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Now check this out. What if you were her first bf and she was ur first gf. U guys disvirgined each other and this relationship has been on from when u guys were pretty young up through 6 years when this all happened. Would you get to still consider her?

Now imagin after seeing her, u noticed she saw u and became restless. You and your friend then walked out, entered your car and left to another spot u guys usually go to. Your girl knows this spot cus she knows virtually everywhere u like hanging out. All of a sudden she appears and the spot and b4 saying anythg she just knelt down, started crying and begging that the guy was just a friend and she didnt want to tell u she was out with a friend so that you wont be worried. What would you do?

@holychic,
you need to understand first of all that some guys could really like a girl and when turned down, they r forced into a relationship they might just be hanging on to for hanging sake. These type of guys can actually be honest when it comes to dating that girl they have always wanted. The one good thing here is that u guys r even grown up and graduates so I guess even him as a man would be looking to settle down. This guy may just be serious being that he must have studied ur character and lifestyle while u guys were in skool and if u were a good girl he might even believe in you more than his gf dats if he met her after skool. He definately might not be so sure of her past life and all dat. Take it slow with him, ask he questions and plz dnt force him to breakup with his gf. Try to find out stuffs abt y he is not sure of his relationship. Dnt fall just like that, take ur time to make sure he wants to settle down. Finally pray hard about it, God will direct you.

@Sauer,
you said you will walk gently on right, does that mean you will walk away from the joint or you will walk towards her?

You are welcome. Keep in touch with me so I know how its going and also give you some more tips. Just be confident and also believe, its going to work out for good. Have a blessed day.

You have a girlfriend and you have been dating her for a pretty love time. You travelled for somedays and you guys talk everyday on phone and she claims to be missing you badly which even makes miss her as well. You then finish up whatever you travelled for and head back to your town of residence without informing her you are on your way back. Now before reaching your home on arrival to your town, you called your best friend that you guys hangout steady together to inform him you have arrived and he heads to your house. You call your girlfriend just to checkup on her and she claims she is at her house missing you. Just 5mins after the call your friend arrives and you guys head to a joint for some drink and guess what, your woman is there with a guy sitting on a table for 2. The content on the table shows that they have even been there for a long while even while she claimed being at home and missing. What will you do?

My dear friend, the answer to your question is already in ur statement "with all d lies u tell". Even d bible makes us understand that in life only d truth shall set us free. You r not getting what u want because u r not being real about who u r. Now that you can see u r not getting what u want cus even with d lies u tell, why not try a different approach by being honest and truthful. Trust me u will get to meet true love. A girl that wud love u for who u really are is better off than that who will claim to love u cus of d lies u have told and u knw wat wud happen when she finds out, she is so so gone to another lier... Try honesty and I bet ur story would be different. Goodluck

I would say this is really a tough one but trust me, dont give up just yet. The age difference is pretty reasonable so I guess she is only scared that you are older than her because she might feel you would maybe want to be bossy on her. If you really love her just try this. Stop calling her too often, rather try sending her some very caring text messages maybe every night b4 u go to bed. Sometime also try sending some good morning text messages that would brighten up her morning. Since you guys are in the same church, when u c her in church, dnt show her dat ur attention is on her, just focus with ur church stuff and maybe after church u could just at least say hello, ask her how how week had been, make her knw u r glad to see she is ok and then u go ur way. Try this for a while, see how it goes and then you could reach me on 08164921778 for further tips. Trust me dnt give up just yet. Patient is always a key to a glorious relationship

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