₦airaland Forum

brain54:
We have heartless politicians...


Retirees should be taken care of and compensated for the service they put in through the years.


How can someone work 35 years with no adequate measures to take care of them after retirement?


But the same politicians don't waste time to sign bills and laws on their welfare when it concerns them.


Nigeria needs a change in orientation... we can't continue this way. This is not the way to build a country!

When we protest for good governance
It’s this same police they use against us.
Now they are civilians 35 in service and the government is showing them pepper

ogugwa1992:
https://leaders.ng/2026/04/20/my-nightclubs-are-the-least-of-what-i-do-sir-uyi-fires-back-at-vaniti-critics/

Show action and stop running your mouth.

Yes

ebubeson:
No sex before marriage is the best. If you love someone and want to marry them, and they say no sex before marriage, support it: but tell them no sex before marriage means no sex between us and any body else.

Do not let anyone tell you no sex before marriage while they probably satisfy themselves with a sex partner or whoever.

For a virgin yes
But for none virgin NO.
Before you give over used pussy after marriage

Lithiumite:
Oga,its very possible your club sold those guys adulterer drinks check your staff,they can easily bring in counterfeit drinks and mix with your stock and you will barely notice......your original drinks will be taken out and sold on the streets......you really need to be more circumspect and check your staff thoroughly.

It’s possible the staff could bring in fake drinks.
There is now how someone would serve me fake JD that I won’t know immediately and I would complain instantly

Sirchiboy:
Serious question, do people actually exist who genuinely enjoy staying home all day and alone, without seeing anyone?

I’m one of them
Started as a kid but now I can stay that way any opportunity I get

9 to 5 men don’t like women who don’t sleep at night…
Cuppy comes alive only in the night
We don’t want batwomen

Then no de advice person way get money.
Na only when you are richer than them you can try to advice then

Toolegit123:
Good day my Nairaland fam.

Please,matured minds in the house,is it a good thing for a man to help his ex girlfriend who's now married, financially. She used to be someone whom I loved so dearly in the past but unfortunately,she broke up with me immediately she met someone who was already asking her hand in marriage. It's been over 3 years since she got married and I made sure I cut every bit of communication between us. Out of the blue,I don't know who gave her my number. She called me,and apologized for what she did to me. Even before she could ask for my help,I already knew her husband wasn't financially buoyant like I thought. She said she wants to open a provision store ,cuz immediately after they got married,they relocated to Lagos. And she asked for my assistance.

So,I don't know if it's appropriate at all to help her, considering how she left me emotionally stranded when I needed her the most in my life. Tho I've completely moved on with my life,but receiving a call from her brought back a whole lot of memories.

Please,my fellow Nairalanders, reason with me. Should I help her out?

Check your phone you would see that your friend that needs help give him the money.
Your revenge came you want to dash her money na wa o

With all the money borrowed still we don’t have have uninterrupted power supply?

dominique:
It just became official. Congrats Lampard and boys! All the best in the EPL. That blue club you once played for struggles against newly promoted teams, make sure you deal with them very well.

Coventry to win the premier league invest 5k

upibenterprise:
[center]“From Hope to Heartbreak: How Technical Failure Ruined My Daughter’s JAMB Exam After a Painful Journey to Omoku in Port Harcourt”[/center]

Yesterday was one of the most frustrating and disappointing experiences I have ever had since I started accompanying my children to JAMB CBT centres, as a father.

My daughter and I travelled all the way to Federal College of Education (Technical), Omoku, from UNIPORT, a place we had never been before. To avoid any issues, we left UNIPORT on Wednesday afternoon, spent money to lodge in a hotel, and prepared carefully for her exam scheduled for 9:00 a.m. on Thursday. We arrived at the centre before 7:30 a.m., hopeful and ready.

Sadly, what we met there was confusion and disorder. The candidates scheduled for 6:30 a.m. were already inside, yet their exam had not even started due to technical problems. To our shock, the 9:00 a.m. candidates, including my daughter, were also ushered in despite the unresolved issues.

From that moment, we waited… and waited… and waited. Hours passed in uncertainty and discomfort. From morning until about 2:00 p.m., not a single exam was conducted. No clear communication, no solution, just growing tension and frustration everywhere.

In the end, we were simply told to go home, that JAMB would reschedule another date and centre. for those of 6:30 am & 9:00 am respectively. Just like that. After all the stress, cost, and effort, my daughter did not write her exam.

As the environment became increasingly chaotic and unsafe, we had no choice but to leave and find our way back to Port Harcourt. We finally got home around 4:30 p.m., grateful at least for our safety, but deeply saddened and discouraged.

Till now, I have been checking the JAMB portal[b] (https://slipsprinting.jamb.gov.ng/main-examination)[/b] repeatedly, hoping to see a new date and centre for my daughter, but nothing yet.

It is truly painful and disheartening to go through so much, only to be left with uncertainty and disappointment.

I been think say when you people left they wrote the exams.
Sorry for the stress but I want the blive the exams would be rescheduled.

I’ve done so much transfers and I’ve never made any mistakes.
Cus I confirm name and accounts before I input the figures then confirm before send.
Imagine Gtb charging me 7k a month for text messages only

When the religion is a cult
Are you expecting them to love other rivals

They should use 2face as brand ambassador

Betterthanwalki:
So the rate of our economy has been bastardized this much? In 2016 this car Mazda 626 use to be 700k toks and 2022 It's 1.7m even negotiable, the post is here on nairaland.

And now I'm about to buy this car and it's now 6.8m toks. Is the country this bad? How can a normal legit person raise reasonable amount to purchase a year 2000 car.


Country is gone

I bought big daddy around that time for 1.4 m

anything way de make me enter ikeja or any market i de always ink up with someone that works there or i just go to a shop directly buy and get my receipt.

Alapereketu:
99% of nairalander have been scammed at computer village before

ive never been scammed my whole life in lagos and ive never lost a phone before....

CYBERWEAVER:
I am currently planning to get married. I’ve been with my babe for about a year now.

After several consultations, we agreed on a wedding budget of about 3 million Naira.

But I keep asking myself one very honest question: how do I commit that kind of money to someone who hasn’t really shown the same level of effort back, even in something as small as 5k, despite earning a little?


Asin, I never smell her 5k since we started dating.


At this point, it’s not even about the money anymore. It’s about intention, balance, and simple acts of kindness.

Even on my birthday, I didn’t receive a gift from her, and that stayed with me more than I expected.

I’ve never had to deliberately test her money, because genuine care and small acts of giving usually show themselves naturally over time.

To be clear, I’ve been carrying most of the financial weight in this relationship, and there’s hardly anything tangible she has ever done for herself without at least my 50% contribution since we met.

I don’t complain, but I also don’t want to ignore what I’m seeing.

As a responsible man, I’m trying to be honest with myself before I take a step I can’t easily undo.

So I want to ask people who are married or have real experience: if I go ahead and marry in a relationship where this is the current dynamic, what should I realistically expect in marriage?

I’m not trying to assume the worst, but I also believe experience speaks louder than hope.

wear tear tear boxers and watch if she would buy u another one
if not just prepare yourself for your money is our money and my money if my own.....
your miggt bot get a y financial support you go see pepoer.....
wedding 3 mill whats het own contribution or support from her own side

Sonnobax15:

Someone with a heart of giving is inbuilt.

Well,I don't want to say that's a red flag but I believe there are good tailors here who can tell you whether that that material of hers' is more than enough to sew a red flag or not.

Imagine planning to spend 3m on top a native hen who hasn't even spent up to 1k on your head

Una sabi date rubbish Cha. Cuz if na me be you, only my bad mouth alone will make her to start rethinking whether to adjust or quit the relationship

just tell him the truth
its a red flag.....

planned revenge
he died in a good car hehehehe
when he wants to start enjoying life he was brought down

The number 5 make sense
Cus people have been logout of their old Device to a new device and account wipped

LordLicifer:
Dual citizenship isn't the same as renounciation, dual citizens still holds dual passports

Oh now I understand

So what happens to dual citizenship in Nigeria

I love the background instrumentalist

Mine would be around that same age too

oneMalik:
make una show me the plant o ... otherwise , me and una must get problem .

no be dressings I wan see .

I wan see my president commissioning that thing koro-koro

U no see green plants everywhere Abi which plant u wan see 😁

ibedun:
Go and read it again without emotions 😏

politicizing Nigerians kidnapped and killed under Apc government .
Shows there is something wrong with your brains Abi u don collect rice?
Cus nothing concern ADC for this talk

ibedun:
I am conducting a research into the root of our on-going, unceasing economic and political problems. There are times when I blame the 'leaders' and times when I blame the people. Our 'leaders' come from our people and they express and manifest the mentality and backwardness of our people. Please I need all the help I can get from articulate, thoroughly thoughtful, aware and matured Nigerian - from any walk of life and location but preferably those who are resident in Nigeria.

Compare 2009 you made this post to now
Then ask yourself if the people you voted for were able to push Nigeria forward or backward
And what you would do to make Nigeria better.

ibedun:
ADC uselsess opposition supporter, well done.

Hand go soon touch you or your family
And I know you won’t survive APC next regime.
When it’s time I would vote who ever I feel would be the best candidate and it’s not your Tinubu
Why I’m happy is that I dint vote him the first time if not I would still be blaming myself as part of the cause of Nigerians suffering

By the time Apc is done with Nigeria ehn nothing would remain