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Always on point. Ur vision is far ahead ur fellow 9ja bros

shedraq1: It is the same way you too will be tested as most big girls that earn fat salaries will always want to date rich business guys because SALARY is ALWAYS SLAVERY and does not last long..ask the big boys and big girls that lost their lucrative bank jobs..they will tell you that SALARY is SLAVERY

Dis wld be d simplest test of my life then cos I don't mind living in a hut with u and eating palm kernel.

[quote author=O.D.B.]But I guess it's ok for the ladies to do the gold digging.[/quote]If u have read thru d whole post, u will notice that I do not condone gold-digging by either of d sexes. For chrissake, love shd not be dependent on material things. Doesn't true love exist again? Can't ppl fall in love just cos of enjoying each others company?

I did rather stick to a pauper that makes me happy then a rich buffon anytime anyday.

tunapawizzy: @op well done o..nice job..but dis one u av decided to be organising sting operations on guys dat come ur way, ur surname na otedola ni. On a more crios note, I find it hard to reconcile these two things. D guy asked ur colleagues ow much u earn...n u said e first doubted u wen u told him u lost ur job. I think d doubt he had would av led the him to ask dose ur colleagues again if truly u lost ur job. Except u now want to tell us ur colleagues had prior knowledge of ur "operation detect true Love" n played along when he asked dem. Its either d dude is completely dumb or ur story is just ur imagination. If its d latter I salute ur creativity, what a sellable story just dt u av tighten some loose ends.

Some companies are so big that u can know anyone's salary if u know their job specification. Yet they are also so big that u can't easily find out who is where and where.

Billyonaire: What you saying now is a deviation from the thread. You simply painted the guy as a bad person who left you because you "lied" about your job status. If you will keep an open and unbiased mind here, you can deduce that in trying to play your covet lie game on the guy's intelligence, he may have sensed some level of discomfort and decided to leave. Does it occur to you that he may have done his own findings and realized that you lied about the job issue and decided not to continue a relationship with a "lier "?. In the end, its your world, you came here for opinions yet you are upset with diverse opinions.

Hia!! Who said I was upset? Na wao!! The thread is abt letting ladies know some tricks that some men play. And I went ahead in my last post to explain my line of reasoning cos I know that many ppl at 3 motnhs into a relationship are already thinking of forever after. But I am saying no to that. 3 moths is to early to conclude that u r in a relationship. Cos I hv seen someone cry over a relationship that ended after one month.

Bros u r vexxing too much o. Mbok cool down for Jesus

I would like to clarify some issues. I have known this guy for only three months and I believe that's what dating shd be about. Getting to know d kind of person u might want to end up with. U see some1 like d person's persona nd try to know d person. In our case we were introduced for marriage purposes.

In my opinion, I feel 3 months is too early to go to bed with anyone even thou I am completely aainst pre-marital sex. He was a likeable person but mehn I can't commit my emotions without knowing someone. Mbok

Nezan: Your reply alone shows the kind of lady you are. It was just my two cents. Peace out!

Did I hit a nerve sir. U sound really pissed. Is someone not allowed to read ur posts and have a good laff. Or was I supposed to cry after reading it. And since when did the term pocket lawyer become a derogatory one. Hmmm. Inhales deeply and exhales. =))º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º‎​=))

Nezan: Flaws in the OP's story:

1. Who was paying the bills on your outings? Was it the guy? Then may be he thought you were been a leech, refusing to help with the bills. Was it you? Then maybe he thought you were trying to lure him with outings.

2. What was so difficult about verifying whether you were still working or was truelly sacked? Every desparate guy will check. It is possible he discovered your lie and ran, not wanting to marry a lady who will be hiding money from you and depending on your sole income.

3. OP better change your ways, because many girls today are so conscious about their money that they think every guy coming is after their money. The bad thing is such girls finally end up with such guys because a real desparate guy will go any lenghth to have you, he can pretend as much as you want but once you fall with him, you are a goner.

4 Am concluding that the guy is not a gold digger, he was only pissed with you, a real gold digger would have stayed as long as you wanted to play your games. Wise up!

=))º°˚˚˚°ºНAĦAНAº°˚˚˚°º‎​=))!! This one na real pocket lawyer. Anyways very well arranged arguement but wrong judgement all the same.

Heck: Op has not scored high in my thoughts. She is a loser.
She got attracted to slowpoke man, and jumps about that she dumped a guy.
A guy that is up to those thoughts will dig into you. Capture those lies.
U are working, right! can't he check you out. Even if you are on leave,
there will still be a trace of you at work. What an idiotic guy that
dates you and won't know any of Your colleagues. Or, is your company
one man show....no gate man. dump a smart guy, and we shall hear you.
yea you were providing and suddenly turned a nag. Enough sign.
if the dude is normal, then he is inexperienced; maybe a teenager.

Kai!!! LMAO. This one is even funnier. Have u considered that I might not be working in ur conventional office setting? Must everything be d way u r used to? Na wao. Wouldn't want to explaoin further in order not to reveal my identity.

DICKtator: Typical Scorpio woman. Always "testing" and paranoid

Wrong guess

Billyonaire: Bottom line is "You Lied". I always tell God, Do not tempt me, because if you do, I will fall into temptation. Keep testing everyman you meet, some day, at the rate men are going gay, there will be no suitors to test.

=))º°˚˚˚°ºНAĦAНAº°˚˚˚°º‎​=)) this is d funniest post I have read today.

Let's face d raw truth:
Nigerian Love is very material dependent. Very few ppl get to experience real love with no strings attached. Its so bad now that our men even erroneously think that they must hammer big time before they hitch their real woman.

Y shd I argue abt income with u? Since u obviously don't know d income of all 25yr olds in 9ja. Or the encylopedia or gazette u r using is grossly outdated. I can't argue abt money I feel its gross and dirty or better still arrogant.

But u can never know it all. Some young ppl in Nigeria earn beyond what u may feel is possible. Let's leave it there. The money talks irritates me and that's d reason I had to be sure of the person I thot I had.

OMG... SMH. @ 9ja. I am not here to talk abt how much my income is as u can see how difficult it for me to tell someone I even know. My aim isn't to boast which I think u might have miscontrued. I am not the type that is moved by money. Yeah I might hv been lucky to hv gotten a little but that's a non-issue. The aim of the thread is to teach ladies that some guys cld stick around cos of money and also let them know that desperation isn't d name of d game.

I am taking time to explain to u cos I feel u hv got really low self esteem and hence the hating. Don't envy ppl u feel have it cos u will have it one day.

Basildon1: Allow it, gal! I knew you were going to go there. Naija mentality ko, naija mentality ni. Yes, you so totally didnt sleep with him. ABEGI. we are grown ups here and no one is even judging you on that.

POINT is, it is not impossible that he left cos he didnt want to be with you. Deal with that. All these tests sounds like rubbish. How hard can it be to state that "Hey, I dont pay a man's bills" and see how it plays out

Can't u deal with d fact that a guy can be a gold digger? And y do I detect real anger at d fact that there was no sex?I dictated d pace of the whole relationship from day one. And before allowing my emotions go haywire and get to d point where I cld cry if heart broken, I had to do test.

And I seriously suspect that u r one of them gold digging guys. That by d way though. He persistently tried to find out my salary and even when I hid the real figures, he found out from my colleaGues. He kept asking too many money related questions. Leave that thing. His behaviour tended to be money loving and I had to confirm my suspicions. And everything played out d way I expected it to.

Yeah

[quote author=deal_ordea]Why we no go vex, the op is up to no good right from day one....[/quote]=))º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º‎​=))... Na una dey cal 9ja babes gold diggers all d time. Now one ur kind has be caught in d same deed and u r all blowing hot.

Basildon1: Abeg this story sound somehow, broke guys never pass up free pum pum. Even if you had no money, he would have continued servicing you. Afterall, you decided to date him before you started your so-called test.

Talk about putting the cart before the horse. PLUS how much are you really earning that you seem to be attracting one male gold-digger after the other. Na wa o

Oga where in the post did u see that we had sex? SMH at the mentality of naija men. Does going out or dating equals sex? Na wao. I tire o.

Why are guys vexing like this?

jay bee: Did the guy ask you for any financial contribution throughout the time y'all was dating?
The guy could have also ran for the same thing ya know. No sane man wants a leech

Yes he did severally and I coolly said I didn't have.

Some nairalanders sure hv got serious issues. John311 the guys in question was older than me. are u not used to 25yr olds having good jobs? Ppl and their careless talks

@ITBOMB: 190 get 3 wives whose name are known to him alone. he wont tell u d truth.

^^^
Abeg ppl why do some ppl like being noticed even when they have nothing intelligible to contribute. Mr Tyche abi Tyson. Oya u hv been noticed and duly noted. I hope u r pacified now and ur ego suitably massaged

Abeg 190 go and manage ur 3 wives. I am taking a pass.

190:
OK - Give me a chance since u are currently single , we would eat together when theres money
and drink Garri together when theres none

- DEAL -

Then I will be wife number 4 abi. Craze man

Tyche: @ bolded, your mindset; so much emphasis on riches/wealth. And it will keep attracting you to the same type of guy you just broke up with.
Not saying you throw caution to the winds but you need to work on that. #MyHumbleOpinion

I blv ur analysis is wrong and baseless. I think its more of ur mindset that it depicts cos if u had read d story well u will notice d following:
1. He felt I was rich cos of my job.
2. He always complained abt his financial woes( this is what got me thinking though)
3. He left for someone with money.
4. We were introduced by someone, it wasn't a random attraction
5. The story was abt gold-digging which is money.

Think better before u start ur flawed psycho-analysis.

190 na only pesin wey no know u wld take u serious. There's nothing wrong in chopping both but I have to be sure that if the money goes, u will still stay.

stepo707: And for how long will you keep on playing games?

My dear saving myself heartaches is not playing games. Its called being wise. I won't love a man for his money and neither shd a man love me for money. When money go nko? Like this case, love go go abi? So imagine I had dated him for maybe 2yrs or even married him, the day I get broke he dumps my sorry arse. Or d day he meets a richer woman, he goes.

190 guys are also gold diggers. Out to chop money and punny. A lady has to wisen up

I met a nice guy through a friend and we started seeing each for sometime. He was of the opinion that I was loaded since I had a good job. The love was looking too sweet to be real. He wasn't too ok financially and always told me about his problems and I told him money wasn't an issue for me in a relationship. And having been burnt once, I tested him.

I told him I lost my job and was broke. At first he didn't believe me. I also told him, that I had to sell my car to settle a family problem. After some weeks he started being convinced as I complained endlessly about my financial woes. Also I couldn't help him in any way. He encouraged me to find a new job but the love started waning. The excitement was no longer in his voice. Whenever I told him there was strong hope, his interest will increase. After about 4 weeks, my guy find another rich babe and waka fast fast.

For me, good riddance to a gold digger. Ladies be prudent and slow to run into relationships.

This is the cutest guy I have ever met. There could be more handsome guys but I have not met them in person. If you are hotter than this, show urself

U hit someone's sore spot and the person reacted and then u come to NLD to cry.
SMH
And some ppl are actually supporting u. When u noticed she was pissed u shd hv just appologized and not insist on an appologgy too. U just kept whining and nagging. Imagine u even came to NLD to whine. I onder what r men are tunring into.