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Uziehot:
give the MAMA some little space. Take control of your jrod. She has discovered that ur brain is in ur jrod. Control it first.

boss i really appreciate you, that's exactly what i am doing while being the normal me. but for how long do you advice i continue like this cause i am a one woman guy coupled with she is leaving with me. even if she makes advances at me, I won't give in but my question is, what if she does not make the move for the next 6 months or more ?

Rubbiish:
She just discovered your weak point & she is still getting back at u for hitting her...Give her some space for now....Just let her know u can live without her pu5$y...But which i doubt if u can with the way u are sounding now.
If i may ask...what caused the heated argument?

i can of course live without her Womanliness and that's what i am going to do, just that her staying with me kind of makes things a bit difficult for me but i'll pass. on the issue of what happened, it's a lengthy stuff i truly don't want to bore you with, i made a post on that. so how do i give her space when we're leaving in the same house?

hello house, i really need help, i had issues with my woman recently, been dating for more than 5years now and set to marry next year. she's been leaving with me for few months now, recently we've been having series of issues. we even had a serious heated argument which led to my slapping her that was about three weeks ago but i apologized immediately. it took me serious time to make her feel better (even bought her things). the thing is, for the past 3 weeks, she's been dodging my advances i asked her openly and she said she is now afraid of penetration. i really need help on how to bring back our romantic life back cause we're the type that bleep like 4 times a day before. or is she loosing interest in me? she is always naked in the house with me but won't let me do more than touching her. the thing just week me. i feel it was a wrong move letting her leave with me.

Jman06:
Rubbish!


There's no iota of truth in all the points listed above.


All in an attempt to get the ladies put up with your cheating azzs, you pulled all these from your azzs

Nonsensical nonsense!

Thanks man

All that glitters are not gold but that doesn't mean we won't go after shiny things cause good things are good. I started dating my girl(now my fiancé) Since my first year in the uni and I must say, it's been enjoyable, though laced with dramas.
She's my first and by God's grace will be my last. If there's something she hated most, it's cheating which made her leave her wealthy first love and settled for me when I had nothing. I've never cheated on her and never will, I guess the environment, my will and self control helps me a lot. I have nothing against men that cheat, in fact since I came to leave in the city most of my friends even married ones cheat in from of me but I see it as their way of life while acknowledging my own way of life. I'm giving all these details about myself cause I used myself as a case study and I made sure I exhausted all my excuses b4 writing this post.

now to the point, ladies (I mean good ladies) wishes for a faithful man, but most of the times they can't handle them, I will go ahead and list the consequences of having a faithful man, some of the points are detrimental to the man but it's still a valid consequences to the woman:

1. YOU GET ALL THE ATTENTIONS: this might seem good but looking at it critically, can you really handle all of a man's attention? With this, many things are expected of you cause of course to whom much is given much is also expected.
All his sexual needs are equally directed to you. sometimes I see and meet beautiful ladies and I assure myself that yes these ladies a cute but that's all I know about them. I try my best to score my woman above them, and make sure she wins, when this accumulates, it forms serious desire that sometimes she can't handle it. faithful men are hornier than Casanovas .

2. ALL YOU DO MATTERS: faithful men are usually intelligent, and intelligent people do more of thinking and I the middle of these thoughts is the woman they love, hence, most of the times meanings are read into things she might not read meaning to. The thing is, cause you're a serious entity in his life.

3. YOU GET LESS 'I'M SORRY': unfaithful men usually have no problem with saying sorry because he just want you to be happy at the moment so he could get what he wants. faithful men put good thought when dealing with their woman, hence when she complains, sorry is not the first thing they offer, they first try to figure out the mistake if any, not that your feelings doesn't matter but he's trying to fix what happened for good.

4. YOU'LL GET FAT: true! Men that are truly faithful are true lovers. hence they try not to exploit your weakness, always seeing good in you. always trying to make you better without you doing more. This sometimes translates to the lady getting lazy or worst still fat.

5. FUNNY SURPRISES: because of reason #2 above, you might get some funny reactions sometimes. also cause he endures a lot, you might not know when enough truly becomes enough. unfaithful men most of the times can afford your dramas after all, there's alternatives, but faithful ones has no way out but to either bend you or bend themselves, hence expect some funny surprises.
6. YOU FEEL HE'S BEEN CONQUERED: you feel he has no better choice than you. You feel you need more. You value him less

The list can continue but I'll stop here for now. But I must say, the advantages far, I mean, far outweighs the disadvantages.

pcguru1:
Congrats it starts from there, next is punching before you finally murder her. Wish you all the best

Thunder fall on you my dear

Windflower:
That's because she is shocked and dissapointed at you,she still can't believe you could do such.
This is not a matter of buying her gifts,just give her time to heal and most importantly,start reminding her of how much you love her. Text her, do romantic things that would sweep her off her feet(if you can sing well,sing her a love song; Girls love it when guys do this),write her a poem if you can,share stories of your most romantic adventures. You can compliment it with gift but if it were me,gifts wouldn't matter at that moment,its has to do with psychologically assuring her that ure still the same guy she fell in love with. While doing all this,don't be too clutchy so as not to become a nuisance to her, give her time to reflect on things. Above all pray she forgives and forget. Trust me you wouldn't like it when she forgives and doesn't forget

thanks

StrawberryGloss:
Get her something you know she loves,
While genuinely apologizing and showing complete remorse for your actions.

PS: Afterwards give her a bomb make-up sex.

thanks. the cries are killing me. didn't know she'd be this emotional

like i said, this is the first time its happening in 6yrs and i really regret that, been apologizing since sat and i'm very sure it will never happen again. please ladies, any idea of how i can reverse the trend. the atmosphere in my apartment is in its worst state. bought her stuffs, she accepted them but she still cries in the night.

ClitoPen:
Hmmm...another probable case of "murdered by hubby" loading....

must you comment?

IamKashyBaby:
Soon she will be ur own punching bag...if i were her, i will run and save myself...

How can u hit the woman you love with ur bare hands , the same hands u use to caress her...You shud be her protector and not the beater...

we had an issue, i tried talking some sense into her but she kept being bitchy, i told her its enough but she wouldn't listen, i covered my ear with bed spread but she came and removed them and thats how it started

hello peeps, ladies and gents how do i make my girl know i am truly sorry for slapping her. did that three times though out of serious anger. told her to let me be but she kept pushing till i could not take it any longer.
i love my woman and i don't know the right approach to use cause she cries all night long since last saturday. ladies please how do u people suggest i go with the appaulogy, i've been trying my best to show her i'm really sorry but at the end of the day she still comes back to say she can't believe i can slap her. we've been together since uni, now both of us are serving and proposing to tie the knot next year. i see myself as a devil right now