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Do you mean the self acclaimed omini potent and omini science Bible god or some entity from your village ⁉️😒🤡

Greatdand007:
Goan ask God for forgiveness

I don't know whatever you wish to discuss with me but have it in mind i don't groom people or teach them updates online.

Tenrack:
big man can I have a word or two concerning this? Abeg

You must be living in a very delusional world cos the last time i remembered, nobody is a saint, including you. To hell with having a good name or whatsoever that even means.

I'm way above coming online to preach about moralities when we all humans have the tendency to take advantage of unsuspecting people.

Greatdand007:
Don't mind him good name is better than riches

Go and bomb, oga!

You are living in a dysfunctional system. Cash out and clean your money. Even the people you looked up to did it, so your case will not be different. If you like, dey there dey reason societal judgment including the hypocrites in nairaland, nah you go suffer the depression of being broke.

You think say capital go fall from the sky, if you don't hustle for the capital? Oga, go bomb celeb, celeb boys full your school.

Speedstar7:
I m really tired of life, I am an undergraduate of the university of uyo, 25 years of age my problem is I don't have capital to start(this has made me shed tears most times cus I will done with school next year) Now back to the reason I created this thread .... I don't just know how to navigate life no capital, no business.... I wanted to start an ai faceless but don't have money to pay for ai tools I am just tired... Even digital marketing I don't know how to start ... I pray for God to help me 😥😥😥
I have a phone and stable internet connection, I am not asking for money, please what do I do I want to start earning from the internet .....HELP ME PLEASE 😥😥😥

PROPANGANDA 101

BlackViper:
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/world-news/2026/07/12/china-christians-xi-jinping-asia-churches-communist-party/

The US, South Korea and 20+ UN countries could not defeat a coalition of North Korea, China and Russia during the Korean war. I doubt NATO can even stand such war currently.

The Americans can't even stand North korea open a Frontline with South Korea and China invade Taiwan. They will probably need a coalition of 50+ countries to fight such fronts.

vr0xen:
so u think Europe can field an army that will challenge moscow, China and North Korea in ground combat?? So Ukrain have not thought you guys that wars are never fought on Twitter handles and propaganda

Even ESN were Muslims. 🤡🤡

izombie:
Not all moslems are terrorists but all terrorists are moslem.

Even Trump you probably idolize was a crypto scammer. He pumps and dumps coins. His memecoin $Trump and his wife's $Melania are practical examples.

A criminal is a criminal, no matter his or her specialty.

AderonkeOlaniyi:
They learnt it from Gbola Tilumbu the Chicago drug criminal.

It was a simple question you could have answered correctly if you understood the keyword "Shape."

By Shape, it was the Red Circle.
By color, it was the Green square.

Easy as ABC. ‼️

shadrach77:
The green square 🟩. Because others are red

This one is talking about marriage as if she won't opt for a divorce even if she eventually gets married.

Ofunaofu:
Everything Is Dawning On Me-Phyna Laments As She Nears 30 Without Getting Married

Former Big Brother Naija winner Phyna has shared how growing older has changed her views on marriage, admitting that she now sees things differently as she approaches her 30th birthday.

In a video posted on her Instagram Story, the reality TV star reflected on turning 29 and said she is beginning to understand life from a different perspective.

According to Phyna, when she was 22 or 23 years old, she thought 29 was still a long way off. Now that she has reached that age, she says many things are becoming clearer to her.

She also admitted that she used to wonder why some women in their early 30s were not married, believing at the time that something was wrong with them.

However, she said age and experience have changed her mindset, and she now realizes that there is nothing wrong with being unmarried in your early 30s.

Phyna explained that many of the women she once judged were simply living their lives, and their marital status did not define them.

She said, “I’m just thinking out loud. I remember when I was 22, 23 then, you know, 29 was so far away, but now this is 29 and everything is just dawning on me.

“I remember that time all those my aunties that were like in their early 30s that they are not married. I’d be like, ‘Auntie, you no go marry? Auntie, you no marry?’ Like then it was looking like the auntie get problem.

“Guys. Guys. We sef don dey touch am o. Auntie no get problem. I swear. Our aunties, they did have problem. No single problem.


https://www.google.com/amp/s/dailymirror.ng/everything-is-dawning-on-me-phyna-laments-as-she-nears-30-without-getting-married/

I understand where you are driving at. I am still trying to connect more dots like i said previously and until then, I'll remain skeptical about the whole operation at a certain point cos some things don't still add up to me.

I understand the govt are claiming to be hoarding the strategy in a guise to prevent terrorists from learning about such strategies since these terrorists have computer experts working within them to analyze information with AI.

I keep my fingers crossed anyway. More details will still get revealed and the picture will get clearer for analysts like us.

thedio:
Did u hear anything about the operation, or strategies deployed until they were successfully rescued. They can give us more so that some of us can appreciate their efforts more.
On Seyi Makinde declaration and abduction, I think it’s a coincidence because it will take those criminals days to prepare that abduction it is not easy to kidnap a single person overnight not to talk of forty something ppl.
Finally on the soldier that paid ultimate price. I was not part of the operation but It took them days to get to criminals camp and I believe the army would encountered many ambushes on their way. Apart from that they might av been rescued and taken to a safe location before the yest announcement

On a normal basis, I'm not supposed to sound skeptical and look like i was an ingrate that lacked gratitude that the children were finally freed. But then, i seem to find something totally off about the operation. Details of the operation were tagged classified yet there are still attempts to release glimpses and snippets of little events during the whole operation.

There's a conspiracy theory that the children were kidnapped barely hours Governor makinde declared his presidential race and the children got released the same day APC kick-started their campaign.

The final bombshell, was when i heard that a gallant soldier lost his life during the operation only to find his blurred burial poster that stated he died 6th of July. How did the soldier lose his life days before the children regained freedom?

I'm still trying to connect more dots because the whole kidnapping and the rescue mission is beginning to look like a sham, I'm very skeptical about it.

If those children got released, it wasn't done because of any rescue mission the media is false fully shoving down our throats.

This a clear case of sakamanje, THE MORE YOU LOOK, THE LESS YOU SEE.

Smh

[quote author=WorkTheTalk post=139995611]Staged operation for the gullible.

"For seven years as Oyo State governor, we did not witness such an incident in my state. I declared to run for the presidency at 4 p.m., and by 9 a.m. the following morning, children were åbducted in Oyo State."

-Governor Seyi Makinde this afternoon during a meeting with… pic.twitter.com/rSfi2Y9WRG

— CHUKS 🍥 (@ChuksEricE) July 10, 2026

So? Nh typo error, oga!

Sonofgod1990:
An American not A American

A very blatant exaggeration. A American 5 year old can not do anything aside from crying day and night for a candy lollipop. 🤡

Sonofgod1990:
This is something a 5 years old person can build in less than 2 days here in united state of America. Nigeria with backwardness

NRC don crash already, e don cast. ‼️

UgoFly:
No enter o. Their crash is imminent.

I'm glad you schooled the nigga, he thinks it is all about preaching theories and standards. A broke alpha ain't got no choice and he has no authority to command.

Financial buoyancy comes with the confidence to live like an Alpha.

Kalulu44:
You're partly right and partly wrong, yes been the prize is not all about money.
But for you as a man to gather the confidence and do all what you wrote up there, you still have to be financially stable.
True or false?
.
A broke man can't dictate to anybody especially them ladies how he wants.
A broke man can't have worth that he will be showing around.
So all in all, money na still the Koko.
Money gives you confidence to carry out majority of the things you said up there.
Yes they're rich simps, those ones are follow come.

Take a chill pill bro, he aint far from the truth, being financially buoyant will guarantee you the privilege to have so many versatile options of women. Of course, as a wise man, you'd ought to choose the right one.

Wether you are a rich simp or a Rich Alpha, You are still the prize regardless. Everybody will not understand the psychology of women because of how they were raised and indoctrinated during their respective childhood.

You can't have versatile options of women as a man, if you are still broke. There is no woman on earth that don't have the tendency to exploit their men one way or the other, Even the most submissive women still do, Even the ones that claimed to have stayed and help build their men still do, so there's no single woman that won't have the tendency to exploit you as a man. Understanding the psychology of women entails that you learn to accept some financial requests from your woman and still decline some.

You ought to understand that if you must give, give what you can afford to loose, also expect the worst to happen in the future. You don't avoid problems, you expect problems, so that when it finally comes, you deal with it like it never happened and move on quietly.

There is no relationship/marriage/friendship that is not transactional, it is all a clash of interests where both parties have their given expectations on each other.

Men still remain the prize no matter any class (Simp or alpha) they find themselves. It up to the man to live with his choices and actions.

In the society, A rich Simp still has more values and worth than a broke alpha that believes he knows his worth, what worth does he have? A broke account balance? The broke alpha can only come online to preach red pills and still crawl out offline to live with his realities.

From my own understanding, the OP was not talking about putting money on the table when he's first meeting a woman, you misunderstood him. It is not all about having a simpish mindset, it is all about being financially buoyant and confident to live and stand with principles as a man.

Goo0dHardDick:
The OP is talking about transactional relationship which is termed as parasitic relationship. That isn't a relationship.

Any man that put money first when meeting a woman has successfully subscribed to being exploited.

A man is simply the prize because he knows his worth. He controls his attention and doesn't give it out carelessly. He is focus on his mission, businesses etc and doesn't spend money carelessly. He always put himself first no matter what! He doesn't worship women. He doesn't double call, double text or act desperate over a girl. He knows when a girl isn't interested in him and he respects himself enough to move on.

Dude, being the prize isn't about money at all. Haven't you seen a rich notorious Simp before? Does that means he is the prize because he is rich? Of course not! He isn't any prize because he doesn't understand women's psychology. Such men simps over women.

As i see human skull, i first burst laff. 😂

Nah vikings dem burst with all these tools. Omor 💔

Chenu60:
Imo Police Arrest 184 Suspected Criminals In 2 Months, Recover Massive Arms, Ammunition



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h5cnavN3ynQ?si=p9vig_nRCO6wraXA

Unbelievable. ‼️

So i should believe that this dude spent 400 million to get an office because of passion? 😒

I am not phvvlish enough to believe such non sense.

ChemmyNaija:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2026/07/alleged-fake-agency-i-never-met-gbajabiamila-in-person-says-adeyemi/


FULL TRANSCRIPT ONLINE INTERVIEW BETWEEN MARTINS VINCENT OTSE (VDM) and ADEYEMI ADENIYI MATHEW ON TUESDAY JULY 7, 2026


Adeyemi:
No be small thing o. That is why I said let me reach out to you so I can make some clarifications about the brouhaha going on in Nigeria today.

VDM: So, go on!

Adeyemi:
Yeah! You see... this whole thing is confusing as in, very, very confusing. When the Presidency through the Chief of Staff (to the President) said the person does not exist, I wondered, ‘how come?’ The agency that found its way into the national budget, how? That both the Senate where we have so many experienced senators, 360 members of (the House of) Representatives would detect that this is a fake agency; then (the budget) transmitted to the President to assent (sic) his signature, how could his Chief of Staff not be aware that the said agency is inside the budget? That is why I’m confused and that is what gave me the audacity to come out to do a rebuttal of his disclaimer like two weeks ago.

VDM:
The fact that, that budget... that agency that they said does not exist found its way into the national budget means there is something going on. And you are saying you are very confused. So, I have questions for you. You were the DG of this said agency. At some point, were you the one that prepared the budget?

Adeyemi:
No, sir. I’m not the one because when the preparations for budget (started), I was invited by the Nigeria Police Force, Department of Monitoring.

VDM: Which year was it?

Adeyemi: 2025

VDM: Who was the IG then?

Adeyemi: IGP Egbetokun

VDM: Okay, go on.

Adeyemi: So, I was invited to come and respond to a petition from the Chief of Staff to the President, questioning my activity of the said agency (sic). I honoured the invitation. They asked me so many questions: how the agency come to being. I gave them... I got the appointment letter from XYZ. ‘Who helped you to get the appointment letter?’ I gave them the number, the name, everything.
Now, back to your question, I was in detention.

VDM: Oh! They locked you up that day?

Adeyemi: For good 23 days. I was arrested or invited on the 27th of October and released on the 19th of November.

VDM: So, basically, that budget that appeared in the national budget, it was not you that prepared it.

Adeyemi: I was in detention. That was the period for the preparation of budget.

VDM: That means it was not you or your people that prepared the budget.

Adeyemi: I did not and nobody went for the defence. That is why I’m confused that, how come that the budget that nobody defended it could still find its way to the national budget. By the time I came out of the detention on the 19th, I was charged to court on the 27th of November and the said office space had been reallocated to another government official. So, I’ve not been going to the office since that 27th of October. That is why I’m confused that, how did the agency find its way into the national budget?

VDM: Femi Gbaja was the one that wrote the petition against you. It takes somebody very influential to get that that budget to the national level. So, whether they like it or not, it has been established that, that agency actually existed. Yet, what we all need to put heads together to find out: there is corruption somewhere – 100 per cent, there is corruption. But now, I want to understand some few things. Let’s start with this: did you at any point in time meet with Femi Gbaja one-on-one to discuss this whole thing?

Adeyemi: No.

VDM: Did you speak on the phone to discuss this whole thing?

Adeyemi: Yes, like three times I’ve once spoken to him through my late friend, Dolapo Tanimola.

VDM: How are you sure it was Gbaja? Did you speak to him on video call? Anybody could have collected that phone.

Adeyemi: No, it was not on video call.

VDM: So, every transaction that was done was through your friend and that your friend is late.

Adeyemi: Yes.

VDM: Do you have all the documents as to all these things that you are talking about, posted online.

Adeyemi: Yes.

VDM: So, something is definitely wrong somewhere but the truth is that, that agency... there is no way anybody will tell me the agency does not exist because they must explain... It is somebody (who is) powerful and influential that might have put that thing there. Everybody’s office that needs to be investigated. If the Chief of Staff is coming to say he is not the one, it is possible (that he is not). In Nigeria, anything can happen.

Adeyemi: Of course! Yes.

VDM: Do you think there is a possibility that he doesn’t know anything about it, or do you think he is lying.

Adeyemi: I wouldn’t say he is lying and I wouldn’t say he is saying the truth. That is why I requested... if you saw it from my press conference, I said I plead with Mr President to set up an investigative panel to look into this whole issue and unravel the truth, so we would know who are (those) involved.

VDM: That is a good one. Now, what is your next step? What do you want to do now about this case? What are you going to do now?

Adeyemi:
I am willing and ready to help security agencies or panel set up by Mr President to unravel the truth. In fact, any moment from now, I will go to the DSS or Police to submit all the documents I have. It would help them to investigate and look into this matter.

VDM: I like that. So, you will just go on your own, like that.

Adeyemi: Of course! Since I don’t have... I will go. You will see. Any moment from now, I will go.

VDM: It will be good if you come to Abuja.

Adeyemi: Why not? I will come. You will see me. I will go to any DSS or police (office) to submit my documents... all what I have. They should authenticate it; they should verify it. Then, they should unravel the truth.

VDM: That will be a very good step to actually find out the people that are involved in all of this. Like I said, no matter what anybody wants to say in this country, somebody (who is) influential is behind all of this. It can be Gbaja; it is possible that it is not Gbaja. It is possible that it is some people in his office. It is possible that it is some other people in some other offices. And it is possible that it is him. So, your next step is the best: taking your evidence that you have with you and walking into a police station to say ‘take’. I like your idea. That is a very smart one. You go there and give it to them; to also assist them in the investigation. That is a very, very perfect thing to do.
I really don’t want to ask you about the money because, according to what I heard, they said you said you gave that money to your friend.

Adeyemi: Yes.

VDM: When was your friend killed?

Adeyemi: I wouldn’t say ‘killed’. Let me correct you. No investigation has revealed that he was killed. He was involved in a fire accident (sic) in an hotel at Utako.

VDM: Have you ever had aby attempt on your life before, anywhere, before this whole thing started?

Adeyemi: Yes. Precisely Sunday, 7th September, 2025, I was attacked at Zuma Rock along Zuba road. If you know Zuma Rock very close to Madalla, that is where I was attacked by gunmen, which I attached the video to my press release the other time.

VDM: That agency, what did you plan to do with it, because if you could spend N400million so that you go get that kind of office, how did you expect to make your money back? I feel like you all arranged the whole thing to get shares out of it. What was your plan?

Adeyemi: I don’t really have negative plans. It is all about passion for the country. That agency is to bring in foreign investments to Nigeria. I want to write my name in gold. That is why I have a passion. When you have a passion – let me use desperately to serve, you can do anything. That is the reason why I paid that money; that if that would be a stumbling block for me, let me just get and do my part for the country. So, that is just it. That agency is to bring foreign investments to Nigeria and make Nigeria a preferred destination for investment. You might have come across my little efforts. I have worked round the inter-ministerial agencies: I have worked with them, I partnered with the EFCC - virtually all the MDAs – to collaborate with them to make Nigeria the preferred world destination for investments. So, it is not about personal interests... to work around, even beyond the shores of Nigeria.



https://www.instagram.com/reel/DagX6L0xBwo/?igsh=enlsaTdiMXIxd3Fu

VeryDarkMan shared his video call conversation between him and Prince Adeniyi Adeyemi over fåke agency scandal. pic.twitter.com/Suy0qs0lRl

— CHUKS 🍥 (@ChuksEricE) July 7, 2026

😭😭😭😭

Portugal why ⁉️😢

You lads broke my heart. 💔

It is the job of Mohbad's widow to give Nigerians the true account of what happened to Mohbad.

Daguccizgreat:
So sad to be in that situation, may God heal you . On the other hand, if you had a hand in Mohbad's untimely demise, the earth will continue to torment you

Gbà fún ẹ, mi ò ràyè arò
O tò kankan mọ́ mi lẹ́nu ni?

lightwind:
Yinmu!!

Go bring pictures of Al Jazeera journalists, camera men with guns too

Wow, i never knew he was the so called Accountant general i heard about many years ago from rivers state.

Baba don turn Christian all of a sudden, lmao. 😂

Fiscus105:
Are you the one to teach him? I doubt if you know his position before gov and atrocities him and Wike did together in Rivers.

What has my Moniker gotten to do what i stated or are you trying to sound like an arss hole ⁉️

lightwind:
Kindly show me the photo.

Your name is already Demonic01 so ?

We are on the same stance, All politicians in Nigeria are the same and I'm not campaigning for anybody.

But one thing i know for sure is that no party is going to beat APC and their 12 million members. The total sum of all the opposition's Party and their population is barely half of Tinubu's APC.

To win the presidential election, You've got to win with more grass root mobilization and APC already secured that.

Tinubu will secure not less than 15 million votes next year, I seriously doubt Peter Obi will secure up to 7 million votes if his grass root soldiers aren't up to 3 million.

Miracle nor fit happen next year. PO's loss has already been cemented. ‼️

Chris225:
Am not supporting no body

Cos no real opposition in nigeria

If there were a united opposition i would have supported them but nahh

I never campaign for Obi or anyone

Am just asking why campaign for someone whos already won before election day

This is all a big bluff, except they want to interfere and install a puppet presiden, the Americans can do shiit or dictate whatever happens during or after next year's elections.

All these statements nah show off.

saintopus:
https://punchng.com/us-to-closely-monitor-nigerias-2027-elections-congressman/

Comment wey you go write within range of 100 - 200 words and still make perfect sense, you go carry AI come drop a whole pile of trash.

Nawa oo. 😒

Where you expecting a reasonable folk to read all this trash?

SixSeven:
[if you are here to catch cruise and can't read a long explanation, kindly skip this post. I took time writing on this and using some research to look deeply into this issue beyond the surface. If you have your own observation over the years from society and life events, I am happy to read your own independent thoughts]

They are in the survival mode and relationships have always been about survival.

In biology, these survival dynamics are called symbiotic relationships. When humans are in survival mode, their relationships often mimic these exact ecological categories.

A parasite thrives by draining resources from a host, leaving the host weakened or damaged. In humans, one partner handles all the emotional labor, financial burdens, or logistical responsibilities. The parasite isn't necessarily malicious, they are often emotionally bankrupt and using the other person to survive. The host eventually burns out from total resource depletion.

In mutualism, both species actively rely on each other to survive, and both benefit from the exchange (like bees and flowers). Both partners bring equal support, safety, and resources to the table. Even if life is hard externally, the relationship itself is a team. It operates on cooperation rather than competition or exploitation.

Why are we having survival exploitation mentality today? Because Africa Nigeria has abandoned its culture!

In many traditional African societies, marriage was designed for collective survival and legacy, not just two individuals. It was a contract between two families or clans, often solidified through customs like bride price. This transfer of assets wasn't buying a person. It was a formal economic rebalancing. One family lost a valuable source of agricultural and domestic labor, while the other family gained it, along with the right to future offspring to grow their lineage.

If a husband failed to provide or protect, the entire community or council of elders stepped in. It was tied to a larger, predictable tribal framework where roles were rigidly defined but collectively enforced. The rise of modern individualism accelerated by economic shifts, Westernization, and feminism changed the baseline of survival from communal to individual. Feminism legally and economically uncoupled women from needing a marriage contract just to survive basic daily life (e.g., gaining the right to work, own property, and hold independent bank accounts) to being on their own. Now before you think this is about feminism or women bashing, hold on. I have written on this before and I can tell you from history that before the whites came to brainwash us and extended it with neocolonialism, our women were never lazy. They were independent, industrious and entrepreneural. It's this independence that made them fight governments in history especially tax wars. But they were wise, they went into professions that protected the home. They knew the importance of the family and sisterhood. They had support system. Oyinbo no send you na why maternity leave na like war. Historically, West African Market Queens and East African female agriculturalists controlled their own production, held significant political authority, and maintained independent financial streams. This economic independence did not disrupt marriage, it was a foundational component of it. Men and women operated in a dual-sex system because it was a survival necessity. Women controlled food subsistence, local trade, and specific political spheres, while men handled defense, heavy clearing, and external diplomacy. Neither gender could survive or thrive without the explicit, structured output of the other. It was a codependency built on mutual leverage.


European colonizers arrived with a 19th-century Victorian world view. In their view, proper women stayed in the private domestic sphere, and only men should handle money, politics, and property. Colonial authorities systematically introduced cash economies and land-titling laws that named men as the sole owners of land. This effectively dispossessed women who had farmed and traded on that land for centuries (there are videos on YouTube you can watch to educate yourself, mention me and I can refer you to one of them in Nigeria, it's on Sahara page). Tax systems were designed to force African men out of villages and into wage labor (mines, corporate plantations, and civil service). This disrupted the complementary family unit, forcing women into systemic economic dependency on men and the colonial state (in the abroad, that is what is happening indirectly). Colonialism introduced an artificial, parasitic structure. By giving all legal, land, and financial leverage to men, the colonial system broke the mutualism (today we ignorantly blame the men for being patriachial but don't understand the system). Women were stripped of their ecological niche (economic and political autonomy) and forced into a position of strict dependency. When one half of a mutualistic pair loses its leverage, the relationship degrades into subordination. That's why women started fighting for empowerment and backup just in case the man abuses her which if you look at it well, the man wey wan abuse your daughter dem no born am well in the past not because he could not but the woman was sure of her family back up. In fact, women in the past married 2-3/4 times and had children for different men but most times, it was within a marriage because of how we see baaaastards and future consequences but today that one no consain Amina, Ada or Atinuke, Baby Mama to the core!


The modern corporate economy inherited this colonial blueprint. It frames the "corporate ladder" or the "boss girl" lifestyle as the ultimate liberation for women. However, this structure operates on a timeline that often conflicts with biology.

1. Stage 1 [Age 20-30] Corporate Focus: High energy devoted to building capital and corporate value. Peak fertility years are traded for corporate metrics. Ask your medical doctors they know, women are still trying to argue with over 100 years of science by storing eggs in the lab, thinking they can bet against the future. Their income and economic empowerment has been taken away from them to bank against the future.

2. Stage 2 [Age 35-45] Biological Reality: The body's biological clock signals a desire for family and stability. This is when they realize that a corporate title cannot replace a biological legacy.

By the time many women reach their late 30s or 40s, they recognize that corporate milestones do not substitute for the biological realities of family, legacy, and long-term companionship. The corporate system extracts their prime years, leaving them materially secure but emotionally isolated. The maternal instinct can never be bought except they catch that woman young with dangerous ideologies like transgender and all that nonsense.

For the girls now who have three choices,
1. Stay as a good girl in your father's house till you leave (e get why dem de marry woman for her papa house)

2. Go hustle on her own because life is not balanced and her family can't do well (this one has two options, survive in jungle and remember your roots or get lost in modern world)

3. The girl who gets lost in modern world and has to do hook-up or anything to survive at all costs (sometimes you go swear for your politicians because the policies they pass has impact on the girl child and the family as a unit in general but this is not about politics).

When a society dismantles traditional family safety nets and replaces them with an unstable economy, relationships degrade into raw survival tactics. Modern hookup culture is often less about liberation and more about a commodified market response to scarcity and lack. It is the society's response to inequality. Without a traditional structure or an extended family network to vet partners, provide security, or hold men accountable, young women face high economic pressure on their own. In an environment stripped of communal trust and people just want to survive, the interaction reverts to a basic animalistic instinct and trade - young women barter their youth and physical presence for immediate financial support or lifestyle maintenance, while men utilize their financial resources to gain short-term access. The monkeys in Bali are a prime example of this incident when COVID-19 affected tourism and the visitors affected the local economy. Also, when long-term marital security feels unattainable or untrustworthy, interactions become short-term and transactional. You see eh, this thing is not just within Nigeria. When Nigerian men complain about our women abroad that when they see money, the first thing they do is disrespect their husband, it is economics that is their problem. Many of us do not understand the importance of the concept of marriage that's why men say it is against them, women say it is not for them and the government will take care of them (excuse me sis, you are the government's beach pardon my Spanish)!

The Western system rewrites the contract of marriage, shifting it from a structure of mandatory biological interdependence to one of voluntary partnership while in traditional African settings, the survival matrix relies on a balance of distinct, gender roles. The Husband provides external protection, resources, and structural security while the Wife manages internal infrastructure, family operations, and community integration.

When these couples move to the West, the state replaces the husband's unique value proposition. Now, I don't want to write another epistle but I will edit this post by quoting my previous post on this topic. If we sit down and talk dispassionately about this topic, we will see that our ancestors get sense pass sense but instead of us to build on it, we went to take another man's system thinking it will work for us. The paradox of it is that modern Nigerian men who go abroad are highly valued because when paired with modern independent women abroad who have economic freedom (remember this is how African women used to be until they brainwashed them), they find out what is missing. The oyinbo woman is surprised that a man can still provide and be responsible (the opposite of what the western system has done to the man by castrating him to become a sister or so-called partner in his house) while the man thinks it is his deeek that is talking but he is surprised that this woman is not billing him. He is pleasantly surprised by this. If they both have sense, they can build something together. I do not want to now tell you how I have unlearned that polygamy is bad because when you read history and observe those who do it right, you can't but notice the wisdom.

By stripping away modern ideological lenses, we can see that pre-colonial African polygamy functioned as an economic co-op and a logistics network, whereas modern hyper-independent dating functions as a high-risk, atomized competition. In many pre-colonial African societies, marriage was not an emotional selfish luxury of fake love that women are doing today by taming a man and possessing him, it was a joint economic venture. When a woman was wealthier than her husband, polygamy was a highly practical tool for her own expansion. A wealthy market woman or agriculturalist had massive operational demands. By bringing in co-wives (often vetted or even financed by the first wife), she was recruiting trusted business partners. Families have more to lose if they betray themsleves. Co-wives formed a built-in childcare, domestic, and logistical network. One wife could manage the market, another could oversee the crops, and another could manage the homestead and children. They pooled resources, shared the domestic burden, and operated as sisters in a corporate-style alliance. In this system, the husband was not expected to be the sole provider or financial savior. He served different structural purposes for them such as external diplomacy, physical defense, lineage extension, and managing the broader family estate. His value was intrinsic to the tribal structure and family unit as head of house. Today, modern society tells women that working a 9-to-5 job for a corporation and paying 100% of their own bills is "independence" and "empowerment." From a human ecology perspective, this is a massive survival trade-off. I have written about this above. Instead of sharing the burden of life with a tight-knit collective of sisters, the modern independent woman carries the entire weight alone. She must be the sole provider, the sole housekeeper, and the sole parent, while competing in a hyper-individualized economy. "Independence" is often just isolation from a natural human support system. It forces women into a permanent state of high stress and survival mode, which biologically militates against peace and long-term stability. When women are forced to be hyper-independent, they begin to view men solely through a transactional lens (Can he earn more than me?). If he cannot, he is often deemed redundant or "not doing enough." this is how hypergamy has become so common today. This financial bashing completely ignores a man's non-monetary biological and social utility. Attributes like emotional stoicism, physical protection, tribal leadership, mentorship for children, mechanical competence, and steadfast loyalty. Money can buy a service, but it cannot buy these character traits. Some people think it's cruise that there are more widows than women who died first because the man has slaved himself to death for one woman who enjoys it alone while his own grandmother lived till her 90s and his grandfather was kicking and alive in the same age with many wives. The selfish nature of women make them take his assets when he's done at 40/50 these days. He thought he could do it alone but how wrong was he....

Wow, i never knew missionaries had strong body build and sharp jawlines, and a photo posing with a rifle.

What was he training for? Fight and shoot satan?

Oh, spare me those missionary bullshiits. ‼️

lightwind:
You are the person that needs to stfu! and not that American missionary.

Welcome to Nigeria.

Muslim dey bully Christians, and Christians dey bully traditionalists.

But the Christians dey cry more about injustice and persecution forgetting that they bully traditionalists more than the way Muslims bullies them in the north.

My own be say, if you dey practice your religion or spirituality, nor carry am near me cos if you do anyhow, i go storm your dormot like a terrorizz and traumatize you with my battalion of timberland men.

☠️⚓

Benjanni:
So a man of God in Delta State decided to walk into a shrine and destroy it to prove that the gods were false.
He probably thought nothing would happen.

Well… something happened. The matter landed in court.

According to reports, the Federal High Court sitting in Warri held that his actions violated the constitutional right of the shrine’s worshippers to freedom of religion.

The matter ended up in court.

The court held that the action was unconstitutional and violated the worshippers’ fundamental right to freedom of religion under Section 38 of the 1999 Constitution. The court also found it inconsistent with Section 10, which provides that no government shall adopt any religion as State religion.

As a result, the court ordered the pastor to:

✅ Rebuild the destroyed Egbesu shrine.
✅ Pay ₦100 million as general damages.
✅ Pay ₦100 million as exemplary damages.
✅ Pay ₦5 million as costs.
✅ Publish a public apology in two national newspapers.
✅ Stay at least 10 kilometres away from the worshippers.

Whether you are a Christian, Muslim, traditional worshipper or belong to any other religion, the Constitution protects your freedom to practise your religion.

You are free to preach your faith and try to convince others to join you, but you are not free to destroy another person’s place of worship because you disagree with their beliefs or because you want to prove your God is superior.



https://thenationonlineng.net/court-awards-n205m-to-egbesu-worshippers-over-demolished-shrine/