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[quote author=Arva post=27078918]I have so many reasons why I should date a shy and introvert guy which I believe many of you forumites will agree to. Usually we ignore the shy and introvert guys, and date the confident, thug looking, rich, tall and ugly guys. The latter kind of guys are not usually the best in my opinion. Have you ever thought about dating a shy guy? There are so many different benefits and you'll be glad you did.

1. They are less intimidating
Confident and extrovert guys can be so intimidating because they surrounds themselves with all kinds of girls and bad manners. Shy guys are less intimidating. They are very gentle and meek and are less likely to reject you. This is one big reason to start rolling along with a shy guy. You'll love them.

2. It’s easy to make them blush
Shy guys have the tendency to blush easily with the slightest of compliments. Just compliment them about their looks and appearance and you'll see the magic of their blush. That really melts my heart a lot unlike the confident and rough guys who will only say a "thank you". That's even if they say it at all. Try dating a shy guy today. You'll love 'em

3. Shy guys won’t cheat on you
Shy guys will never cheat on you. Relationship cheating is what many girls hate and shy and introvert guys will never stoop so low to have another girl behind you but reverse is the case for confident and extrovert guys. They like to explore anything they see with boobs and big behinds even if its not human . Confident and extrovert guyz are just so awkward. You'll never like them. I prefer the introvert guys. They'll always stick to you.

4. They are so true, real and genuine
Me loves these set of guys because they are so true to themselves. They will never deceive you. They are just so charming and will never lie to you.

5. They are good listeners.
Shy and introvert guys are just awesome for one thing. They are extremely good listerners. Never will they counter you in any discussion or disrupt the flow of the discussion. All these adorable guys do is listen, listen, listen and listen. Unlike the extrovert guys who will just keep shouting to the extent that other people around you will hear the content of your discussion . Shy guys will never stoop so low to that extent. They are always very quiet and meek.

6. They don't party, drink nor smoke.
I'm begining to convince you that shy guys are cool right ? Another reason you should date a shy guy is that they don't engage in party, alcohol or weed. They being an introvert will not even allow them such bad manners. Reverse is the case for the confident guys. They'll make sure they engage in all sort of party. They being an extrovert makes them to boast about the latest and most expensive wines and alcohols they've tasted, they amount of weed the smoke daily and the number of girls they've had sex with from funmi to funke to fumilade to fumilayo That's crazy isn't it ? Shy guys are just so cool to themselves. They don't need to brag about anything. Whatever happens never leaks out.

7. Shy and introvert guys are very educated and very intelligent.
This is very true. Shy guys are very educated and very intelligent. They being very intelligent leaves them with no time for social activities. They are so charming. Date an introvert today and you'll be glad you did. I had one as a boyfriend and I wish I had him back.
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Where to find a shy guy.
1: Shy guys are very easy to find. If you are still in the university, you can find them at the back seat of your classroom. When others are gones after a lecture, shy guys always remain alone, sitting down, alone with their thought. This is always your best time to approach them. Just compliment him on anything and watch him blush. They are very friendly.

2: During your NYSC.
During your service year, you'll find many of them at the orientation camp. I had sweet experiences with one during my NYSC days. He was so sweet and charming. You'll always find them at the back of the crowd doing almost nothing. They just stand there and clap for others engaging in one task or the other. They are very gentle set of people so don't mind them for not partaking in activites. They don't want to look rough like the extrovert guys. Those of you going for NYSC batch c come november 2014, watch out for the shy guys. You'll love them.

3: During church service
These awesome set of beings are easy to find during church service. They always sit at the back, rarely dance when its time for offering and they rarely come out to give testimonies because they are shy. Isn't that cool ? Unlike the extrovert guys that will even go the awkward length of dancing shoki and skelewu during church service . Shy guys will never do this . Oh how can I even forget the way they blush when you ask them questions during sunday school. They are so adorable.
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How to know if a guy is shy and an introvert.

Its very easy to spot these sweet guys. They will always blush at every single thing you say. Another way to spot them is to monitor their movements. Never will you see a shy guy going out unnecessarily. They are always indoors and only come out with their charming self at night. These people are just so cool. Date one today and you'll be glad you did. I can testify to this. We dated for years and sweet memories still ring in me.
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Source: myself and written for nairaland forum members and guests.[/quote I like this. thumbs up.

uzolexis:
Hhhhhhhjj

are u booking space aswell?

uzolexis:
Hhhhhhhjj

are u booking space aswell?

where re the math pro in the house. its time to calculate.
even the weakest club side in Nigeria will qualify us from this group. KESHI I saw dis coming wen he started inviting players from China. hahahaha.
ain't seen a manager change a winning team. keshi chased all the players that won us Afcon

stripper:
You guys dont go to church abi. God is watching you people on 4D.

Stripper offcourse u spent last nite at the club. so no church for today.

God bless us all.

this is pure fallacy. they shld give me better reason of dropping him joor. not Ebola.

niggereyez:
cheers to you too bro

yo welcome darling.

dyceee:
No time

hahahahhahaha If I could I would. shot Keshi for me please and make sure he is dead.

please the moderator s shld take this thread off the front page. I'm so ashamed.

tonididdy:
what's with the love for martins all of a sudden




pfff....we(fans) are as confused as keshi

you my friend is the only confused fan rite here. as a coach you pick players accoding to their present form and Obafemi martins is banging in goals ritenow same with ike Uche.
Pirlo was called out of retirement by the italian new coach because he still got something to offer the team. especially experience.
but Keshi s stubbornes won't let him learn from other managers.
we re disappointed #sackKeshi

uzolexis:
thank you,thank you

your welcome.

tonididdy:
I pray oh


I don't blame keshi alone but the players he fielded and continues to field even with their diminishing performances.

players like Mikel, musa and that FAT striker he paired emunike with today...as for emunike he's getting into that 'I don't care attitude' which was on like him at afcon.

it looks like keshi is playing business with the team selection and those who don't comply he's quick to label them stubborn or unpatriotic. otherwise i see no reason why musa and Mikel still play football for Nigeria

as for today's performance it was poor...so poor ''omeruo'' was giving a fair play and he turned it into a corner, I have never seen that in the history of my watching football.

maybe the boys were tensed knowing the magnitude of today's result, let's hope they do better with 2home games and 1 away .





hmmm.....

well I've heard u bro.
but we won't qualify for AFCON the pressure is already on us. no way we can win the remaining 2games.
remember teams are beginning to get confident playong us.
they I'll be like if SUDAN can do it. we can aswell go ahead and stop them.

I wanna read. hear or watch Keshis SACK first thang tomorrow morning.

cheers to all the females on Nairaland. the ladies doing us proud since 1900.

MaziOmenuko:
@bolded, really? So once an answer is given, the job is lost? You, my friend, is a funny character! No need to tell you that I've always provided an answer for the question and I'm yet to lose an opportunity because of that. No need at all, because you are the one with the almighty formula.

stop spewing that ur slowpoke stricken saliva all over my post.
I've not worked with any company in Nigeria before and I don't intend to not now. as for changing jobs I've that luxury. if I don't like a company damn the pay I will leave.
FYI I run my own company now so I create opportunities for people like you.

MaziOmenuko:
Working with 3 different companies within 2yrs tells that you're not always satisfied with the pay after asking them to pay you whatever they have in their books! Its obvious they throw crumbs at you and then 4 months later, you're back in-search of job.
Trust me, any good HR that sees your cv of 3 different companies within 2 yrs will think twice before inviting you for an interview.

If you had told the companies what you are expecting as a salary, then you won't be hunting for and changing jobs after every full-moon when your offer is met.

#just trying to taunt you.

hehehehe.

someone should tell Keshi not to return to Nigeria.
he made Emenike, Musa, Enyeama and Onazi look ordinary.

I don't think anyone is as relaxed as I was watching this game Nonsense

it's obvious the Nigerian players want the coach out.

EroticAngelina:
lols, alritie. I wish u luck in ur music career!!!!!

the Lord has been faithful just that we ain't big in Nigeria yet.
I wish you success in ur academic pursuits. let me know anytime I can be of help. #wefriendsnow

Truckpusher:
Funny indeed.
You've not met some interviewers that interviews you as if he owns the company.
I tried this same thing you did and this guy that knew me too well and my family looked straight into my eyes and he said "Are you seriously telling me that this whole thing isn't about the money"? I pretended not hear and he said to me "this is a question". And I replied with a smile that the question is too harsh.
Everyone laughed because something in my eyes betrayed my true feelings......Yes it was all about the money.

hahahahahaha. stand firm and tell him or her yes. that ur passion for the job is ur drive not money.
mantain that you just want to work.

EroticAngelina:
wow! Nice, thats grt. Im ur no one fan soo, ur music name is deepfreezer?

hahahahahahaha there is another guy behind D e e p f r e e z e r. its a public forum babes abeg and e get spies for here ooo.

EroticAngelina:
..umm waiting for addmission, u?

Im done with school. work at........ and also a recording artiste.

Kentnickole:
Am afraid using this approach o. One could end up being paid a meagre amount o

that's not true bro. besides you can turn down the offer if you were offered something below ur expectation.

Zehner:
yer well in this case I was tempted to cause it was an Oil company but I am always blunt, straightforward and truthfully in all my interviews that why I answered that way and it has always worked for me.

that's very smart of you.

Kentnickole:
Hmmm... Am short of words... You really treated some crucial points... Thanks!

which point did he treat? once you mention the amount you re expecting from them you ve lost the job.
tell them any amount they can offer you is ok. I've done this severally and trust me I got more than what I expected from the company.
imagine you telling them 200.000 when actually their package for the position you are going after is 450.000

Kentnickole:
The most controversial interview question that has cost many job applicants their dream jobs is "how much do we pay you" question, though it comes in many twists.

Now my experienced nairalanders who hv successfully crossed this huddle should please tell us how best to answer this question.... HR managers/personnels, we really need your immense help. Thanks!

Believe me for the past 2years I've worked with 3 different companys.
how did I get my jobs?
question=how much do we pay you.
answer= Sir/madam any amount the company offers me is ok. I just want a chance to contribute to the growth of this great company.

EroticAngelina:
so? I'm a Lil girl with a big girl's knowledge durh

I swear Lol . well u saod it urself.udyi= what happened on nairaland stays in here= wat re u studying?

EroticAngelina:
I'm not even up to 18yrz old

be serious for once. yo got heavy threads rite there, for someone less than 18yrs. especially the last one.

EroticAngelina:
it depends on both parties. for some ladies, finding the right guy can be hard, and we want to wait for the right age to marry... while the guys have to be settled down financially and must meet the right woman to take down the aisle. some relationships may last for three years, some six, some even 8yrs and they are ready to marry. a guy might be ready to marry, but his gf ain't ready yet, and vice versa. sometimes both are ready, but the man is not yet stable financially.

marriage is not a rush rush thing, its something u settle down and discuss with Ur partner.. coz this is a lifetime commitment. you guys are coming together to be one but from my observations, a relationship that lasts for three or more years before diving into marriage lasts longer than a marriage that was rushed into with just one year or lesser relationships.

but then again, u might get dissappointed in a three years relationship, coz the Ur partner can leave u for someone else after all these years I wouldn't want that to happen to me or anyone else. that's why I have more than one bf, so that if one dissapoints me, I got backups (okay, I'm kidding. I'm a faithful lover )

I can see it in ur eyes. gurls between the ages of 18 to 24 can be very promiscous.