₦airaland Forum

i came on this site for support n advice not to b called fat ugly trash, i am not importing a husband at all, u never asked this guy to marry me hes has done all the running, he has told me he wants to marry me , that i make him laugh when he is feeling down, he wants to b with me i am not making him do anything, yes i could find a husband here if i wanted im short of male admirers but i hav clicked with this guy, as for niverian girls i no i girl in nigeria who wants to come to england to find a white guy n hav mixed race babies cos she dosent like nigerian men ........we all hav our opinions on men black, white, asian they r all the same the world over its wots under the skin that counts, the love in someones heart .

im white

i did find a nigerian guy here in england n fell in love with him n still love him....but he has out uni b4 me....i no he will read this.....we r still very good friends.....than u to everybody for yr comments Bleep

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]Why would you be willing to marry someone you haven't met versus being with someone that you can see on a daily basis in your hometown?

If you want a Nigerian guy...look around England.

so either im being scammed or he is genuine n whoever is doing his visa is scamming him still not gonna no the truth .....but a lot if relationships start on the internet n work well .....if he wants to b with me then he will find the money himself

he says he has alread paid 150,000 naira towards his visa but is now asking me to give him £600 towards the rest of it n will pay me back when he gets a job.....thats wot is worrying me....if he wants to come over to b with me then he should find the money to do it .....

I started talking to this guy from Nigeria in April 2013,he has told me he loves me n wants to come to England n marry me,he said that he is willing to give up his job n family for me. He said he has been to c about getting a visa sorted which will b a 6 mth visa then we decide if we wanna get married while he is here then go home to Nigeria for 2 weeks to renew his visa then move here permanently. But i'm worried that all he wants is to get into this country, marry me then once he has a British passport and residency he will just leave, he keeps telling me that he loves me and will get a job n look after me. Am I being stupid in letting this guy come over or do I trust him?