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(Why did she allow dude to downgrade her, could she not upgrade him)that's the question i hv been looking for a way to ask to her without sounding mean!!!

First of all, she's %100 real, how she moved i can say she sublet to another friend of ours, why she moved, i truly hv no idea, we all advised against it and begged her to ask him to move in with her, she said he got very upset when she broached the subject to him and claimed he is a very traditional man and that if she didn't love him for he he was then she had better cancel their wedding, i was not the only one who tried to talk her out of it, even her younger sister was against it, she called it love, i'm not exactly a pro-bono in relationship, so i minded my own biz until now, like i said, she called it love

As a young girl Philo(not her real name) grew up well and as an adult woman, she worked very hard and made sure she lived well, a gorgeous apartment in ikoyi, a cool chasis car(with air conditioning), the she meets and marries Mark(not his real name)she called him her MR RIGHT!, she says they were in love(the truth was obvious to us, mid thirties crises) they get married(in too much of a hurry,if i may sao so myself) then moved to a single room in a face me i face u military barack style house somewhere in downtown ikotun-egbe, Now Philo shares a kitchen with one million hostile looking women/men(some very fetish as well), they share turns washing bathrooms and toilets. Now she and Mark don't get along again (quarrels everyday according to her) she suddenly thinks he's a lazy bum and comfortably unambitious, Now my friend has managed to downgrade her status and she calls me every night to ask for moi for advise and help( damn! i do so hate those free cheap midnight calls) pls how do i help her without hurting her

Now i wonder, which one of u is trying help others, all i see is anger (personal or otherwise) spewing from different directions on this forum, with all this belive me, u have helped no one, the confused persons that needed help and came here is more confused than ever, we can do better for ourselves, these foreigners grow becos they help each other, not with biff or spite, i'm sure there's a possiblity of u guys been the real deal and not scammers and there's also a possibility of it been vice versa, but we can do better than this, no need for animosity.
in my opinion as well, all those who came here to look for a solution, bn that u can't seem to find it, pls go to the original websites, look for accredited members, call and visit them for confirmation b4 u spend any cash, becos no matter how small the cash is, as long as it was well earned, it's urs and shuld not be stolen from u!