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romeoetin:
It worked. Thanks

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Precious978:
Anybody going to Benue from Lagos? Pls tell me o

going there from lag as well. where in lag are you?

Vivly:
Benue corper here o

Benue as well.

uxomykaz:
Last choice. I was told to pick two preferred state of choice as the 2nd n last. I did, but doubt if it had a role to play

Benue was my first choice and i got benue. Damn! i need to here something nice, i never liked choice, i only chose it cos the other options were a no no for me,

Benue. and i feel pathetic.

cutesmilez:
Akwa Ibom

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hmm. what i am looking for. make we exchange?

physise:
Na only me get benue for here?

youre not alone brother

uxomykaz:
Hello
Awka ibom too! based in lag.
Is there any WhatsApp group created?

was it your first choice state?

ayusbobs:
Abeg where Benue corper dey?

we dey here. i feel pathetic.

@OP was akwa ibom your first choice?

terpenoid:
Nassarawa, kano Akwaibom and enugu...hu can relate??

Benue awka ibom kano oyo

I cant seem to get pass pre payment page and the approved senate list wont open. i need help

mikejj:
bro find another fish.i feel she dont know how to tell its over

The op in question messed with other girls in the past and she forgave him. Shouldn't he consider cos he did it first?

DarkMagic:
Baba...she has moved on
So do the same

the bae are still interested in the relationship.

It's possible, but it's not worth it. The second person will will get to find out only just after the first, and you end up loving two people who don't give a damn about what you do anymore

jacyhelen:
just for a woman..maka otu..Biko move on cos she has moved on too

Must be love on the Brain

stevecantrell:
I would have said youre in trouble...but youre really out of it

Are you being sarcastic?

femmoy:
When things like this happens,lets not look at it wit a myopic view, I'd say its a two way thing
1) either she's just threatening u so as to get the time and attention she wanted. If this is the case,then baba I suggest u adjust and create time to go see her,call her as often as possible,chat her up,text her sweet messages.....all these would make her know that despite the distance,u still have her in mind.
2)or she has moved on as someone once said but if this is the real situation, then I believe that u also have to move on.really it might be hard but there are no two ways about it.
"When a woman's fed up,ain't nothing you can do about it" R.Kelly.
NB: find out which out of the two option it is and apply the solution.
I hope this helps.

The op has gone with your first option, and she has responded well, turns out what she wanted was attention and care, the real question is can he trust her not to see the other guy again?

True Story.
To cut the long story short, I have a girl that adored me for 3 years and counting. We met in our first year in school but now we are graduates (though she is still yet to be cleared).
The relationship got to a point where she felt my attraction level to her became low and we quarreled a lot about it. I'd admit I wasn't a Saint, I tried seeing other girls thinking I could move on but still loved her deeply. she found out about it but kept quiet about how it made her feel, she tried seeing other guys too ( which were chykers) but didn't like any enough to cheat on me or leave me. Our bond was very strong, we were lovers, siblings and best friends.
Now after Co-habbiting for 2 months cos she always wants me around. (we quarreled and made up cos she complains of me giving attention to my phone and not her)
I travelled back home to lagos to see my parents while waiting for NYSC 17b. We reached an agreement to meet in lagos a week later, but after a week she calls me on phone to tell me she found a guy who adores her the way I used to, and she's giving him a chance. she claims he knows she has a boyfriend but isn't pressuring her to quit cos he also has a girlfriend. He wants to fight for a place in her heart.
I was shocked she had the guts to tell me, but she never hid anything from me, she wanted me to hear from her mouth. She says she still loves me but is confused cos I might have moved on. she's tired of always seeking my attention and isn't willing to let this guy go.
she told me she didn't see it as cheating cos we were separated when they met and she can't just dump me after all we have been through.
I tried talking her out of seeing this guy but she didn't want to choose. She saw him for another week before coming back to see me in lagos.
After seeing her in lagos I admitted I pushed her too hard I realised my mistakes and we sorted our differences, she admits I am still the number one guy she loves but the thing is, this guy is also madly in love with her and is not willing to let go despite knowing I am still in love with her and still her boyfriend.
She's agreed to stop seeing him but asked for time cos she doesn't know much about him and promised not to break his heart.
My fear is she is still in school till year ending and this guy is in the same school and level with her.
PS: this girl has been loyal since the day we met and I messed up by not being there when she needed me the most that's why I am willing to fight for her love.

HARDDON:
When she brought up breaking with ur gf talk, I know it must have thrown u off balance n u cudnt just think straight buh blurred out friendship.

When she said that, this is how u shld have responded:
" wow, slow gurl, u r moving too fast, unless ofcos u wano pay my groom price tommorow ! I can even break up with her now!"

see? Itz cocky, itz funy n it deflect n douse d crazy tension she try to hit chu with.

Do let us get this straight, u mean u didnt cover ur tracks when u were eating appl for a week? Bae cut u? And u told bae she is just a friend? And u even went as far as lying to her infronta bae? Common gee!

U is a weak baller ,

Now check d mess, bae got hurt , bae left, u rushed home to see if u can prosecute the new one, new one gone! U lost both ways that night!


Ur rsponse to the bae question caused that ! She just wano let u be, so u can enjoy bae

Lolz, well lesson noted. Fyi, i still got bae, bae is still very much into me, bae still calls n bae doesnt act like shes suspecting anything either.

The problem is how to get the other girl craving for me like she used to. The last call we had was about me telling her i regret not making a move on her while i had the chance and i will still surprise her. Told her i missed her, she said she missed me too n She asked of my gf and i asked her "what if what i want is u?" she laughed and said "Ok" and later said her boyfriend wants to kill her( probably in bed) and i was like so you already have a new one? she smiled and said no ( which i doubt)

Its been over a week since then, i havent called or texted. I just had to flush her out of my system and count it as a loss cos i know some niigga shud be rocking her world by now. I F'd up by not making d move before she traveled. After all she called me the nite b4 she traveled but i was busy in the arms of Bae.

HARDDON:
Now we read this, the other update?

Met this gurl after she broke up with her bf, we spent a week of erotic nights sleeping on the same sheet, i helped her overcome her hrtbreak but couldnt date her, she wanted me to leave my gf, but i didnt trust her enough to commit. So i decided we should be friends dispite what has happened btw us.
she travel out of the state to Ph were shes based for two weeks and when she came back to the compound, i noticed she stoped her closure to me gradually, and i must confess i did miss her kisses and touches. I tried pretending i was cool with been just friends but really longed for her. Not until i checked her room one evning and found a matured guy in singlet..i smiled cockily and left feeling bad inside, she noticed and rushed to my room asking why i was angry with her. That the guy was just introduced to her by a friend, he was only taking them out for he night, she says she wud be back d next day to spend it with me, so i could tell her everything i had in mind but i angrily refused telling her i wasnt an idiot, she tried kissing me but i waved her off, she then said if she didnt care about me she wouldnt come looking for me. She left that night, n didnt come back. the next night while i was out reconciling with my gf, she called wanting to see me as late as 10:30. My gf told me to pick since i told her the caller was just a friend.
I told her i was sleeping and refused to tell her were i was. I went back to my compound n called her to see me since i was now available, she never came and traveled to PH that day.
I couldnt believe i was having feelings for a girl i wasnt supposed to date. I wanted her in my life, i was so confused as to y i was feeling bad. I called her twice since then to explain my anger on the way she left and that i still want her. She appologized and asked of my gf. We dont chat on whatapp anymore and she hasnt returned my call for a week now.

HARDDON:
Goons? If that means eccentric, no qualms . if not, we might be demanding a heavy weight appology soon.


Uwc on board , we can't know it , all. Ur limit is another's take off point.

Tell us ur story

Lol. Actually by goons i meant the guys, in this case my "brothers in arms" to be. My story is quite long. But imma start with the lastest events.

For the record: im in a relationship that has been on and off for 2yrs. Shes hot cute and the best in bed, but im still in it cos she cant let go of me, claiming im the only guys shes ever known, shes broken up with me countlessly but ended up coming back quickly. Thats why i have chosen to see other girls. And believe me, i av found quite a few, during those breaks i had from my gf.
The most recent break with my gf lasted bout 3weeks, during which i met a girl in the same building i live. She knew i had a gf and we were having issues but still showed green lights while telling me she has a boyfriend herself, but hes no longer interested in dating her. She claims he only wants to be friends.

I'd continue after you access this. Keep up the work bro!

kuuljay:
right now am planning for her to catch me smashing so she can free me..i no want again

That's deep bro
She must have pulled one of your nerves.

UyiIredia:
It's not logical. It's nonsense and u know it.

If you think of it deeply, youd know body like to be played, unless ofcourse, theh are playing others as well.

HARDDON:
Yet I'm still a learner !

Sometimes I feel I'm just wasting in dis corner of the world n yet the beautiful ones r getting born on another corner!

I'm skimming tru it, hopefully I'd be able to do them a lil memo , we get roung table n have a lil Mexican coffee someday on all d beacon we hv lighted across d world

Been following you and the goons for some weeks now and i feel the nees to join the gang. Like seriously i've learnt on my own as i hardly ask for advice but i believe i've learmt alot fro.you and this thread and now i believe i need more learning to do.

latinoKingdom:
she may keep d relationship because of many reasons like
1. Because she doesn't wanna hurt herself and end up lonely
2. Maybe she feel that isn't enough to leave him

I believe girls like this are the ones that end up having side guys, cos they believe what they have is not guaranteed

latinoKingdom:
Not true, when trust is lost that's when you investigate you partner, if you trust your partner you won't investigate even if they are cheating.. And you are not...

and if the trust is not there but she still keeps the relationship for some kinda benefits frrom the bf?

Come to think of it , i think i'd have to concur its logicical.

Nice one, you see this ladies really know how to play the cheating game, not that they can't be loyal, they just feel they have the power to do what they want with men and get away with it, simply cos he would always be back for sex.

@ OP. You are spot on Jare, and the real truth about the matter is we guys tend to get tensed and pissed when we find out the girls are better at this game.
You girls will be like, "my love, meet my boyfriend" and the two idiots will greet and shake hands ( knowing fully well they are both just in for the pum pum)