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aminusodiq:
I don't even knw hw day feel convinient being an introvert... Me dah can talk

Funny thing is I get really uncomfortable with people that talks Alot

nuelsam:
If u got girl problems....im sorry for you Son.....i got 99 problems but a bitch aint one
- Jay Z.

But there will definitely be a phase in your life where you will need love

mumumugu:
true talk, a girl before uni differs from a girl during uni. she may come back for u when she is clocking 32

Hahaha funny you

samdavjustin:
That tight there is your problem, how do you expect to keep them without effective communication and attention. You know women love for attention especially from a person they like so u just need to adjust

I loose patience easily if I text and you don't reply I might delete the number

Apination:
I'm an introvert just like you but have come to realise one thing, just express yourself no matter what, if one girl says no or even 10, there will be one person who would say yes. Rejection is normal, everybody no fit like you

That's very true

AfroKnight:
Some small boys in her school are calling her “sisí” and she’s pleased with herself. Na normal tin. She has never felt so beautiful before. This is a novel experience.

In her own eyes, you are a relic from the past drab life which she thinks she has escaped. One small boy go soon clear her.

In the mean time, focus your energy elsewhere. Many under 25 girls are in their höe-phase. So, Move on.

Absolutely correct

Just keep checking on her once in a while

Non virgin ofcourse

I don't really know any girl

Let these people be what they want in peace

I also stopped recently. Can't tell how

Mgbadike80:
love does not exist in the dictionary of most Nigerian women. stop loving them, make money, package yourself and do all those things that you know that they're attracted to even if you think it's stupid. grow up please.

Attracting them is never a problem. It seems am too logical for them. Aside business I loose interest in any other topic of discussion

Riele:
Okay .

Hope you find someone else who won't be causing pain .

Shalom .

Mmmm nothing better than that

aminusodiq:
den check urself... U ar not doin somtin right!!! Any which way... Donot tink money can keep a woman... U ar just doin bonanza ooo

This makes alot of sense. All the girls I have been with were never after money

Riele:
Isn't it obvious ?

You laid your foundation on assumptions .

According to you, " She seemed to like you " .

But I feel you never can tell who truly loves you. That's why I used "seem"

lilwetdick:
they want you to pursue, so pursue them, is that not what you are suppose to do

Mmmm that maybe true but another problem is i hardly talk infact after 5minutes of talk I get uncomfortable. I hate calling too

lilwetdick:
the problem is you fall in love anyhow, every girl you see you wanna fall in love or in other word have sex

instead of falling in so called love, why dont you explore your life, enjoy your lifemeet as many girls as possible, be complicated with them and have fun, till you are ready to settle then you use your experience to know a good girl

Actually getting women is not the problem keeping women is the problem. Its really frustrating to see ladies dieing for you when they just met you only for them to keep distance after a week or a couple of days

aminusodiq:
Sorry about dat... Restrategize... Converse a little more, make money and be in public gatherings, visit eatries nd ur places of interest!!! Just man up nd connect d ladies u meet... If all is well wit u manner of approach and a bit of ur appearance... 1 out of 4 should tell u yes!!! /by d way... Say sweet things.. Commend nd compliment dem... Dey love to hear it even if u ar obviously lying!!

Actually getting women is not the problem keeping women is the problem. Its really frustrating to see ladies dieing for you when they just met you only for them to keep distance after a week or a couple of days

Riele:
Unseriousness should be your problem .

May I ask why?

Riele:
Lol

What is funny?

I haven't been very lucky with women this year. I became really lonely and unhappy due to my nature as a conc introvert. In this moment I remembered the only girl that seemed to love me. So I resorted to traveling and visiting her. Actually she lives with my aunt so I visited them both. I got there and I met a really huge and unpleasant suprise. It was during this period that it occurred to me that the only reason she liked me then was because I was the only available option. But now she has gained admission and has met lots of other younger guys and all she did was to make me her ATM card a girl that seemed to love me when I had nothing. I was sternly rejected by her and the whole experience turned out to be opposite of what I expected. Now I found myself wallowing in deeper emotional loneliness.

Fear love ooo

Sikay19:

Financial love

Hahaha na wetin dey rein be that ooo

Just like life is divided into 3 layers which are from the least physical, followed by mental then at the Apex spiritual. So also is love between a man and a woman. The least of the loves that can occur is the physical which can also be termed lust and it is brought about by attraction to material things or physical body it is the weakest of loves and parties involve can easily move on from each other. Then following this is the mental. This is when actual chemistry occur between man and woman or man and woman that have same interests and think alike. This kind of love is stronger than the physical and bonds are very strong however if a break up occurs it might be a bit difficult to move on. Last and the most important is the spiritual which is where the issue of soulmates arises the bond here is magical and no matter how much a party wishes to leave the other party it becomes almost impossible due to soulful attachment. This is usually the case when you see a decent woman leaving well to do people and going after jerks. But the good news here is after one or two spiritual battles here a soulful detachment can occur. Now that you know this you should know where your love life falls.
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