alutacontinua: OUR BROTHERS ARE AT IT AGAIN!
op, I think your mind has answered your question and you know the right thing to do.

baibijay:

so he cant be in love or what?
how can you be so sure?
abeg no spoil the brother garri wif you sand.

dawn21: I started talking to this guy from Nigeria in April 2013,he has told me he loves me n wants to come to England n marry me,he said that he is willing to give up his job n family for me. He said he has been to c about getting a visa sorted which will b a 6 mth visa then we decide if we wanna get married while he is here then go home to Nigeria for 2 weeks to renew his visa then move here permanently. But i'm worried that all he wants is to get into this country, marry me then once he has a British passport and residency he will just leave, he keeps telling me that he loves me and will get a job n look after me. Am I being stupid in letting this guy come over or do I trust him?

dawn21: I started talking to this guy from Nigeria in April 2013,he has told me he loves me n wants to come to England n marry me,he said that he is willing to give up his job n family for me. He said he has been to c about getting a visa sorted which will b a 6 mth visa then we decide if we wanna get married while he is here then go home to Nigeria for 2 weeks to renew his visa then move here permanently. But i'm worried that all he wants is to get into this country, marry me then once he has a British passport and residency he will just leave, he keeps telling me that he loves me and will get a job n look after me. Am I being stupid in letting this guy come over or do I trust him?

LastApostle:
Did you come to live in London by accident?
Someone imported the person that made you realise your dream or most likely somebody exported you there. Whichever way, lots of niggas are daily importing ladies and ideally it is reasonable for you to import. Please I encourage you to import and courageously stall any circumstance that may necessitate deportation of your importee in the near future.

druid06: OP, do not adhere to the negative advices some spectators are giving you on here. I best say you should follow your heart. There's no gain without risk and if the dude is trying to use you to get a green card or something, there's no biggie. It's like you're helping out a fellow brother. Have fun while it last but do not forget to consider the other part that the dude in particular might be seriously in love with you and he wants to be with you and can't wait for you guys to spend the rest of your lives together.

dawn21: I started talking to this guy from Nigeria in April 2013,he has told me he loves me n wants to come to England n marry me,he said that he is willing to give up his job n family for me. He said he has been to c about getting a visa sorted which will b a 6 mth visa then we decide if we wanna get married while he is here then go home to Nigeria for 2 weeks to renew his visa then move here permanently. But i'm worried that all he wants is to get into this country, marry me then once he has a British passport and residency he will just leave, he keeps telling me that he loves me and will get a job n look after me. Am I being stupid in letting this guy come over or do I trust him?

carefreewannabe:

Why are people so naive? Especially some European and American women? I don't understand. Am sorry, no offence intended.
You started talking in APRIL 2013. THAT IS TWO MONTHS AGO!!!!!! And he wants to quit his Job and marry you? And you believe what? It's because of love? Damn!

Sorry for being so straight forward but THINK!

dawn21: he says he has alread paid 150,000 naira towards his visa but is now asking me to give him £600 towards the rest of it n will pay me back when he gets a job.....thats wot is worrying me....if he wants to come over to b with me then he should find the money to do it .....

demelza:
With the after effects of the global recession still affecting Britain, the chances of him, an immigrant getting a job is almost zilch. Even British citizens are finding it difficult to get job talk more of him. That guy is using you as a come up.

dawn21: he says he has alread paid 150,000 naira towards his visa but is now asking me to give him £600 towards the rest of it n will pay me back when he gets a job.....thats wot is worrying me....if he wants to come over to b with me then he should find the money to do it .....

Mrs.Chima:


Just want to say big ups on honesty!

alutacontinua:

Are you for real
Which kind of mentality is this?
What happened to asking politely if you need help from someone?
And Yes, a nigerian guy is seriously in love with someone he met ONLINE in 3 months and seriously wants to spend the rest of his life with her. Just how smart is that?

druid06:

Bad belle people, make una leave this two love birds alone. Make una nor spoil their relationship with una bad belle ooh..

Asking politely to someone you don't know from Adam to assist you with travelling abroad Does that sound right to you or are you those types of women who gets fat eating and spending 16hrs daily watching nollywood movies..

Who sets the deadly for when a relationship is right. 3 months to me is long enough for them wanting to meet for the first time.

What's this false idealogy that the average Nigerian male online are up to no good. People like you are the medium for the spread of this false idealogy and give us bad image all around the world.

I say we should leave this young couple alone and let them sort their business themselves. If the lady is old enough to fall in love, she's old enough to handle her private matters..

SHAKING MY HEAD FOR BAD BELLE PEOPLE.

Mrs.Chima:
According to UK tourist visa chart
..the total costs is 410.00 in USD.

150, 000 nairas is 949 USD
600 euros is 787 USD

OP....YOU ARE WELCOME.

dawn21: so either im being scammed or he is genuine n whoever is doing his visa is scamming him still not gonna no the truth .....but a lot if relationships start on the internet n work well .....if he wants to b with me then he will find the money himself

DailyNews: Lol, lots of em everywhere. I blame it on bad leadership and rotten Nigerian economy.

Nigerian guys ready to do anything to get out of their Nigerian misery

See threadstarter, its not just you alone, Nigerian guys now do their Nigerian sisters too so long as the girl or lady lives abroad, especially America, Canada and UK. Most Nigerian guys are ready to quit their marriage to marry any lady living outside Nigeria (America, Canada, UK), be it a white lady or Nigerian girl born abroad, so long as she is a citizen and would make them get a permanent visa

Like some posters rightfully advised, u can take the risk or quit becos he is out for the visa, formed love may accompany it though.

Take the risk and get married or don't take the risk and status remain same.

But pls, don't ever send him any money if at all u decide to go ahead with you guys initial plan. Pls don't, let him use his money and process the visa, it doesn't cost much, just a visa application fee and with the right reasons to convince the british consulate.

Btw o, there is fire on the mountain now o...our foreign sisters are all running back home to hookup, and the foreign ladies too...hey, big ups to Nigerian guys, u guys rock! Your demand is gradually going up in the global market, but sisters at home should be at alert o, both the naija sisters in diaspora and foreign ladies are now rushing down to claim ur prize, hmmm

dawn21: so either im being scammed or he is genuine n whoever is doing his visa is scamming him still not gonna no the truth .....but a lot if relationships start on the internet n work well .....if he wants to b with me then he will find the money himself

druid06:

Bad belle people, make una leave this two love birds alone. Make una nor spoil their relationship with una bad belle ooh..

Asking politely to someone you don't know from Adam to assist you with travelling abroad Does that sound right to you or are you those types of women who gets fat eating and spending 16hrs daily watching nollywood movies..

Who sets the deadly for when a relationship is right. 3 months to me is long enough for them wanting to meet for the first time.

What's this false idealogy that the average Nigerian male online are up to no good. People like you are the medium for the spread of this false idealogy and give us bad image all around the world.

I say we should leave this young couple alone and let them sort their business themselves. If the lady is old enough to fall in love, she's old enough to handle her private matters..

SHAKING MY HEAD FOR BAD BELLE PEOPLE.

babseg:


what rubbish are u typing here?

LastApostle:
Sorry, I know you lack comprehension and whoever liked your post is also handicapped. I went through your previous posts and found out you are actually grammatically incapacitated!

Let me help you bro

What I meant in summary is that she should go ahead with the marriage not undermining the fact that she was somehow a recipient of the abroad 'sponsorship'
Though in my analogy I recreated the situation using the import/export term used in trans-national relationship,this shouldn't confuse you one bit.
Thank you!

demelza: @OP
Yes that man is in love but not with you. He's in love with your British passport. Men are somewhat notorious for dragging their feet when it comes to marriage which is why Im surprised that he's already proposed to you within a space of 2-3months even without meeting you.
Shine your eyes so you wont be incorporated into the Maga Hall of Fame

baibijay:

so he cant be in love or what?
how can you be so sure?
abeg no spoil the brother garri wif you sand.