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What happened to "wimin supporting wimin"? Isn't here a duty to back off as a woman when you realise that your actions will invariably lead to the destruction of another woman's home and happiness? does feminism not cover that? Not to hold brief for the so-called husband. we can all agree he is a pig but what we will not do is absolve the side-chick of her faults just because "shE is noT the maRried oNe". She will not become deceased if she declines and say NO to the man, will she? Single men abound but na another woman dey tantalise you.

Samantha125:
But I don't get it, why is it that whenever I man cheats, we blame the side chick?

Is it not the responsibility of the man to do away with other women in order to keep his marriage intact? I mean he's the married one here and not the side chick... The wife should deal with the husband head on because he's the root of the problem.

Ah, make dem remove Pakistani from the list o!

The greatest threat to agriculture and profitable farming is insecurity. The bandits/fulani herdsmen/boko boys/kidnappers have constituted a huge menace to the farms across the country. Arm the farmers.

Arm the farmers and see the issue resolve itself.

When it appears that wicked people live long, it is an act of God's mercy. It's God giving Babangida a chance to repent. There's no more to it. A long rope. But as can be seen, the maradona in him will not let go. Even at old age and close to his departure, he is unable to face the truth and come to honest turn... his judgment awaits..

Mko123:
God only is the ultimate judge.
I wonder why IBB is still alive to tell trash after sending great men to their early grave.

Your entire religion is Sharia/jihad. It belongs in the dark ages.

It's just sheer distraction from his poor style of governance. Islamists have overrun the country

DigitB:
The idiot that can't protect his country from islamic terrorism.

The idiot that is suppressing free speech is talking about sending troops to Ukraine.

Then let them have their own categories and not invade women and little girls' spaces. Freak!

atobs4real:
Good one. But did transgender create themselves?

Just another UNHRWA. Disguised saboteurs

chatinent:
Humanitarian agency in the day. Terrorist funders in the night.

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Imagine if there was sharia in her family or she was born in Afghanistan?

chopnaira:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/02/meet-toyin-tofade-first-black-female-president-of-a-us-college/

This explains the islamic idea of heaven. Endless sexx in the presence of alla🥴

UncleAyo:
Mut'ah: A Divine Prostitution In Islam

Many foreign journalists complain annually of prostitution in Mecca during hajj, it is because they don't understand the divine backing of what goes on.

Even with stringent terms of Sharia which stipulates that an adulterer or fornicator be executed. If two people are caught in an affair and brought before the Islamic court and they say they were only doing mut'ah, the jurisdiction will have less or no power to sanction them.

What is Mut'ah?


Again, if he is a traveler, a tourist or a pilgrim, the faithful Muslim may have some other temporary 'wives' at strategic places wherever he lodges. This 'marriage' is known as mut'ah or the Law of Desire. The word mut'ah means 'desire' or 'pleasure'. Mut'ah marriage may last for one hour or as long as the man desires. Some regard as an example of the kingdom of Allah on earth, especially, under Khomeini. Since the Sharia, the Islamic legal system, became fully operational in Iran in 1979, mut'ah has been revitalized. Many Iranian women (most of them divorcees) are engaged in mut'ah for economic sustenance. According to a research work done by an Iranian woman, Shahla Haeri, mut'ah flourishes in Iran and Egypt today. Some Islamic scholars in Iran believe that one is even free to contract many mut'ahs at the same time—apart from the four wives and slave girls or house-helps the Muslim man may have at home.

Historian Burkhardt has pointed out that mut'ah was already prevalent in Arabia before Mohammed started his preaching. The custom was that a host would normally offer a female relative of his to his guest for the night. The 'marriage' ended the following morning or as long as the guest stayed there. When the practice became fully developed in Islam, it became an arrangement between a man and an unmarried woman, preferably, a virgin, divorcee or widow in which the partners specify in advance the period that the relationship shall last and the amount of money to be paid by the man. Witnesses are not required nor parents involved; the marriage need not be registered. By mutual agreement of the partners, this 'marriage' can last from one hour or as long as the partner want. At the end of the agreed time, the temporary 'spouses' part without any formality or divorce ceremony.

The woman, after separation, must abstain from sex for two months to know who actually fathered the child that may result from the acts. This practice is common, especially among tourists, pilgrims, and visitors. With such a provision, one does not have to travel with one's wife to avoid adultery.

A modern Muslim who grew or was educated in America or Europe may contend that mut'ah is just an invention of some weak Iranian or Egyptian men and not an approved practice of Islam. Let us consult on the Islamic authority to lay the matter to rest. Commenting on Surah 4:24, Al-Razi, one of the greatest Islamic thinkers, says:

Mut'ah marriage involved a man hiring a woman for a fixed term in exchange for a specific amount of money for a certain period of time to have sex with her. The scholars agree that this Mut'ah marriage was authorized in the beginning of Islam. It is reported that when the Prophet came to mecca to perform 'Omrah, the women of Mecca dressed up and adorned themselves. The Companion (that is, the followers of Mohammed) complained to the Prophet that they had not had sex for a long time, so he said to them: "enjoy these women".

In the Hadith Mishkat-ul-Masabih, we read:
Ibn Mas'ud reported: We were fighting along with the Messenger of Allah while (our) wives were not with us. We said, 'shall we not undergo castration?' The Holy Prophet forbade us from that. Afterwards, he made lawful Mut'ah Marriage. So all of us married a woman for a fixed term in exchange for a cloth. Afterwards, Abdullah (i.e., servant of Allah, Mohammed) recited: O those who believe! Do not make unlawful the good things which Allah has made for you. (Surah 5:87)
(Mishkat, Book 2, Hadith no.115).

That means the revelation of Allah recorded in that Surah 5:87 quoted in that Hadith came to give a divine approval on Mut’ah. If Allah is the one that gave these instructions through Mohammed, we need to ask if indeed Allah is the same God that reveals Himself in the Bible, or he is the Olodumare that the Yoruba know. When every year foreign journalists complain of prostitution in Mecca during the hajj, it is because they do not understand the divine backing of what goes on. To the Christian, all this automatically nullifies God's clear injunction: "Thou shalt not commit adultery." To a Muslim, such a commandment is vague. Mut’ah makes the words ‘adultery’, ‘fornication’, and ‘prostitution’ very difficult to define. It makes a mockery of the Islamic legal system called Shariah which stipulates that an adulterer or fornicator be executed. If two people are caught in an affair and brought before the Islamic court and they say they were only doing mut’ah, how would the jurists disprove them?




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So long as it punctures your conscience, yes, assistant Jesus. You lots have come to loath calls to repentance and warning. Your immediate response is to gaslight the messenger. The truth is settled and stated in scripture. If you do not repent and die under the circumstances under which this unfortunate woman has died, nothing but judgement awaits. The Holy Book speaks of "...a certain fearful expectation of judgment and fiery indignation. How about you repent now of any known sin in your own life and quit dropping childish quips.

play5050:
Assistant Jesus.

Instead of you to reason, take a lesson and make life adjustment, you are here asking silly questions. How will one lead that kind of lifestyle and face judgment before a Holy God?? What do you lots take God for? See how she died unexpectedly? that's how it will be for many who think they do not need to repent but continue a life of debauchery and filth. You question does not arise!

porthouse7:
to Bleep na sin

Absolutely!

Does it not sound disgusting that the Islamic idea of heaven is a regular weekend in downtown last Vegas where you can have endless depraved sex?

This is the reward they killl people for!! Hellbound irritants

babat89:
But other killings are permitted?

What is the penalty for apostasy?

I only feel sorry for you...
If you cannot think for yourself to see you are a member of a demonic cult.

You worship idols in your Kaaba and follow a demon possessed paedophile.

You cannot fake it.
An orange will always bring forth orange juice and lemons, lemon juice.

You can't fake it.

If Islam were a peaceful religion, you wouldn't have to keep harping on it...
Pepole will themselves acknowledge it.

But no, your religion is predicated on violence and spreads by violence.
Core Islamic regions are the worst places in the world.

But you will lie to yourself and deny your conscience...

Unfortunately that conscience will bear judgement against you in the afterlife, when you and Mohammed will be judged alike; with other members of your moon-worshipping, sex-cult.

Nothing. Our God can defend Himself in His own way. That's called Sovereignty. HE doesn't need a mob of reckless murderers to kill for Him like your alla does. A weak god

hmohammed:
It is wrong to kill anyone in Islam, however, how would you feel if someone burnt the Bible and then uploaded the scene on social media?

But you claimed it's an open air prison. Let them go live elsewhere for a change.

God1000:
Why can't he relocate them to America

He is so dumb. He doesn’t have a clue of the long history of that area and that you don’t just relocate people out of their homeland

The new Adolf Hitler is here to carry out more ethnic cleansing, his black slaves will rejoice

stasius:
Softly lie na


He doesn't know him but he invited him for his inauguration?

How?

invited kwa?

Softly lie na

Omoohh!

KaptainAfrika:
Looool Catholics are trying sha...you will just be there being a good catholic and your Pope dey march una go Sodom and Gomorrah...

That guy is either deliberately playing the ostritch or plain stark naive. I'd take the former. Taqqiyya is a malaise. Everything you have mentioned is conspicuously online but people like him would rather argue. In a town in South Yorkshire, Pakistani Muslims were apprehended for grooming under aged girls and they found out that the rubbish had been ongoing for years. The shocking thing is that the Muslimms see no wrong in it cos their religion permits sexual relations with underaged girls. Talk about being in Rome and acting like a mongol. France has been trying, albeit slowly to reverse the damage but I fear it would take decades. Entire towns have been overrun. Tell him to compare with countries like Poland, Switzerland and the Czech Republic that have solid control of their borders and see the clear difference

Botragelad:
Sorry, mate, but you're very wrong. The UK and France have got massive problems with Muslim immigration, and it's not just about numbers. It's about integration, or rather, the lack of it.

Take the UK, for example. We've got areas like Tower Hamlets, where Sharia law is trying to be implemented, and women were being forced to wear the veil. And don't even get me started on the Muslim grooming and rape gangs. It's so bad

As for France, they've got their own set of problems. The banlieues are also no-go zones, and the authorities are too scared to even enter them. It's like a parallel society. Lol

Now, you said, 'But what about Indian and Nigerian immigrants?' Well, the difference is that they're not really trying to impose their values and laws on everyone unlike Muslims and their trash. They're integrating, they're contributing, and they're not causing the same problems that Muslim immigrants are.

Now, have you actually looked at the statistics on Muslim immigration and its negative impact on society? Have you spoken to people who live in areas with high Muslim populations? 🤷🏼

Someone gets it!
The guy was too focused on globalist programmes to the neglect of Canadians. Weak and incapable.

BoldBrainz:
Quite weird how all the leaderships of the Western alliance that gathered to boast about crippling the Russian Empire by funding and massively supporting the Ukrainian axis, are falling apart and their economies are fairing no better either.

Imagine imposing a deluge of sanctions on a perceived enemy, only to have your own citizens suffer the negative consequences. In this life, pick your battles very cautiously.

Tah!! You people take principles you don't understand too far. You say things like this and watch people that you can help suffer endlessly. Find somewhere park.Not like you had it in you to help anyone anyway.

verdad00:
People can often act foolishly. The guy in question is just a cousin, not even a blood brother.

In life, no one owes you anything. You need to get out there and work hard like everyone else. Many Nigerians exhibit a sense of entitlement that is unwarranted.

Dminister:
They killed yar adua because they saw he was transforming the country.

Although various people were arrested and tried for involvement in the murder of former attorney -general of Nigeria, Bola Ige, all were acquitted. As of November 2010 the killers had not been found. He was buried in his home town in Esa-Oke, Osun State.

2+2

Let people talk. You cannot cover iniquity forever! Comparing the opportunities available to the chinese, infrastructure and access to what Nigerians have is a dead argument

abbey621:
The wild thing about people like her is that it is only synonymous with Nigerians. You'll never see a Chinese man in power say such a thing despite us knowing China has its problems.

The immediate past UK PM has Indian roots, he never ONCE said anything bad about India despite its many issues. Obama has Kenyan roots, he didn't rant about the lack of development there. Why are Nigerians so damn bent on ridiculing their heritage once outside of the country and in a place of power?

Dem swear for una ni? It's one thing to criticize the government but to disparage the land and its citizens, SHAME!

You say foolish things like this to rationalize evil and the consequences it foists on people. The Senegalese or any other random non-Nigerian was destined, right? Fix that dreambreaking country and quit depriving its young striving citizens of global opportunities. Start with admitting that you have a problem and stop saying foolish things.

Gandrova:
Chairman you were not destined to get it.
Moreover, if truly you deserved it, they won't give you that lame excuses of hijacking it.

Thank you for putting his crass ignorance and frustration back to him. He probably takes the bus too

10mobile:
You that are not gullible, what difference have you made in the world. Muslims kill you, your government kills you, but you get angry with the church.

You are the biggest dummy here for presuming he is my Daddy G.O. just because I told you the truth. Most Nigerians are so stupid they say the "truth" only when it favors their sides. I don't attend Redeemed Church dear but it's very f00lish of you to be taking out your frustrations against them.

Whoever is giving his/her money to them is doing it willingly. So, it shouldn't be your headache. And, as you can see, they are impacting the society with the money.

These buses convey people of all backgrounds as the pastor explained yet your absolute stvp!dity again made you say it's the church members getting back their money. You are making impacts yet you're only known as Tuanku on Nairaland. I h8 nonsense!

The very compromised one

And who are you to dictate who anyone can criticise or not. God forbid the likes of you have any power, the dictatorship will dwarf Saddam Hussein's.

Lamasta:
Obasanjo is no longer in government so criticizing him time and again is not relevant, it is those in power now we ought to hold accountable for not correcting the past anomalies but instead doing worse of what we are criticizing

You may not survive the attempt. I just say make I update you

IyanAtiEgusi:

My new fetish na pastor wives
Make i bring out the rotteness in them

And you think the LORD will be pleased with the servant who caused the downfall or "death" of another servant? Christ will hold Fatoyinbo responsible as that woman's pastor. Unless he genuinely repents. I don't understand why some of you act uneasy around the truth being spoken

traeces:
I am baffled as to how you arrived at your deductions from what I wrote but I respect the fact that you have a right to your opinion. As for me, I have come to know that I have no right to condemn another man's servant. (Rom 14:4). If regardless of who he is or what he has been accused of, God has chosen to bless me through him, I will be foolish to close my heart to the blessing. Scripture is replete with instructions on this very matter and it was in the light of those scriptures that I looked away from what I thought of Fatoyinbo and saw him as a man first and foremost.
As for ESE Walters, I have always respected her courage and it breaks my heart to know she has backslidden from the faith but even then, I can only put her in my prayers.

In church, we will call out errors and holder leaders accountable. That's the truth and honesty that was handed down to us. It's called integrity. That's not "sitting as in judgment". It's plain exposure of evil.
Apostle Paul said " have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness instead, reprove them. Certain things should not be covered. We expose scandals and hope for repentance of the erring Christian. That's how the early church acted in scripture and we ought to follow their example and not be groupies for pastors.

traeces:
Biodun Fatoyinbo first came to my notice after Ese Walter's revelation and I carefully followed the story and dropped my opinion on it in a nairaland post of August 2013. See the post :www.nairaland.com/1414171/ese-walter-coza-pastor-biodun

After passing my "judgement" in that opinion and waiting for years for the "robust" reply from Fatoyinbo which did not come, I concluded the guy was not a christian. Anytime I heard someone attends Fatoyinbo's church, I put him or her in Fatoyinbo's category. I have 2 bosom friends who incidentally are cousins who attend the church and I remember expressing my disgust at one of them for attending COZA- Fatoyinbo's church.

However, on 3rd March 2018, I travelled from Benue to attend a program where Don Moen was ministering in Fatoyinbo's church. I arrived on an Okada too.

First thing I noticed was the coziness. I don't think any church any where in the world can ever be cozier. Fully air condition auditorium, completely rugged, giant sized electronic billboards, comfy chairs, state of the art sound system and music equipments, I can go on and on but I refused to be impressed.

While we waited for Don Moen to take the stage, young men and women attired in jeans trousers and unbottoned shirts with white t-shirts inside were ministering powerfully in songs BUT I COULDN'T BE BLESSED cos I was processing how some of them probably just left a bed of fornication to come to church in my poor mind. Then it hit me: I wasn't in any way better than anyone of them. Scripture after scripture jumped at my spirit and I became humble. One of the scriptures that came to me that helped me truly participate in that meeting was "Wherever two of you shall gather together in my name..." I reasoned that even if every other person here was not a christian, I was and Don Moen was so God was in the building.

My final "humbility" happened when Fatoyinbo took the mic. He spoke from a depth and with an auction I could tell was the Holy Ghost. I realized that day that Fatoyinbo may be guilty of everything ESE Walter accused him of but very importantly, I am no judge. It is between him and God at the end of the day. Who knows what "my own" man of God may be doing in secret that nobody knows-God forbid. In any case, I preferred one who kept quite in the face of such accusations to one who fabricated lies and did plenty things to cover up.

That was how I came to see Fatoyinbo as a brother in Christ and his church as a family of God upon the earth. Like all of us, he is a work in progress and not perfect but we must desist from seating as judges over his life or any other person's.

You're are absolutely correct 💯. When the Lord Jesus cast out unclean spirits from people. The spirit of pedophilia must have been among them. It a filthy spirit

Elusive001:
What on earth will even attract a man to a child? What is sexually attractive in a child.

This is nothing than demon possession. So it's not even about hijab or buqa. It is about demon possessed minds and peeps: men inhabited by unclean spirits.

Tufiakwa.

Why are women still in this sickkkk religion

Worse, why do some women defend this sickkkk religion

Tufiakwa 🤮🤮