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Lalasticlala, oya now.

misssclassy:
[color=#000050]Dumbass! If a human doesn't fall under the spectrum of "what I love", or if the love I have for a human doesn't equal or surpass that which I have for something else which isn't a human, I think I am at will to substitute with an inanimate matter or feeling, of which I believe isn't supposed to be any of your fvcking business, whether you were the one who created the thread or not. . . So, fvck off my mentions.[/color]

This is a good way to know someone who was well trained at home. My people sheee wetin I yarn don reach fight?

U mostly comment out of context and dats why I had to hit u that hard.

I'm convinced many of us today, irrespective of our status and experiences in life still believe there is something great about us. We believe we have required potentials and possibilities to become great, become significant and valuable in life.
We may have been through very difficult situations, experienced very disappointing circumstances; setbacks, betrayal, failures and losses; in spite of all, somewhere in our hearts, we just know and believe one day, the greatness we believe we carry will eventually manifest.

Little wonder, many who are completely lost today on how to manifest or connect with greatness have had to look on to divine intervention, hence they chase after spiritual consultants to help them discover their place and opportunities for breakthrough and prosperity.

Many of us believe in a better tomorrow; we see a future better than our today, but somehow we're not just sure how and when it will manifest, we are confused and quite anxious.

You see we have applied the hard work principle, the education principle, the certification principle, the knowledge principle, the faith principle yet very many of us don't see the desired results at the end of the day, we are still struggling.
Today, I'll like to share a principle of divinity and nature with you. You see, everything that is alive today in its very first stage of existence manifests as a seed. Nothing alive manifests in maturity, no, every living thing is created first in the form of a seed including you.

You were first of all a seed in the loins of your father. You didn't exist from the beginning as full human, you were first of all a seed.
Now a unique quality of a seed is the ability to transform, mature, become productive and yield great satisfying benefits to all.
Every living seed planted is planted with the hope that it will grow and become mighty and useful.
When you put a corn seed in a good soil, you don't expect a corn seed back, you expect a corn plant.
When your father planted you in your mother's womb there was an expectation; not of a seed but of a human being.

Now pay attention to this, for a seed to grow and be productive the environment must be conducive for growth. It must be planted in the right soil and atmosphere for growth. No matter the excellence in the quality of a corn, the soil must be good for it to grow. A fantastic corn seed would never grow on a concrete floor without moisture or sunlight.

If you were never put in a womb but remained in the loins of your father, you will never be here today. The environment for growth and productivity is very important for a good seed to manifest great productivity and glory.

Dear friend, you are by nature designed first as a seed. For you to however fully manifest your greatness, your glory and benefits to all mankind, you must perpetually remain in an atmosphere necessary for your continuous growth and development.

You see, you are an excellent seed, designed with potentials by your maker for greatness and glory and for all mankind to benefit and be blessed.
Education will improve your quality as a seed, hard work will improve your quality as a seed, knowledge would improve your quality as a seed; however, no matter how excellent you are as a seed, it is the good and conducive environment that will make you manifest the excellence within.

The environment I'm talking about has nothing to do with geographical location, it's about being in your place, in your own soil, in your appropriate atmosphere for manifestation.

Your seed nature requires the right atmosphere to grow, so kindly follow me as I share the qualities of the atmosphere that will definitely make you grow healthy, strong and bright pretty fast.

1. Presence.
What you see, what you hear and take in daily determines if you'll grow or die as a seed. For you to grow and glow make sure you make up your mind to be around people and in places that will keep you happy, motivated; inspired and feel a consistent need to be better.
If daily you listen to negative people, negative news, discouragers, complainers; mediocre, bitter and offended people. People full of excuses, always finding fault, blaming everyone, rejecting responsibility, criticising everyone, their parents, their leaders, the country; people who never see anything good in anything and anyone, people who always think negatively, you will never manifest glory no matter how good and gifted you are. Whose presence you choose to plant yourself daily will determine your growth or death as a seed.

2.Peace.
Peace is very important for you to manifest greatness as a seed. Peace is a necessary ingredient for growth. When you hang out and connect emotionally with people that are troublesome, people with trust deficit, people that get you worried, make you uncomfortable, suspicious and tensed, it will be difficult to grow. Peace of mind is necessary for creativity and concentration. If you don't feel free with anyone, no matter how important the person is, disconnect physically or emotionally such that anything they do will not get to you.
If you remain emotionally bound to troublesome people they will pull you down and wreck you. If they are people you can't walk away from, simply disconnect emotionally and focus on yourself and your dreams. To flourish, you need peace.

3. Power.
Power is very important for growth. Learn to hang out with people and in places where you're energised and empowered.
You need mental, emotional and psychological power to grow and flourish as a seed. Identify different sources of power, for example I assume many are mentally and psychologically empowered listening to this show every morning. Connect with power through books, movies, and groups. You can join my mentoring class or any other good mentoring class for energy.

Its sad many spiritual gathering today have become a place of condemnation, competition and pretence instead of a place of power and energy. If you would not lie and deceive yourself, we hide our true self at spiritual gatherings to be accepted and respected. Pretence depletes psychological power, be in a place where you can be real to find real support and energy. Be in a place where they'll make you realise everything is possible if you know the secret.

4. Prosperity.
Even if you're not rich yet, learn to connect with the rich and visit places the rich visit or live in.
If you're growing you must be growing towards something. Plants generally grow towards the direction of sunlight. You must seek the light of your life and grow towards it by identifying it and hanging there.

Don't hang around people and places where poverty is popular. Don't be comfortable with hardship, scarcity, insufficiency and penury. Never camp where the spirit of poverty prevails.

If you live in Lagos for instance occasionally just take a cab and visit where the rich live. Go to Ikoyi, Banana Island, drive through Gerald, Bourdillon, and visit the best hotels in Lagos. Sit in the restaurant and buy yourself a bottle of soft drink even if its ten times the price compared to the street, you're paying for an experience. Watch the rich as they go in and out, talk, walk and dress. Walk through the parking lot too, human beings like you own the cars.
On your gadgets visit sites of the latest cars, the latest electronics, latest buildings, holiday spots and successful business men and women. I promise you, with time you'll begin to manifest prosperity yourself because it'll influence your thinking. Its poverty that sees abundance and calls it waste. Change your thinking about money, “nina lowo”: Money is meant to be spent not worshipped. Locate yourself in an atmosphere of prosperity.

Beyond hard work, education, passion and diligence; presence, peace, power and prosperity will help shape your connection with purpose, inspiration will come, motivation will come, courage will come, attitude to risk will become higher, mediocrity will vanish and in a short while you will manifest purpose. You will be productive and bear much fruit.

Eventually you will receive peace, not as the world gives but as your creator who called you on to purpose and glory gives. Respect your seed nature, the atmosphere is also very critical.


Source: http://muyiwaafolabi.com/blog/Frankly-Speaking-With-Muyiwa-Afolabi/TODAY-ON-FRANKLY-SPEAKING---YOUR-SEED-NATURE.php

Lalasticlala, let's go there.

misssclassy:
[color=#000050]Money![/color]

U behave irrational, is money human being? Mstchewwwww.

This question was thrown at the congregation by pastor, he then asked people to signify by raising up their hands, if they truly have someone they love the most in the whole world. I was surprised to see people raising up their hands, cos within me, I can't point out that this is the person I love most.

Apart from the GOD factor, who do u love most in the whole world?


Cc: Ishilove

akatekpe:
one can stil make a solid 2.1 with a 2.2 GPA in first semester. I started with a 3.32 GPA and got a. 3.81 CGPA in my 100level. I graduated with a solid 2.1 despite poor beginning, it all depends on ur determination and dedication to ur studies

Wah course?
Op, seems like u r studying a business course, what course actually?

100L 1st semester should start from 3.70 upward....

This result is not stupendous for 1st semester, put more effort in ur next semester.

Princessderaa:
my state always repping.
o' town rocks.

#i rep owerri IMO #

Oh pardon me, r u the odera dat works with top radio 90.9 fm?

Some comments are funny though.

hyperflex:
You guys can misinterprete things!!! So M.I cannot have an opinion about another rapper without being jealous?? Lol. The two of them are both awesome. Besides he gave Vector his credit. Best freestyler. Not that vector is that awesome cuz he has few dumb punchlines. 'Like three broke in Yoruba am meta 4". KO follow. Anyway I still prefer M.I. first before Vector. Plus I'd put Sarkodie too.

Sarkodie? I like him too bt as I no hear ghana language nko, abeg make he chill. Though he raps fine in english too bt he does more of indigenous rap. U should listen to millionaire champagne by m.I feat sarkodie and ice prince. sarkodie killed everybody on that song with english rap, he is a good rapper, no doubt.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Who are you talking about?

MI?[/color]

@vectorthaviper.

AfroKnight:
M.I could have just kept mute. Nobody would have known he was intimidated. Now we are certain he was.

One lesson in life is "there is always someone better."

I Luv ur latter quote. U r right.

I said it, this thread is gonna be fun. Fans are already spitting venom, keep it coming guys.


It will do good if this thread can make front page. Lalasticlala, where are u?

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Let him go and sleep.

Who is talking about writing here? [/color]

I listened to the one available online, it was dope.
No boring moment, crazy word play. His kind of rap is not for the weak minds. He said it in one song like dat "weak minds can't connect with dis boy"

Mayb cos I'm his fan, mayb dats why I find the freestyle catchy Bt I don't think so, u guys should listen to it and testify.

jude abaga
@MI_Abaga
Vector might be the best freestyler we have.. I'm not bad either tho.. But I think I'm better writer than freestyler. twitter.com
9:12 AM - 23 Aug 2015



Do u perceive a controversy?


. let rap heads comment. This thread is gonna be fun.


https://mobile.twitter.com/MI_Abaga/status/635484853056749568

aduragbemisteve:
are you talking about next year? If yes, there is an answer.

Yes. Kindly proffer an answer.

Sincerely, I understand the pressure for sex that singles go through. There are many forces yelling and yearning for sex that come against singles;

1.Your hormone get hungry for sex because of the physiological changes your body go through from time to time. Its much even stronger when you are in your ovulation season. For those who don’t know, ovulation is when females produce eggs that are ready for fertilisation by the male spermatozoa and ovulation usually takes place between 7-12 days after the menstrual cycle if your monthly period is regular.

2.It is tough when you are ‘due’ for marriage but yet single. It is a different experience for those who have chosen to be eunuchs (celibate) for the rest of their lives. At least you would have counted the cost before deciding so. But not so for those who for no choice of theirs are waiting for when God will bring their partner their way and they can walk the aile with their God-given partner and subsequently get sexual satisfaction from their spouses.

3.It is tough when sex is the price you have to pay to sustain your sex-demanding fellow single partner. When your partner (or both of you don’t) does not even blush because you lack values and bereft of Christian virtues, anything goes.

4.It is tough when sex is the price you have to pay for promotion at your work place. If you happen to work in a perverse work environment where sex is part of the KPI (Key performance Index) considered for promotion, you got to be able to hold your head when others have lost theirs. I pray God set you free from bondage of such employers or bosses.

Also, if the following are your habit you will have a formidable pressure for sex to contend with;

A. Habit of watching porn– If you are in the habit of watching blue films (or porn films) you are sowing a very evil seed in your heart and in a short time the seeds you sow will germinate into hormonal charge for sex. What you watch will create an indelible picture in your heart and in no time you want to begin to practise what your eyes have captured. There is nothing bad with the internet or television, it is what we watch or do with them that matter.

B.Habit of dressing seductively-Your dress is a reflection of your person. Many female singles wear clothes that present them as sex objects in the name of fashion. You wear clothes that reveal your privates and you wonder why ‘’flies’’ follow you. One day a young lady told me; ‘’I can barely walk any where without all kinds of guys throwing passes at me for affairs’’. Well, I knew her well and I told her to change her clothes that often pop up her cleavages and see if that experience will continue. Ofcourse they stopped following her. The more attractive you present yourself, the more you are under the pressure of people demanding sex from you.

C.Habit of Touching each other– If you are in the habit of touching each other seductively, then you will have temptation for sex to contend with. Touching is the preliminaries to the main the main event (sex). Once you participate in preliminaries, it may not be easy to say no to the ‘main event’.

D.Habit of staying together for too long in a lonely place– Its good to spend time together with your fiancee or fiance but spend time together for the right reasons and not for the wrongest of reasons.
Haven highlighted some of the sources of pressure for sex that singles encounter, my focus in this piece is for those that fall in category 1-3 above. How do you say no when your hormones are demanding for sex and your Pastor kept drumming it in your ears that it is fornication, as the Bible calls it? Does your Pastor know what you are going through? Not sure if God also knows?

Friends, God knows what you are going through and that is why Apostle Paul says;
“But I say to the unmarried and to the widows: It is good for them to remain even as I am;but if they cannot exercise self-control, let them marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion’’
1 Corinthians 7 Vs 8-9

Ok, from above scripture, marriage seem to be the solution to burning with passion right? But how do you hold yourself before you marry is what is our subject. So, how do you say no?

HOW TO SAY NO
Let us look at practical things you can do that can help you to say no when your hormones say go;

1.Feed Your mind– The greatest battle man face in life begins from the mind. Our minds influence and inflame our thought and thought pattern. Subsequently thought becomes action and action become habits. The mind is 100% gabbage in gabbage out!

There two types of mind that operates in every human being;

1.The Carnal Mind– If you are yet to be regenerated, that is, you are yet to believe in the Lordship of Jesus, your mind will be carnal.
This is mind that is set on the things of the flesh. When you live according to the dictates of your flesh and hormones you have a carnal mind. And a carnal mind leads to only one place, DEATH- Romans 8 Vs

2.The Spiritual Mind– This is the mind available to those who live on the things of the Spirit. What are the things of the Spirit? Having a functional relationship with God will give one an insight into what God wants and how by His help we can fulfil God’s plans. God’s plans are written in His Word in the Bible. An understanding of what God wants and what Christ lived and died for will help fine tune ones spirit to focus on the things of the spirit. If you focus on the things of the Spirit you will have a spiritual mind and ultimately have life and peace- Romans 8 Vs 6-7

The Spiritual mind serve the law of God while the Carnal mind serve the law of sin- Romans 7 Vs 25
All kinds of conflict will be going round and round your mind if you have not given your life to Jesus and you have not matured through the Help of the Holy Spirit. So, you need to surrender your life to Jesus by accepting Jesus as your personal Lord and Saviour and then form the habit of feeding your mind with the Word of God as regularly as possible.

1.Feed Your spirit– After you have given your life to Jesus by accepting Him as your Lord and Savior, you need to feed your spirit regularly with the Word of God and by constant fellowship. Oh dear, you got to stop this your Sunday Sunday reading of the Bible. You got to form the habit of reading your Bible as regularly as possible. Man (and woman) dies first spiritually before physical death. Physical death is when your heart stops pumping blood, spiritual death is when your spirit is no longer in sync over time with the Holy Spirit! While physical death can be sudden or gradual. Spiritual death is usually gradual!
‘’For when we were in the flesh, the sinful passions which were aroused by the law were at work in our members to bear fruit to death. But now we have been delivered from the law, having died to what we were held by, so that we should serve in the newness of the Spirit and not in the oldness of the letter’’Romans 7 Vs 5-6
‘’And those who are Christ’s have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit’’Galatians 5 Vs 24-25
Everytime you are online and you go and read gossips and all kinds of websites or blogs that pollute your mind and spirit, you are not helping your Spiritual growth. That is why you think sex and indulge in sex even when some of you don’t want to!

1.Avoid staying too long together in a lonely place and at odd times-Yes you are in courtship. Yes your family know the two of you together. Yes everybody know the two of you together but the truth is that both of you are not yet couple. So, you cannot indulge in what God approved for couples. The more you avoid staying together in a lonely place and at odd times, the more you are able to avoid fornication!

2.Dress well– My dear, dress like a Christian that you profess to be. These your revealing tops often send a wrong message about your person and your intention. Stop visiting your fiance and wearing clothes that are seductive. Men (without self-control) are moved by what they see!

3.Keep your courtship short– It is common practise that some people in marriage intended relationship go through long courtship. This long courtship sometimes is self-imposed because you want to have a talk of the town wedding, you keep your courtship long while working out the wedding finance. It is not advisable that your courtship exceed 6 months for people who just knew each other and 3 months for those who have known each other over a considerable long time. The longer your courtship, the stronger the temptation for sex!

4.Deliberately Keep yourself Busy– The busier you are the less you think of sex. When better positive things occupy your mind, you have less time to consider the dictations of your hormones.
Friends, happy are you if you take to these golden advise in the above write-up. God did not forbid sex for mankind. It is who we do it with and when, that we should watch!

Source: http://adegboyegailori.com/singles-and-sex-how-do-i-say-no-when-my-hormones-say-go/


Lalasticlala, thank you.

0lushola:
swithrt, its t0o late..

Proffer an answer.

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Many of you have dirty minds.

ogundeleai:
Its beyond comprehension atime when you read about this ridiculous story. But statisticaly I found out that they mostly happen in slum enviroment and unfortunate parents bear the bronze

why nt use "face me i slap u"? Slum ko, slum ni.

Parents, protect ur children. E be like say na child molestation dey reign now.

Jennifer89:
So why calling me a kid? ok old man with so much wisdom if u have a problem look else where abg.

1-0. Accurate reply.