it is an
important weapon in the modern fight against
difficult-to-heal wounds like severe burns or
diabetic ulcers. No natural health website is
complete without information on these two
amazing substances. However, when apple
cider vinegar and honey are used in conjunction
with one another, their healing powers are
intensified and they can support the health of
the body in some truly amazing ways.
Reduced inflammation
Not surprisingly, one thing which the
combination of honey and apple cider vinegar
seems to accomplish in spades is reducing
inflammation throughout the body. This helps
on two levels. First, it can make the
management of chronic inflammation
conditions like arthritis or ulcerative colitis
easier to achieve. Second, preventing
inflammation can help prevent the onset of
other serious chronic conditions like diabetes or
heart disease.
Better digestion
This honey-apple-cider-vinegar combination is a
great way to improve digestion and works in
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stomach. It can help treat sluggish bowels and
prevent problems like chronic constipation from
setting in. It can even support oral health and
banish problems like bad breath! It is, in short,
a great tonic for the whole digestive system.
Improved heart health
This dynamic duo is also able to improve the
health of the heart. Regular consumption of a
honey-apple-cider-vinegar mix has been shown
to improve cholesterol levels (and more
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cholesterol) and also to reduce high blood
pressure, which is a major risk factor for heart
disease. Indirectly, it also helps promote heart
health through weight loss, since obesity is
another common cause for cardiac problems.
The takeaway here is that, while apple cider
vinegar and honey, just on their own, are great
for the health, together they are a truly
formidable combination which can prevent and
treat a variety of medical problems, many of
them chronic and severe. They are readily
available in any grocery store and may be
lurking in the cupboard or pantry already! Try
this combination today and begin reaping all
the amazing benefits that go to support long-
term health.
www.informationng.com/2015/09/amazing-health-benefits-of-apple-cider-vinegar-and-honey-you-should-know.html

therealdeal10:
Mk i hear say i ignore LOOKS
I go marry monkey

When it comes to love and relationships,
everyone wants their partner to have certain
qualities. In fact, these qualities often attracts
one person to another in the first place. But, let
us not forget that no one is perfect. Every
individual has certain flaws. And sometimes,
you try hard to change those not-so-good
qualities of the person with little to no success.
But hey! If you are truly, madly and deeply in
love with your partner, then you can overlook
certain things about the person. After all, a
relationship is all about a bit of perfection and a
bit of imperfection.
Well, here we give you a list of seven such
things which you can overlook in your partner
and continue having a blissful relationship with
them.
#2. Based upon the age difference
Do not reject him/her due to the age difference.
After all, age is just a number. The thought of
what society will think about your age gap is
certainly not a reason to neglect your partner.
You are both happy and love each other, so
why stress over such useless issues?
#3. Based upon the difference in height
Ignoring someone because he/she is not tall
enough will be your biggest mistake. Your
relationship should be based on love,
understanding and trust. Height should not be
the factor to consider here.
#4. Based upon their looks
Even looks and appearances of the partner
should not matter much. Looks change with
age and time, but what remains intact forever is
the loving nature of the person. So, love your
partner for their nature, and not for their
appearance.
#5. Based upon his/her friends
Friends are important for everyone. But, there
are times when you might not like your
partner’s friends for some or the other reasons.
So, no matter how useless you consider their
friends to be, it is best to overlook this thing.
Your relationship is with your partner, not with
his/her friends.
#6. Based upon their past behaviour
Just because your partner is known for
flirtatious behaviour in the past, does not mean
that you cannot count on him/her now. Agreed,
that trusting such people seems difficult at first.
But, as the time passes, you will come to know
of their sincerity towards you by their
behaviour, attitude and commitment. So, before
cutting them off your life for good, try to ignore
their past ways and give them a chance. Who
knows, you both might be made for each other!
#7.Based upon his/her unromantic side
You might be an extremely romantic person
and expect the same from your partner, but to
your dismay your companion might not be that
romantic. Having said that, maybe expressing
their feelings for you is hard for them. Well, it
can be frustrating at times. But hey, there must
be something which your partner does to show
his/her love towards you. Think about it and
ignore the rest.
Ending the relationship is easy. You just come
acrodss some faults in a person and break-up
with them. But, if you know that whatever may
be the situation, he/she will always be by your
side, then it is best to overlook certain things in
the relationship. And, be with them forever!
www.informationng.com/2015/09/7-things-you-must-overlook-in-your-partner-when-in-a-relationship.html

ilobasama:
Nice right up by the op. And yes you cant love someone and cheat on them but please, its not only nigerians that cheat now. Why narrowing your discuss down to nigerians ?

lekjons:
whenever you're being tempted, ur desires will be controlling half of u, for how long'll u endure? you're fighting urself, within urself..u said something about thinking b4 acting..u think with ur brain, not with ur jt/p*sy, and in sense of cheating, ur jt/p*sy is the one demanding here(don't u wonder y mad people fùck themselves?)

i think the only way out is to stay away from thing/place u can be tempted, or leave quickly b4 the urge becomes great...

freecocoa:
How am I to know who and who he is inviting?

lekjons:
*yimu* just pray u don't face the temtation that'll be beyond ur control!

If you cheat on someone, you simply don’t love
or respect that person fiercely enough.
—
If you cheat on someone you’re dating, you
don’t love that person. I’m sorry, but it’s true. If
you are unfaithful, you are not in love.
I don’t care if people “make mistakes.” I don’t
give a flying f*ck if we’re “all human.”
Cheating is not a mistake you make when you
truly love someone. Let me just clarify this for a second, in case you missed it the first time: YOU CANNOT
CHEAT ON SOMEONE YOU LOVE. IT IS
IMPOSSIBLE.
Full disclosure: This article is kind of personal
and very preachy. If you are a person who has
cheated on someone and still believes you love
that person, you’re about to have your a*s
handed to you. When I bring up this subject in my social circle,it quickly dissolves into a heated debate. Allow me to explain why I am undoubtedly correct when I say that you cannot cheat on someone you love.

Let’s start at the very beginning. I should
probably note that I’m not a saint when it
comes to relationships. I know… shocker! I’m, in
fact, a true, undoubted sinner. I’m a notorious
cheater.I believe that my past urge to cheat comes from never really wanting to commit to a relationship — but still selfishly wanting all the benefits of having one.
I’ve always valued my independence and ability
to do whatever the f*ck I want, but I also enjoy
having someone to cuddle and go to dinner
with. During my bizarre and dreadfully muddled
dating history, I’ve been the gluttonous harpy
who must have her cake and eat it too.
My ideal situation was having my boyfriend wait
for me at home while I was off kissing
strangers in sketchy dive bars. In an ideal word,
my boyfriend would have understood my need
to be free. But that doesn’t happen in reality.
In reality, I lied. I was “in a relationship” only
when my boyfriend was present. I was a sh*tty
girlfriend. I openly admit this.
On top of all of this, I’m pretty transparent
about my habits and the insatiability that stems
from my deep-seated FOMO. But every guy who
comes my way is positive that he will be the
guy to change me. He will be the guy to make me give up my cheating ways. I had to wonder what was so wrong with me that I felt compelled to cheat on my boyfriends.

I had to question why I never really felt guilty.
I came to realize that everything had to do with
the tepid feelings I had for the men I was
dating. I didn’t care enough about my
relationships to not risk ruining them. I didn’t
respect my partners enough to treat them like
they were my partners. After a lot of contemplation, I’ve become absolutely sure that if you love someone and respect someone enough, you cannot cheat on that person. You simply cannot. It would kill you.

Let’s talk about respect.
It all comes down to respect. If you truly respect
the person you’ve committed to, you will never
be able to cheat on him or her. You would just
not be capable of doing that to someone you
care deeply about. For the first time in my crazy, messed-up lovelife, I believe that I am truly in love — madly,head-over-heels kind of love. The difference with this relationship is that I have a deep and profound respect for my boyfriend.
He treats me beautifully, he challenges me, and
he is there for me whenever I need him. He is
my best friend. I’m repulsed by the thought of
letting another guy touch me. It makes my skin
crawl. The idea of hurting someone I respect so much breaks my heart. I couldn’t. I wouldn’t. The only time I would do something like that would be if I didn’t honor him the way that I do. If you cheat on your partner, you do not respect him or her enough not to betray stray. You may as well leave now. Your infidelity is all the proof
you need that the two of you are not right for
each other. You can certainly care for your partner, but you don’t care ENOUGH.

I’ve cared for the men I have cheated on. I have loved each and every one of them in my own
way. But I didn’t love them enough to be faithful.
You can certainly care for — and love — a
person you betray. You can obviously have
feelings for this person. (You two are in a
relationship, after all.) But you don’t love him or her enough. If you truly loved this person with all of your heart, there would be no one else. Other men or women would not even exist for you.
It’s understandable that you don’t want to give
this person up. You love him or her. You want
to be with him or her. But this is what you need to understand:
If you cannot sacrifice the touch of another person —
if you cannot resist the physical urge to f*ck
someone else in favor of honoring your
relationship — you do not
value that relationship enough.
You can feel that love, but it does not burn
brightly enough. If you cheat on someone, you
simply don’t love or respect that person fiercely
enough.
Allow me to restate my thesis: YOU CANNOT
CHEAT ON SOMEONE YOU LOVE. IT IS
IMPOSSIBLE.
I should know. I’ve been there.
www.informationng.com/2015/09/the-ugly-truth-if-you-cheat-on-someone-you-do-not-love-that-person.html

freecocoa:
Na wa o, I already decided not to go sha, I just was taken aback by the manner of invite.

It's not even like I didn't apologise for breaking his heart(his words), though he kept trying for us to get back together but it just wasn't for me again, if he's still bearing grudge na him sabi.

Evathyst:
Wey them haters? Can I hear any 'Up Chelsea noise!'


Shey they said chelsea fans are noise makers? Una go hear better noise today.

INTROVERT:
Foolish bastard will roast in the hottest part of hell

ladyF:
Oh my...a 7yr old.