All the other allegations had documented proofs. He should provide proof for this as well.

Greekgoddess:
Oooh now u r wishing forgiveness frm God

Just cos he is a merciful God does not mean dat we should put him to the test

If ur woman cries in his presence nd God sees how hurt she is, how broken she is, i bet you ur punishment will come earlier dan u expected


If only.....

I know you really want me to marry the first girl but I strongly believe I will be doing her more harm than good by marrying her while my heart is somewhere else.
I know I will somehow pay for this and I can only pray for God's mercy while giving justice because I am truly sorry.

Greekgoddess:
Nd u just realized dis after 7yrs?


Y didn't u let her go earlier, she would have found someone better than u

Nd please don't MA me, am not in the mood for dat

Yes I blame myself and I'm so sorry. May God forgive me.

Greekgoddess:
I will remain great friends?

Guy u don't have a heart

Do you think it will be easy for her, how do you think she will feel

If it's me i will consider u my enemy NUMBER 1

I will tell my child dat his/her daddy is dead, cos u don't deserve to be anyone's father

Wat ever u sow u must surely reap

Remember karma is a bi*ch

Wat ever u do to her u must surely receive it ten times over

I will surely join her in placing a cos on u

Sorry ma. But would it make me a better person if I married someone I don't love knowing very well that my heart belongs to another? Don't you feel it may be better not to put the first girl through the agony of being married to a man who loves another woman?

Ballmer:
You are heartless n wicked. I mean how can any human be mean to the extent of disrespecting a lady that is already pregnant for you n even contemplating abandoning her because of another girl.

Well I guess God understand how he does is own thing. Dude my advice is that you should understand there are going to be many more kittykats even after marriage. You need to learn to make your women feel loved. It's effect might not be immediate but trust me it's enduring.

Contemplating aborting a child because of another Kittykat does not make sense no matter what story you have to back it. What you have is what someone else might just be longing for all lifelong. Appreciate your woman n be proud of her not compare her with some whatever.

You can call me any name in the world and I will take it. I blame myself for all this.
But please don't don't refer to the second girl as a kittykat. Trust me, I tried my damnest best to see her that way so I could concentrate on the first girl but the more I try to see her as sex doll the more I see that she's much more than just a kittykat. Trust me I've had my share of kittykats so I know what I'm saying. She's a rare treasure!

I'm not comparing the first girl to any other girl but the truth is that I love the second girl and this happened before the first girl got pregnant. And no I don't want the first girl to have an abortion even if I don't marry her. I will take care of the baby and we will remain great friends.

jabojafa:
d beautiful ones are not yet born. I can assure dt there a 1001 girls that are far better, sexier, more intelligent, more beautiful etc than d 2nd gal. At this point i wudnt advice to dump d 1st gal becos she is d rite woman and hv investd her time, talent n treasure on. Plz dont break d 1st girl hrt, go on with d wedding. Cut off frm d 2nd girl becos is jst der to lead u astray. If u eventually marry her, u may leave to regret it. Also if sm1 does same tin to ur sista/daughter wud u be api with d guy

We haven't fixed any date for wedding. The intro I did is not even the main intro.

It won't be fair to call the 2nd girl names because for one thing I asked both to get pregnant. The first one agreed while the second one vehemently disagreed the 5 times I asked her.

All the while I told myself that pregnancy would make me make a decision faster. Although I didn't explain my real reason to them. But I'm all the more confused now.

I have been with a lovely girl for almost 7 years now. She's supportive, caring and gentle. We got engaged 2 years ago.
Earlier This year I met this exceptionally beautiful girl. The player side of me was brought to life and I promised myself to taste her before I get married. I finally succeeded in bedding her and then I changed my attitude towards her. But little did I know that I had fallen for her.....

After 3 months I started seeing some very rare qualities in the second girl such as combination a exceptional beauty with exceptional intelligence with humility, homeliness, and a good heart. Let me also add that I know someone who knows the 2nd girl and can testify to her character. Like how can only one woman have all these qualities?? How would a guy just have sex with such a person and walk away? It's like discovering a diamond while playing in the sand on a beach and then throwing the diamond away into the ocean. But I tried to leave her because of my fiancee who already has the blessings of my family. I tried hard to treat her terribly but I couldn't take my mind off her. Then I finally confessed to her that a had someone. The second girl stuck around until she could take no more and left, telling me to go to hell. I took it as a sign that my first girl loves me more and decided to concentrate on her, until I got her pregnant. She's about 4 months pregnant now.

I keep going back to the second girl because I go almost clinically insane trying to get my mind off her. I have been telling my friends and colleagues and most of them who have seen her can't help but like her. Now I'm scared I'm going to loose my mind with confusion. I was able to bring myself to do a small introduction for the first girl last month because I quarreled with the 2nd girl and I told myself to move on. I asked both to get pregnant. The first one agreed while the second one vehemently disagreed the 5 times I asked her.
All the while I told myself that pregnancy would make me make a decision faster although I didn't explain my real reason to them. But I'm all the more confused now.

Now I need urgent help. What the hell am I going to do now? I need to stop hurting the both of them and I also need to make a decision fast about the first girl due to her pregnancy. Let me add also that although I care about the first girl, I have been having issues with her even before meeting the second girl. Maybe that is why I was never in a hurry to officially tie the knot all this while since proposing over 2 years ago. So this is the summary of it all: I feel duty bound to the first girl because I'm used to her and because the pregnancy. BUT I cannot stand the thought of life without the 2nd girl. I cannot stand the thought of some other guy touching her. They both love me but the 2nd girl has more dignity. I have been with the first girl a total of almost 7 years while I have known the 2nd for almost a year. I feel so trapped. Sometimes I wish marriage was not a necessity or if I can marry both so that I can feel relived that I have done my duty towards the first girl and also get the girl of my dreams.