₦airaland Forum

Osanoghodua1:
You're not telling the truth, maybe you married wrongly. God instituted marriage and here you're telling them to give birth to children without fathers otherwise known as the I-generation.

Marriage is the best thing that happened to me after salvation.

Seeing my wife cook for me, wash my clothes, ask me what I want to eat, take good care of me and telling my children to kneel and greet me, telling me to kiss our baby. This life is beautiful.

Glory to God.

It's possible he isn't happy. It doesn't have to be the woman's fault. Some men just don't like responsibility. Let me list a few things that have made men regret marriage I have read here.
1- wife asked him to come home after work instead of going clubbing
2- Wife likes to arrange the bedsheets when he is too tired and just wants to sleep on the scattered bed
3- Having to now carry random women secretly instead of openly as he did when single
4- Being a provider for wife and kid(s)
Lol. Can we say those men married wrong?

Majesty7:
The truth is, it only feels like you were in a deep sleep. You feel and hear nothing. However, if you say, you've been there before and woke up in a bright place, who am I to argue with you? You went there alone and you are free to describe what you saw.

I am just stating the obvious. I have also been there and saw nothing. I could as well told you I saw angels but I am not cut from such cloth.

If you didn't see angels why would you claim you did? Get it? You prolly were in the first phase. The darkness phase. In my case, I went black before I awoke to a new peaceful world.
So if you went and saw angels then it is what it is. Many people don't see angels anyways. They meet someone or people related to them. Some even meet people they didn't know existed in their families only to wake up, investigate and find out that they had a relative that died in childhood or looong before they were even conceived.
I didn't see angels or anybody. When I passed the blank phase, I transitioned to a beautiful field with plants where colors can be felt. Our world is a joke beside that one.

Maybe if they seize the president and his entourage along with the plane and ask for ransome like Boko Haram, they would get their money! I mean Boko Haram and other bandits are doing it without consequences.

Solseal007:
Ppl said there's a dark tunnel where you will travel at great speed at the end of which is afterlife!

Those wandering are unconscious or trapped in their body & spirit ! There's a name for it but av forgotten

True. From experience

Majesty7:
Nothing. Everything is always blank. All those seeing angels stories are fallacy

Not true. I have experienced NDE and you first see black then wake up at a bright place.

KingintheNorth:
Let me tell you a a true life story.


It actually happend about 10 years ago but the memories will live with me forever . Although I have not talked about it on social media but I feel like telling the story so that people will learn. It's a long story but I'll make it brief.

I was cohabiting with my girl back in the Uni, we have been like that for a few years , but then one day I came back to my lodge late in the night because I watched a football game on my way back from school. I opened my door and met my girl on the floor. She was motionless and her eyes were wide open, I checked her pulse but I couldn't feel anything. Her teeth and her palms were clenched tight. I panicked and just froze at the spot not knowing what to do. I then called a few people in the lodge and alerted them about what was happening but before I knew it , the whole lodge people have gathered in my room and outside the door.

Nobody could tell what must have happend to her. We thought about rushing her to hospital but the school clinic is closed and there are no good hospitals in the area because the school is in a remote location, and it was almost midnight at the time. Some people did different type of first aid on her , trying to see if they can revive her but after few hours there still wasn't any sign of life.
People started suspecting that she might be dead and started taking somethings from their rooms and leaving the lodge immediately. Out of the 30 occupants of the lodge only one person (student pastor) remained with me. The rest ran away from the lodge ,even my best friend .🙁

The student pastor prayed and prayed to see if she will come back to life but nothing happend , at about 4am the Pastor told me that he has done everything he can and that it's in the hands of God now. He then went to his room. It was just the two of us left in the building.

I sat down in my room, I didn't know what to do, I couldn't cry , I thought about how I was going to be arrested and charged for murder when in truth I'm innocent, which nobody will believe because of nigeria justice system. I thought about my parents , how they sacrificed to send me to school not knowing I was cohabiting with a girl . At some point I thought about running away, but that will mean I'm guilty and perhaps how far and how long would I be on the run before I would be caught.

I didn't know who to call , I was just bereft of ideas. I decided I'll submit myself to the police in the morning and explain what happend and possibly face the consequences. As I sat there waiting for day to break, I started scrolling through my phone contacts.
Mind you, I believe in God but I'm not a very religious person. I came across one pastor that gave me his phone number a long time ago. I then decided to just try my luck and call him. I called him and he picked up the call immediately as if he was waiting for the call.
I wanted to tell him what's happening, but he cut me short and told me he already knows. That he was disturbed in the spirit and God revealed it to him so he started praying but he didn't know it was for my situation he was praying for at that time.

He told me I should not be afraid , that everything will be fine. He asked me if I have any sachet water around , I looked around and got a sachet water . He then asked me to put the phone ontop of the water so her can pray in it. I did as he asked. After praying , he then asked me to try and force open her mouth anyway I can pour some water inside ,then sprinkled the rest all over her body.

I did everything he instructed. He then told me that everything will be alright and ended the call. By then it was almost 6am in the morning. I just sat there starring at her , then I saw her hand move a little bit, I cleaned my eyes and got closer to her so as to be sure my eyes were not deceiving me. Her hand moved again , then her legs . Before I knew it she opened her eyes and sat up. I couldn't believe my eyes, I was in shock and was wondering if I'm imagining the whole thing.

Then she spoke and asked me what's happening, and why is her body wet with water . I rushed out and called the student pastor who came running in to witness the first miracle of my life. He was singing praises to God. I knelt down and prayed to God and thanked him for the first time in a very long time . I made her a cup of tea after which she has a shower.

At about 7am in the morning, none of my lodgemates have returned . I looked outside the gate from my room and saw some of them with other people gathered in small groups whispering, waiting to get the full gist of how my girl died in my room .

I called my bike guy to come to the lodge because I want to take her to the hospital for checkup, I then came down to the gate with my girlfriend. As they saw her , they opened their mouth with shock and we're too surprised to talk.

To cut the whole story short . I learnt some valuable lessons . Cohabiting with anybody you are not married is very risky, you wouldn't know the risk until something happens to him or her.
The second lesson I learnt was that, when you get in trouble that's when you will know that you are alone, people will run away from you.

Anyways , we continued dating, but I rented an apartment for her so stay separately. I also stopped her from sleeping in my place. Untill we eventually parted ways after I graduated.

Lucky you

My guy Sha don chop two friends clean mouth 🤣🤣🤣

cococandy:
Some of the women turn on these babies and mete out wickedness to them because their husbands are sexually attracted to these kids. They feel like they have to assert their dominance as the woman of the home. Not the total reason why these things happen but it’s a contributing factor.

Instead of them to do away with the useless men they’re calling husbands

Exactly. Nigeria women will ignore stuff just to remain Mrs

He has stooped to conquer

They will succeed in their next attempt. When there's life, there's hope

More security quota for those in power. The more insecure a state is, the more funding they get to fight insecurity. That fund is a no question asked funding. It's a shame people are feeding themselves and their families fat on blood money.

Ezewuzie01:
Misleading headline. From the body of the report, the headline should have been

Ogun community deserted in fear as Fulani herders kill Yoruba hunter

Mehh, this thing get as e be o.

Government officials are just toying with Nigerians

Focusmind:
I don't even blame women again for these kind of dastardly acts on housemaids. I blame the docile men that look and watch. How can you be the man of the house without bringing your influence to bear on certain actions and decisions of your wife? As a man, it's when you looses respect and influence that your wife could have this kind of liver to perpetuate evil, knowing that there won't be any consequences.

You talk as if ALL men are saints. Like we don't have men who would do even worse ? What exactly has weakness or strength got to do with it? Must a human being be strong physically or be aggressive before you classify him as strong?
Maybe those men you call weak are the ones who will not be able to stand such wickedness and demand the child be removed from the wife's care? Maybe a weak man wouldn't be able to stomach seeing someone under his roof being mistreated by anybody? Maybe this man is hardened and evil too he may be part of those men that don't give an 'F'? Maybe in his mind she's her blood so if she kpai the girl na she Sabi.
So instead of using your bias sexist mind to judge this case, rather look at two of them as evil on equal ground.

Check her virginity. Nigerian men love to defile any child under their care. That baby must have been defiled also. If not by the man then by the woman and other males around her.

Na wa o. So if thief rent my property come use am do kidnapping govt will claim I should have known and then punish me for that? No problem, with time landlords will stop renting homes to young/single people to avoid that risk

dayleke:

Ewe jije in yooba

Lol

That's why I laugh at the ignorance of Nigerians who turn everything to spiritual attack. The average Nigerian would have said it was spiritual beings stealing the food.

When they finally build the railway, that's when we will see more of this.
When a certain group does something govt will protect them by saying the culprits ate foreigners and as such can't be tracked and brought to justice; but if you fight back when they try to attack same govt will say you shouldn't harm them or use force cos they are fellow Nigerians.

Yeye dey smell

Imagine rubbish? This is another money making scheme.

This is how insecurity is paying those who run things. God knows the billions that would be spent on this securing farmers project.
Insecurity will never end in naija and if someone tries to end it, those profiting from it big time will off that person.

Meanwhile una daddy Adeboye says anyone that ask him how his church spends their money will die.

He looks like Burna boy

So, where is the training happening? No link to it.

Giovannialonso:
What economic importance to the entire nation?

For the government not the people.

Sad for home owners. Corruption will not let them receive much in compensation due to them. They will be forced to give up more than half their awarded money to corrupt officials overseeing the compensation. Nigerians are very greedy, wicked and evil people.

This is sad. He knows the business is a dangerous one cos he kept talking about how he escapes death on the streets of Abuja.

Nonamexxx:
Hi thanks for your response,you replied me yesterday saying you didn't have access to your email. I saw you on a thread about Serbia and I wanted to know if you could help with it

Oh sorry I am not there anymore.

God1000:
What's wrong with Argentina, this will damage the country's reputation and reduce the love Africans have been showing them for decades


She said Argentina never had colonies or try to impose their way of life on others, maybe she's right, but the action of the players is unacceptable, she's just trying to defend the indefensible

political leaders, footballers and other celebrities should be careful of what they say

They are one of the most racist countries on earth. They don't care about reputation where racism is concerned.

Naija men....

What hospital was he first taken to? Nigerian medical facilities are death traps.