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Celebrities › Re: Falz Tha Bahd Guy Shares Throwback Picture (photo) by deadZONE: 4:18pm On Aug 06, 2015
is he not a f00l
Sports › Re: PHOTO Vincent Enyeama And Wife Celebrates Wedding Anniversary by deadZONE: 4:13pm On Aug 06, 2015
chocolateme:
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nice dp
Sports › Re: PHOTO Vincent Enyeama And Wife Celebrates Wedding Anniversary by deadZONE: 4:12pm On Aug 06, 2015
grin
Romance › Re: Check Moi Out!!! Hotter Than Mr Nairaland by deadZONE: 4:11pm On Aug 06, 2015
undecided
Politics › Re: Buhari receives letter of credence from ambassadors of Belgium,Poland,Rwanda by deadZONE:
Photo conscious president...
president of the north
president KIM KARDA-BUHARI
you poo u take picture
u drink kunu u take pcture.
now u have approved amnesty for your boys.
we are watching u.....
we have seen that u have no purpose for this country.
you welcomed a spy from MI6 into Aso rock took pictures with him.
Nigeria is now a laughing stock to d rest of the world.
the best thing for Nigeria is to break it up..
the level of tribalism and favoritism has gone out of hand
am not in support of biafra take note.
Politics › Re: Kaduna To Run One Bank Account – El Rufai by deadZONE: 4:08pm On Aug 06, 2015
undecided undecided undecided undecided
Education › Re: Stephen Takim: A Notorious CRUTECH Lecturer Finally Nailed. by deadZONE: 4:07pm On Aug 06, 2015
lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed that lexus should be collected from him
Celebrities › Re: How Old Do I Look by deadZONE: 3:59pm On Aug 06, 2015
i dont care how old u are, your beauty is so captivating... kiss
your my sweet sixteen.
Jokes Etc › Re: Photo: When You Attend Funeral Of Someone That Died Owing You Money by deadZONE: 3:54pm On Aug 06, 2015
grin grin grin grin grin grin
Romance › Re: Test Run Ur Fiance/fiancee In Bed Befor Marriage: Cool Or Not Cool? by deadZONE: 3:54pm On Aug 06, 2015
grin grin grin
Naija guys
been tasting
since 1879
Education › Re: Photo Of The Craziest Rag Day Student... by deadZONE:
Finally pictures of INTROVERT has been release.
i talk am, nah only craze person fit siddon ontop
NL from morning to night.
Politics › Re: Flood Threatens Nigerian States As Cameroun Releases Excess Water by deadZONE: 3:47pm On Aug 06, 2015
huh huh
Nairaland General › Re: Top 10 Most Intelligent Romancelanders by deadZONE: 3:46pm On Aug 06, 2015
undecided undecided
who cares?
how much have they made?
Politics › Re: We Blow Up Pipelines For Repair Contracts. Pics/caps/movie. by deadZONE: 3:45pm On Aug 06, 2015
angry angry
Politics › Re: Senator Lawan Rejects Saraki’s Offer by deadZONE: 3:39pm On Aug 06, 2015
embarassed embarassed embarassed
Politics › Re: El-rufai Orders Banks To Close Govt. Accounts, Remit Balance To CBN by deadZONE:
Mini- buhari
only that this one is
educated.. even with that
he is clueless.
Politics › BREAKING NEWS: President Buhari Approves Amnesty For Boko Haram (DETAILS) by deadZONE(op): 3:15pm On Aug 06, 2015
President Muhammadu Buhari has approved amnesty for the Boko Haram terrorist group, a top presidential source who spoke to BREAKING TIMES on condition of anonymity disclosed on Thursday.

According to the source, President Buhari has concluded plans on the amnesty grant for Boko Haram and the official announcement is expected shortly after discussions between government negotiators and Boko Haram terrorists have reached a fairly advanced stage.

“I can authoritatively tell you that the issue has gone beyond a plan, President Buhari has concluded on the issue, granted approvals and it will be announced soon,” the source said.
Contrary to earlier reports, which suggested that the Nigerian government is open to negotiations with Boko Haram alongside considerations of amnesty in a deal expected to put an end to the mass killings of innocent Nigerian citizens by the dreaded terrorist group, our source hinted that the idea of amnesty is not one Boko Haram has accepted.

“President Buhari is actually acting proactively by offering amnesty to them in the hope of sealing a ceasefire deal with the terrorists. From all indications, Boko Haram has not agreed to lay down their arms for amnesty. But this new offer by President Buhari is expected to soften the terms of negotiation with them”, the source disclosed.

Recently, President Muhammadu Buhari declared that he is ready to negotiate with the dreaded Boko Haram terrorists, according to his spokesperson, Femi Adesina. Adesina disclosed this in an interview with BBC Africa. He said if Boko Haram members are willing, the president will negotiate with them.
However, this seems to be against the earlier stance of Buhari who during his campaign, promised not to negotiate with the insurgents if elected as president.

“Boko Haram is not interested in peace – if they are interested in peace, how can they kill 13,000 Nigerians?” the former military ruler told BBC News in February.

As news of presidential amnesty for Boko Haram filters from the Presidential villa, it is not immediately clear why President Buhari has adopted the carrot approach to dealing with the Boko Haram menace.

“There must be a strategy behind it that we may not know about. You know the President is a retired military general and just returned from a trip to the US where he had discussions with President Obama on this Boko Haram issue. We can only watch events unfold within the next few days”, a security source told BREAKING TIMES.
The idea of amnesty for Boko Haram is however not one new to Muhammadu Buhari.

In 2013 as leader of the Congress for Progressive Change (CPC), Buhari backed amnesty for Boko Haram. According to him; “Yes, it is good they have set up a committee and I haven’t seen the terms of reference, but it is the right thing to do. This is not the first time amnesty will be given to … eh.. what shall I call them, a violent group; remember what happened with Alhaji Musa Yar’Adua and the militants. So, this is not the first time. Whatever that will bring peace to the society, we should do it.”

Boko Haram killed more than 13,000 civilians between 2009 and 2015, including around 10,000 in 2014, in attacks occurring mainly in northeast Nigeria. Upwards of 1.5 million people have been displaced in the streaks of their wanton bloodshed and violence.

http://www.thetrentonline.com/just-in-president-buhari-approves-amnesty-for-boko-haram-details/

Cc seun
Properties › Re: Military Officers Seize Onikoyi's Land At Banana Island (Pictures) by deadZONE: 3:05pm On Aug 06, 2015
PassingShot:
So because we cannot write it off should mean we should believe unsubstantiated stories?

The burden of proof is on the person who alleges.
we should investigate it.. media houses should swing into the matter...
Properties › Re: Military Officers Seize Onikoyi's Land At Banana Island (Pictures) by deadZONE: 2:59pm On Aug 06, 2015
PassingShot:
And why should anyone believe you?

Is it enough for any random person to come to NL and claim that some military personnel acting on "orders from above" or the presidency have grabbed their land; and you expect people to believe him? Only f00ls believe such.
we can no write this story off, TINUBU has a record of doing such, and am not sure he has repented. and i wouldnt be surprise if his fellow partisans follow suit.
Crime › Re: Man, 28, Rapes 14-yr-old Girl And Tries To Commit Suicide In Prsion by deadZONE: 2:55pm On Aug 06, 2015
undecided undecided undecided
since buhari took we are yet to have
any good news.
Properties › Re: Military Officers Seize Onikoyi's Land At Banana Island (Pictures) by deadZONE: 2:52pm On Aug 06, 2015
doctokwus:
What has brought the new govt into this issue?
The petitioner finds it easy to question the essence of change Nigerians voted for but cannot first do the simple task of mentioning the name of d so called general.
Mention d name of d pson if u sure of your facts,not trying to blackmail a govt with wide allegations.
As an aside,with the cost of land in banana island and d way d place is hyped,I was expecting to see exquisitely tarred roads, non visible electric cables (underground electric cables) and fancy cars;but what am seeing in these pictures is an anticlimax.
daftness of the year! this report is about a piece of land and not on the beauty of banana island... if u want to witness the beauty of banana island take ur cheap broke ass to lagos and see it... we cant keep on hiding lies and human violations brought by this new government... even if buhari is ur father let the truth be told... this general should be stripped of all his honors and sent to sambisa forest with a gun nd one bullet.
Properties › Re: Military Officers Seize Onikoyi's Land At Banana Island (Pictures) by deadZONE: 2:47pm On Aug 06, 2015
yes....
you see!!!!!
this is what you block heads voted for
sit back and enjoy...
Romance › Re: Are You Dating A Guy Who Seems Perfect, But Is Jealous And Insecure... by deadZONE: 2:39pm On Aug 06, 2015
grin grin Hungry blogger looking for cheap traffic
am working in Etisalat i have MB to waste
buh i wouldnt allow others waste theirs.
Romance › Re: Are You Dating A Guy Who Seems Perfect, But Is Jealous And Insecure... by deadZONE: 2:37pm On Aug 06, 2015
MsCoral:
http://mscoralblog.com/2015/08/06/17-big-signs-of-a-jealous-and-possessive-boyfriend/
Are you dating a guy who seems perfect, but is jealous and insecure on the inside? Read these 17 big signs of a possessive boyfriend to find out!

Possesive

Is it so bad to be a possessive lover?

After all, all of us are possessive, at least in the first few stages in the nine stages of love when we’re insecure and not too sure of our partner’s love for us.

When you display a sign of possessiveness, you could be seen as a girl who loves her boyfriend a lot and fears losing him.

But there’s a thin line between displaying possessiveness as a sign of love, and displaying possessiveness as a sign of control and dominance.

Are you dating a jealous and possessive boyfriend?

Jealousy and possessiveness can seem extremely cute to begin with.

You laugh about it, talk about it with your friends, and you feel really loved and special because there’s a guy who can’t seem to live a moment without hearing from you.

Your boyfriend’s possessiveness reaffirms his love for you, and it makes you feel like you’re the only girl that matters in his whole life!

But what if his possessiveness goes too far and stops you from living your own life?

How can you tell if he’s being loving or controlling, when you just can’t see the difference? You may believe that your boyfriend is really possessive only because he loves you so much.

But the truth is, love has very little to do with most people’s possessive nature. More often than not, it’s a guy’s insecurity that makes him jealous and possessive. And beyond showing your love and affection to him, there’s really not much you can do to change him if he chooses to control you through his jealous and possessive nature!

Jealousy and possessiveness go hand in hand

When your boyfriend gets jealous, he’d feel insecure. And when he feels insecure, he’d become more possessive. And each time he displays his possessiveness and gets to control your behavior, it makes him feel more powerful in the relationship. And this power to control you *that you willingly give away each time you give in to his possessive habits* makes him assume that he’s the final authority in the relationship.

And each time you break free or do something he doesn’t approve of, it makes him feel more jealous and insecure because he believes he’s losing his grip and power over you.

Jealousy and possessiveness is a vicious cycle that takes turns to rear their head all the time. And no matter how hard you try to help your boyfriend feel better and more loved, he may only choose to see the ways that you’ve let him down.

The only way a guy can rid himself of the cycle of jealousy and possessiveness is by confronting it himself. You can shower him with affection and make him feel loved, but there’s only so much you can do before you crumble into pieces yourself!

17 big signs of a jealous and possessive boyfriend

It’s never easy to clearly demarcate the signs that differentiate a good boyfriend from a possessive one. After all, a tinge of possessive behaviour is completely acceptable in every relationship, especially when you feel insecure.

So here’s a list of 17 signs to know if you’re dating a jealous and possessive guy. If you see a handful of these signs in your boyfriend, he may just be slightly possessive because he feels insecure now and then, or bordering on controlling behaviour.

But if you see a lot of these signs in your boyfriend or husband, it’s time you talk to him about it because things will only get worse, and never better.

Possessive boyfriends are like a noose around your neck. Every time you give in, their grip only gets tighter *and their expectations from you only grows bigger*!

If you see several of these 17 signs of a possessive boyfriend in your own lover, point it out to him and help him see your side of the story, especially if it bothers you or if you feel controlled in the relationship.

Of course, your boyfriend will deny it or straight out accuse you of using these signs to make him look bad. But at the end of the day, if both of you need to have a satisfying and fulfilling relationship, both your expectations and wants from love need to be addressed and met. And if your possessive guy can’t change for you, or can’t stop trying to control you, perhaps it is best you walk away from him, or he’ll always expect more from you, all the time!

#1 Your decisions. He constantly wants to play a part in any decision you take. And he just can’t seem to accept it if you choose to do something he doesn’t approve of.

#2 His possessiveness is love. Every time you point out just how possessive he is, he defends himself by claiming that he’s possessive only because he loves and cares about you so much.

#3 Stalking. He stalks you or tries to find out where you are often when you’re out with a friend by calling you up out of the blue and telling you he wants to see you or meet you, or that he wants to pick you up.

#4 New experiences. He’s extremely protective about you, and doesn’t want you to do anything new without him. He behaves like your life is in danger when he isn’t around to take care of you, and sulks when you try something new for the first time without him.

#5 He sees red. He gets really mad over simple issues, especially if it involves another guy. He just doesn’t want you to create any memories or do anything fun with any other guy but him.

#6 Inquisitive. He’s extremely inquisitive about everything that goes on in your life. And if you don’t talk about something you consider too trivial to talk about, he gets angry or sulks until you tell him all the details, all the time.

Young man ignoring his girlfriend getting worked up

#7 Passwords. He wants to know all your passwords and all your secrets, even if you don’t want to share them with him just yet. He coerces you and threatens you until he gets what he wants.

#8 You have to answer his call. It doesn’t matter who you’re talking to, but he expects you to answer his call as soon as he calls you even if you’re busy on another call. And if you ignore him because you’re busy, he accuses you of ignoring him or being a bad girlfriend.

#9 Controlling. He doesn’t like it if you meet a friend or go out anywhere without telling him about it first, even if he isn’t around. It starts small until you find yourself asking him for permission for every single thing you do.

#10 Your friends are flawed. He ridicules all your friends, especially your guy friends and constantly picks their flaws. And each time they let you down, he takes it upon himself to emphasize just how unreliable your friends are, and how he’s the only one you can completely trust.

#11 He hates space. The idea of giving each other space shocks him. He wants to be a part of everything you do, and yet, he may whine and nag about something you enjoy until you give it all up and do things that he enjoys just to keep him happy.

#12 His world revolves around you. He behaves like his entire life revolves around you. And he forces you to behave the same way around him, even if you don’t feel that way just yet. He wants to be the centre of your world, and forces you to give him preferential attention over everyone else in your life.

#13 He tags along. He’s extremely insecure however hard you try to make him feel loved. He doesn’t like it when you go out to meet your friends by yourself, and always insists on tagging himself along, especially if there are a few guys in your group of friends.

#14 You shouldn’t have fun alone. He hates it when you have any kind of fun without him. If you watch a movie with your friends and meet him at the end of the day, you may find him really quiet or sulking. And eventually, he may tell you the real reason and find a way to make you feel guilty about it at the same time!

#15 Compliments. He doesn’t like it when you speak highly of someone else. Every time you say something nice about someone, a friend or a family member, he immediately tries to point their flaws. He’s extremely competitive and wants you to believe that he’s the only one you should ever look up at or seek help from.

#16 When you’re out. You may not have realized this, but your boyfriend calls you up a lot more every time you go out with your friends. He doesn’t like it when you go out with your friends *without him* and constantly calls you and asks you what you’re doing and when you’re heading back home. He may sound inquisitive, but you get the feeling that he doesn’t like it when you go out with anyone but him.

#17 He’s happy when you’re down. He seems particularly happy when your friends let you down, even though he doesn’t say it out loud. And he uses the occasion to prove why you should trust no one but him because everyone in the world is unreliable but him!

Remember, not all these signs or traits in a guy are bad or dangerous for a relationship. But there’s a thin threshold between tolerable behaviour and extreme possessiveness. And that threshold is different for all of us.

Some girls may love their own independence while a few other girls may love depending on a guy for all their needs. We’re all different and have our own expectations. But these 17 signs you see here are all signs of jealousy and possessiveness, and is something that definitely needs to be addressed in a relationship.

So just how many of these 17 signs of a jealous and possessive boyfriend do you see in your own lover? And are they acceptable to you, or is it something you’d never put up with?

#lovepanky#truetalk
Politics › Re: PHOTOS: Check Out This Very Unsafe Pedestrian Bridge In Lagos by deadZONE: 2:36pm On Aug 06, 2015
shocked shocked aahh
Politics › Re: Dasuki Releases Images Of Sophisticated Weapons Acquired Under Jonathan [PHOTOS] by deadZONE: 2:35pm On Aug 06, 2015
we also have drones....
what buhari is doing is to seek funds
for his pocket in the name of buying weapons
we already know know GEJ bought enough
weapons to to put an end to boko haram.
buhari your evil plans would not work..
call your boy boko haram to orders
Politics › Re: Photos: Fate Of Aba During Raining Season-streetnews by deadZONE: 2:32pm On Aug 06, 2015
undecided undecided no governor in that state
Politics › Re: House Of Representatives 1956 (photo) by deadZONE: 2:31pm On Aug 06, 2015
cool cool
Politics › Re: Fatima Atiku Abubakar Nominated As Commissioner In Adamawa by deadZONE: 2:30pm On Aug 06, 2015
I dont blame them,
we all know what is right buh we are too scared
to face the truth.
the elite would keep on handing power over from
one generation to the other from father to child.
while we would keep on being slaves
i pity those who are yet to see the light
those that shout SAI BUHARI.
Romance › Re: Does Cheating In A Relationship Only Apply To Sex? by deadZONE: 2:30pm On Aug 06, 2015
Inflating the market list
receiving girts from other guys
grin grin
Accepting free ride from other guys
Politics › Re: Boko Haram, Soldiers In Gun Battle In Yobe Town - Daily Post by deadZONE: 2:21pm On Aug 06, 2015
Politics › Re: Fatal Accident In Ekiti State This Morning. by deadZONE: 1:15pm On Aug 06, 2015
eleko1:
Deadzone Y are u looking for dead body pics undecided huh? U must bi ritualist sad undecided.RIP to the dead and restoration those who escape the mishap embarassed
shuuuu who no like graphic picture for nigeria?

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