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Goo0dHardDick:
It so sad.

He said he has been married before but divorced. According to him, the first wife he married didn't have womb. That he didn't know until a day to the marriage when rumours has flown around and someone told him about it. He thought it was a joke, he then told him his family and finally asked the lady about it, at first she denied it but later admitted it was true.

That she did abortion for her ex boyfriend and that her womb was removed while the abortion procedures took place.

This is the main reason why he was so sad after his wife gave birth to a female child.

You already knew his reason for his preference for a male child, yet you're here asking us why some men discriminate against female children.

Op no make me vex biko

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Phils:
It seems there may have been underlying issues in the marriage even before the sister-in-law moved in.

Two years without a child should not automatically become a source of pressure, though society in Nigeria often makes it one.

Regarding the food and household expenses, if your Sister is not solely responsible for providing them, she should avoid focusing too much on how fast things are being consumed for now, so she can protect her peace of mind.

On orderliness in the house... With six children from the visitor, some of them should be old enough to assist with dishes and basic cleaning. Your sister can politely involve them in maintaining the house.

Your Sister should have a calm and honest conversation with her husband, explaining how the lack of privacy and the prolonged stay are affecting her emotionally and their marriage. Together, they should discuss possible timelines and arrangements for the sister-in-law to get her own place.

If the environment continues to affect her mental health, you can help her to temporarily engage herself elsewhere in a productive way, for example through further studies, professional development or work, rather than making it look like she is simply running away from the marriage. Leaving a marriage is a major decision and should not be made purely out of frustration or pressure from outsiders.

I sincerely wish her peace, wisdom, and a positive resolution.

The sister in-law got divorced by the husband and moved in with her 6 children.

They both agreed on not having kids for now.

There were no issues prior to the sister in-law's invasion.

WhiteIverson:
Did you even read the post?
You just rushed to comment 🙄

They have no kids
The 6 kids belong to her sister in law

You perfectly understand the post

WhiteIverson:
6 children ke. Instead of leaving the marriage, why not discuss with your husband?

If he can afford to feed his sister and her 6 children, then he can rent an apartment for them. The sister and the ex husband should sort out any other expenses by themselves.

If married couples cannot talk and find solutions to issues like this, then wetin una dey talk about for the marriage?

On top this very solvable issue, she wan leave marriage? What will now happen when the real challenges come. This is just 2 years of marriage.

Talk to your husband and express your displeasure!!! His response will guide you on what to do.

Thanks so much I will do that

I won't bore you with unnecessary details.

My immediate younger sister is less than 2 years in her marriage with no children yet.

On the 13th of February, this year, her sister in-law moved in with her 6 children.

My sister thought it was just a visit only to be informed by the husband that his sister was divorced and would be with them for a few days.

Since her arrival with her children, my sister lost everything that has to do with privacy in her matrimonial home.

Dishes unwashed, a bag of rice lasts less than a month, the sitting room littered with dishes.

My sister has become a stranger in her home as the sister in-law now advises her husband against being too loving.

I love my sister so much and I'm already thinking of taking her away from that toxic environment.


I want my sister to leave the marriage since the husband is not helping matters with her sister.

This 17th of May and the sister in-law and her children are not making any arrangements of getting an apartment of their own.

What would you advise my sister to do?

Waste of money, if you ask me.

Religion has really dealt a big blow on Africa, Nigeria in particular

femi4:
The young shall grow

We need to keep them busy

Why not donate yourself to be used as practical to hasten up the "growth"

I had an experience with a doctor who had to Google the symptoms of what she suspected was the ailment with my son.

She ended up that a test had to be conducted.

Upon the arrival of the doctor, we discovered it was just a minor thing and only a few medications were recommended.


These guys still need to learn from experienced doctors but in Nigeria, they're allowed to attend to patients with little or no supervision at all!


Meanwhile, congratulations to everyone who loves and wants to see a new Nigeria, to you I dedicate my FTC

OK to the rescue

Peter Obi and Kwakwanso will be our president and vice, come 2027

jman77:
Read his post again?!

Now I know.

It's very possible if course

I thought you would need your graduate certificate to gain admission into post graduate of many,if not all institutions.


So in your case, what qualifications will you present to the school, to gain admission into their post graduate program since you stated it's your first degree?

So much for the 2027 election

This is ridiculous!!!!

Peter obi was the reason for the case

Fighter jet that will never be used against insurgents

Nigerian banks left the group

Because we have failed to do what South Africans are doing, we now have foreigners constituting nuisance in Nigeria.

I commend the efforts of the south Africans.


More than 100 Togolese, Nigeriens and others are in Nigeria without visa, which is a contributory factor to the insecurity being faced in the country

What do they take Nigeria for?

Their inheritance?

Your late dad plunged the country into its current state.

No other families in that state?

Too many questions on my mind

Why aren't you embracing it ?

That's my man

I so much like Wadada but I'm afraid APC will influence him negatively

Thanks for being real Hakimi.

No wonder you Hakimi'ed that your ex wife

Let them go and defend Iran and leave Nigeria alone

Depriest2020:
What do they have please?

Headmaster or Headmistress

Break

Jagabanfromcali:
Break up the country into at least two different countries and see the positive impact on all of Africa , arm the igbos very well and see the jihadist peril being rolled back , Offcos MOD u can ban me but it is the core of my submission to the committee

Breaking up Nigeria will be the best solution!

The north can go ahead with their sharia whatever!

While the Fulani herdsmen action are being denied by northerners, the US is coming to our aid


It's interesting to see that Tinubu is now taking this seriously.

Fulani herdsmen must be stopped!

The UK got no cards against the US!

The UK is only good at forced union as seen in Nigeria!

Aside from the skin color, Northern and Southern Nigeria got nothing in common to share a country.

Make Trump teach them politics abeg

Wiskid or whatever he calls himself is banking on the cheap publicity!

Another "she tell me say* crap about to drop

One of the best news ever!

Iran is one of the sponsors of terrorism in Nigeria and around the world 🌎

I just can't wait to see the northerners crying over Iran!!!

What a country!!!

Nnamdi Kanu, a man who wants to see his people have their own country, is locked 🔒🔐 up while a state government is here releasing captured and known t**orists into the society on account of a "deal"

Nnamdi Kanu deserves a national apology!!!

While our northern brothers are carrying that same religion with all they've got!


The West, in the name of human rights, are welcoming these guys.

They'll soon understand

You should have a business in mind before getting tired of salary

hatchy:
That man have too much ego

Forgetting he's politically relevant in kano state