Sorry to burst your Bubble ,i am happily married with kids.I saw my wife through school which i stated earlier here and never had any reson to regret it.I knew her when she was in Jss 3 and i was the one that sent her through school but she was hardworking too.i did all i did because we both share the same mutual feelings and set of goals.She is in UK now for her Phd and i am happy to have spent my money on her.See,there is no big deal spending on a girl you know has a zeal and passion for greatness in life so long you both have mutual goals But people like you are not worthy of those privileges because you saw rich guys as a gold mine meanwhile you cant even make something good out of your life because you already embedded your brain to the idea of "i cant survive without a rich man"syndrome.Still i pity your life.

Simran94:

Your mates are out there making money and doing great with their lives, they see women as not a Sex object but a treasure, paying their bride price and marrying them legally but you are here thinking about how to have sex with a woman that you are not even married to and yet still jobless.

Get a life

Your mates are out there making great things with their lives, breaking grounds but you are here monetizing sex like obviously you cant make it in life unless you offer sex for money.I pity you seriously.

Simran94:


You are having Sex with a girl who is not your Wife and you think that won't come with a price? someone you haven't paid a Bride price on and you are complaining of feeding her and providing financial support for her?
You want to continue having sex with her for free just like that?
All these Nairaland boys sha

Truth be told,what you have been doing for her is not a big deal."We rise by lifting others" so they say.If truly you love her,keep doing what you do but be 100% certain that the feelings are mutual.Be certain she loves you as much as you do love her and not because of what she gets from you.I did all you stated and even more.I knew my wife since she was in J.S.3 so you can imagine what i have done through all her secondary school days till she graduated from the university all alone.I even set up her parents even before we talked of marriage.i didnt want to get married the period we did but she encouraged it back then because she was scared of losing me.Now we are married with 3 kids and happy together.She is in UK now studying for her Phd.So the bottom line is do what you feel you can for her only if the feelings are mutual and you will never regret it.

yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

Ahhh i wonder where some people get their brain from if it was God who made it like other sane people too or an assistant when God was resting?How can you make monetize sex like the girl was doing him a favor?like she didnt enjoy it too?Thats one of the reasons Nigeria will not progress when ladies like you think the only good thing and benefits they can add to this world is to have sex for what they can get in life.Success is far from people with that kind of thinking.

Iyaebe:
Shebi you've been having sex with her so stop complaining and do your responsibilities in peace or didn't you know she has parents before you start parting her legs endlessly and asking her to come spend weeks, months with you?there's nothing like free sex,even the married one's are directly and Indirectly paying for the sex,let's all stop deceiving ourselves

Please.,send me the price of the machine,your location,phone no,capacity or the machine,size,parts included with the machine to this address.
dennis7179@yandex.com
Thanks