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You don't have a money problem, you have a manifestation problem. Money is not a means to an end neither is it an end; money is simply an avenue on which means ride-on to attain an end.

Money have no respect for persons, it does not select it's master but rather it is mastered by those who have manifested to their world. If you want to master money, manifest - your money is tied to your manifestation.

The manifestation of something is one of the different ways it can appear - as defined in Collins Cobuild Advanced Dictionary of English. The reason why crude oil is very lucrative as a business and a product of necessity today is because it could be refined (manifested) into different finished products. From it you could get fuel(PMS, Jet fuel), gas, motor oil, diesel et cetera. Do you notice from this example, that all refined form of crude oil seems to solve a class of problems; that is, to empower machines(be it cars, planes, cookers et cetera)? Even so your manifestation should be directed or channeled into one area or set of related areas, field or endeavor.

How do I manifest? You DISCOVER, ALIGN, then PRESS.

Firstly you DISCOVER yourself; this usually stands out among the three cause it proves to be the most difficult - if you can achieve this you are already eighty percent there. Your greatest conquest in life is to conquer yourself; you are to know yourself. You have to know what makes you different but unique.

After discovering yourself, your are to learn to become ALIGNED to your purpose. It is one thing to know yourself but it is another thing entirely to stay true to yourself. We are often pressured to become like somebody else, to conform, maybe to those we admire; but being modeled or mentored by some figure is evidently different from being fashioned like unto them in every way. Be comfortable with who you are.

Finally you have to PRESS to attain Fulfillment in life. What we consider as fulfillment in life varies among we as individuals; so whatever your persuasion is, in this area, the important thing is to attain your destination. Press in the sense that you don't give up before you even begin - it pressing till you go through the press and stand out.

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"Collins Cobuild Advanced Dictionary of English" @ HarperCollins Publishers 2009

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There are only a few things beyond our control, and what goes into our unconscious mind should not be one of them. According to Collins Cobuild Advanced Dictionary of English, Your unconscious is the part of your mind that contains feelings and ideas that you do not know about or cannot control.

If our unconscious contains this feelings and ideas we don't know about or could control, what put them there or how did there get there? Your unconscious mind wasn't a blank slate when you were birthed. There were behavioral patterns,cognitive feelings programmed in you, knitted in you in your mother's womb - this weren't things you picked up. For example you weren't taught to suck on your mama's breast, neither were you taught to cry when you felt pain or needed attention.

But you see, as we grew, messages and external influences began to be communicated to our unconscious minds, this messages we could perceive or not perceive; subliminal messages and influences seemingly beyond our control. This is true to us when we were but children - as in that stage, virtually everything that crossed our paths we picked up - but should this be said or seen of us as mature adults? You could say well, if most of the messages getting to our unconscious are subliminal, isn't it beyond our reach to control? Well you are correct; I couldn't agree more, however lets reason further together.


Since evident that most of this messages getting to our unconscious are subliminal, what is it that could be done on our path to curb this onslaught of information getting to us, knowing that these external influences informs our inclinations, proclivities, even our propensities to doing certain things we do?

This is how it had been proven to having this dealt with:

1. Identify the sources of this subliminal influences and,
2. Isolate yourself from them as much as possible with you.

Here are some of the identified sources of this influences: Music, TV Programs and Commercials, Movies, Bill Boards, News Media, Social Media and so forth. You see they are mostly things associated with media, why? Because this things appeals to our sensory gates; mostly our eyes, ears; it could also include our taste buds and smell, mostly sensory or sensual.

Isolating one's self as much as possible from some of this sources(censoring them for ourselves) will bring tremendous benefit far beyond our consciousness or comprehension.

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"Collins Cobuild Advanced Dictionary of English" @ HarperCollins Publishers 2009

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There are only a few things beyond our control, and what goes into our unconscious mind should not be one of them. According to Collins Cobuild Advanced Dictionary of English, Your unconscious is the part of your mind that contains feelings and ideas that you do not know about or cannot control.

If our unconscious contains this feelings and ideas we don't know about or could control, what put them there or how did there get there? Your unconscious mind wasn't a blank slate when you were birthed. There were behavioral patterns,cognitive feelings programmed in you, knitted in you in your mother's womb - this weren't things you picked up. For example you weren't taught to suck on your mama's breast, neither were you taught to cry when you felt pain or needed attention.

But you see, as we grew, messages and external influences began to be communicated to our unconscious minds, this messages we could perceive or not perceive; subliminal messages and influences seemingly beyond our control. This is true to us when we were but children - as in that stage, virtually everything that crossed our paths we picked up - but should this be said or seen of us as mature adults? You could say well, if most of the messages getting to our unconscious are subliminal, isn't it beyond our reach to control? Well you are correct; I couldn't agree more, however lets reason further together.


Since evident that most of this messages getting to our unconscious are subliminal, what is it that could be done on our path to curb this onslaught of information getting to us, knowing that these external influences informs our inclinations, proclivities, even our propensities to doing certain things we do?

This is how it had been proven to having this dealt with:

1. Identify the sources of this subliminal influences and,
2. Isolate yourself from them as much as possible with you.

Here are some of the identified sources of this influences: Music, TV Programs and Commercials, Movies, Bill Boards, News Media, Social Media and so forth. You see they are mostly things associated with media, why? Because this things appeals to our sensory gates; mostly our eyes, ears; it could also include our taste buds and smell, mostly sensory or sensual.

Isolating one's self as much as possible from some of this sources(censoring them for ourselves) will bring tremendous benefit far beyond our consciousness or comprehension.

-
"Collins Cobuild Advanced Dictionary of English" @ HarperCollins Publishers 2009

http://hispresencetoday..com.ng/2017/02/taking-control-of-subliminal-influences.html#more

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There are only a few things beyond our control, and what goes into our unconscious mind should not be one of them. According to Collins Cobuild Advanced Dictionary of English, Your unconscious is the part of your mind that contains feelings and ideas that you do not know about or cannot control.

If our unconscious contains this feelings and ideas we don't know about or could control, what put them there or how did there get there? Your unconscious mind wasn't a blank slate when you were birthed. There were behavioral patterns,cognitive feelings programmed in you, knitted in you in your mother's womb - this weren't things you picked up. For example you weren't taught to suck on your mama's breast, neither were you taught to cry when you felt pain or needed attention.

But you see, as we grew, messages and external influences began to be communicated to our unconscious minds, this messages we could perceive or not perceive; subliminal messages and influences seemingly beyond our control. This is true to us when we were but children - as in that stage, virtually everything that crossed our paths we picked up - but should this be said or seen of us as mature adults? You could say well, if most of the messages getting to our unconscious are subliminal, isn't it beyond our reach to control? Well you are correct; I couldn't agree more, however lets reason further together.


Since evident that most of this messages getting to our unconscious are subliminal, what is it that could be done on our path to curb this onslaught of information getting to us, knowing that these external influences informs our inclinations, proclivities, even our propensities to doing certain things we do?

This is how it had been proven to having this dealt with:

1. Identify the sources of this subliminal influences and,
2. Isolate yourself from them as much as possible with you.

Here are some of the identified sources of this influences: Music, TV Programs and Commercials, Movies, Bill Boards, News Media, Social Media and so forth. You see they are mostly things associated with media, why? Because this things appeals to our sensory gates; mostly our eyes, ears; it could also include our taste buds and smell, mostly sensory or sensual.

Isolating one's self as much as possible from some of this sources(censoring them for ourselves) will bring tremendous benefit far beyond our consciousness or comprehension.

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"Collins Cobuild Advanced Dictionary of English" @ HarperCollins Publishers 2009

http://hispresencetoday..com.ng/2017/02/taking-control-of-subliminal-influences.html#more

Knowledge acquired only polishes what you've already got on the inside of you - no matter the knowledge acquired in a certein area, if you haven't got it, you haven't got it.

So what have you got? Let me submit to you that on the inside of you lies treasures that your mind cannot possibly comprehend. You have more treasures on the inside of you than what money from the oil wells in the Middle East and in Nigeria can buy; you've got more treasure on the inside of you than the gold mines in South Africa and Ghana, more treasures than what the diamond mines in Zimbabwe could offer - YOU'VE ALREADY GOT IT.

There are solutions on the inside of you that can only come from you alone - no one could provide it but you. Contrary to popular believe, you were born into this world full with inherent abilities, but on the flip side most people go through their lives and finally to their graves without emptying themselves off the abilities put in them - meant really for the world to benefit from.


Acquired knowledge only refines you into what you were meant to be just as oil-crude is refined into fuel or gas, or as diamonds are polished off of it dross - knowledge does not "necessarily" add anything to you (it adds or imparts information to you), it primarily points you to you - it beams light to what you've already got on the inside of you.

Lets look at the human instinct for purpose of illustration as one of his hidden treasures.

If you would show me a man full of knowledge but without instinct, I will show you a beautiful glass house without interior decoration and furniture on the inside. If you show me a man with instinct but without the necessary knowledge, I will show you a treasure hidden from the world.

Knowledge PARADES you but instinct SUSTAINS you.

So start from where you are right now with what you've got on the inside, with little acquired knowledge here and there as you go along the way, you will most certainly attain your designated heights

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Knowledge acquired only polishes what you've already got on the inside of you - no matter the knowledge acquired in a certein area, if you haven't got it, you haven't got it.

So what have you got? Let me submit to you that on the inside of you lies treasures that your mind cannot possibly comprehend. You have more treasures on the inside of you than what money from the oil wells in the Middle East and in Nigeria can buy; you've got more treasure on the inside of you than the gold mines in South Africa and Ghana, more treasures than what the diamond mines in Zimbabwe could offer - YOU'VE ALREADY GOT IT.

There are solutions on the inside of you that can only come from you alone - no one could provide it but you. Contrary to popular believe, you were born into this world full with inherent abilities, but on the flip side most people go through their lives and finally to their graves without emptying themselves off the abilities put in them - meant really for the world to benefit from.


Acquired knowledge only refines you into what you were meant to be just as oil-crude is refined into fuel or gas, or as diamonds are polished off of it dross - knowledge does not "necessarily" add anything to you (it adds or imparts information to you), it primarily points you to you - it beams light to what you've already got on the inside of you.

Lets look at the human instinct for purpose of illustration as one of his hidden treasures.

If you would show me a man full of knowledge but without instinct, I will show you a beautiful glass house without interior decoration and furniture on the inside. If you show me a man with instinct but without the necessary knowledge, I will show you a treasure hidden from the world.

Knowledge PARADES you but instinct SUSTAINS you.

So start from where you are right now with what you've got on the inside, with little acquired knowledge here and there as you go along the way, you will most certainly attain your designated heights

http://hispresencetoday..com.ng/2017/02/youve-already-got-it.html

Knowledge acquired only polishes what you've already got on the inside of you - no matter the knowledge acquired in a certein area, if you haven't got it, you haven't got it.

So what have you got? Let me submit to you that on the inside of you lies treasures that your mind cannot possibly comprehend. You have more treasures on the inside of you than what money from the oil wells in the Middle East and in Nigeria can buy; you've got more treasure on the inside of you than the gold mines in South Africa and Ghana, more treasures than what the diamond mines in Zimbabwe could offer - YOU'VE ALREADY GOT IT.

There are solutions on the inside of you that can only come from you alone - no one could provide it but you. Contrary to popular believe, you were born into this world full with inherent abilities, but on the flip side most people go through their lives and finally to their graves without emptying themselves off the abilities put in them - meant really for the world to benefit from.


Acquired knowledge only refines you into what you were meant to be just as oil-crude is refined into fuel or gas, or as diamonds are polished off of it dross - knowledge does not "necessarily" add anything to you (it adds or imparts information to you), it primarily points you to you - it beams light to what you've already got on the inside of you.

Lets look at the human instinct for purpose of illustration as one of his hidden treasures.

If you would show me a man full of knowledge but without instinct, I will show you a beautiful glass house without interior decoration and furniture on the inside. If you show me a man with instinct but without the necessary knowledge, I will show you a treasure hidden from the world.

Knowledge PARADES you but instinct SUSTAINS you.

So start from where you are right now with what you've got on the inside, with little acquired knowledge here and there as you go along the way, you will most certainly attain your designated heights

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I need your feedback on this if you will - I am putting up a three day challenge at the end of this write-up - you will do something simple that promises to bring tremendous success in your life (the change you want to see) - but first read through.

Have you ever noticed with yourself or in a particular situation were, for whatever reason you just knew what to do that particular time and it turned out that going through with it was the best thing you've done for yourself in a while? This is true for all of us.

There is something on the inside of you that have the solution to your situation. There is something you know deep down on the inside whether you realize it or not that can move you out from what present condition or challenge you are faced with right now; all you need is listen to that inner voice. You only have to give a little thought to your situation and you will receive instruction from the inside - kind of like a light lit up on the inside of you, signaling the way out.

You see we pay highly for counselling sessions but really what they would say to us are things we already know to do for ourselves deep down on the inside (on our inner most being or consciousness). I appreciate counselors, I am not taking anything away from them, however, most of the solutions to our problems are right within our reach (or I could say are in us) - all we have to do is look - or dig deep.

Now here is the three day challenge.

No matter what the challenge is - weight, addiction, depression or any set back, going through this challenge will go along way in helping.

NB: Everyday will come to you with a different persuasion from your inner being. You will surge with positive expectation from the inside

Day 1: Try to ponder on that particular predicament or challenge you are currently faced with.
Don't ponder as in get into worry or getting worked-up about it, but try to see or find within you the foundation (the root cause or initiator) of the problem - I promise you that you will find it; be patient with yourself even if it takes a while.

Day 2: Ponder for a while about where you were or use to be, where you are now and where you would like or wish to be. Stay on this for a good while through out this day - you will begin to receive and conceive ideas from within or around you; if you stay long enough on this it will become a knowing: all of a sudden you will know exactly what to do (kind-of a light lit-up on the inside), you might even receive instruction from around you( by around you I mean you might become inspired by people, event or things around you).

Day 3: Take those steps (implementation) and get out of that situation - you can do it. Within only day three you will notice some radical changes.

You will have the will power necessary to see this through because the very solution that will come out of you will come naturally to you.

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I need your feedback on this if you will - I am putting up a three day challenge at the end of this write-up - you will do something simple that promises to bring tremendous success in your life (the change you want to see) - but first read through.

Have you ever noticed with yourself or in a particular situation were, for whatever reason you just knew what to do that particular time and it turned out that going through with it was the best thing you've done for yourself in a while? This is true for all of us.

There is something on the inside of you that have the solution to your situation. There is something you know deep down on the inside whether you realize it or not that can move you out from what present condition or challenge you are faced with right now; all you need is listen to that inner voice. You only have to give a little thought to your situation and you will receive instruction from the inside - kind of like a light lit up on the inside of you, signaling the way out.

You see we pay highly for counselling sessions but really what they would say to us are things we already know to do for ourselves deep down on the inside (on our inner most being or consciousness). I appreciate counselors, I am not taking anything away from them, however, most of the solutions to our problems are right within our reach (or I could say are in us) - all we have to do is look - or dig deep.

Now here is the three day challenge.

No matter what the challenge is - weight, addiction, depression or any set back, going through this challenge will go along way in helping.

NB: Everyday will come to you with a different persuasion from your inner being. You will surge with positive expectation from the inside

Day 1: Try to ponder on that particular predicament or challenge you are currently faced with.
Don't ponder as in get into worry or getting worked-up about it, but try to see or find within you the foundation (the root cause or initiator) of the problem - I promise you that you will find it; be patient with yourself even if it takes a while.

Day 2: Ponder for a while about where you were or use to be, where you are now and where you would like or wish to be. Stay on this for a good while through out this day - you will begin to receive and conceive ideas from within or around you; if you stay long enough on this it will become a knowing: all of a sudden you will know exactly what to do (kind-of a light lit-up on the inside), you might even receive instruction from around you( by around you I mean you might become inspired by people, event or things around you).

Day 3: Take those steps (implementation) and get out of that situation - you can do it. Within only day three you will notice some radical changes.

You will have the will power necessary to see this through because the very solution that will come out of you will come naturally to you.

-Please send your feed back-

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I need your feedback on this if you will - I am putting up a three day challenge at the end of this write-up - you will do something simple that promises to bring tremendous success in your life (the change you want to see) - but first read through.

Have you ever noticed with yourself or in a particular situation were, for whatever reason you just knew what to do that particular time and it turned out that going through with it was the best thing you've done for yourself in a while? This is true for all of us.

There is something on the inside of you that have the solution to your situation. There is something you know deep down on the inside whether you realize it or not that can move you out from what present condition or challenge you are faced with right now; all you need is listen to that inner voice. You only have to give a little thought to your situation and you will receive instruction from the inside - kind of like a light lit up on the inside of you, signaling the way out.

You see we pay highly for counselling sessions but really what they would say to us are things we already know to do for ourselves deep down on the inside (on our inner most being or consciousness). I appreciate counselors, I am not taking anything away from them, however, most of the solutions to our problems are right within our reach (or I could say are in us) - all we have to do is look - or dig deep.

Now here is the three day challenge.

No matter what the challenge is - weight, addiction, depression or any set back, going through this challenge will go along way in helping.

NB: Everyday will come to you with a different persuasion from your inner being. You will surge with positive expectation from the inside

Day 1: Try to ponder on that particular predicament or challenge you are currently faced with.
Don't ponder as in get into worry or getting worked-up about it, but try to see or find within you the foundation (the root cause or initiator) of the problem - I promise you that you will find it; be patient with yourself even if it takes a while.

Day 2: Ponder for a while about where you were or use to be, where you are now and where you would like or wish to be. Stay on this for a good while through out this day - you will begin to receive and conceive ideas from within or around you; if you stay long enough on this it will become a knowing: all of a sudden you will know exactly what to do (kind-of a light lit-up on the inside), you might even receive instruction from around you( by around you I mean you might become inspired by people, event or things around you).

Day 3: Take those steps (implementation) and get out of that situation - you can do it. Within only day three you will notice some radical changes.

You will have the will power necessary to see this through because the very solution that will come out of you will come naturally to you.

-Please send your feed back-

http://hispresencetoday..com.ng/2017/02/get-in-shape.html

I need your feedback on this if you will - I am putting up a three day challenge at the end of this write-up - you will do something simple that promises to bring tremendous success in your life (the change you want to see) - but first read through.

Have you ever noticed with yourself or in a particular situation were, for whatever reason you just knew what to do that particular time and it turned out that going through with it was the best thing you've done for yourself in a while? This is true for all of us.

There is something on the inside of you that have the solution to your situation. There is something you know deep down on the inside whether you realize it or not that can move you out from what present condition or challenge you are faced with right now; all you need is listen to that inner voice. You only have to give a little thought to your situation and you will receive instruction from the inside - kind of like a light lit up on the inside of you, signaling the way out.

You see we pay highly for counselling sessions but really what they would say to us are things we already know to do for ourselves deep down on the inside (on our inner most being or consciousness). I appreciate counselors, I am not taking anything away from them, however, most of the solutions to our problems are right within our reach (or I could say are in us) - all we have to do is look - or dig deep.

Now here is the three day challenge.

No matter what the challenge is - weight, addiction, depression or any set back, going through this challenge will go along way in helping.

NB: Everyday will come to you with a different persuasion from your inner being. You will surge with positive expectation from the inside

Day 1: Try to ponder on that particular predicament or challenge you are currently faced with.
Don't ponder as in get into worry or getting worked-up about it, but try to see or find within you the foundation (the root cause or initiator) of the problem - I promise you that you will find it; be patient with yourself even if it takes a while.

Day 2: Ponder for a while about where you were or use to be, where you are now and where you would like or wish to be. Stay on this for a good while through out this day - you will begin to receive and conceive ideas from within or around you; if you stay long enough on this it will become a knowing: all of a sudden you will know exactly what to do (kind-of a light lit-up on the inside), you might even receive instruction from around you( by around you I mean you might become inspired by people, event or things around you).

Day 3: Take those steps (implementation) and get out of that situation - you can do it. Within only day three you will notice some radical changes.

You will have the will power necessary to see this through because the very solution that will come out of you will come naturally to you.

-Please send your feed back-

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Our premise; supposed to be the foundation on which we lay or anchor our dreams, aspirations and goals on. But it is amazing how shallow and narrowly scoped we make them . We can dream all we want, set the goals, but without the right premise or basis on which we are conceiving this dreams and setting the goals, we become tailored towards failing.

Imagine for a minute a young man meeting a young woman, had a couple of dates with her and decides to get married to her for a singular reason he could come up with, "I love the way she smiles". Smiling is good and all that but can that sustain a marriage? Here, smiling becomes a terrible premise on which one would hang his or her marriage on. what happens to the marriage if she loses her smile perhaps to life getting the best of her?

Who would want, if you knew, a five story building built on a two feet deep foundation even if it is going for a give away price? You probably wouldn't because it is only a matter of time before that building will collapse and come to it's ruin.

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What are you doing with your mind? Your mind is just like everything else, it wears-out from lack of use. The more under utilized your mind is, the more you lose your wit.

Have you ever wondered why you have to learn somethings all over again after dropping it for a while? Take for example learning a new language, or learning how to play a musical instrument, the moment you stop practicing you start forgetting all you've learnt, and when you eventually return to it it will feel like starting all over again.

We have to consistently build muscle memory in areas of our expertise. Why do you do something, drop it, and pick it up again. You are wasting your time.

If you want something, put your mind to it and go all out to getting it; the more you procrastinate the more your mind will get lazy towards achieving that thing.

There is always a boomerang effect to leaving your mind idle. Here are some inevitable consequences for mental idleness:

1. Increased Procrastination
Whatever you are leaving undone now is piling up for later. Eventually you will have to get back to it but with a lot of time lost and with twice the effort. The more you keep up with this pattern the more increasingly difficult it will become to achieving anything worth while.

2. Stagnation/Inability to achieve set goals
Lets face it, we won't achieve anything worth while in life without effectively putting our minds to work; you will never achieve your set goals if you will not prep your mind for it. If you want any meaningful progress in life you have to put your mind through hard and effective work, thinking, or brainstorming.

3. Mental Fatigue
You would notice that when you engage in regular and consistent physical exercises your body feels amassing in contrast to sleeping around the whole day. Same is true with your mind. The more you effectively engage your mind the more sound it will become. Always get yourself involved in activities that challenge or provoke you into thinking, thinking outside the norm.

Exercise your mind, put it to good use. You have no idea what your mind is capable of, what your mind can conceive.

Stretch your imagination, "think yourself clear", as quipped by T.D Jakes. In your mind lies an untapped gold mine.

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When you're pained, how does it hurt? It's all about Life and Life is Discernment and Understanding.
Just learn to cope.

That's right. We are stronger than we think - He's strength is made perfect in our weakness

You have to come to terms with the fact that people and circumstances will from time to time say hurtful things to you, whether or not it is intentional. But you have to understand that the degree to how much you will be hurt by it is totally up to you.

This is a powerful truth. It really isn't what is said or who said it; it is all dependent on your emotional, mental and spiritual depth.

Have you realized that no matter what is said to you on a very good day will have a totally different effect on you as it would if it were to be a lousy and difficult day? Do you realize your reaction will be based on your current mood or better still your spiritual understanding? It is really anchored by your emotional and/or spiritual maturity.

However you really shouldn't rely on your emotions. Emotions can be misleading for most of the time. You will need self control to put your emotions under control; only a spirit with great understanding and depth will be able to do so.

Here is another thing, you will also get hurt by some one you lean on, someone you have placed on a pedestal. It is wrong to lean on people or place them on a pedestal. Don't misunderstand me, you should love people and trust the ones close to you but don't put your trust in them. You realize the difference? You should trust in man but you shouldn't put your trust in them. You shouldn't fall like a pack of cards when there are not there. This also is founded by a lack of spiritual understanding.

The key to overcoming being hurt by others or situations is to love unconditionally. When you love a person without placing a responsibility on them or expecting anything from them in return, you won't be hurt by their actions. Emotions might rise depending on the gravity of the assault but you could tame it if you have come to love that person unconditionally.

Unconditional love is not something you do with will power. The human will is incapable of compelling one to give love without reservations, only the spirit can; not just any kind of spirit, but a regenerated spirit(recreated spirit)- spirit filled with God; spirit recreated by God through His Son Jesus Christ.

This kind of love goes beyond human comprehension. This unconditional love is God giving Himself to man because God is Love. This Love is eternal and can be given to all who BELIEVE in Jesus Christ from the heart, who believe that Jesus died for them and their imperfections on the cross. With this kind of Love(love in it's pure and original form), you can overlook whatever disappointment and hurt that comes your way from other people.

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You have to come to terms with the fact that people and circumstances will from time to time say hurtful things to you, whether or not it is intentional. But you have to understand that the degree to how much you will be hurt by it is totally up to you.

This is a powerful truth. It really isn't what is said or who said it; it is all dependent on your emotional, mental and spiritual depth.

Have you realized that no matter what is said to you on a very good day will have a totally different effect on you as it would if it were to be a lousy and difficult day? Do you realize your reaction will be based on your current mood or better still your spiritual understanding? It is really anchored by your emotional and/or spiritual maturity.

However you really shouldn't rely on your emotions. Emotions can be misleading for most of the time. You will need self control to put your emotions under control; only a spirit with great understanding and depth will be able to do so.

Here is another thing, you will also get hurt by some one you lean on, someone you have placed on a pedestal. It is wrong to lean on people or place them on a pedestal. Don't misunderstand me, you should love people and trust the ones close to you but don't put your trust in them. You realize the difference? You should trust in man but you shouldn't put your trust in them. You shouldn't fall like a pack of cards when there are not there. This also is founded by a lack of spiritual understanding.

The key to overcoming being hurt by others or situations is to love unconditionally. When you love a person without placing a responsibility on them or expecting anything from them in return, you won't be hurt by their actions. Emotions might rise depending on the gravity of the assault but you could tame it if you have come to love that person unconditionally.

Unconditional love is not something you do with will power. The human will is incapable of compelling one to give love without reservations, only the spirit can; not just any kind of spirit, but a regenerated spirit(recreated spirit)- spirit filled with God; spirit recreated by God through His Son Jesus Christ.

This kind of love goes beyond human comprehension. This unconditional love is God giving Himself to man because God is Love. This Love is eternal and can be given to all who BELIEVE in Jesus Christ from the heart, who believe that Jesus died for them and their imperfections on the cross. With this kind of Love(love in it's pure and original form), you can overlook whatever disappointment and hurt that comes your way from other people.

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dingbang:
My anger sha...

Are you a christian sir?`if u are jst allow the Holy Spirit to help u

Anger is one of the many emotions we experience as humans. Anger could be good or bad depending on how we choose to express it. Anger is a feeling and feelings are put there by God, but you know that every thing God have created can be abused; so it is with anger, it could be channeled for good or for bad.

Anger have to be instigated from an external source before compelling you from within to retaliate. This eternal sources are everywhere, ranging from your closest friends to what we see on the news.

Anger should be controlled, but there are a few wrong ways it could be done. We have been taught this or picked it up as an habit, but it is the wrong way to control it. Here are some of the wrong ways:

We have been taught to just bottle it up,
We have been taught to squeeze at something or yell at a pillow and,
Sometimes we just throw up a fit.

But there are better ways to taking care of our anger.

So what is that way? the bible says we can be angry but we should sin not, but what does it mean to be angry but sin not? Firstly what is sin? it is anything that violates the law of "Love God and Love People"; so sin is transgressing from this simple law. So, anger can go against this law that is why the bible teaches that we could be angry but sin not.

Now that sin has been explained, what does it mean "be angry but sin not"? it means be angry but do not offend your neighbor, be angry but do not cause bitterness, strife or malice. So how can I do this, how can I be angry but not cause all this tension?

The way to do this is to control what you say. You could be angry but learn not to say anything because when you talk whilst angry, you are bound to say something terrible and would regret. Now I am not saying you should bottle inside your feelings, what I am saying is that you should walk away from that situation and resolve it later when you are calm.

During this time you have walked away you can do this things:

Ask yourself why you became upset by the situation. you will be shocked by what you will learn
Consider how you will resolve the issue, like how you will approach this person that have done this or how to tackle the problem if it was a situation involving a couple of people. Ponder on how you will come out with an amicable solution
Check out my earlier post "How You Can Overcome Being Hurt"to see how to avoid being angry at all in the first place. Yes you can learn how stop being angry at some certain situations.

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Anger is one of the many emotions we experience as humans. Anger could be good or bad depending on how we choose to express it. Anger is a feeling and feelings are put there by God, but you know that every thing God have created can be abused; so it is with anger, it could be channeled for good or for bad.

Anger have to be instigated from an external source before compelling you from within to retaliate. This eternal sources are everywhere, ranging from your closest friends to what we see on the news.

~for more~
http://hispresencetoday..com.ng/2016/11/learn-to-have-power-over-anger.html